Hello everybody, good evening to all of you.
This is Vineet Gautam, your trainer, your coach and today
as a corporate trainer, as you know I am a motivational
speaker, corporate trainer, mind coach and life coach.
Today as a corporate trainer I am going to talk about which
you are seeing on the board right now and that is
recruitment.
That is a content of HR department, HR, Human Resource
Management Department.
So right now I am talking about the contents of HR
management department.
On that content actually I am talking to you all.
What is the role of the HR department in any organization?
What is the crucial role
I would like to see? Because that is the centric role which
is going to be played by the HR department, the centric
role.
So whoever is working in HR department or intending to
work, so take care about this role and responsibility on
very serious note because if you are not doing so, you
can't do anything in a better way as you are expecting to
do.
Jis position pe aap kaam karte hain ya karna chahate hain
in coming future, you want to be HR professional, aapko
apne profile, apne jobs ke baare mein pata hona chahiye ki
mainly aap kis profile pe kaam karne wale hain in coming
future.
Agar aapko ye nahi malum to phir problem honi lazmi hai.
And the same way I am going to follow as I used to say
daily whenever I am going to record, starting the recording
because I like to do that and that gives me the energy, the
concentration, the focus and naturally the result, expected
result.
Deep breathing which I like to do before starting any job,
any work because ye cheez mujhe energize karte hain,
concentrate karte hain, ye focused banate hain and isko
apne upar execute karke hi aapko main kehata hun ki it is
benefited.
So let's do that. Aapne haathon ko rub karenge, phir thodi
se apne aankhon pe halka massage dete huye, eyes ko open
karenge aur aapko ye mehsoos ho raha hoga, the difference.
Abhi hum apne aapko activate karenge, kaise? Yes, yes, yes,
yes.
Now I am feeling better and I think if you will be also
doing, aap bhi try karenge se, kisi bhi kaam ko karne se
pehle, jahab stage pe performance dene jaa rahe ho, koi
projection dene jaa rahe ho, koi presentation dene jaa rahe
ho, interview lene jaa
rahe ho, dene jaa rahe ho, koi meeting start karne jaa rahe
ho, kuch bhi.
Aap kehenge, puch sakte hain ki main to vilkul saamne kar
raha hun, toh kya hume bhi? Nahi, main toh aapko bata raha
hun isliye saamne kar raha hun.
Aap stage pe jaane se pehle back to stage kar lejiye, aap
meeting me baithne se pehle up kar lejiye, it will help you.
Is baat ka toh ekeen kam se kam rakhe hain ki yeh aapki
help toh karega, iska benefit aapko milega as a mind coach.
Of course I like to say, it's a positive thinking also.
If you want to get something changed in your life, then you
are need to change the way you think so far.
Change the way.
If you are able to do so, of course you will get the result.
And if you are determined about your expected result, if
you affirm, then be sure, toh aap ekeen maanein, agar aap
confident hain, determined hain, aap apne expected result
ke parthi, target ke parthi, goal ke parthi, then surely
you will achieve whatever
your interest to achieve.
Here I am just not going to talk about the contents of the
HR, sales or marketing.
Here my motive is by executing these things, by
implementing these contents, this knowledge.
Are you able to get your desired success, your target, your
goal or not? That's
I am to assure.
I want to assure myself first because I believe till I am
not going to be assured, how can I assure you about the
result or the response which you are going to get. And as I
am doing, as I am delivering my content, I am delivering in
this way because
I am sure about this way.
Result is required then
and I think
everyone wants results
no one wants to work and get no results
Am I right?
Yes or No?
Yes
So everybody is interested to get the maximum
Result of his or her activities works
whatever he or she is doing or
did Can you see?
Just you have to surrender yourself
after doing the activity
Don't forget to give your 100%
while you are working
As a professional you are having the knowledge, your
experience
whenever you are having a project and you work in hand
there you always try to give your 100% there you always try
to give your 100% that would be better for you
If you think
If you think that you are just delivering 40-50%
and will get the result 100% then it's not possible
Think about it
You go for exam
In exam you give 40-50% answer then will you get 100% marks?
No, right?
So as much the correct answer you are writing in your exam
so much the result you are going to get
It's not like you give 50% answer
and you will get 100% marks
In the same way when you do a work and you give 40-50%
answer then how will you get 100% result?
Here you can say
Sir, I gave my 100%
You can say
Here you also need to see that your 100% to get the 100%
result of that work
The requirement of 100% the parameter your 100% is 60% for
that work
Do you understand what I am saying?
You run at a good speed
Suppose two runners are running
You gave your 100% which is 60 km per hour but the
competition is going on
at a speed of 80 km per hour so the result parameter of the
judgment will be 80 km your 60 km is already 25% behind
Do you understand what I am saying?
You are already behind 25% of that competition means to say
the 100% required for the competition from that 100% your
100% is 25% behind
You are giving your 100% but your 100% is already 25% behind
of that competitive level
In the first competition you were able to give the answer
of one question in one minute and you did 100% your
capability was 100%
Now what has happened?
Now in 30 seconds you have to give the answer of one
question suppose and you are giving your 100% to this
competition but the result is 50% behind
Why? Because your 100% was according to giving the answer
of one question in one minute
Now because the time is already 50% behind so the result is
50% for you
See, I am explaining the concept and I am not demotivating
you that you are thinking that we cannot win even after
giving our 100%
Yes, you can think like that but I am not putting a full
stop here
If you consider your 100% as the 100% of today's competition
then there is a full stop for you
Yes Why? Are you getting tensed?
You may be a genius of your time there is no doubt about it
but the level of genius that used to be and now those
parameters have changed so you have an option you have
already lost to yourself don't think at all you have the
option
What is the option?
You should update yourself according to today's time and
technology upgrade If you have some new skills
in adoption then you should adopt them adjust with them
learn from them
Your old skills are also asking for an update
so enhance them
You have those skills
The format in which you are in has become old
Now adopt the new format
Update it
Earlier test cricket used to be played People used to play
comfortably
Runs were also less
Both teams used to play for 6 days Then one day 60 overs
came
In 60 overs also
Target of 180, 200, 220 used to be high To win this
Set parameter used to be called 50 overs were done
And in 50 overs, run was 400
It also becomes plus
If you follow the same playing style
Which used to be there 20-30 years ago
If you follow the same 30-40 years old
Bowling style, fielding style or batting style
Will you be able to exist?
No Today is the time of 2020 Leave 60 overs, leave 50 overs
Decision is made in 20 overs
Win or lose
But how is the mindset of today?
Earlier in 20 overs, you had to make 80 runs
Still you had to think
It happened, right?
One day match of 60 overs
And target of 220
It was understood a lot
So what was the target of 220? It was not 4 overs 6-4 or 240
So in 20 overs
If you want to hit 80 runs It used to be a serious issue
Whereas today
In 2020
What is the situation?
If 80 runs in 20 balls
Then Candidate It is not a surrendering position
Achievable This target can be achieved
With this mindset Batsmen are on the field
So here actually I am talking
Something The required thing is your attitude
Your mindset
You need to change your mindset
You have to sit and do an assessment
Have to introspect
And you have to decide
For being successful
In any field
Wherever you are
And whatever you are
Wherever you are
And whichever position you are in
Whichever situation you are in
And your goal there
To be successful means
To move forward from there
A target that you have set for yourself
Achieve it
So I have given you one thing in the Success Blueprint
Series
Life Long Learner
What I said now 40 years ago
In 60 overs match 182 to 220
There were a lot of runs to win
India won the 1983 World Cup Even after making 83 runs
Target was nothing
In today's time 183 Score is less in 2020 match
Time has changed
And with time
The mindsets of today's players have changed
If I am talking about cricket players
Then I am not talking about them
Today every work
Has changed with technology
Things are changing
If you also want In today's environment 25-30 years ago
Players were retired
But as a coach
Ravi Shastri was in 1983 World Cup He was a coach before
Rahul Dravid
They used to play 60 overs
Today they are 20 overs
One day they became 50 overs
If they give the same guidance to their players
Will it be possible?
No, right?
So according to today's environment
Upgradation is required
The mindset that is needed
According to today
You will have to adapt
The new generation 20 years ago 80 runs target is not
considered as impossible even in the ball game.
The kids who are growing up watching this type of game,
their mindset is similar to their own work.
Today in our mind training we say that the target which was
of 20 years earlier was of 40 years.
The whole career was set to build a house.
It was the target of whole life.
Then it was done in 30 years, 20 years, 10 years.
Now in today's date, in 5 years, all these things should be
done in 5 years.
Comparison is going on.
What you want to achieve in 25 years, make a plan to
achieve it in 5 years tenure.
Make that mindset.
And here, when the modern technology, our spiritualism,
when the modern and ancient meet, today's passion, and
tomorrow's experience, today's passion, dedication, and
tomorrow's experience, when they meet together, then the
result is that what is unexpected,
what is beyond thought, that is also not only looking
possible, but it is becoming possible.
It is becoming possible everywhere.
Today's digital age, the message which you could deliver in
5 days, it could take 5 months, today it can be delivered
in 5 minutes through whatsapp, facebook, social media.
Isn't it faster?
If 5 months work is done in 5 minutes, then if 25 years
work is done in 5 years, then it is not a big deal.
If 150 days work is done in 24 hours, then in how many
hours it is done?
Now if I say 1 day, then also 150 days work is done in 1
day.
What is the speed? 150 times extra.
I am telling you this only because if you cannot adjust
with today's speed, you will not be able to understand this
technology, you will not be able to learn.
Because you feel that now I have become 50, 60 years old,
what will I learn now? Now I am at the age to learn
something, so you will lag behind today's generation.
And one thing, as a mind coach, as a mind trainer,
I have already told in many videos, that if you are
physically 50 or 60 years old, whatever is your physical
age, which is in your date of birth, your mental age is
half of that.
So when you give this thought to your subconscious mind,
whenever you talk to someone, you say that I am not 60 but
30 years old.
I am 30 years old.
So when this vibration goes, it fills you with the energy
of 30.
You get the thought of 30.
You do not put your life in the mode of surrender.
Because when you think that I am 60 years old, my life is
over, it is time to retire, then your thought also starts
retiring.
Creativity is retiring.
But when you think that I am just of 30, then this is the
beginning of my life.
You do not hesitate to adopt new technologies.
You do not compromise by learning.
I went to Mumbai, to Lunawala for mind training.
People of 60-65 years were also there to learn.
So, whoever is having the intention to learn something,
life never stops for them.
And age is just a number for them.
And I am talking about the adoption of this mindset for
being successful.
I will say one more thing.
Our Mr. Modi is now 72 years old.
Even after, he has so much energetic thought, he is like a
youth.
I told you, that your age, your thought, because you think
that I am just 36-37 years old, your energy also, you said,
with your subconscious mind, many people, 70 years old,
call themselves 80-90 years old.
Life is over.
What does your subconscious mind say?
Yes, my master.
You said, I have become old.
Yes, my master.
Then it will make all the arrangements for you, for old age
persons.
Diseases, pain, the end of thought, the end of creativity,
waiting for death.
But, when you are talking about your subconscious mind,
when your conscious mind
gives this message that I am just of 35, 36.
I have told you that your subconscious mind
or universe, your genie never says no to anything.
Your subconscious mind never cross questions you.
It accepts all your statements.
So, you said that I am of 70, still it is accepting.
And, when you said that I am of 35, still it is accepting.
And then, a 35 years old candidate, what can do?
What all can he do?
Whether it is conversation, dressing, physical activities,
all those things are available for you.
Your thinking is of 35 years old.
Your energy is the same.
Your activation is also the same.
You are a learner.
Because, a 35 years old person can learn.
If you say that you are of 70, then you refuse to learn.
What to learn now?
Do I have any age to learn anything new?
But, when you said that you are of 35, then you are ready
to learn.
There is no problem in learning something new.
So, it is a question of mindset.
Whether you are a person of any field, of any age, but you
should keep this mindset.
If you are of 40, then you should never tell yourself that
you are above 20 or 22. Never tell anyone outside.
Whenever someone asks you, then you should tell yourself
that you are above 20 or 22.
See, people listen to these things.
But, when I talk about the power of implementation, then
until you listen to these things, learn them, and start
implementing them, you will not get any benefit.
Why don't you implement?
Because you have listened to it, learned it, but you don't
believe in it.
You don't believe in your own talent, in your own thinking.
And when you don't believe in yourself, then why will
others believe in you?
See, it is said that if you want respect in society, if you
want respect in your family, then first start respecting
yourself.
When you respect yourself, if you want people to like you,
to love you, then first start liking yourself.
When you like something, then you also care for it.
When you like something, then you care for it.
You take care of every wish of it.
You keep it clean, neat and clean, well decorated.
If you like yourself, then you will take care of your own
wishes, you will take care of your health, well dressing,
bathing, washing, cleaning yourself, maintaining a good
look.
You will do all this, right?
When did you start doing all this?
When you like yourself.
And you tell me, when you are well maintained, well
physique, well dressed, nice communication, when you like
yourself, you are happy, you are smiling, then you tell me,
when you do all this, will people like you or not?
Yes or no?
Yes.
If you don't like yourself, so you are not taking care, you
don't care for your physique, you don't take care of your
clothes, you don't talk to people, you don't take care of
your personality, you are looking different, you talk
differently, when you
see yourself in the mirror, you don't like yourself, you
don't like yourself, and now you see yourself, you still
don't like yourself.
When you don't like yourself, so how can you expect from
others?
If there is a blueprint of success, then it starts from
self-grooming, self-investment.
Self-grooming. No matter how you are,
God has made you good,
He makes everyone good.
It is said, Sukrat, he was a great saint, whenever he used
to live in a beggar's house, he used to maintain himself
well, he used to keep a broken mirror in his bag, and he
used to look at his face in it.
He was not so smart and handsome, but he used to take care
of himself.
People used to ask him, you are not so handsome, but you
always look at your face. He used to say, no matter how I
am, I am good.
God has made me good.
You tell me, you degrade yourself, you see someone better
than you, you appreciate him, and then you say that he
should like you.
Why? Do you know who we like?
We like the one, who has something that we don't have.
The thing that is already there in our house, the car that
you like, and you are driving, if we talk about the next
level, what will be that thing, that car will be better
than that car?
The personality of that person, whatever it is,
communication, success, dressing, presentation, if he is
better than me, if he is more successful than me, then only
I will like him.
It is very simple.
When you don't like yourself, you say to others, it means
you are not yourself.
like
Subco but
Success blueprint success mantra gender may batata who?
mindset Apco positive rakhni have subsequently a penny
barime a pretty personality
April knowledge apnea confidence My confident who?
May a calm car sect ah-hoo
Jab up a the whole up interview the negative suppose come
up say interviewer pushta a yap come Karla gaye
Up confidently bolte.
Oh, yes, sir.
I can do it.
I am having the experience of doing this kind of the work
aapke confidence go
Us bandhan a okay kia
will be confident hogya aapke barime kab
Jab aap pehle apne barime confident way aap ghar se tayaar
hoke jab nikalte ho
To subse pehle
Aap hi kut ko dekhti ho or dekh ke aayne mein kehte ho
Kya baat hai beta hai toh jam rahe
main yakeen ke saath kaha sakta hu
jis din aap aisa kahke
Kut ko nikalte ho us din
Aapko dozens of log
aisa kehte hue milenge
Lekin jis din kut ke barime rote hue aap nikalte ho
Ki, main achha nahi hu main achha nahi kar sakta mere bus
ka nahi hai us din aap ko
Ye baatein
Dohraatein hue bahut saare log mil jayenge aur isko main
agar law of attraction se jodun
To jaisi soch aapne apne barime banai
Uski vibrations wo tarange universe mein jaati hai,
brahmand mein jaati hai
Ya, yun kaho ki ye message subconscious mind ko ja raha hai
aur phir
Jaisi vibrations gayi
Waisi hi cheeje kheech ke aapke saamne la di, waise hi log
Aapne jab khud ki prasansa ki
To aap ko prasansa karne wale aapki
Log aane lagge aur sab log aapke barime achhi achhi baate
karne lagge
Aur jab aapne khud ki burai ki
Khud mein confidence nahi dikhaya
To wo log bhi aane lagge
Jo aapki burai kar rahe hai aur wo kehte hain ki tum
confident nahi hu tumhare bus ka nahi hai
Ye Koi aur aapke barime nahi kehata hai
pehle Pehle aap kehate ho apne bare mein
Bilkul clear baat hai so
Under this series of
Success blueprint I like to say just
That if you want to be successful in your life, then become
a lifelong learner
a positive soach
positive mindset self-confidence Self-belief kyun ki jab
tak aap confident nahi khud ko keh rahe hain, khud mesoos
kar rahe hain tak dusra koi aapko
Ho hi nahi sakta
Jaisi aapki soach waise hi aapke saath hone wala hai aapne
kaha main bahut confident hu
Jeeney ne bola yes mere aaka aur phir wo vibrations
universe mein ja rahi hai
Sabko ye message pahunch raha hai
Ki mere aaka confident hai aapko aur confident banane ki
puri bhiwastha karna
Aise ideas aise cheeje
Jo aapko aur confident banayenge
Un sab ki bhiwastha universe
ya subconscious mind aapke liye
kar deta hai aap kehenge ki mai confident jab nahi hu
Toh kaise bolu jhoot nahi hua kya
confident nahi hai
It's a problem
Aap agar us problem ki baat baar baar baar baar remind
karte hain toh aap problem ke part ban gaye ho
Aapko uska solution chahiye ya problem ko carry karna
chahate ho mostly hota ye hi hai
Khaite hain choti si samasya badi hoti chali jaati hai
Kyunki aap baar baar usko hi yaad kar rahe ho
Us se nikalne ki solution ke baare mein discuss nahi kar
rahe usko nahi soch rahe
Toh aap confident nahi hai this is the reality
Lekin ye aapke liye agar achi baat hai toh toh aap isko
yaad karo apne saath rakho
But aap toh isse alag hona chahate ho, door hona chahate ho
na
Toh aap aap iske opposite bolo
Kyunki jab aap bologe main confident hun
Toh wo confidence wali jo feeling hogi
Aap successful nahi ho but aap bolte main successful hun
Are jitna hai utne toh hai
You are saying thanks to the God
Gratitude ye message jab universe mein jaati hai
Toh aur confident hone ki cheezein
Dekhe Jees cheeze ka aap jitna care karte hai, yaad karte
hai, pyaar karte hai, wo cheeze
Badti chale jaati hai, aapke paas retain karte hai
Ek podha hai
Ek chota balak hai, aap jitna pyaar karoge care karoge
dhyaan rakhoge, wo utna jaldi jaldi grow karega
Kyunki uske aap khane, peene, nahane, dhwane, caring sab
kuch care kar rahe ho
Aur ek bacha dusra hai
Jisko koi pyaar karne wala hai nahi, puchhne wala hai nahi,
khane peene ka dhyaan rakhne wala nahi
Main kahe rahe hoon, 5 saal ke 2 bachon ko compare kar lena
Aapko unke growth se pata chal jayega
Ki kisko care kiya gaya hai aur kisko nahi care kiya gaya
hai
Chahe koi jeev ho, chahe koi podha le lo
Ek podha jisko time time pe khad bhi mila gaya, sahi se
laga gaya, paani bhi mil raha
Dhoop chhaya ke bhi care ki ja rahi hai
Ek uska growth
Aur ek jo aise chhod diya gaya
Gamla mein laga diya
It is not a care.
So, it's growth.
Means to say, even if you talk about yourself, it applies
to yourself as well.
You want your growth to be better.
If you care for a child or a plant, then its growth is
increasing.
If you care for yourself, then your growth will also
increase.
You can also grow.
I am not wrong.
How? Who do you care for, whom do you like first?
You like yourself.
You will care for yourself.
You will say,
I don't know how to do it.
If you don't know, then you will learn for yourself.
Why? Because you like yourself.
You will make yourself better.
When you update yourself, upgrade yourself, develop
personality, dressing, physic caring, health caring, mind
caring, you are doing everything because you like yourself,
you care for yourself because you want your growth.
So self caring, self investment, all these things become
necessary.
And one more thing,
I said, there are two small trees, one is being cared for,
the other is not being cared for. The simple thing is, the
one being cared for, his growth, his shine, will be seen
differently.
Similarly, if you, apart from yourself, like someone else,
care for them, then growth and shine will be seen by them,
not you.
Sometimes we become so blind, we forget ourselves. But one
thing, in my personal life,
I am talking about husband and wife, before marriage, if
they are girlfriend and boyfriend, they like each other
because the other party cares for themselves.
The girl is dressing herself up, wearing a nice dress, nice
perfume, the one you like.
And because of this, you like her.
Similarly, you care for yourself, you care for yourself,
because of this, they like you.
Now, what happens after marriage?
After marriage, when a girl becomes a mother, then she is
not bathing on time, not eating, not taking care of her
physique, not her clothes, not her make-up. Now, what
happens? Now, what happens? And then they say, you have
changed, you are not the same.
Oh my!
You are not the same.
This is the same thing that applies here too.
From there too, first updated clothes, shoes, hair style,
salon visit, facial, their favorite perfume, watch,
everything was taken care of.
They used to wait for hours.
And now, there is no care for health, no care for clothes.
I mean, they have left themselves completely relaxed.
So, even in personal life, if there is a loss, because of
which, many times, there is a reason for separation, then
this is very important.
It is very important that you yourself, if you don't want
people to stop liking you, then first, you don't stop
liking yourself.
You say,
I do like.
Oh my!
You do like, but you don't take care of your physique, your
health.
You can give an excuse.
Similarly, women also give excuses.
Earlier, I had time to do makeup, clothes, this and that.
Now, should I do for my children, family or myself?
This excuse is given only when, when you are actually,
I also told this, that the one who will be cared for, will
have growth.
If you forget to care for yourself, the one who cares for
anyone, will have growth.
And once the growth is done, then for that candidate,
whether he likes it or not, this world will separate him
from you.
Isn't there a case, that a sweeper, marries a girl, is a
government office sweeper, is a government job, but the
girl's passion was to study.
So, she cooperated fully.
She put her life into studying.
After clearing the exam, the girl became an SDM. What was
the result?
What she wanted, what she didn't want, we don't know.
Although, this can also happen.
I told you, that why do you like someone?
When do you like someone?
When you see something in the other person, which you don't
have.
Something different, something extra.
You tell me, what will SDM sahiba see in that sweeper, who
will like her?
If she is leaving him, then it is not wrong.
What will she see?
The society has given more.
You are so big, what is your relation with him?
Make him bigger.
That is why I will say, that you give first priority to
yourself.
Give first priority to yourself.
If you want the world to keep liking you, then don't forget
to like yourself.
When you like, you will care for yourself, you will update,
you will upgrade.
If you want the people in your professional field to like
you, then first you like, and why will the people in the
professional field like you?
When you will be professionally updated, you will upgrade,
you will learn new skills.
It is said, that in professional life, the value of work is
there, not of charm.
If you say, then not of skin.
So when you will care, then you will also care for that
thing, which is key, need and requirement.
If you care for yourself in your personal life then you
care for your physique and if you care for the one you like,
I am talking about physical relation as a wife, if you care
for the one you like, because you like each other, if you
care for the one you like, because you like each other, if
you like each other, then you care for your physique, extra
diet, smoking,
drinking, these things start from you.
When you avoid yourself and take someone else as priority,
the problem starts there. I am not saying that you should
not like the one in front of you,
I am not saying that you should not like a wife or husband,
but you should not be so busy liking the one you like that
you neutralize yourself.
People say that if you care for yourself, you get a
girlfriend, and when your girlfriend cares for you, you get
another girlfriend. If you care for yourself, you get a
girlfriend and when that girl cares for you, you get
another girlfriend.
Do you understand what I am saying? I am not saying that
you should not like the one in front of you,
I am not saying that you should not like the one in front
of you,
but you should not neutralize yourself for the sake of that
company, that in the meantime, what are they making you do?
You are a CA and they have made you an accountant and you
are leaving.
If you like yourself, you will care for yourself, you will
move forward with that caring and when you care for
yourself, you will be updated, you will be upgraded, then
your demand will be there.
Note this, your demand will be there, if you have decided
that no matter how I live, whether I work or not, whether I
behave right or wrong, whether I behave physically or not,
now I have a job, I don't have to go, so forget it.
Nothing is stable.
You think that you have got this life, now as soon as I
face this, I have got this body, as soon as you don't care,
you will fall sick, you will die, this body will be taken
away very soon.
Similarly, you will care, you will be fit, you will look
good, your body will be there, the world will like you.
The basic marriage life, why is it a kiss based marriage?
Both parties need physical relation.
A man is attracted to a woman's beauty,
God has created such things in him, and he has put his
attraction in his mind. Otherwise, what is it?
It is just skin, he has shaped it up and down.
Why is there attraction for that shape?
Think about it.
But this thing has been put in his mind,
he thinks about it, it is an attraction.
Similarly, a female has put something in her male organ,
some organ, thinking about it, she is attracted to it.
Because of this, attraction is created.
And to fulfill this physical need, the marriage process is
created in a society where the system is not spread.
The beauty that attracted him and he got married, after
marriage, you used to care for that beauty, because of
which he got attracted.
But now, you don't care.
Earlier also, you had responsibilities, you had a house, a
family, everything, but you used to care for everything.
You used to clean, you used to have kohl in your cheeks,
lipstick, hair, style, dressing, perfume.
Now, you are just lying there, you don't care for your
hair, face, clothes, or your body. Which clothes to wear?
Remember, you should look good.
Now, you have forgotten everything.
And the same way, there is not only one-sided role towards
men.
Because of which that attraction was created, your
relationship was created, now you have forgotten to care
for that thing.
You don't care for your physique, you don't care for your
relationship. But as per age, there are changes in the
body. The power of 20, 30, 40, 50, 60 will not remain.
Natural.
So, you are in need to take care extra.
Because this is their need.
They should care for themselves, you should care for
yourselves.
I feel, if a woman fights for this demand, that you don't
care for me, you don't have any interest, instead of that,
she should care for herself.
She should be ready as per her liking.
The clothes of her liking.
The clothes in which your physique comes out.
Do you know, where is her attraction till date?
See, I am not saying anything wrong.
I am talking about the point.
I am talking about being successful.
If there is no successful life in personal life, if there
is no peace in the house, then there will be problems in
your office as well.
And the peace in the house is, if the physical relationship
is going well, then the rest of the things will adjust.
It is important for that.
The wife fights that you don't care.
Now, you don't care about my wish.
Instead of saying it, instead of fighting, you should care
for yourself.
No doubt, you will be attracted to someone from outside.
But that attraction, excitement, when he comes home and
sees you dressed up, then you will get the result of it.
Do you understand the result of excitement?
We like each other but before that we forget that we are
caring for the other person by neutralizing ourselves by
neutralizing ourselves by neutralizing ourselves by
neutralizing ourselves by neutralizing
ourselves by neutralizing ourselves by neutralizing
ourselves by neutralizing ourselves that you
should groom that you should groom do a self investment do
a self caring for getting for getting all the way for
getting all the way for getting all the way whatever level
you want to.
You can be but this is the thing you will have to do but
this is the thing you will have to do if you donít have to
do that you are doing for others, so believe me one day you
will be out of race, you will be left nowhere, it happens
that the elder brother
is so busy in taking care of his younger brothers and
sisters that he did not do anything for himself, then the
younger brother studied well, got married in a good house,
educated his sisters and got married in a good house, so
you got so angry at yourself
for making those people grow that today you are ashamed to
call them your brothers, now you are not first priority,
you have become secondary, you made them first priority, it
is your fault, you will say that am I saying that I am not
saying that you
should not care for your brothers and sisters, you should,
but give first priority to yourself, I am not saying that
you should not like them, you should not care for them, you
should not take care of them, you should not educate them,
you think, you
could have studied, you did not study, you made your
brother and sister study, and one day when they say to you
that you are so educated, I am more educated, who will
marry you, I am educated, a girl like me will not marry
you, how much will you feel,
how much will you feel, when someone will say this, and
that too your own, for whom you have sacrificed everything,
see, the one who has care will grow, he will grow, he will
be successful, you care for yourself, you will grow, you
will be successful,
and the one who will be successful, he will move ahead, the
world will take him ahead in its race, and even if he is
not his own, the one who has cared for him and made him
grow, the world will make him out of the list, you have
erased yourself and made
him grow, you have made him successful, you have erased
yourself, the sweeper has erased himself and made his wife
an SDM, now the world has made him sit on the chair of the
SDM, not her, she will sit in the meeting of the SDM, not
him, you will say that
you are saying this, it means that no one cares
for anyone in the world, but never erase yourself and make
someone else, erase your existence,
erase your identity, no, I don't know what used to happen
in the Treta Yug, Satya Yug, but today if you want to be
successful as a HR manager, as a sales marketing manager,
whether you are in social life, personal life or
professional, because if your
personal life is disturbed, then there will be problems in
your professional life, that is why as a life coach I talk
about personal life, as a corporate trainer I talk about
professional life, as a mind coach, as a spiritual coach, I
talk about balancing
the whole life, so
everything can be balanced, but it is up to you, what kind
of balance you want to make, I want to say one thing
directly, that if you want to be successful, then you start
liking yourself, you will like, the thing which we like,
the thing which we like,
we care for
it, we decorate it, there is a small girl, she has a doll,
she likes it, so she bathes
it, washes it, cleans it, puts clothes on it, feeds it, a
mother likes her child, so
she bathes it, washes it, feeds it, she does everything,
she does because she likes it,
and the more she likes it, the more she cares for it, and
the more it grows.
I am saying
one simple thing, if you want self growth, then start
liking yourself, if you like it
then you will care for it, if you care for it, then you
will learn it.
See, I don't want
to talk about practical things, logical things, I say that
deal is always emotional, 99% deal, professional deal is
also 99% emotional, not logical.
I am saying here also, that you
just start liking yourself, you will care for yourself, you
will update yourself, you will
upgrade yourself, because the thing which we like, we don't
want to let it be behind anyone, so when you like yourself,
don't let yourself be behind anyone, you have to
go with the times, good caring, good physique, good
hairstyle, good communication, good personality,
learn dance steps, you need overall development, you need
updated, upgraded skills, you need
all these things, you are doing it, you are moving ahead,
and it is possible, it is possible to do everything, when
you like yourself.
So just I would like to say, in success blueprint
today, I just want to say, start to like yourself,
lifelong, I am not saying not to like others, but first of
all, like yourself, start to like yourself.
Take care of yourself, grow yourself
Similarly, if everyone starts liking themselves
Then everyone's growth will start
Overall development
For someone, success has some mantra, some meaning
For someone, success has some meaning
Someone wants a good wife
Someone wants money Someone wants something, someone wants
something
Success has different meanings for everyone
Someone wants peace
Someone wants devotion
You will get all these things
When you start liking yourself
You will care for yourself, you will have a good physique,
a good brain Healthy body, healthy mind
Healthy mind having healthy ideas
You will have a good mentality
All these worldly things
When you start liking, caring for yourself
You will make yourself the best
Then you will be successful
And the best, the successful
He gets everything in the world
There is a saint, a Baba
He liked himself
One thing
You say, I have put it in Ishwar Bhakti
See, today people are doing Gyan, Ishwar Bhakti, Ishwar
Charcha
They are doing Ram Katha
And they are getting everything
The worldly things they want
So, it starts from you Your success journey
Your success journey will start from you only
You will say, Sir, you say on one hand
In Law of Attraction, you just want, want, want, want
And you get something
Your desire
That is making you a deserving candidate
Because it is not just desire
You want to become an IAS
It is your desire
The vibrations of this desire go to the universe
And then you have all the facilities to become an IAS
From where to take coaching
Which material to take
You start getting ideas
You are following it
You are watching the interview of successful people of IAS
You are getting tips from there
And your desire
Has made you avail all the things
And you did it and became an IAS
So, your desire has converted you into a deserving candidate
This desire
What happens?
You are in college
You see a girl
You try to run for a day or two
You don't get a response
You leave her and go to another girl
You don't get a response
You go to another girl
She is also interested
The one you want
That success is also
Ready to come in your arms as a lover But she is just
checking That your desire is real or just a joke
If it is real
Then you will give your best
You will do every effort
If you want to crack a competitive exam
You are just thinking
Or your desire is so strong
That you are doing anything in that desire
You don't believe in day and night
You are so dedicated
So, the desire with this dedication
Your UPSC exam will be a success
Your success
She also says
Now, I should meet her
Her desire has driven me crazy It is said
You forced me so much
I became yours
But I promised you
You forced me so much
You forced me so much in love
That the desire, the success
By being helpless
I became yours
I made such a promise
So, you can achieve your desire
You can be successful in your life
At whichever level you want
But you keep changing it day by day
Today you want to become an IAS
Tomorrow IITN
Day after tomorrow
Something else
Forget IAS
Now I will prepare for Bank PO
You tell me
I was talking about girls
You tried 6 girls for 2 days
But you didn't find anyone
She is checking your desire
Till then you changed
If you would have tried only one for 12 days
You would have found one
She was thinking of saying yes She was thinking about you
Till then you changed her
And started trying others
This is what happens with Law of Attraction
You sent a message to Universe That you want this thing
Universe has already started
Preparing you for that thing
Till you changed your choice
You told the shopkeeper
Give me that thing
He is going to bring it
Till you say leave that
Give me that
When you are going to bring that
You are asking him to leave that
Give me that
Leave that, give me that
What does he say?
He says, first decide what you want Till now you haven't
got anything
So in Law of Attraction
There is a situation of let go
That you should make sure of your desire This is the
meaning 100% No compromise Then you will get
Of course you will get whatever you are thinking
First award should be given As they say, actor
Best Actor Award Best Actress Award
This desire of every actor of every actress
But just by wanting
Do they get Best Actor Actress Award?
You tell yourself
That I am the best actor
Then Even if not Then this universe will tell you that to
become the best actor
Ideas Activity NSD From where you have to take training
What you have to do
Then You do the best acting
You give your best in the process
You think about the best actor in the process
But you don't give your best in the process
You want to become a CFO
You think about it
But in that process
There is no concentration
There is no hard work
You are studying in 12th
You want to become a CFO
But you are not able to study in 12th properly
Then An idea came to your mind You want to go on the top of
your career
You want to go on the top of your career
Whatever you are
That's looking a dream success for you
But You are just watching towards the dream success
You are looking towards the
Top post
But your concentration
Is not
In the process Of reaching to the
Dream goal
You are just watching the dream goal
But in the process of reaching there You don't have
concentration
That what all you will do
So that you can reach there
Yes You are saying that in Law of Attraction
Just by thinking
You will get the idea
To do
Now
In Law of Attraction
Before gaining success You have to do one thing
Submission Like you have submitted
To your trainer
Gurudev I want this
And whatever you say
I am ready To do
In the same way
I want this
But to get it
When the idea is coming
You have to activate it
So you are pulling your feet back Then Will you get that
thing?
No So I mean to say
You want to become successful in real
So I As a mind coach
As a life coach
By mixing all three
I am telling you Start liking yourself
Means your grooming Will start from here
And plus
Those who follow the rules of Law of Attraction
You Don't put your field
On your will
Yes Put it in the process again
You are earning 50,000
Don't talk about 50,000
You will go step by step
So talk about 1,00,000 from 50,000
That from 50,000
In the next year
I want to earn 1,00,000
In 6 months
Then you do 1,50,000
Then 2,00,000
Then slowly you
Will reach 5,00,000 and 50,000
But At the same time
You have made such a big target
From 50,000
To 50,00,000
Then you will know
That under that burden
This 50,000 will also go
So make a good target
If you Are an executive
Then your next step
Is to become a senior executive
Not to become a CEO
How will you become a CEO
Directly from executive
By making arrangements
By murdering the CEO
You will become
Will you be able to survive
No So you have to go in a process
You have to follow the process
Step by step
Make a vision board
See If you
Are watching this HR
Content class
Are watching the video
You are able to see
Because Your attraction
In HR
To become a successful manager
To become a successful employee
The action of watching this video
Today you are doing
That is why you are doing
Because You have an attraction
Many people say that law of attraction Nothing happens
Law of action Is required
I say that it is absolutely right But Until law of
attraction
Will not happen Until then law of action
Cannot happen
You see a girl
You are attracted to her
Then You try to get her
You go behind her
When When did all this action start
When you
Started Now tell me 36 is going in front of you
If you don't have attraction
Then you don't care
Go Go You can see 36 career
The career
For which
You start running
What is that career
That attracts you
I want to become MBA
I like the police uniform
I like the rope of IPS
What a thing I like the uniform of Army
I like the uniform of Air Force Attraction is made
Now to get it
Action So law of attraction
Is the first step
Of law of action
If in someone's mind
If it is In many people's mind
Sir, what happens with law of attraction Law of action is
important
Law of action Cannot happen
Until Law of attraction Until love
Until then
To get that thing
You will not do action
You are lying You are there I am not recommending this
Four people are chatting
Many people are coming and going
They are there They are not moving ahead
But one person came out
After seeing him He said
I want to become MBA
I want to become MBA Wow Attraction Accident Let's go Let's
go Let's go
Let's go
Your attraction towards that car
Wow What a model!
What a color!
I want this car
Now to get it
You go to an agency
You enquire
There is no money
You arrange for down payment
You arrange for finance
When did you start doing all these efforts?
When you saw that car and your attraction was formed
Till the time you were not attracted to that car
Till then did you take any action?
The law of attraction is the first step
Similarly I am saying
Till then you cannot be successful
Till then you will not start working on yourself
Till the time your attraction towards yourself is not
formed When you start liking yourself
When you will become attracted to yourself
Then you will start taking all actions to make yourself
better
And when all actions will be taken to make yourself better
You will groom
Then you will also grow
What? You will learn You will be a lifelong learner
And for what will you learn?
Here it is
What is this?
Success Blueprint Part 3
Learn to grow
But when will learning start?
When will this learning action start?
First you will have attraction
When will you start taking action to get something? When
your attraction towards it is formed If there is no
attraction
Then why will you work hard?
Why will you throw dust? You will start making yourself
better
When you will be attracted to yourself When you will like
yourself
That is why I said in the beginning
That you should like yourself
When you will like yourself
Then things will gradually get better by themselves
Continuous effort
Continuity is very important
Continuous effort towards you
Self development
Self grooming
Upscaling Upgrading New trainings
As a motivational speaker
As a corporate trainer
As a mind coach
As a life coach
I am recording this
I am talking about
Success Mantra
Success Blueprint
I also started this journey many years ago
From where
I reached here I reached here The journey which started
from Rs.
500 per month has now reached to
Rs. 5 lakh, 7 lakh, 10 lakh per month
Isn't it a long journey? Yes In the meantime Of course,
many stages came
As I am learning
Even today I am learning
Whether it is audiobooks
Whether it is reading books
Whether it is philosophy
Wherever you feel you can learn
Learn Isn't it?
Learn to grow
If you want to grow
Then you have to learn
The one who will learn will only move forward
And to learn The action of learning
When will it happen?
When First To get something You want to learn
You want to take action
You will be attracted to it
You will be attracted to yourself
You will take action for yourself
You will work for yourself
And then you will be able to make yourself better
And When you can make yourself better Means You will be
able to become a deserving candidate
Then Success Success Success is the one
Who is eager to come into your arms But You have to Keep
your desire You must have seen
Beautiful girls
Many times
The average looking person who wants continuously
Will fall in love
That's why I am saying
Looking doesn't matter for success
The continuity of your desire
The continuity of your efforts
Is important
You may think
My look is not good
I belong to this caste
I belong to this low caste
All these things don't matter
I am not old
All these things don't matter
It's all about desire A college professor
A 55-60 year old professor
A college girl
Is dying for him
It's possible
I don't know when I don't know when
Your grooming
Must continue
So the mantra of success is
Keep making attraction
If there is attraction
There will be action
Until there is no attraction
Towards anything
Attraction is the first step
Action coming
Behind Action is a follower
Attraction is the first
If you want to make yourself better
Then start liking yourself
You will be attracted to yourself
Immerse yourself in your love
To be attracted
First you
Make yourself so much better
That you
Immerse yourself in your love
First love yourself Be attracted Then You make yourself
better
You make yourself so much better
That the other person
Gets ready
That's why you get attracted
Then you run to get her
Then you also make yourself so much better
That the lover of success
Runs to get you
Yes, you can do it.
This is the success mantra I would like to share.
I did it.
I think you must have understood it.
If not, watch the video again.
My motto is clear.
My concept is clear, what I wanted to say.
If you did not understand it at once, then watch it again,
watch it again, understand and focus on this.
You do not have to get into a mood somewhere else.
Here, make yourself better, make your personality so
charismatic, magnetic, that it is success.
It does not matter.
It does not matter how you do it.
If you do it, then it will end up very successful.
Don't follow someone else.
Don't follow a company.
How do you know that some company is going to follow you,
because they are big?
How do you know that some one is going to follow you?
They should be a friend to you.
I want this person to follow you.
I want this person for my job.
How will I get this news if I say something like this?
Start liking yourself.
Become attracted to yourself.
Apply the law of attraction to yourself.
Then the action of making yourself better.
And make yourself so better, so magnetic that all things
come to you.
This, this, this car, this bungalow, this beautiful girl,
wife, this too, that too, that too, that property, that
property, this spiritualism, even God, it is said,
God is in the control of the devotee.
He is also involved in your attraction.
How much, how much love does he have?
He is also involved in love.
Everything is possible.
Start liking yourself.
Make yourself attractive to yourself.
Give yourself the best grooming.
You can do.
And also you'll get the job guarantee after completing this
course.
Count me in.
I'll make sure to spread the word to all my classmates.