Hello everybody
Good evening to all of you
This is Vineet Gautam
Your coach, your trainer.
Today, I'm going to talk like a
mind coach like a life coach to you all professionals to
you all homemakers, students, college students, school
students
Means, I'm going to talk to everybody, whoever is watching
this video.
Yes, this video is for everybody
Do you have the courage to support the truth?
Can you face the truth?
Or like others, the 99% people who don't want to face the
truth you face the truth you face the truth you face the
truth you face the truth
What is the situation? Do you face the truth?
Or do you face the truth? If you face the truth, then the
matter is over.
Do you know why this happens?
Because you feel that you are not facing the truth.
In your office
If you are doing something wrong with a colleague you know
that it is wrong and your friend, your colleague is right
the truth is with him but you also know that if you support
him then the people who are standing against him they will
also become your
enemy they will become yours
That is why you also leave even though you know that he is
speaking the truth you don't support him and that is why
you always win because the courage to support the truth is
not there in everyone
Who will mess with you?
This is the word that I use in my daily life
Who will mess with you?
We move forward with this thought without thinking that
this can happen to us or to me then who will support you?
Who will support you?
Supporting the truth is a very courageous thing which is
not available to everyone A man is supporting the truth and
five goons are killing him and fifty people are watching
his drama those fifty people know that the person they are
killing is right
and still all five of them are supporting the truth but
fifty people even though they know they are not supporting
him and you know why lies win? Lies win because not
everyone has the courage to support the truth Not everyone
has the courage to support
the truth and that is why lies win
Those five people know that we can kill anyone publicly
even if it is a lie even if it is a mistake and should I
tell you one more thing?
The truth does not have unity but the lie has a strong unity
They say that there is no unity in honesty
There is a lot of unity in the business of honesty
There is a lot of unity in supporting lies because you have
to support the truth with honesty and you don't get
anything in return but when you support lies you get a lot
of things because if something is wrong, you get something
wrong and that is why
there is a lot of unity in that Now the question is
I am talking about team building Until you don't support
the truth the truth will not have a union there will be no
unity and then the group of lies one by one will destroy
every honest person
I agree that it is difficult to walk on the path of truth
It is difficult
It is not an easy task but if you want to make new paths
then you will have to take a lot of trouble and especially
I would like to tell you the good and bad that has been
going on for centuries when you assess it in real and you
come to know that it
should be like this and you support the truth then a lot of
people go against you The BJP government has made a lot of
schemes digital even if it was old age pension what used to
happen in that pension? when you used to get cash the
people who used to
distribute it used to get eaten
You must have heard that statement of Rajiv Gandhi that
whenever the government sends one rupee to a poor man then
80-85% of that money is left on the road 80-85% Only 15-20%
is left on the road
This is a statement of a Prime Minister on corruption
Now when this government has made it digital that the
pension will go directly to the account then all those
people who used to say that they have given it to someone
else and not to maintain any record are doing anything and
even a lot of people are
not even in existence and they are taking ration cards and
giving it to so many people Even in pensions
In UP, 15 lakh fake pensioners have been caught who are
either not pensioners or have died and their pensions are
continuing and the whole group is enjoying it No one stands
with the truth
No one has the courage and no one stands with the truth and
no one stands with the truth We need courage, we need the
will to give truth.
I am telling you, if we talk about our system today,
corruption is rampant in our system.
Wherever you go in the government department, you don't get
a single job done without taking money.
Not a single job.
So it is a lie, it is a mistake, but the entire people are
standing with it.
I will give you a practical example.
A friend of mine was in the court.
There is a Kurki department.
He had a job there.
When the paper used to come out of his hand, with which
people take loans, and are not able to repay it, the
government corrupts his property.
So he used to make a paper and give it.
And his people go there.
No one wants his property to be corrupted.
Do you know, in the Kurki department, they take away all
the belongings of the house.
Now no one wants this.
So the people who go there with the paper, most of the
people give them something.
1000, 2000, 5000, 10,000.
And just to say, write in the paper that no one is found
there.
It is normal.
In a day, 50,000 lakhs are collected.
And the 5-10 people of the department, they share it among
themselves.
Everyone is in a group.
My friend does not want to take.
We are spiritual people.
He does not want to take money.
He does not want to take wrong money.
But he tells me, there was another person like me before,
who used to say that I will not take.
If you want to take, then take.
But do you know one thing?
Those who support lies, they support them, they are in a
group, but they are afraid of everyone.
Because they know that it is wrong.
What they are doing is wrong.
So they are always afraid.
But, they say, there is a group in lies.
And when 10, this is democratic, when 10 lies are found,
then, one or two truths are important.
There is no meaning of truth.
There is no name or sign.
And anyway, no one else is going to come to support the
truth.
Because in that, you will only get consolation.
After a lot of travel, congratulations will be received,
but nothing else. And there is no value for it in today's
date.
They don't understand.
They want something.
But they support lies.
So, my friend is saying that, the person who used to not
take money from them, all of them together, trapped him in
corruption.
All of them are corrupt themselves.
You think, that 10 corrupt people together, trap a decent
person in corruption, and put him in jail.
Because in court, unity is seen.
Group is seen.
Even if 10 liars are speaking, then, the lie becomes the
truth.
They say, even if 10 times, the lie is repeated, then the
lie becomes the truth.
And this is what they do.
They support each other.
But the one who supported the truth, that I don't want
corruption,
I don't want bribery, he has no support.
Why did they trap him?
They trapped him because, if he doesn't take, then sooner
or later, he will say it.
And all of us will be caught.
It is better that,
we put him in jail.
This is the truth.
Now, either you take, either this way or that way, there is
no middle way.
Some people think, that if something is wrong, then I will
not say anything.
I will remain silent.
But you remain silent, and wait for your turn.
Because, their courage increases.
And today, they did it with someone else.
Tomorrow, they will do the same thing with you.
They will do it for sure.
They know, that you have not supported anyone, who will
support you.
No.
Today's situation is like this.
It is Kali Yug.
Why should I do good with someone?
I think about this 10 times.
But, why should I do bad with someone?
Before doing it,
I do not think even once.
In Satyug Dwapar, it used to be, that one should not do bad
with anyone.
Such a thought used to be there.
What is today's thought?
One should not think even once, before doing bad.
That is called, intelligence.
It is called being smart.
To trouble someone, to loot someone.
People say, this is the price of intelligence. I am smart.
To loot someone, they consider themselves smart.
In this environment, to support the truth, you have to put
your whole life, in a way, on a cross.
Yes, it is a big problem.
Put it on a cross.
Life should go on like this.
Keep on moving forward.
No one is ready to support the truth, because of this.
But, this is also a fact, that if you do not support
someone, then tomorrow, it will be your turn.
And, it will be your turn.
So, no one will support you.
Here, the statement is, that lies are won, because not
everyone has the right to support the truth.
Not everyone has the right to support the truth.
You have to develop that right.
You have to develop that understanding.
What is the right?
It is the status, which is made of your knowledge, which is
made of your power.
So, develop that.
Even after knowing for years, that whatever is happening,
is wrong, we either support it, or my friend, who is taking
bribe in that corruption, is supporting it, even though he
does not want to.
Because, if he does not support it, then, what happened
with his colleague, that all the liars got him arrested,
put him in jail, they will do the same with him.
And, as soon as he got the chance, he left that job.
So, mostly this happens. I do not want to make any direct
comment in this matter.
But, in the sense of the team building, as a manager, as a
senior professional you are, then, you have to support your
team.
You have to stand for your right, and you have to stand for
the right of your team.
If you are not able to do this, then, the team, will not
support you on the right time.
Yes.
The team will not support you on the right time.
You will suffer.
Whenever exactly you will be in need of help,
you will not be able to get that help.
In many situations, you are trapped in this way.
Big business tycoons,
I was watching a TV serial, Bansach, because the legal
advisor, Mr.
Birdur Vardwaj,
is the chief legal advisor of Mahajan Group.
But what are the costs of being on such a post?
It is not the truth, but you have to support falsehood.
Years ago, a member of Mahajan Group, he took the crime of
Mahajan family on himself and was jailed.
Due to this grief, his wife died.
Again, he was forced to take the blame of two murders.
What kind of relationship is this,
under which all this is done to you?
You will say, why are you telling this lesson?
This is the bitter truth of this physical world of life.
On one hand, I am recommending you to support the truth.
On the other hand, I am also telling you these practical
things.
If a person is not able to support the truth,
then you should not consider him to be completely wrong.
He is not able to support the truth, he is trapped.
The family on whose name he was blackmailed,
why was he called to take the blame of two murders?
If you don't do this, then we will kill your son.
And that son himself says that I will not talk to you.
To save the life of that person,
that poor person is not able to support the truth.
That same son hates him.
What kind of life is this?
This is called life.
To save the life of that person,
he is supporting the lie.
And that same son hates him.
What kind of relationship is this?
To maintain these relationships is life.
Life is not that easy.
It's not easy.
It's not easy to come with the truth.
It's really not easy.
You need a lot of courage for this.
And before showing that courage,
sometimes you are ready to show your risk, but you are not
ready to take the risk of your own family.
When it's your wife's, children's, parents' turn,
and the wrong people are always there for you.
When the police or army shoots,
they see that if the terrorists are with the children or
women, then they don't shoot.
But they do this,
and they think they are winning.
Today Israel and Palestine are fighting for 10-11 days.
What about Hamas?
It is so difficult to destroy the weapons of Hamas.
Why is it so difficult?
They have weapons in schools,
where children study.
In colleges.
In public places.
Because if an attack is made there,
then on the world forum they will say that the children of
the school were killed.
The women were killed.
You are doing wrong things in their arms,
so there is no one to question you.
This world is divided into two parts.
The story of truth and lies is going on there.
Who is with the truth and who is with the lies.
Look,
a Pakistani player wins the last match,
and dedicates his victory to the terrorists of Hamas.
Which truth are you supporting?
In the name of being a Muslim,
you support terrorists?
And in this way,
you make all Muslims supporters of terrorists.
And when someone says this,
you feel very bad.
That our Muslims are being called terrorists.
So differentiate, support the truth.
But if I tell you the truth,
then it is very difficult to support the truth.
But in this way,
in a diplomatic way,
you create a balance.
Look at the situation in India.
There are many Arab and Muslim countries.
You have to maintain relations with them.
You have to support Israel too.
In the case of Ukraine,
America is supporting Ukraine.
You have to maintain relations with them too.
And Russia is fighting directly.
Russia is our old friend.
You have to maintain relations with them too.
So when I say that lies are won because
Muslims do not have the ability to support the truth.
This ability is not only due to power.
It is due to the mind,
it is due to diplomacy.
Even in this situation,
when the world is divided into two parts,
the G20 summit was held in India,
and the resolution was passed.
Mostly people,
mostly countries were thinking
that the resolution will not be able to be passed.
No one will be able to agree
on everyone's agenda.
But it happened.
What is this?
On the way to success,
there is a hurdle.
These are problems.
If you can solve these problems,
and keep moving forward,
then you will be successful.
Now I am coming on the topic
that whatever you are doing,
wherever you are, if you want to be successful,
if you want to get your dream success,
then how to adjust to the hurdles
that will come in your way.
Diplomatically,
India is with Russia,
and also with America.
There is a fight going on.
If you can learn this diplomacy,
then you will be successful.
Because if you are clear cut,
you are on one side,
false or true,
this is not possible many times.
In many situations,
this is not possible.
But still, to an extent,
So
Up to some extent exactly I am talking
about the Pakistan people who you can see the Pakistan
people who you can see the Pakistan people who you can see
the Pakistan people who
that he has to pay back for his past life as an elder
brother, as a son, as a husband, and when he has his own
children, then as a father.
The whole life is spent paying back.
What else do you get?
Nothing.
The pain of a father, the pain of a son, all the poets,
they see the pain of a woman.
They explain that, that the pain of a man, women give this
dialogue, that a man does not feel pain.
Oh, Baba, it hurts a lot.
It hurts a lot.
But there is no one to listen to this pain.
Truth, again I am saying, that there is no one to support
the truth.
The truth is that a man does not feel pain, but it hurts a
lot.
And the pain is such, that women fight their pain, shed
their tears, but this poor man, no matter who he fights, he
cannot shed his tears.
Otherwise, people come there to speak as well.
Do you cry being a man?
Oh, man, a man does not feel pain.
The first dialogue is dead, a man does not feel pain. So,
supporting the truth is a very difficult task.
This is not a matter of courage and stature.
And in a way, it is.
Because life is a war.
And in this war, many times, like I gave a practical
example of war, that many times, in the fight between two
parties, on either side, if there is no clear cut, it does
not mean that you are not with the truth, you are with a
lie.
Because when two people fight among themselves, there is a
conflict, and it is due to differences in their thoughts.
And if you stand with one person, saying that you are the
truth, then there is nothing like that.
Because as I said earlier, the basis of conflict is
differences in opinion.
Differences in thoughts.
One person sees the digit 6 from one place, and the other
person sees the digit 9. You have to support one of the two.
Whom will you support?
You have to support one of the two.
Whom will you support?
You know that the one who sees the digit 6 from his place,
that is also correct.
But the one who sees the digit 9 from another place, that
is also correct.
So whom will you call wrong, and whom will you call right?
Now in this situation, both can be your friends.
One is your wife,
and the other is your mother.
Now what will you do?
What will you do?
You are thinking that I am laughing.
I am laughing at this situation, and all of you who are
married, you must be understanding this situation.
Otherwise the government has given so many rights to girls,
that if you are a little bit towards your mother,
I am not saying that they are wrong people, they are wrong
people.
But 80% of the truth, with whom there is truth, who is
right, is being treated unjustly.
80% of the dowry cases are made up, to harass the boy's
family.
It is being used as a weapon.
Who is supporting the truth?
Even the law is not with us.
It is being misused.
SCST Act has been made in Indian Penal Code.
What is in this?
The SCST caste that you are taking so many benefits from,
but you are writing in the papers, you are taking benefits
from it, but if someone calls you by that name, then SCST
Act is put in place.
What a strange system it is.
You have to take benefits by using that thing.
But you don't even like to be called by that name.
Today the situation is such that, they say, on one hand
they say that we are very fortunate that we are in SCST.
We are born in SCST, which is used for taking benefits.
But, they are saying it openly, but you cannot call them
SCST. Get ready to go to jail.
Such situations, which give such statements, many people
say, commitment is commitment. Anyhow, you have to do it on
time.
Even if it is about money.
In life, many things have to be handled in a diplomatic way.
And if a person is not able to fulfill his commitment, then
it is not that you put a question mark on him.
If you keep doing this, then remember, one day, he will
also put a question mark on you.
You will not take long to put him in that situation.
You will forget what commitment is.
Yes.
That is why, the comfortable zone you are in, while living
in that zone, what all can you do better?
Try to do it.
Because, it does not take you a minute to put yourself in
an uncomfortable zone.
And when you put yourself in an uncomfortable zone, then
you will not be able to do anything.
Today, you are in a position to do it, but you are not
doing it.
You do not find it useful.
You do not find it so important.
For example, someone has fallen down on the road.
He is injured.
He is not able to get up.
He has met with an accident.
You just have to give him a hand and lift him up.
You do not like doing this.
You feel, forget it.
When you go into that situation, someone has fallen down,
he is injured, he has met with an accident. A person is
helpless when he wants something, but he is not able to do
it even after wanting it. How painful that helplessness is,
you will only understand
when you are trapped in that helplessness.
Many situations are like this.
That is why, you are out of that zone.
So, it is very easy to say that lies are won because there
is no room for truth. It is not a question of room.
It is a question of situation.
You will say, do not blame the situation.
No.
It is very important to think from a matured point of view.
So, I am not saying that
If you don't support the truth, you can support it, but you
have to be diplomatic.
For example, today, America has come to Israel with weapons.
They are supporting the truth because they are selling
their weapons.
They are fighting two countries and supporting the truth.
They are supporting the truth because they supported
Ukraine.
They spent so much money on Ukraine.
They have all the principles.
They have friendship with us.
And when there is a war with Pakistan, they are supplying
weapons to Pakistan.
What kind of truth is this? Diplomatic.
The truth of their own account.
Everyone has their own truth.
I can share this much truth with you.
I can support this much truth.
Two people are fighting each other.
Now, they are saying, 40% of the truth is with you.
60% of the truth is with him.
I am with both of them.
Now, you will say, it is easy to say, either stay on this
side or that side.
Sometimes, the situation is very difficult.
You can neither be on this side, nor on that side.
I told you in the case of husband and wife, that today,
husband, you go towards your parents, no problem.
You go towards your wife, no problem.
So, you have to adjust.
You have to do things on such a big level, that you are not
able to be 100% on any one side.
You are not able to be.
So, if you are not able to be 100% on one side, then what
to do in such a situation? Yes, you cannot be neutral.
Because when you become neutral, then such a situation will
arise, when you will be in need, then those people will
also become neutral. Sometimes, you must be thinking, that
either 100% with him, or become neutral.
No.
If you are managing a little, what do you do?
As a husband, will you be 100% with your wife and leave
your mother?
Will you leave your parents?
No, right?
See, I am giving the example of husband and wife, because
we don't understand big things, but we understand this
thing.
Because practically, mostly people are watching, all people.
What do you do?
Sometimes, there are some things, which have to be given
time, and time is the answer.
It is said, communication is the solution of all problems.
Sometimes, time is the solution of some problems.
Time is the solution of some problems.
For example, you go to the terrace.
The cloth is wet, right?
You have washed it.
So, you have put the cloth on the rope on the terrace.
Now, you stand there and say, this cloth is dry, dry, dry.
I have to take it quickly and go.
Will it happen?
No, right?
You put it on the other work, and after some time, it will
dry on its own.
So, time is the solution of some problems.
If you consider a wet cloth as a problem, then drying it is
the solution.
So, time has given the answer to that.
You cannot forcefully dry it, by hitting it with a stick.
You cannot dry it.
There are many such things, where there is nothing like
truth or lie.
You have to take a middle way, you have to move ahead.
You have to do it.
You have to manage things accordingly.
So, this dialogue, that not everyone can support the truth,
lies are won because of it. You take a step, you take an
action, but you have to take it as a balance.
I gave you an example of a house.
In an office, if two colleagues conflict with each other,
and you are not able to come to one side, you have to come
to a balance.
As a senior, as a colleague, as a junior.
Two seniors are fighting with each other, and you are told
to come to one side.
Maybe your situation is possible there, but still, you have
to maintain a balance.
Maintain a balance.
It is important to keep your situation clear, but it does
not mean that it is clear.
As I told you,
America is supporting Ukraine.
Other countries, like Europe, France, Japan, Germany, are
also supporting.
India has made relations with all of them.
Russia has also made relations.
So, you have to maintain a balance from both sides. You
have to maintain a balance.
Many times, situations are such that when the truth is not
clear, it is like a six or nine digit situation.
One person sees six from one side, and the other person
sees nine from the other side.
There are differences in thoughts.
There is a difference in thoughts.
Because of this, there is a conflict.
And in that, it is difficult to say 100% truth and lies.
And you are not able to say exactly what is 100% right and
what is 100% wrong.
This is one of the realistic things I have read.
Six.
Statement is, just because you are right doesn't mean I am
wrong.
I am wrong.
Now, here, it is not about that person and that person.
Here, it is about you.
This is mother-in-law, this is daughter-in-law.
And you are the husband.
On one side, you are the son of the mother-in-law.
And on the other side, you are the wife and husband.
You are the son of the wife and husband.
Now, this is your place.
She is saying, just because you are right.
Because you are right, doesn't mean I am wrong.
You just have not seen life from my side.
You have not seen life from my side.
This is the situation of both.
Now, the question is, it is about your situation.
You were saying, that there is no way to support the truth.
Not everyone has the courage.
Now, tell me, what will you do about the truth?
That is why, here, there is no such thing as truth or lie.
Something is smart.
You are in need to be smart in such type of typical
situation, which can happen anywhere, at any level. The
word diplomacy is used.
You are in need to be diplomatic.
Be diplomatic at family front, social front, official
front, political front.
At every level, you need to be diplomatic.
There is no such thing as truth or lie.
This figure is showing.
Because this candidate is right, this candidate is right,
and they are fighting each other.
That I am right, I am right.
You have been put in a position, that who will you support?
So, you need to be diplomatic.
Diplomacy is the right solution.
If I say, I just said, communication is the right solution.
Time is the solution of all problems.
Sometimes, time is the solution of some problems.
Or, if I say, diplomacy is the right answer sometimes.
Sometimes, diplomacy is the right answer.
Nothing is right, nothing is wrong.
Being diplomatic is the right answer there.
How much diplomatic you are, it's up to you.
And that's where you decide what is right or wrong.
So, in every situation, you should not think what is wrong
and what is right.
Sometimes, being diplomatic, you have to decide your own
side.
And, you have to balance both sides.
How much percent here, how much percent there, you have to
think.
Yes.
This is life.
It's not as easy as it looks.
It's not that easy.
So, in this, you take your time.
I said, sometimes, time is the solution of some problems.
That's why, give time.
There are some problems whose solution you are not able to
do.
The solution is given by time.
So, sometimes, you need to give time to the problems.
And, don't criticize yourself, don't call yourself weak,
don't call yourself defeated.
No, nothing like that happens.
Sometimes, waiting for time doesn't mean losing.
It can also be your victory.
You are just waiting for the time.
The right time.
There are some flowers that bloom in the morning when the
sun rises.
Now, you stand in front of that flower at night with a
stick.
You can't change the nature of the flowers.
So, understand your situation.
Nothing is wrong or right.
There are some things which you have to understand.
Such statements don't give much importance.
When the situation is typical, you have to manage things in
your own way.
And, you should.
In such a situation, the one who controls himself and
balances himself is Modi.
Narendra Modi.
The one who controls himself even in a bad situation, he is
the one who can wait for the right time.
And then, as I said, time is the solution of some problems.
The solution to some problems is to be diplomatic.
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