Good afternoon to all of you. This is Vineet Gautam, your
coach, your trainer.
And today, as I am talking in my last some videos regarding
emotional intelligence.
Before that, I will tell you to start watching videos.
Before that, do some deep breathing.
Then, energize yourself and activate.
How? I will tell you.
Yes, yes, yes.
By doing this, you can concentrate yourself.
Before starting any work.
You can focus.
You can be self-introduced.
Whatever work you are going to do.
Whether you are going to start a speech, or any other work,
or start giving an exam, or start teaching, or start
studying.
If you start like this, you will be focused.
And a focused candidate can deliver better.
The biggest thing is, whatever you have promised yourself,
whatever you have planned, whatever you have thought,
you will be able to do that.
Mostly, it happens that you think, plan and come up with
something else. But, in exact, you are not able to do that.
So, here you will be able to do that.
Are you getting me?
Because, mostly, you must have seen that whatever you do,
after doing it, you feel that it did not go the way you had
planned. The way you wanted to perform the work, it did not
go the way you had planned.
You feel that way.
And if you feel that way, then tell me one more thing, then
how can you expect the result as you are expecting?
If you did not give the performance, did not do the work,
as you had planned, then how can you expect the result like
that?
You cannot expect the result like that, right?
So, if you want the result as you have planned, then you
will have to do the work as you have planned.
You will have to do the work from the same point of view.
And believe upon yourself, if you do the work as you have
planned, then most probably there is a chance that you will
get the result as you have planned.
You will definitely get it.
But the question is, as you think, in the same way, are you
able to deliver?
If you are not able to deliver in the same process, then
there is a problem.
There is a problem.
And if you want to get out of that problem, then think
properly and understand and try to proceed.
If you proceed in the right way, then believe me, things
will be exactly as you have planned.
It is said,
You are exactly as I have planned.
So, what will you say after getting the result?
You are exactly as I have planned.
But what is it?
In order to get the result as you have planned, you will
have to put in the same effort.
In effort, the percentage is missing.
No matter what the reason is, you are not focused.
You get diverted.
No matter what the reason is.
If the percentage is missing from there, then the result
will also be missing.
Now, this is our problem.
In working, the percentage is missing.
There you don't care.
There you don't care that whatever exactly you planned, you
couldn't do like that.
But while you are going to get the result, there you forget
this thing that you didn't perform as you planned. You
didn't perform as you planned.
So, I just want to say one thing here.
If you want to get your expected result, you are in need to
perform as you are planning. And one thing more I would
like to say, your planning should be also according to the
result you are expecting.
If your planning of doing the work is less, but expectation
is high, then just expectation can't do anything.
Just expectation can't.
Even at the moment, when you are going to your work
complete, you can assess, and if you get that something is
missing, something is missing,
If there is any shortcoming left, then fulfill that
shortcoming, O Baba!
Fulfill that shortcoming.
If you fulfill it, you will get the complete result.
If you do the work incompletely, you will get an incomplete
result.
You are doing the work.
Means, you have to focus on the process of the work that
must be done in a decent way.
It should be done in a proper and smart way.
What is your process of the work?
The process of the work should be proper and complete.
If the work is incomplete, how will you get the complete
result?
If the work is incomplete, then you will get the incomplete
result.
How did you get?
How will you get the complete result by doing incomplete
work?
So, plan your project in a better way, execute it, move it.
Do whatever you want to do.
No one is going to say you.
Even if anybody is going to say you, disturb you, then
don't listen.
Because the work is yours and the result will be also yours.
The work is yours and the result will also be yours.
Decide on your own.
How? Have you heard that dialogue?
I will kill you.
I will definitely kill you.
But, that gun will also be mine.
The bullet will also be mine.
And the time will also be mine.
Jani.
You work according to your plan, according to your time.
Who stopped you? If somebody stops you, then don't listen.
It is your wish.
But, if you do it, it should be from the other person's
mind.
Many times you say, I have done it from my own mind.
Means, internal.
But, have you done it from the mind, from which you have
planned?
Plan from the mind, from which you have done it.
Then, you will get the result as you are expecting.
Don't worry about that.
Don't worry.
But, if you think something else, if you do something else,
then something else will happen.
It will not happen according to your mind.
If one thing is not according to your mind, then the other
will not happen.
If not the other, then the third will not happen.
Things will keep on changing.
So, if you want things to keep on happening according to
your plan, then you should execute your real plan. And, do
it.
Everyone is intending to get the benefit of this.
Whoever thought of taking the benefit of this, everyone can
take the benefit of this.
And, it is necessary for everybody.
And, it is not only helpful for you professional, whatever
you are, you may be an accountant, CA, engineer, manager,
general manager, CFO, CEO, president, director, business
owner, teacher, trainer, doctor, lawyers, or homemaker.
Whatever you are, it does not matter.
What matters is whether you do your work in perfection or
not.
If you are not able to do your work in perfection, then
whatever you are, you will find strugglers in every field,
you will find successful people in every field, you will
find such trainers, teachers, who have good degree
qualifications, but they do
not get their grades. You will find such CA's, who are
struggling to get a job even after 15 years, even after 15
years of experience.
And, you will find such doctors, who are on the package of
1 crore to 1.5 crore.
Both are things.
You will find such doctors, who have built a big hospital
for themselves in 15 years.
And, there are such doctors, who do not even have a clinic
in a small shop.
So, how knowledgeable you are, how competent you are, these
things matter.
Because, if you are CA, doctor, engineer, manager, trainer,
teacher, then your degree is just going to help you, how
much?
Your degree is just helping you, 15 to 20 percent.
Only 20 percent, remaining 15 to 20 percent, which is 80 to
85 percent, that is the success because of your positive
attitude. Now, you will say, that positive attitude is so
important?
Yes.
And, I am an attitude trainer.
How to develop attitude?
I am talking about that training.
You take certificates of different things from different
places.
You do CA study accounts in college.
CA is yours.
In medical college, you do medical study.
In engineering college, you do engineering study.
In law college, you do law study.
You do B.Ed in college.
But, in our country, everyone does CA study.
Because, we have an attitude development section.
Skills development, skills enhancement, and those skills or
attitude is a common thing for everybody.
For everybody, it's a common thing.
This is the important part.
Without this, you can't do anything.
If you have a school or college attendance and fees payment
receipt, your knowledge does not shine through your
certificate.
Your knowledge shines through your personality and your
attitude.
A CA can also yearn for a job worth 50,000 lakhs if his
attitude is missing.
And a become pass candidate can also take up a job worth
1-1.5 lakhs if his attitude is realistic.
The work of CA.
Illegal means that there are many people who do not have a
certificate but they are very good surgeons.
They may be small doctors but their hands are so clean that
they are the best surgeons.
Best means certificate.
Those who have a good college certificate.
But they do not have knowledge.
They work better than them.
So the question is this.
How does this happen?
This can happen.
This is possible.
There is no such thing that this is not possible.
I have told you many times that some things are naturally
inbuilt.
Your real potential which is lying inside of you.
Maybe you don't know.
You don't know but that thing is there inside of you.
Absolutely there.
Now you know that thing.
You recognize it.
You polish it.
You nourish it.
You enhance it.
And you make it suitable for your use.
And then you take benefit of it.
By using.
By implementing.
Because until you implement it, things are not going to
happen on their own.
So here actually I am talking about the emotional
intelligence skill.
What is that I have already talked.
Mainly I have already talked about this skill.
But there actually I am talking just like your college.
Whatever you did in your college.
Just you studied.
Maybe you learnt also.
But you didn't execute.
Because there in your college you are taking this emotional
intelligence as master degree.
It is there in your content.
But neither the lecturers of the college are able to teach
it in that way.
Because they are also theoretical.
They are not practical.
And neither the students are able to understand in that way.
There these topics have to be written in the exams.
And have to get marks.
It is taught from this point of view only.
That is not taught to us.
Like you must have read the doha of Kabir, Rahim and
Tulsidas.
And what did the Hindi teacher told us in the tenth grade.
That they will get 4 marks.
Their writing of saralarth and bhavarth.
Today if you go to a discourse of a Sadguru.
Then they explain those two and tell you the meaning of
life.
In those two your meaning of life is hidden.
Life long knowledge is lying in those two.
But we were taught from the point of view of getting marks.
You are also doing B.Com, MBA, Accounting, Marketing,
whatever degree you are doing.
But you are also taught from the point of view of getting
marks in your college.
College report is made that students have passed with good
marks.
It is taught from this point of view only.
What will they be able to use it in their life after
studying.
What is the benefit of it in their life.
This is not the meaning.
We all have read A plus B the whole square is equal to A
square plus 2AB plus BA square.
If you don't become a math teacher.
Then what is the meaning of this in your life.
We were not taught and there is no meaning.
There is no meaning.
So we still take benefit from this.
So what we have to study now.
We have to keep in mind that the contents that I am
learning.
Whenever you are watching my video.
So you keep in mind.
That whatever I am listening and learning.
What is the importance of it in my life.
What is the meaning.
What is the benefit.
What is the loss.
Hey Baba.
Boss you always try to understand this thing.
Till you are not understanding this thing.
What is the benefit of this contents.
Just you are listening, learning.
But you don't know the importance.
You can't utilize and if you are not able to utilize.
You can't get the benefit.
This is just worst, worst and worst.
Just like your certificates of the college you got.
And you are nowhere.
You are nowhere.
You know it very well.
So even after this training.
You are interested to remain nowhere.
Then take it just you took your studied in your college.
But if you have decided your target.
After getting such type of training.
Where do you want to go.
Then you are in need to focus and concentrate.
On the topic seriously, on the very serious note I am
talking.
Aapko focus karna hi padega.
Agar aap nahi karte ho, then it's up to you, wo aapki
jaimadari hogi.
Only you will be the responsible person.
Aur koi nahi hoga. Aur koi nahi hoga baba.
So, I would like to request you, instruct you, whatever the
way you can understand.
Aapko jaise baat samajh aati hai, main toh kehta hu, thoda
selfish ho jao.
Boss, just go and become a little bit selfish.
Because it's for you.
Ye aapke liye hai.
Agar aapko ye baat nahi samajh aati hai, toh ye aapka bad
luck hoga.
Kyunki pata nahi, fir aapko ye samajhne ka mauka mile ya na
mile.
So, main contents pe itna focus nahi kar raha hu.
Main gah raha hu, ki poore 3 ghante ki class me se, aap 3
minutes ka kuch aisa nikaal lete hai.
Aur aap usko apne life me execute karna chahate hai.
That will be enough for your life, for your success, for
the change you are expecting in your life.
Sib, 3 ghante ki lecture se, aap 3 minutes ka kuch nikaal
lo.
Kyunki concluding part, vahi hota hai.
Aap dekhte ho, doodh se dahi, dahi se ghee,
toh quantity of milk, quantity of curd and quantity of ghee
kitna hota hai jaata hai.
Benefit aapko vahi milne wala hai.
Kehte hai, doodh se jitna fayda, 10 guna fayda dahi khaane
se, aur usse 10 guna adik fayda ghee khaane se. Toh main
keh raha hu, ki 3 ghante me se, 3 minutes nikaal lo.
Tumhare ko benefit usse 3 ghante se bhi adik mil jayega.
Basar te ki, you know what is better?
Which part is the best for you? And, implement karo.
Agar aap implement nahi karoge, toh yakeen mano, ye bhi
vahi Satya Narayan Bhagwan ki kahaani kitra cheeje rahe
jayenge, khatam ho jayenge.
Aaj tak school se leke college tak, aap ye aise kahaniya
bahot sunte aaye ho. Tum bhi vahi, aur kahani sunane wale
bhi vahi.
I don't like teaching.
Kyunki vahi syllabus baar baar baar baar baar baar padhana,
I don't like.
Gol gol gol gol ghoomte rehna.
Aur wo bhi syllabus wo, jiska pata nahi, jindagi se uska
lena dena, kya matlab kya, kya ho hai.
The education system, education pattern, the education
syllabus, I don't like.
Whatever is going on in India especially, I don't like.
Kyun hum ye syllabus padh rahe hain, kahi baar toh ye pata
hi nahi chalta hai.
I'm not disagree that you don't teach about the history,
geography, science, but kuch practical bhi toh padhao re.
Why don't you teach something practical? Something real
professional.
Kuch technical.
Ek banda graduate ho jata hai, master degree le leta hai,
but aam hi bhatakta rata hai, kisi kaam ka nahi.
B.Com kar liya, MBA finance kar liya, aur bank mein jaake
account khulwane ka kaam karta rehta hai.
Marketing, dhakke kha raha, kuch pata nahi.
Aisi padhai kyun karna hai baba?
Aur mazaak udate ho, un pakode walo ka, momo's walo ka,
samosa banane walo ka, main keh rahe hoon ki teen saal
chhodo, teen mahine ki pakode banane ki proper training le
lo.
Momo's banane ki proper training le lo.
Just for three months.
Aur ek dhank hai, just fifty thousand invest karke, bada
business nahi.
Pachas thousand invest karke, pachas thousand mein adig bol
raha hoon, vendors ke liye das thousand botey botey hai.
Pachas thousand mein achi se ek apni ready, glass to glass
se decorate karke, thoda lighting, music to music laga ke,
aur le ke khade ho jao.
Main keh raha hoon ki teen saal, paan saal ki jo degree
certificate aapne liya hua hai,
usse better earning kar sakte hoon.
But, wahan bhi, main kaha na, ye emotional intelligence ka
jo content hai, ye wahan bhi chahiye hoga.
Main keh raha hoon tum CA wali degree le lo, engineering
wali le lo, uske liye college alag alag hai, doctor ke liye
college alag hai, law ke liye college alag hai, teachers ke
liye alag training hai.
Aap cooking seekh lo, alag training hai, home making alag
training hai.
Aap kisi business ko carpenter ka kaam kar lo, plumber ka
kaam kar lo, kuch bhi kar lo, aapne cosmetic shop daal
diya, general store khol diya, malls khol diya, whatever
the kind of work aap karo, un sab ki alag alag institutions
hain, college hain, degree
hain.
But, jis training ki baat main kaha raha hoon, jo trainer
main hoon, ja corporate trainer, corporate matlab aisa nahi
ki sirf jo company badi badi hain unki training, main jis
skills ki corporate training ke andar baat kaha raha hoon,
emotional intelligence
skill is one of the best, and this is required for
everybody.
Yahan bola ki aap apni emotions ko samjhe, jaane, usko
manage karna seekhe, aur aap apne aas paas walon ki
emotions ko bhi.
Aur abhi bataun, abhi toh sari professionals field ki baat
kiya, it is going to help you in being more better social
person.
Aap apne arosh, padosh ki, society ki logon ki emotions ki
baatein, achi tarah se jaan paatein, samjh paatein hain,
and it is going to help you there also baba.
It is going to make you a better family person, ki apne
bachon ki, apne parivaar ki logon ki emotions ko aap samjh
paayenge. Aapka friend circle develop hoga.
Normally kehte hain, ki agar tum jhoot bolte ho, toh
tumhara friend circle bada hoga.
Friend circle nahi, chaatu kaaro ka circle.
Wo usme waise koi bhi friend nahi honge, jo moukhe pe aapke
kaam aaye, koi nahi aane wala.
Jaise hi, tumse bada jhoot bolne wala unko mil jayega na,
toh tumhe chod ke udhar jayenge.
Kyunki unka koi emotional touch hai nahi.
But agar emotional hoga, logical relationship hoga, toh
phir cheeje itni jaldi toh nahi badalti hain.
So, I am talking about this importance of this topic, this
content, which is going to make you the best performer in
the work, whatever you are doing.
Jo kuch bhi aap kaam kar rahe hain, usme aap best tariqah
se perform kar paayenge.
You can create the best result for you.
You can get the 10x growth in your career, in your
profession, in your life, by implementing these skills.
I am talking about those practical skills.
As a mind coach, I am saying, very first, you have to
understand, what is your mind?
What is your mind?
What is your mind? a need to change your thought process,
mindset because there I already told you in every field
there are some successful persons and there are some
failure person.
So because of you, it's your mindset.
your subconscious mind will calculate what you will be able
to do and what you will not be able to do.
The kind of message you give to your subconscious mind, if
you have read the story of Uncle Chaudhary and Sabu in your
old comic books, Uncle Chaudhary was a person of small
height, personality wise, but he was very minded.
Exactly Uncle Chaudhary is the representation of the
conscious mind.
And Sabu was healthy, he was tall, but he did not have a
brain.
He would do whatever Uncle Chaudhary asked him to do.
He would do anything.
He had so much power that he could do anything.
He did not have to think whether Uncle Chaudhary was wrong
or right.
Now, you tell me, if you take these two characters
together, whether something happens or not, whether
something has to happen or not, who does it depend on?
On Sabu or Uncle Chaudhary?
On Uncle Chaudhary.
Because if Uncle Chaudhary says that this has to happen,
then Sabu will do it.
Uncle Chaudhary will not do it.
But if Uncle Chaudhary thinks that this cannot happen, then
Sabu automatically becomes inactive.
Uncle Chaudhary does not have to think about it.
Similarly, you do not have to think about how this will
happen.
If you ask the question of how, then what does Sabu say?
Uncle Chaudhary himself is thinking about how this will
happen.
How will this happen?
It means that this work will not happen.
Go to sleep.
But, Sabu has so much faith in Uncle Chaudhary's conscious
mind that if he says anything, then he has to do it.
Because he knows that if the conscious mind says something,
then his work is done.
And executing that work, getting the result of that work,
is the work of the subconscious mind. It will do it.
Anyhow.
If I say something in another way, that whatever you think,
whatever you think, its message, its vibration, its waves,
go to the universe.
Remember one thing scientifically, whatever we think,
whatever we say, the vibrations of our thoughts, are still
available in our universe.
Yes.
Not just today, but even 50 years ago, the things that have
been said, the things that have been said, are still
available in the universe.
And, the way you think, the same waves go to you, and the
same things come to you from the universe. People say, the
way you sow, the way you reap.
Means, if you have good thoughts, the waves of good
thoughts go to you, and bring good things for you.
And if you have bad thoughts, the bad waves go to you, and
bring bad things for you.
A poor man is poor, because his thoughts are poor.
He thinks like a poor person.
Since his childhood, he has been thinking like a poor
person.
And he has been hating money.
He has been hating those who have money.
That money is the root of all problems.
It is taught at home, that money is the root of all evil.
Those who earn money are thieves and robbers.
Now, tell me one thing.
It is said that, whatever you do wrong again and again,
that thing will go away from you.
Won't it?
You love someone, you praise him, today or tomorrow, he
will be impressed by you.
It will happen.
You are appreciating that person.
But if you do bad things to that person again and again,
like we say that money is the root of all problems.
You have a wife at home, and you call her the root of all
problems.
Because of you, I am like this.
Because of you, I am poor.
Because of you, I am like this.
You are my shelter.
How long will that woman tolerate?
She will leave you one day.
Similarly, the way you think, the way you think, the same
will happen to you. Don't blame others.
Don't say that I am not successful today, because I
couldn't get good education. It is the fault of my parents.
I was not born in a good caste.
My complexion is not good.
My personality is not good.
When you say that your personality is not good, when your
subconscious mind accepts this message, or when this
message goes to the universe, then what will come?
It will be reversed.
That their personality is not good.
And when those waves went out into the universe, whoever
received that message, what did everyone think?
That I myself, whoever is thinking like this, he thinks
that his personality is not good.
He is a fool.
He is not smart.
So when you yourself believe that your personality is not
good, you cannot do this, if you are giving this message to
the world, then why should the world believe you?
People have accepted what you thought.
And this is the fact.
This world does not have time to understand your reality.
You, your friend, has known you for 10 years.
In front of his house, you pretend to be a beggar and sit
down, with a bowl.
I am the owner of that car.
Visualize that you are enjoying in that car.
You are having fun in that car.
Your driver will say,
My uncle wants a Mercedes car.
And he will arrange a Mercedes car for you.
Because he is ready to do anything that his uncle says.
So at least you should start saying.
Start asking.
Develop a positive frame, a positive thought, a big thought.
The thought that you are holding on to,
That thought has never let you do anything different.
And when you don't do anything different,
Then how will you get a different kind of success?
You want to get something different from your life.
But you are not ready to do anything different.
If you want to get something different,
You are in need to do something different also.
It is said that successful persons don't do anything
different.
They do the same thing differently.
I am saying this because
Because many times you start looking for things that are
different.
Where should I get something different from?
There is nothing different.
Do what you are doing in a different way.
You have taken a class till now, You have studied,
You have studied.
But you didn't get the benefit.
Now take this class in a different way.
Learn.
And execute this knowledge.
Implement it.
Then see.
What has not happened till now,
Will happen now.
And it will definitely happen.
It will definitely happen.
Wait.
Till.
And.
Then execute.
See how much fun it is.
It will be a lot of fun.
Life will be fun.
Here actually I am talking about
The different kind of
This components.
And in this I was talking about self awareness.
What is self awareness?
To recognize yourself.
To know yourself.
Who are you?
What can you do?
Yes.
And how to develop this?
I was talking about this.
Be mindful of your strength, weakness, thoughts and
emotions.
You should be completely alert about your strength,
weakness, thoughts and emotions.
Keep your knowledge.
To know it properly, understand it and use it.
Identify your triggers to help manage your own emotions.
Keep a journal so you can reflect and learn from your
experiences.
You can learn from your experiences.
I told you in detail yesterday.
Whatever you are doing.
Make a note of it.
So that.
When you have to do something again.
So that experience will come in handy.
You will get the benefit of it.
Consider how your actions affect those around you.
Whatever you say and do.
Think about it and say or do.
Keeping this in mind.
I am talking about developing that quality.
The quality that will give you a different identity in the
society.
Which will give you a new level of success.
Do you want a different identity in the society?
Do you want a different level of success or not?
If you want this.
Then keep these things in mind.
Keep it.
This is not something to forget.
It is something to remind all the time.
Because until you remind all the time.
Until you need it.
You will not be able to use it.
These are the weapons.
Always keep them shining.
Keep them oiled.
Keep them polished.
So that when you need it, you can use it.
You took the weapon.
You didn't polish it.
There was a war.
When you needed to use it.
It was forbidden to use it.
You must have seen at the betel shop.
The betel leaf keeps turning.
Because if it doesn't turn, it will spoil.
The same is with weapons.
If you don't clean it, if you don't oil it, it will spoil.
And the same is with knowledge.
If you don't revise it.
If you don't write it.
If you don't repeat it.
If you don't recall it.
Then when you need it at the right time.
Then you will not be able to use it.
Then there is no benefit of that knowledge.
So now I am talking about those things.
Which you know.
And I am saying, be practical.
Know them like this.
Understand them like this.
So that you can use them at the right time.
If you still don't want.
If you still want the same story which has been happening
till now.
Then God will do good.
But God also does good to those.
Who can do their own good first.
So if you want your own good.
So I said.
In the section of empathy.
To develop self-awareness.
To know about yourself.
And what is that?
About your strength, weakness, thoughts and emotions.
Be mindful.
Keep this in mind.
You should know what your strength is,
which you can use at the right time.
You should also know what your weakness is.
So, don't mess up without a reason.
Otherwise, your image will be ruined.
Time will be wasted.
How is your thinking?
Work according to that thinking.
Stay in the circle of your thinking.
Don't do anything which is contrary to your thinking.
In between, sometimes do self-talk.
Make your thinking positive.
We will come to the topic of self-talk later.
Emotions.
You should know what kind of nature you have.
Remember this thing every day.
Always be ready to manage your emotions.
I told you to work with emotions.
But don't be emotional.
Just like how you light a matchstick with your hand,
the command of the matchstick is in your hand.
It is for your work.
It is not for your loss.
Similarly,
keep your emotions in your hand.
Keep them in your command.
Use them according to your needs.
Don't use them according to your needs.
Use them.
Do you understand?
Next is
Whatever you do,
make a note of it.
It is a major secret to be successful.
Whatever you learn today,
if you make a note of it,
if you have to do the same thing tomorrow,
you won't have to ask anyone else.
You will be able to do it without asking.
And
it will be a lesson for you.
And when you go to the senior level tomorrow,
you will become a leader, you will become a manager.
So you can give those notes to your team too.
You can give them to your team.
They too
without losing time,
quickly
while doing the work,
will move forward.
It will also have a benefit.
Believe me.
Next is
Consider how your actions affect those around you.
Always keep in mind that your actions, your behavior, your
conversation
affects the people around you in what way?
Keeping this in mind,
these are the things,
your behavior
that you do
to increase or decrease your circle in your society.
If the circle increases,
then increase it with a clear mind.
If you can bear it a little,
then nothing bad happens.
Bear it and move forward.
Why do you take tension?
Because
it is not good to bring your ego in the middle of
everything.
You said that your child broke a toy worth Rs. 500.
And you scolded him.
You scared him.
Okay.
But after this, explain to him with love.
Because if this happens again and again,
then your child
will start getting scared of you.
Then he will start getting scared of everyone.
He will become a coward.
So, don't do this.
Don't do this.
This is not a good thing.
Do you understand?
This is not a good thing.
This is not a good thing at all.
Next, I was saying
Use positive self-talk.
Always talk to yourself positively.
Positive self-talk
helps to increase your confidence.
Because if you don't talk positively,
then you think that you are a person with a positive
attitude.
But the society in which you live,
it will gradually affect you.
And that gradual effect
will create negativity in you.
For example, when you go out,
your clean clothes get dirty.
It naturally gets dirty.
Even if you don't do it,
when you go out in the society,
the impact of that society
gradually affects you.
And to get out of that impact,
it is important
that you do self-talk in between.
Do self-talk in between.
Try to know
that you are on track.
Or find out
that someone has led you astray
and put you on the wrong path.
Put the wrong thoughts in you.
Is this happening?
So,
keep doing self-talk.
Keep doing it.
Then I have a very important topic after this.
Develop a growth mindset.
This is very important.
Mindset is such a thing.
You can call it your thinking.
You are in the form of this mindset and the result of this
thinking.
Your career is the result of your thinking.
Whatever you thought about yourself yesterday,
whatever you planned,
and did,
whatever you are today,
is because of the thinking and the mindset of yesterday.
Whatever your parents planned,
is because of your childhood.
Whatever your childhood was,
is because of your youth.
And whatever your youth was planned,
is because of your old age.
So,
planning for tomorrow,
having a growth mindset,
it is not a sin to be born poor.
Because you have no role in it.
But dying poor,
is a sin.
It is not your fault.
I told you, you are poor because of your thinking.
And where does that thinking come from?
It comes from your society.
We are taught to be satisfied with small things.
The child has won, I want this and we stop him.
We control his thinking.
We don't let him move forward.
Many times people say,
Child, don't think like this, you can't get this thing.
And the parents say in front,
You are poor, think.
I don't say that the parent who is saying this is at fault.
He has lived his life in that circle.
He has suffered for 24 hours.
So that thing will come out as a result in his thinking and
speech.
That is fine.
I am not telling the present to not live.
Your life will be more fruitful.
But don't live only in the present.
Plan for the future too.
It is necessary to develop a growing mindset.
Because until that doesn't happen, the future planning
won't happen.
You won't be able to move forward.
If you say so, you will remain where you are.
You want to remain where your parents started from.
At least think that your parents started from a worse
condition than you.
They are giving you a better environment than you.
So at least give your child something better than that.
So, try to do something more better.
Believe me, if you try, you will be able to do it.
It is possible.
It is absolutely possible.
You will definitely be able to do it.
But when will you be able to do it?
When you will try.
So just I am talking about your effort, which you have to
do, and convert it into a result. Now it is up to you,
whether you try or not.
If you want to get result, you try, you do.
Believe me, if you try and do, you can do.
Yes, you can.
In the next video, I am going to talk something more
different.
So far, whatever you have learnt, try to implement these
things in your life.
This is very crucial, very, very, very, very much crucial.
Just start doing.
Start implementing.
Till you are not implementing, there is no benefit in it.
If you keep it properly, things get spoiled.
Similarly, your knowledge will also get spoiled.
There is no use.
Till you don't implement it, the world will not know, how
you will get its benefit.
First use it for yourself.
Only when the world gets its benefit, you will get your
benefit.
Just start implementing these all things for you.
Try, you can do.
Yes, you can.
Remember to spread the word to all my friends.