Hello everybody, good evening to all of you. This is Vineet
Gautam, your coach, your trainer.
And today, I'm going to talk to you about something that,
let's concentrate a little bit.
Yes, yes, yes, yes everybody. Today actually I'm going to
talk.
Sometimes we get busy in compromising our situation.
That we don't even realize that the target with which we
were going, we left it long ago.
And now, what we are doing, that is just compromise.
Compromise and nothing else.
So, many times when we work, we don't like the work.
Let me tell you a story.
There is a test going on in the lab in the class.
And what is going on in the test mainly, a professor is
testing his students.
And what are you doing?
A professor is testing his students.
And what are you doing?
He is holding a frog and putting it in boiled water.
Now, you might think that if you put it in boiled water,
the frog will die.
But no, it doesn't happen like that.
The frog jumps and comes out.
Then what he does, he takes normal water and puts the frog
in it.
And puts that water in the pot and starts burning the fire.
Earlier, the water was normal.
The frog didn't have any problem with it.
But now, the water is slowly getting hot.
And the frog is not coming out.
The frog is adjusting itself with the increasing
temperature.
The students who are watching this test, they ask the
professor,
Sir, what are you doing?
The frog will die like this.
He says, you see what is happening.
The water is slowly getting hot.
The frog is not jumping like he did with the boiled water.
He is trying to adjust himself with the water.
And in this process, time is passing.
And when the water started boiling, it became very hot.
Then the frog tried to jump.
But till now, all the energy of his body has been used to
adjust with the process of hot water.
The energy of jumping has not been left in him.
That's why he couldn't save his life even if he wanted to.
He couldn't come out of that situation.
You saw, in the first scene, when the frog was put in the
boiled water, the water was boiled.
He should have died there.
But he survived.
He jumped out immediately.
And where he should have survived,
he couldn't understand the situation there.
And he used all his energy to adjust with the situation.
And when the situation got worse, when he had to come out
of there to save his life, then there was no energy left to
come out. And he died.
What do we do in life?
We keep trying to adjust with time and circumstances.
We invest all our energy in making compromises.
We keep accepting things that we don't like.
For example, the experiment that took place here, that
slowly, slowly, we should finish the energy and kill it.
This is what the society plans with us many times.
There are many castes that are not allowed to flourish.
Our own leaders don't want to let them flourish.
We keep creating such situations in front of them, in which
their life is lost in adjusting.
And then one day they die.
When they are young, if the real situation comes to us
immediately, like boiled water, we can jump into it.
But the mirror is never clear.
Gradually, things get worse and worse.
And then, even if we want to, we are unable to do anything.
Even if we want to.
Whether it is personal life or social life.
And mainly I am talking to the professionals.
Wherever you are, in whatever condition you are, if
something is happening to you, where you have to adjust
daily in life, you have to compromise with your principles,
you are not able to work according to your mind, you have
to do something different
from your real target.
So, before it is too late, jump.
Jump and come out.
Actually, this is the plan of every system.
You have to demotivate the best of your talent and keep it
inside you.
You have to keep the pot as a plant.
Because the growth of the pot has to be according to it.
It has to be according to the pot.
Whatever is planted has to be according to it.
I don't let it go out of the pot.
Gardener, your true growth is in the soil.
Try planting it.
Take two plants of the same size.
Plant one in the pot and the other in the soil.
After six months, you will see the difference.
If the plant of the pot is one and a half feet, then the
plant of the soil will be six feet. You have given all the
fertilizers and water equally.
You have not left any deficiency from your side.
But the plant of the pot is in that adjusting situation.
Whenever its roots are moving forward, then the pot is
adjusting.
And in the adjustment itself, its growth has become average.
Whereas, the plant in the soil, its roots can go wherever
it wants.
It can grow according to its mind.
And then a mindset also becomes like this.
In emotional content, if I talk about growth mindset,
develop a growth mindset.
Because a mindset is a slavish one.
And the one who wants to keep us as slaves, treats us in
such a way, like a frog is put in normal water, he is not
shown the real condition immediately.
He is kept in a trick, that you are absolutely normal.
He knows that if he is shown the worst condition of wild
water immediately, then he will also jump like a frog and
leave.
That is why he is put in normal water first.
And slowly, slowly, slowly, such people are made terrorists.
First everything is shown as normal.
Then slowly, slowly, they put water in their pot.
In such a way, till the time he knows the real condition,
till then the temperature is so high, and his energy to
escape is so low, that he is not able to escape.
And he gets stuck in that trap forever.
And he has to die there.
There are people around you who are making such traps.
They are their own people.
They don't want you to realize the real situation, and be
able to get out of that situation.
And instead of a pot plant, you can make a plant in the
ground, and make your real growth natural.
You can gain your real potential.
This is the motto of our training.
To develop a growth mindset in a real natural situation
there is a peak there is a camel the owner of the camel has
gone to his relative to meet his relative there at night he
tells him to sit, he has told him many times but he does
not sit but every
day after saying it once at night after eating he sits to
rest he comes to his relative who is his senior he says, I
don't know what has happened to the camel
I am telling you to sit, he does not sit the relative asked
him how do you make him sit he says I speak like this every
day first I tie a rope around his neck I tie a rope around
his neck and tie him to the camel then I tell him to sit
and rest he sits
then I tell him that I have not brought the rope yet
I forgot he says, you forgot the rope, no problem the way
you perform the rituals the way you perform the rituals to
tie the rope around his neck to tie the rope around his
neck he goes the way he is taking the rope he goes acting
like this he ties the
rope around his neck he is acting, the rope is not there he
ties the rope around his neck bamboo bamboo is 2 feet long
it has a fort on one side it is hit with a hammer there is
no bamboo stick in his hand no hammer, no rope but he is
acting to do everything
first the rope then the bamboo he ties the rope around his
neck he hits the ground with his foot then he ties the rope
around his neck and tells him to sit and rest the camel
sits similarly, when it is time to get up he tells the
camel to get up it is
time to go but the camel is not getting up the camel is not
getting up the camel's owner asks him how do you get up? he
says, first I lift the bamboo then I untie the rope then I
tell him to get up he says, do as I say he lifts the bamboo
unties the rope
after doing this when he tells the camel to get up the
camel gets up immediately you must be thinking, what am I
saying? I am telling you the mentality of slavery a camel
has so much strength that it can carry a human but it
mentally adjusts to the situation
that this is my life tying the rope around my neck resting
getting up working all day now you will ask, doesn't it
have eyes? doesn't it see the rope? in reality, the feed
that we have fed in the brain the feed that is in the
subconscious mind
and the way the mind says we have accepted it we don't see
things many times you must have seen that something is
wrong in front of you you have been doing wrong for years
in front of your eyes but because your thinking is such
that it is right and you
keep on doing it you will say that it was wrong but can't
you see it with your eyes? it doesn't know that it is wrong
its mind is adjusted in the same way we make a small
mistake at home again and again especially in this winter
season when children don't
want to take bath due to cold and many mothers beat their
children they cry and make them take bath I will tell you
how dangerous it is one is that while crying he is
hiccuping and his breath is blowing and you are pouring
water on him you should know
that even in normal conditions when we pour water on him
our breath starts blowing and he is crying and hiccuping a
mother in such a process took her child's life now what
will you say that she wanted to take her child's life? no,
so our mind set is such
that we keep on making such mistakes you can see a pic on
the internet on social media there is a horse and a girl
wants to take him but he doesn't want to she ties a rope
around his neck and the horse follows her he is a big and
strong animal but being
big or small doesn't mean anything the mind that is fit
we treat even the biggest elephant like a slave
but he can't oppose us when does he oppose? people say the
elephant has gone mad when we call him mad then he is
opposing us why? because the feed in his subconscious mind
is not working
he is not able to understand the mentality of slavery when
he is normal again his situation is the same we like that
slavery even today there are many people who don't hesitate
to say slavery was better than freedom people don't
hesitate to say even today
many people don't hesitate to praise slavery because we are
free but we are mentally slaves
Kroor Sasak Ne Un Veer Balko Ko Jinda Zameen Diwal Mein
Chunwa Diya
Saheedi Divas Mana Rehen Hain
Lekin Us Road Ka Naam
Auranjeb Road Rakha Hua Hain
Aur Kaiy Aise Hai Yaha Pe
Khaate To Roti Yaha Ki Hain
Gun Aise Kroor Sasak Ka Gaate Hain Unhe Apna Purvaj Kahte
Hain
Khaate Hain Ki Hum Musalmano Ne
Is Desh Pe 800 Saal Sasan Kiya Hain Usme Unka Hi Sasan Aata
Hain
Un Kroor Sasakon Ko
Yeh Gulami Ki Maansikta Nahi Hain To Aur Kya Hain
Is Maansikta Mein Adjust Karte Karte
Hum Apni Energy Itni Khatam Kar Chuke Hain
Hum Gulam Kaise Huye The
Jab East India Company Aayi
Pehle To Log Normally Business Karne Kili Aayi
Normally Business Karne Kili Aayi
Aur Dheere Dheere
Normal Paani Ko Garam Karte Karte
Normal Situation Ko Garam Karte Karte
Humare Upa Takeover Karna Shuru Kardiya
Aur Humne Thoda Thoda Sa Adjust Kiya
Koi Baat Nahi Thoda Adjust Karlo Thoda Adjust Karlo
Kyuki Kuch Benefit Dete The
Us Benefit Ke Naam Pe Thoda Thoda Adjust Karte Chale Gaye
Aur Adjustment Mein Apni Energy Itni Khatam Kardi
Ki Jab
Isthiti Control Se Baahar Hone Lagi
Bardaat Se Baahar Hone Lagi
Tab Hum Nikalna To Chaate The
Leki Tab Tak Buri Tarah Se Phas Chuke The
Kyuki Aaj Unke Saath Ho Log Jati Kar Re Hain
To Hum Yeh Kahke Apne Aap Ko Tasalli Kar Lete The
Hum Mere Saath Thodi Kar Re Hain
Angrej Kya Sare Sepahi Wahan Se Leke Aaye The
Humare Apne Desh Ke Log Hi
Apne Sepahi Hi Apne Bhartiyon Pe Anyaay Kiya Karte The
Wo To Sip Instruction Dete The
Instruction Dete The Conscious Mind The Wo
Jo Doer Tha Conscious Mind
Subconscious Mind
Wo Humare Apne Log The
Lekin Unke Halat Be Waisi Bani Hui
Unhone Yeh Bilkul Nahi Socha
Uparwale Ne Baisak Sabko
Ek Ek Mind Mupt Me Diya Hua Hain
Lekin Hum Is Tarike Ki
Maansikta Mein Gulami Ki Maansikta Mein
Jakad Chuke The Ki Humme Nahi Pata
Ki General Dyer Humme Apne Bhai Bandhuon Ko Hi Marne Ke
Liye Order De Raha Hai Jalian Wale Baag Mein
Hum Yeh Baat Bhool Gaye
So Yeh Mindset Ka Sawaal Hai
Yeh Duniya
System Aapko Apne Daire Mein
Bandh Ke Rakhne Ko Majboor Karega
Tumhe Apne Kosis Karke
Isse Bahar Nikalna Hoga
Agar Nikal Sakte Ho
Toh Pehle Hi Halat Ko Samjho
Action Lo
Nikal Jao
Aaj Takat Hai Tumme Nikalne Ki
Vakat Rahate
Nikal Jao
Apne Mann Mutabik Kaam Karlo
Apne Real Target Ko
Achieve Kar Paoge
Real Growth
Achieve Kar Paoge
You Can Get That 10X Growth
In Your Life
Aap Vakat Pe Decision Nahi Lete Ho Sahi Kaam Nahi Suru Kar
Pate Ho Mann Pasand Ladki Se Saadi
Jab Moka Hota Hai
Karne Ka Acha Toh Nahi
Yeh Nahi Wo Nahi
Aur Phir Baad Mein Halat Itne Istiti Kharaab Ho Jaate Ki
Mann Marji Khilaf Adjust Karna Parda Hai Jab Aapke Paas
Vakat Hai
Toh Vakat Rahate Samal Jao
Develop A Growth Mindset
Maine Kya Kaha
Ki Yeh Growth Mindset Ko Develop Karo
Develop A Growth Mindset
Kyunki Yeh Samaj, Yeh System
Toh Yeh Karne Nahi Dega
Aapko Apne Development Ki Baat
Khud Sochni Padegi
Varna Yeh System Toh Tumhe Kahega
Ki Tum Gulam Bane Raho
Tum Gulam Bane Raho
Modi Ji
Jab Gujarat Se
Nikal Ke
Gujarat Se Nikal Ke Kau
Jab Gujarat Ka CM Banne Gaye
Aur 2001 Mein Jo Godhra Kaand Hua
Wo Rachhi Hui
Sochi Samjhi Sajis Thi
Bipaksh Ki Bhi
Aur Inke Party Ke Bade Lidraan Ki Bhi
Ki Inka Kariyar Start Hone Se Pehle Hi Khatam Kar Do
Kyun? Bardaas Nahi Hora Tha Na
Abhi Jab Itne Saal
Mukh Mantri Rah Gaye
Center Mein
PM Ke Liye Aana Wale The
Tab Bhi Kitne Logon Ne Birod Kiya
Yeh Samaj, Yeh Society
Koi Bhi Aapko Gift Ke Roop Mein Kuch Dene Wala Nahi Hai
Tume Apni Ladaai Khud Ladni Hai
Agar Tum Paa Sakte Ho
Toh Paalo
Kehte Hain
UPSC Ka Exam
MBA CAT Ka Exam
IIT NEET Ka Exam
Mera Matlab Ki Jindagi Ke Jo Tough Exam Hote Hain
Wo Is Tarike Se Hote Hain Unka Moto Aapko Pass Karana Nahi
Aapko Fail Karana Hota Hai
Is Exam Ka Process Ek Rejection Process Hai
Aise Hi Is Life Ke Safalta Ka Mantra Hai
Everywhere, Everybody
All The Situations Are Waiting
For Making You Failure
System Hi Aisa Bana Hua Hai Ki Jo Tume Fail Karega
Lekin Iske Baad Bhi
Agar Tum Apna Efforts Laga Ke
Pass Kar Jate Ho
Toh Wo Safalta Tumari Hai
Yeh Baat Aur Hai
Ki Bacha Jab IIT NEET Ke Exam Clear Karta Hai
Toh School Kehta Hai Bada Board Laga Ke
Ki Mere Bache Ne Clear Kiya
Institute Kehta Hai Mere Bache Ne Clear Kiya
Parents Kehta Hai Ki Mere Bache Ne Clear Kiya
Koi Yeh Kehta Nahi Hai
Ki Us Bache Ne Clear Kiya
Usko Credit Koi Denewala Nahi Hai
Yeh Hai Duniya
Aur Agar Haar Kar
Wahi Bacha Committing Suicide Karta Hai
Institute does not give any statement on this that it is my
responsibility because of me this child committed suicide
school is not ready to take responsibility even parents are
not ready to take responsibility
everyone says this child did it
when committing suicide, then child did it
but when it was successful then school child, institute
child parents child they have nothing they feel cheated
many times
that I used to study at 2 am
neither institute teacher, nor school teacher nor parents,
everyone used to sleep
and when it was successful, everyone hugged each other wow
but
it is ok, this will be temporary phase
if you become a doctor then what will be written with your
name? it will be written your school principal institute
center director or with parents it will not be written
you will enjoy doctor's life baba your parents will also
call you doctor's father they will not be doctor and you
will not be their son, you will be doctor but you will have
to fight your own battle
this world
see, when you lose everyone is against you
so you should be ready for both defeat and victory
make this mindset
and why I am talking on this topic this system is made in
such a way that you are in a hurry to make yourself a slave
everything is made in such a way that you have to make it
your slave most of the scientists and doctors are from
developed countries
they are Indian
but the research they do the operations they do is written
in their name no, it is written in the name of that country
in the name of that country's institute or college they are
called professors they are not explained anywhere that they
are Indian and
they did it this is what Dr.
Baba was not accepting that is why he was killed this is
what is happening with talent
this society will never be untouchable many times in the
name of caste many times in the name of state many times in
the name of religion with talent there is always injustice
if a talented kid is from a lower caste then there is
injustice
I am agree with it because of this there is a reservation
system I am not supporting it because there is a problem
there too the one who is actually talented the system is
not helping him other people are taking advantage of it
talent is also in the forward
class who are weaker, their monetary condition is not good
but the system is not helping them
I mean to say you have to fight your own battle this system
is not made to push you forward
it is not made to push you forward
whoever has moved forward has broken that barrier and moved
forward when you move forward then you will get support but
don't become permanent once
Bharat Kohli said
Sachin Tendulkar's world record ODI 100s should not be
broken that is why it was tried that before breaking this
record he should be removed from ODI whenever it was
thought that he will continue to play then it was broken
and rest was given that rest
is being given with what mentality
that he should not go ahead and break his record there are
still some castes the one who is successful he can run it
if the person from OBC is in a good position then he can
run it with the people from the forward class
talent is not being judged the caste is being judged and I
am saying this from both sides the one who is successful he
can run it with the forward class there is a lot of
injustice with OBC and SCST so today I want to say that in
reality there is no value
of talent
today the system is made
to give slow poison and kill people what people say this
caste will be great in front of us
I am saying this from Faridabad
when the first mayor was elected when this Nagarnigam was
made the first mayor was from Gorakhpur he was from
Gorakhpur and belonged to UP from Purvanchal a good
district of Haryana he was elected as a mayor but the so
called Dabangg people they could
not tolerate that a small person will live above us they
refused to accept him as a mayor the lottery system used to
work once they refused he was elected the second time he
was elected the third time he was elected the fourth time
he was elected but
God had decided that he will be the mayor but the society
is not giving you the right then the people of Purvanchal
protested for a few days near the district hospital then
the people of Purvanchal accepted him this is not a story
of just one place it
is of every place it is of every place whoever has a place
to live he wants his boss he wants his boss to never
appreciate his junior he wants him to be like a water frog
he wants him to adjust with the system he wants him to keep
saying yes sir he wants
him to come to work on time he wants him to go home he does
not demand anything he does not want him to have big dreams
when he has big dreams he is told to live in your limits
you do not have the capacity to have such big dreams many
times indirectly
you are told this you are forced to think you are made a
barrier and then you slowly adjust to the system Is that
cool?
I have put all my energy into adjustment, spent my whole
life on it.
Now at this age, who will give me another job?
Thinking like this, he kept getting scolded and abused.
And he kept lying there.
Because lying there, he was suffocating.
That frog died at least once, right?
He dies everyday, everyday.
But lying there has become his destiny.
Because now, there is no power left to jump out of the car.
I am saying, to jump out of the car.
Do you know, a dog, a dog that keeps coming under the car
in road accidents, why? It's not that it can't cross the
road, it can't run.
Whatever action our body does, that is on our mind.
When it comes in the middle of the road, it thinks, should
I go ahead or back?
Should I go ahead or back?
And this thinking of going ahead or back, when it takes
time to think, the car blows it away in the middle. You
also think, should I get out of this system or not?
Should I get out or not?
You take time in this thinking, and till, till then you
adjust.
In this adjustment, you have lost all your energy, all your
youth.
And then, you are tied up with responsibilities, that now,
there is no power left to jump out of the car.
From home, you come to see, that you have to pay the
children's fees, you have to get ration, you have to do
this, you have to do that.
And then, even the bitter words of the boss of the office,
you find it sweet.
You have crossed one more level of adjustment.
With your nose down, with your ears closed, with your eyes
closed.
A job is only a slave.
If you don't have the mentality of a slave, that person
cannot do a job.
Working under someone else, following his instructions,
following his instructions, if you don't have this
mentality of a slave, then what is it?
Our entire education system is such, that we are providing
job-oriented course curriculum.
We don't have the content to do self-business.
Whenever we talk, our placement is good.
You will get a job.
We are giving birth to this mentality, we are increasing
this mentality.
We have never thought that we have to do something.
We have to stand up for ourselves.
We have to take action for ourselves.
We are taught to adjust every day.
That frog says, that my friend was put in hot water, he
jumped and left.
Do you know what the family of this frog says?
His water was hot, he jumped and left.
You are normal, right?
You are in good health, right?
He says, that something is happening every day, which is
making the water hot.
It means that the situation is getting adverse.
But, we are taught to adjust every day.
Adjust.
Gradually, he is adjusting.
Gradually, the water is getting hot.
But, he is adjusting the energy of his body.
The energy that he could have used to do something big, he
has used that energy for adjustment.
To do a tool down.
He says, that he has to stop himself.
To stop himself, he needs energy.
The energy that he had to use to move forward, he has used
it to control himself.
You say,
Sir, you say, the one who has controlled himself.
To control himself, by doing something wrong,
I said to stop himself.
To do something good, to control yourself,
I did not say that.
I said, to control yourself, to do deep breathing, to
think, that what is good for you.
And, when you come to know, that this water is normal for
now, but, gradually, for you, you know what he thinks?
It is normal, it will remain normal.
Now, it has become a little hot.
No problem, adjust a little.
Then, it will become normal.
The one who has a plan to heat the water and kill it, his
plan is clear.
But, in between, he keeps giving such reassurance.
Don't worry.
You are talented.
You are a serious man.
Adjust.
He knows, that if we adjust this talented, intelligent
person in our system, then, two, four, ten people will
adjust under him.
Slave.
The mentality of making slaves.
In between,
I would like to tell you that story,
that at the gate of a company, a samosa seller sells
samosas.
It has become a very popular shop.
All the employees of the company, come from there and eat
samosas.
One day, the manager of the company,
comes wearing a coat, pant and tie,
and says,
Ramu, look, you have been selling samosas for so many years.
If you, were working in the company like me, then, you
would have become a boss like me.
You would have become a manager like me.
You would have worn a coat and tie like me.
Look, what is your dress?
Ramu thinks for a while.
Then he says,
Sir, you are right.
But, listen to the whole thing.
He says,
I remember, ten years ago, when you came to this company,
as a supervisor, you were working for ten thousand rupees.
At that time,
I used to sell samosas in a basket.
I used to sell samosas for two rupees.
Today, I have come to this big shop from the basket.
A famous shop.
Samosas have become ten rupees instead of two.
At that time,
I used to earn two thousand, three thousand rupees.
You used to earn ten thousand.
Today, your income has become ten to fifty thousand.
My samosas have become ten rupees, five times.
But, my income, which used to be two to three thousand,
today, is one and a half to two lakh rupees. And this one
and a half to two lakh, which is three times or four times
than you,
I am not calling myself better because of this.
This is the reality.
I know,
I am telling you today.
But, what kind of thinking are you living with, that today,
you are one third, one fourth level.
Still, you are giving me knowledge.
But, what I am saying is, again, this, this manager,
sometimes, is very restless.
But, he is stuck in the system like this.
He is burdened with such responsibilities.
The situation has become so hot.
But,
I am not talking about the development of the economy,
which is better than you.
What I am saying is that I am the owner of my own will.
And I will transfer this business, this growth to my
children.
After me, my child will sit in my place and he will sell
samosas for only Rs. 10.
The benefit that I have made in my business with the hard
work I have done till now, the progress I have made, my
children will get the benefit of it directly.
Whereas, the hard work you have done, you have made the
company into one to five branches.
The benefit of those five branches will be given to your
company's children.
Your child will not sit in your place.
He will start from where you have started as a slave.
I am talking about that mentality.
Get out of it.
Get out of it today.
You still have the strength to get out of it.
By adjusting tomorrow, like that frog, you will put all
your energy into this adjustment.
Then you will not be able to get out of this situation even
if you want to.
And you will have to die in this situation.
Then you will not be able to do anything.
Do something about your mind.
At the age of 20-25 years, there are many new dreams to
fulfill.
After that you are getting married.
You have got the responsibility.
So, everyone thinks that you should stay where you are.
Stay where you are.
Like the manager is taunting the samosa vendor.
There are many such managers who taunt them.
You are a teacher and a trainer.
The teacher who has become a manager after being trained by
the trainer, they taunt him.
They forget that you were a slave yesterday and you are a
slave today.
And what gift are you going to give to your children?
Nothing.
This growth will end with you.
And your child will start again as a new slave from the
beginning.
From the beginning.
So, I am saying that you still have energy left.
Put your heart into it.
Put your strength into it.
Get out of it.
Otherwise, when the water is hot, when it is in the boiling
position, when the situation is bad, then you will be very
anxious to get out of it.
But you will not have the strength to get out of it.
You will not have the strength.
So, I am talking to you all professionals.
They say that when you do a job, do it like a business.
Do it with a lot of thought.
Make something parallel for yourself.
Something that you can give to your children as a gift.
And make it happen on time.
Because tomorrow, the system company will not let you get
out of it. And sometimes when the mindset is set, you don't
even get out of it.
You go into your comfort zone.
You say, this is what I am doing.
This is how I am doing it.
So, why should I get into trouble? You can get into trouble.
Because when you will need it the most, then this system
will not support you.
It will not.
When the companies have a virus, then the company, while
looking at the accounts, makes a fool out of people.
In Corona, when the people who work on a package of 50-50
lakhs, on a package of 1 crore, the system took them out.
So, did they think that these people have been with us for
15 years, they are taking 1 crore a month, their expenses
will be such, how will they maintain it?
They didn't think about it.
So, no matter how old you get, no matter how old your
company is, no matter how old your house is, it will never
be your house.
No matter how old you are, you are the tenant of the
building. Don't think you are the owner.
Today or tomorrow, you will leave your child as a tenant.
With your hard work, make something so that it doesn't
remain a tenant.
But we are stuck in such a mentality.
All kinds of things are going on in the mind.
Conditions, when there is a situation to do something, then
we don't do it.
When there is a situation not to do something, then we try,
and then we are unable to do it like that frog, and then we
have to die in that boiling water.
So, never let such a situation of adjustment come.
It is fine to an extent, but as long as there is energy
left, in between, use that energy and get out of this
adjustment. Do something of your own.
When the manager used to earn Rs.
10,000, the samosa vendor used to earn Rs.
This is where we get beaten up.
We look at the benefits of the river, we don't look at the
loss of distance. We don't look at the future.
Common thinking forces us to look at the benefits of the
river.
If you really think you are smart, if you don't think so,
then understand and become smart.
And instead of looking at the benefits of the river, look
at the loss of distance.
It may be the loss of the river, but look at the benefits
of distance and do something so that not only your future,
but also your children get safety.
Wherever you leave them, they can start from there.
You are in such a mess, in such a trap, with which you have
cut the thread of life.
You want to leave them there.
This is not a good thing.
This is not a good thing, my friends.
Understand this.
Develop a growth mindset.
And for a growth mindset, you will have to get out of the
pot.
In that open sky, in the land, you will have to leave
yourself open.
Where you can use your full potential.
The walls of the pot do not force you to turn your roots
round and round, which affects your outer growth.
You are not able to grow according to your mind.
You are told in between,
Less talented your director is and what does he tell you in
between?
Be a manager only.
Stupid, the one who is telling you, has no status as a
supervisor.
But he tells you, be a manager only.
If I am speaking with so much excitement, then I have also
come out of this period. I have been a manager in IIT, Neat
Preparation Industry.
And have faced situations many times.
Specially today, I am a trainer, because I am with that
DUNCE, that in that industry, the trainers, the faculties,
they have so much respect, so much package, so much respect.
And, what do you tell the managers? Be a manager. Be a
manager.
They know, the whole system is being managed.
He is bringing the students, you are just training them.
But, they have respect.
Today, I don't care.
But because of that rebellious nature, because of the
pressure of that system, I have come out of it, by jumping.
Thank God, I was able to jump at the right time.
I didn't let the situation of DUNCE become mine.
Today, I am a trainer.
And the trainership, they teach syllabus to the students of
8th, 9th, 10th, 11th, 12th.
The same thing that has been happening for years.
I am not only those students, but their parents, college
students, as a life coach, everybody, whether it is
homemakers, girls, ladies, even if they are trainers,
I am a trainer in the form of their mind coach.
This is not my aim.
But, when the water of that system's pressure started to
get hot, that impatience, forced me to jump out of it.
Even today, to use the contacts of that experience, people
contact big institutes.
Join us, sir.
Give us your service.
Even today, service.
But, respect is going to be gained there. I have more than
15 years of experience in this field.
I have 20 years of experience in this field.
But, the faculty of 5 years, where do they think they are?
They think they are scholars.
A for apple, B for bat.
A plus B, the whole square is equal to?
A square plus 2AB plus B square.
This has nothing to do with life.
I used to have a lot of impatience.
A lot of impatience.
I used to think that if I was a trainer,
I was very good.
In school, life, college, life, study.
I was a trainer.
I was a communication coach.
I was an Allison Trafford trainer.
But, because it was not that fruitful, it was not a
lucrative industry, so I went to IIT for management.
But, then I saw that the industry is slowly growing.
I said, do better in this.
I am saying, the situation of that system created so much
heat, that I had to jump out of there.
Today, I am a communication coach, Allison Trafford
trainer, soft skill trainer, corporate trainer, mind coach,
life coach, motivational speaker.
I learned all these things from here.
You can also do this.
If you do not have any talent in you, if you have not grown
it, then get out of it.
You will also get respect.
You will also earn money as per your will.
Learn and grow.
Learn and earn.
As much as you want to earn.
Today, in this short period, the good faculty who charge
for this,
I charge and earn.
When I went to Mumbai for training,
I found out that in Kota, Delhi, the people who earn 5
lakhs, 10 lakhs, 20 lakhs, 30 lakhs, meaning 1.5 lakhs a
month, 2 lakhs a month, the attitude of those people is not
that of a trainer who earns 1 crore a month.
They are earning 1 crore a month.
He is earning 12 crores a month.
He is showing the attitude of a trainer who earns 12 lakhs
a month.
I said, why not to do that? And there I found out that of
course, you are having potential.
Because the trainers are saying, it's my luck, good luck,
that you can do that.
You will be an international speaker one day.
The world will remember that the talent, the potential is
lying inside of you.
I also felt, where was I till now? I was able to reach
there because that impatience,
I also adjusted for many years.
Still, I was able to jump in time.
Even now, I am at the initial stage.
But the target is clear that IIT needs training faculties,
the top trainers who are taking,
I have to earn double, triple, ten times more than them.
This is a clear message.
The concept is absolutely clear.
If they are earning 1.5 crores, then I need 5 crores, 10
crores, 20 crores.
There must be some situation happening with you, which you
have to adjust.
The other person must be telling you something in between.
You must be stuck here.
Keep those taunts as an inspiration for yourself.
And, before the situation gets worse, when you are unable
to jump, like a frog, which is adjusting in the water
normally, now the boiling position has come, then try to
jump.
But now there is no energy left to jump.
Now it is forced to die there.
Today, if I have taken this example and raised this topic,
then I have come out of my inner anxiety.
You become the GM of management.
You are working for 8 hours, you have a strategy, planning,
you are reporting to the director, but there is no clarity.
What work did you do?
You don't understand the strategy.
You are sitting idle, what work did you do?
Now, at least, you don't have to bear that frustration.
You know, if I am giving 4 hours of training, then this
much is enough for me.
If I give 4 hours of my training, then this much is enough
for me.
Yes.
The biggest thing is, that if you are a manager, then your
status is up to your company.
And this is going to end in the company.
After retirement, no one is going to ask you.
As a trainer, you can stand anywhere and train.
From this state to that state, from this country to that
country, and today, you can do it all over the world.
I am a writer, I am an author, the whole world reads this
book.
So, I am not saying this just because I am talking about
myself. I have also endured a lot of situations,
I have endured a lot of years.
I have endured a lot, but the situation, the water has
become so hot, the ground inside has become so hot, that I
am forced to jump.
But, like that frog, don't let your water become so hot.
And don't finish your energy in reaching the state of being
hot. That when you want to jump, you will not be able to
jump. And then you say, what will I do?
Now, I don't know anything else.
There is still time.
Go for it.
Jump.
Recognize your talent.
If you can do something special for yourself, then do it.
And, if you can do it, why should I say, of course you can
do it.
At least try it.
Try it, my children, my friends, my brothers, you can
definitely do it.
God has made something special in everyone and sent them.
He did not send us to die or to live.
So do something like this.
Get out of that situation.
And do something for yourself where you can breathe in
peace.
And do something for your children where they can breathe
in peace.
At least the situations you have faced, they should not
have to go through such a thing.
Do something like this.
Nothing is happening.
Try it.
Again try it.
You can do.
Develop a growth mindset.
You will have to follow that.
And sometimes it happens that the dreams you have, when
will they be thrown out?
You don't know.
So live your real dream.
What does it mean to be thrown out?
That you have used all your energy to adjust to that system.
And now you are not fit to be anywhere else.
So throwing you out means killing you.
Now your energy is not to jump anywhere else and do
anything.
And the system threw you out.
Now you die.
That will be the death situation for you.
So make your own plan.
Develop a growth mindset.
Personal.
That will be yours for today and will be for your children
tomorrow.
Let me tell you a small incident.
The owner of the company brought a Mercedes car.
The manager congratulated him.
He said,
Thank you, thank you.
This is the result of your hard work.
Listen to me.
This is the result of your hard work that I have bought a
Mercedes today.
Who is taking the result of your hard work?
The owner of the company.
You are just sitting there.
And what is he saying?
Work harder.
So next year I will buy a Mercedes for my son.
I will buy it for my son.
This time you worked hard and arranged a Mercedes for me.
Next time I will buy it for my son.
Meaning, Today you are dying.
You are giving growth to your owner.
Future settlement.
You are giving it to their children, not to yourself.
I say, get out of this mentality.
Because while adjusting, you end so many years of your life.
And when you can't get out of it, then you don't have the
strength to get out.
The strength before this.
I might have jumped at the right time.
I have also suffered a lot.
I won't say that I jumped at the right time.
But still I jumped and got out.
Now in this situation, I am still struggling with my own
will.
But I am still in my own will.
Struggle is everywhere. Competition is everywhere.
There are people who use you everywhere.
I have a trainer.
Corporate. From Pune.
How many times have I told him that let's make a corporate
contract.
He is old experienced.
No.
He talks to me. I give him an idea.
He executes that idea for his daughter.
I said, Oh! Thank you Lord.
It's been 6 months.
You are not making a contract.
Yes, I do. I do. I do.
He executes the ideas.
That's why no one is with you.
Everyone has made a plan to either degrade you or use you.
Wherever you show your talent, the other person doesn't
think that he should be given a platform to grow.
He says, how to use the talent so that I can grow.
The company always wants to use your talent in such a way
that it grows. In between, whatever risk you are taking,
you pay for it. Credit company's payment is yours.
After that, you will be thrown out.
In a company, a top employee, who has a project, it is
said, whatever way you get the project, in whatever way you
do it, the company of your opposition, gets the quotation
of the project, and reduces the quotation. They get the
project.
In return,
Rs. 20 lakhs are given.
Whereas the company gets the benefit of Rs. 20 crores.
But when this scheme is investigated, the company first of
all tells the company that it was your duty to bring the
project. You know how you brought it.
The company does not take responsibility for it.
And
The inquiry was terminated immediately.
The company is not responsible for it.
The company is not ready to support it.
In the name of its reputation, in the name of its prestige,
it did not take a second to sacrifice it.
Whereas you, with your slave-like mentality, do not know
what you think of the company.
Om Jai Jagadish Hare
If you want to be dependent, do it on yourself.
Do not depend on anyone else.
If you want to depend on someone else, then depend on God.
When the world kicks you, then depend on God.
Because He will never kick you.
Never.
So I mean to say, before the world warms up, you are slowly
putting all your energy into adjustment.
And when the situation gets worse, then you want to get out.
But then you are stuck in the mud that you do not have the
strength to get out.
Now you are forced to die there.
I am talking about that situation.
That system will throw you out.
If you are in a bad situation, then you die with that
situation from which you are not able to get out.
You will not be able to get out before you are in such a
situation.
I am saying to this to myself also, yes, I am not giving a
simple lecture because I have tolerate this situation, I
have tolerate this situation, I have tolerate this
situation,
I have tolerate this situation, I have tolerate this
situation, I have tolerate this situation,
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situation, I have tolerate this situation,
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situation, I have tolerate this situation,
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situation, I have tolerate this situation, I have tolerate
this situation, I have tolerate this situation, I have
tolerate this situation, I have tolerate this situation, I
have tolerate this situation,
I have tolerate this situation,
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Don't wait till the situation gets so bad that you can't
get out even if you want to.
Don't wait till such a situation, don't, don't, don't.
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