Hello everybody, good evening to all of you. This is Vineet
Gautam, your coach, your trainer.
And today, I'm going to talk about a very sincere thing to
you all professionals.
Whatever you are, wherever you are, at whichever the level
you are, you want to move ahead.
You want to be more successful in your life.
And the biggest problem in that is procrastination.
Procrastination is dangerous. Procrastination is disastrous.
You want to be successful, but you have a habit of avoiding
it.
You have a habit of avoiding every task.
I will do it. It will be done.
Nothing happens. You have to do it.
Our mindset has become a little bit of an avoider.
I will ask you a simple question.
Does a cow give milk? Yes or no?
She does.
No, Baba, a cow does not give milk.
A cow has to milk.
Yes.
It does not give itself.
Does it bring it to you?
Here, take some milk.
Here, the bucket is full. Take some milk.
Similarly, nothing happens on its own.
You have to do it.
You can say, the one who does it is sitting there.
You do it, Kanhaiya. My name is being called.
It is absolutely true.
The one who does it, no doubt, has accepted that he is
doing it.
But someone will also be standing in front of you
practically.
Who will that be?
You will be.
Yes.
Many a times, our habit of avoiding things is such that we
avoid our work and make an offer to someone else.
He picks it up and takes it away.
He uses it.
He benefits from it.
You say, I have an idea in my mind.
I will do this, I will do that.
But you are not doing it.
Anyway, you are definitely doing it.
And the one whom you told, he used your idea and took its
benefit.
He moved forward.
He moved forward, Baba.
And you kept avoiding it.
It is said,
Do it today, do it tomorrow, do it now.
You have to do it now.
Because avoiding it can cause so much loss.
You can be so behind.
But what is the mindset now?
If you want to do it today, do it tomorrow.
If you want to do it tomorrow, do it day after tomorrow.
And what does doing it do?
You have to live for years.
This is a statement for those who avoid it.
And for those who do it,
If you want to do it tomorrow, do it today.
If you want to do it today, do it now.
And right now, do it.
Now is the time to do it.
Things will end.
When will you do it?
So, everyone makes statements for themselves according to
their convenience.
But the time frame is the same for everyone.
I am talking to you all professionals.
Today you are feeling that you have to update, you have to
upgrade, you have to launch this product in the market.
If you don't launch it, someone else will.
Yes.
And all your efforts will be in vain.
So, whatever you want to do, for that, having a time, being
time bound is very important.
I want this thing in so many days.
And do you know what happens?
When you don't delay, you become time bound, you become
dedicated to work, then you do the work with that
dedication.
And when the work is done, then the result will also come
out.
Now it's a simple thing.
It's a simple thing.
The impact of avoiding any work is negative.
There is a loss in delaying.
To assess this thing, you stand at the roadside.
Someone walks in front of you.
You just see after 2-4 minutes, how far he has gone.
You just stopped yourself for 5 minutes from doing the work.
You avoided the work.
You also had to go that way.
But you didn't walk.
You stopped.
And he kept walking for 5 minutes.
How far did he go from you?
This is a practical example of avoiding any work.
And let me tell you, when you go that way, it will take you
time to catch him.
He has also maintained his speed.
You will say, I will run.
He can also run.
The world is running.
So anybody can get the benefit of that opportunity, which
was there for you.
I said, procrastination is dangerous.
It is disastrous.
It is dangerous.
It is going to destroy you.
You go to the government office.
The work is not for 2 minutes.
You have to sign on the file.
They say, keep it.
They will do it.
They don't do it.
That is why, the work that a private company does in 2
hours, they don't do it for 2 days, but 2 months.
How will there be progress?
Then they say, there is no progress.
By avoiding work, in government schools and hospitals,
there are A1 class doctors and teachers.
But, they don't have to take offerings on time. They don't
have to teach properly.
It is a government job.
They are having fun.
I am from Faridabad, Haryana.
And I am from a government school in Haryana.
Faridabad is very close to us.
It is a top record in Haryana.
They gave 17 selections of NTSC, which even big private
schools can't give.
Because the principal there,
I told you, teachers are educated in government schools.
That is why they were selected.
They were selected in the government norms.
But they don't work.
The principal has to decide, that we have to work.
And, as a leader, if you keep giving speeches, then the
team won't work.
You get involved.
You are the leader of the union, and you are just doing
leadership.
You get involved.
The team behind you will get involved.
As a principal of the school, you are the leader of the
teachers. You are an idol for the teachers and students.
If you work sincerely
come on time
are disciplined, well maintained well dressed up then
others will follow you and other teachers will follow you
So I think whatever you teach by speaking with your mouth
instead of doing so that will be more beneficial
that will be more beneficial if you do it
I was talking about the principal he has maintained the
infrastructure in the school such that private schools are
fake
and today
every guardian wants to teach his child in that school
which most people
don't want to teach in government schools
but there is written test
I will get admission
you can do it
if you are doing something and you don't have the habit of
avoiding it, then you will do it and if you do it, then the
world will agree to your conditions it will happen
don't procrastinate the work
it's simple
I said that procrastination is dangerous it is disastrous
the one who avoids it
the one who avoids the work the one who takes action, the
one who does it the one who moves ahead that will be
successful
if you don't avoid it you do it and you will start saving
time
do you know the duty of 8-9 hours in office time
how long do we work in that? 3 hours if you do it sincerely
then after 3 hours you can do remaining 4-5 hours more work
you can do it
I will give a particular example the habit of not avoiding
and what is the result of avoiding the habit of avoiding
what makes your situation two candidates of same
qualifications are selected in two places one goes to a
multinational company and the other to a government
department after one year
I am talking about working efficiency it has increased by
50% and the government department its working efficiency
has decreased by 50% the work you are avoiding today slowly
it becomes your habit then you can't do it even if you want
to so sincerely,
effectively
so it depends on you whether you want to avoid this habit
or not it is a fact, you can assess you can assess and many
times you can't decide what to avoid and what to do I give
the statement of Ravan time of Navratri and Dussehra
you must have heard this statement but maybe you don't know
that these are the words of Ravan but this statement is
incomplete we don't read the whole line we read only this
much
Ravan says, when the dust is scattered you must have read
or heard that Ramji says to Lakshman that you go and take
knowledge from Ravan
I am telling you the second thing that Ramji himself goes
to Ravan and says that you are the greatest scholar
you are leaving this world give some message to this world
Ravan is happy oh my luck
Narayan is telling me to give some message to this world oh
my luck you will say, did Ravan know? yes, he knew a lot
Subhashya Sighram do the good work quickly don't avoid it
you must be thinking that I have taken the example of Ram
and Ram and left your topic
Subhashya Sighram many times your efficiency is that you
can do some work but when the dust is scattered you can't
do it
Subhashya Sighram is saying do it quickly do it quickly
next line you get some wrong ideas avoid them but you
should know what to do but you avoid what you have to do
when you don't have to do and you do what you don't have to
do you have to take decision
immediately by saying no that I don't want to do this work
you have to take this decision don't avoid it many times
you decide whether to do it or not and now the opportunity
many times you get the opportunity but you can't decide
whether to do it or
not but you avoid it until the other person takes advantage
of it keep doing it and you will get the opportunity again
you will get it again but it will take time
I have given you an example stand at the side of the road
for 5 minutes someone is walking in 5 minutes you will know
how far he has gone now you have avoided it but the
opportunity will come again
everything changes the way people talk changes
Don't get married on time.
Your younger brothers and sisters get married and have
children.
Today, you are elder and everyone is promoting your
marriage.
This is not the system of the society. You keep avoiding it.
Tomorrow, when they get married and their children grow up,
many times they try that you don't get married.
Yes.
All your property will be theirs.
There is discrimination even with you.
Your younger brothers and sisters get married and have
children.
Your younger brothers and sisters get married and your sons
and daughters get married.
You don't get married because you have children later.
People in the village say that the farmer will come later
and the farmer will run after him.
The farming that is done later on time, if you do it on
time without delay, it won't happen later on.
You don't know what the weather will be like later on,
whether the crop will be good or not.
It is up to luck.
So, whenever you are having the opportunity, implement it
immediately.
Don't procrastinate.
Because many times, procrastination proves disastrous for
you.
You don't get that opportunity again for a lifetime.
If someone gives you an opportunity to start a business,
and you are ready to finance it, whatever reason he is
giving you, you reject it, you think, let me see, he has
withdrawn.
Later on, you are running after him, saying, give me a
chance, he is not giving me.
This is also a matter of luck.
So, if God is giving you an opportunity, take the benefit
of it and move ahead.
Otherwise, this habit of procrastination,
I am saying this at every level, you don't do your homework
daily, you postpone it,
I will do it tomorrow.
When you postpone it for tomorrow, tomorrow, you will get
new homework.
And today's homework will not be a homework for tomorrow.
It will be a pending work.
And when the pending work starts increasing, because you
have to do it daily, you don't have time to do pending
work, and you already have the habit of postponing it.
So, that pending work becomes a burden for you.
And when it becomes a burden, you lose interest in that
subject, because you won't understand if you don't do the
work.
You lose interest in that class, you lose interest in that
teacher.
And if you do this with everyone, with every subject, then
you will lose interest in your studies.
And then, God knows what state you will be in without
studying.
Similarly, when you postpone a work, then your work becomes
a pending work for the next day. And then the pending work
becomes a burden.
And slowly, because of the habit of postponing work, you
also become a burden on the company, and then the company
throws you out. Brother, this person doesn't do this work,
throw him out.
Then what will happen to you?
And let me tell you, whether the habit is good or bad, it
is a very bad thing.
You should not have this habit.
Nowadays, people watch on television, loot, play, play
this, play that.
What is this? It is a gamble.
Big stars are promoting it.
But in the end, they say one thing, that this thing, it is
a risk.
Meaning, monetary problems, monetary risk.
Along with that, they say one more thing, that you can
develop a habit of playing. Similarly, today you are
postponing one thing, and you enjoyed it.
Life.
That enjoyment, which you took by postponing the real work,
when you enjoy it, then that enjoyment promoted you to
postpone it again.
And gradually, you develop a habit of postponing.
And, that habit of postponing, slowly, slowly, gets stuck
in you.
Then you postpone everything.
You postpone everything, and then what happens?
Then, the tortoise wins the race.
And, the tortoise, wins the race. The tortoise, loses.
Whereas, in speed, it does not stay anywhere, in front of
the tortoise.
You must have heard the story of Hare and the Tortoise.
Habit of postponing, defeated the tortoise. So, in front of
you, an average person, who walks at a normal speed,
becomes successful.
Because, he does not have a habit of postponing.
He works continuously, and you postpone.
And later, you cry over your fate.
You get frustrated, that that average person, did better
than you, became successful, and you lagged behind.
You develop an inferiority complex.
Where did it start?
Because of postponing.
You are very smart.
You are a beautiful girl.
You are very smart.
You do not want to marry this boy, or that boy. You are
smart.
You do not want to marry this boy.
You keep rejecting him.
You get old, because of postponing.
And then, you have to compromise.
Whatever you get, you have to marry.
And, life, makes you cry.
You are ready to cry for the rest of your life.
So, it is said, when the iron is hot, you should get hurt.
When there is an opportunity, do not avoid it, take
advantage of it.
Get the benefit.
At the right time, you can take the right benefit.
It is a little tough, different.
You have to take a different decision.
It is said, God gives everyone a chance.
Who can take advantage of it, who cannot, that is a
different question. That is a different question.
I have a friend, a CA. He is a simple man.
One day, he was telling me, that my uncle's son has become
a CA.
And, he has become one.
So, in another caste, he has chosen a girl.
Do you know, in India, caste system is very prevalent. And,
all our
Kumbha people, are against it.
That, if in another caste, a girl is chosen and married, we
will not support her.
We will throw her out of the society.
I am telling you a particular story.
I said, that if he takes this decision and does it, then it
will be smart.
Otherwise, he will remain an average person.
As far as the society is concerned, he is always with the
society.
Which girl did he choose?
That girl is the daughter of two sisters and her parents
are the owners of two companies.
That means, one company is going to be named after her. Yes.
Now, in such a situation, there is a lot of pressure from
all sides.
If you avoid it, then there is another option.
But, without avoiding it, you get a chance to explain to
other people. Many people think, that he will become the
owner of the company.
Many of your close relatives also think that he will become
the owner of the company.
That is why they come to teach you, not to become. They
come to teach you in the name of their custom. But, the
reality is that they don't want you to move ahead.
A girl, an educated girl, becomes the daughter-in-law of
your family.
She gets a lot of back-up.
They don't want that.
And, they will be able to do all this only when When you
avoid that opportunity,
then they will get a chance.
If you do it, then their plan will be in vain.
Oh, now he has done it.
And he did it.
Then I asked the CA, what did your relatives do? Did they
support you or not?
What support? Everyone went to the wedding.
Look, when you are going to take any decision differently,
then are you able to take it or not?
If you are able to take it, then people come with you.
When positive things start happening, they come with you.
Be ready that if it is negative, then the result will be
negative.
They will come to comment on you.
Be mentally prepared.
Nothing to take tension.
Be mentally prepared.
That you have to bear this tension.
Are you getting me?
Yes.
So, he took the decision.
Now,
husband and wife, both had a company.
He also set up his own company.
Good marriage, good wife, company.
He set up his own company.
They are living a good life.
Whereas, the father, he used to work as a vendor.
I am not commenting.
He worked hard as a vendor and made his son a CA.
But the son, he used the opportunity to benefit.
He didn't stop.
And he kept moving forward.
So, God gives you an opportunity.
In everyone's life, in everyone's life, there are
opportunities.
Now, whether you avoid it or take its benefit, it's up to
you.
If you take the benefit,
if you take the action, then you are beyond that.
And no,
the life you are living, keep living it.
And many times, you don't get that life.
Gradually, it also slips away.
And you, neither stay here nor there. Boss offered you a
promotion.
And, you are taking time to think, whether to take it or
not.
Now, you will sleep.
What are you saying?
Who will take the promotion?
Along with the promotion, there is also responsibility.
There is responsibility.
And you are thinking, whether I will be able to take such a
big responsibility or not.
That's why you avoided it.
There are some of your colleagues, who say, look, boss is
trying to trap you.
It's a big responsibility.
If you can't do it, then he will throw you out of the job.
You will lose your job.
And that's why you say, brother, it's better to be safe
than to go up.
You are not safe there.
Boss has also given you a chance.
And if you don't do it, then you will have a problem.
You should believe this.
You will have a problem.
Okay?
That's why,
you don't avoid it.
Take action.
Okay?
If you don't take it,
then others are waiting for you.
They will lose the opportunity.
And,
you will not get that chance easily.
Because you have lost your trust.
You don't have the ability to take responsibility.
You can't take a decision immediately.
You are trapped.
So, it will take time to build that trust again.
So, till then you have to wait.
Whether you get that chance or not.
That's why,
this habit of avoiding things,
is very harmful for you.
It will create a lot of problems.
So, leave this habit of avoiding things.
If you want to do something in life,
if you want to be successful in your career, if you want to
become something, then leave the habit of avoiding things.
In India,
Lord Swaraj Paul, who is a business tycoon in England, is a
Lord's disciple.
He says that in India,
the habit of avoiding things is in our blood.
And, it is disastrous for us.
The companies that are established in 5 years, in our 50
years, the turnover of the company does not reach that much.
It is the habit of avoiding things.
It is in our system.
It is in our staff.
It is in everyone.
So, one person, another person, third person, the group is
established, the company is established, the whole country
is established, the system is established, the political
persons.
If the whole process of development is based on the habit
of avoiding things, then the final development of the
country, will also run in the same way.
The percentage of development will be very, very, very much
down.
It will be very down.
That's why,
I would say, to leave the habit of avoiding things.
It is a very, very, very bad habit.
If you want to be successful in life, then immediately
start executing the work.
Immediately.
If you don't implement the idea that you have, then someone
else will use your idea and take its benefit.
You will be left watching.
So, don't procrastinate.
And if God is giving you ideas again and again, you are not
able to do it, you are avoiding it.
Later, whether He gives it or not, that's why, do it.
Stop making excuses.
Don't avoid.
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