Hello everybody
Good afternoon to all of you.
This is Vineet Gautam your coach your trainer and
Today I'm going to talk about a very very crucial topic
about which
I'm already talking
since some videos
I'm going to talk that is very very crucial and that is
crucial not only for
Professionals But that is crucial for social person.
That is crucial for
Personal life also.
Yes, I'm talking about the emotional intelligence
Yes
Its very important to understand your emotions.
If you are happy, why?
If you are sad, why?
But why?
When you don't know about your emotions, how will you be
able to judge other people's emotions?
You won't be able to do that.
What is emotional intelligence skill?
You have to understand your emotions.
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or professional life, everything will be right.
Because he will already be aware of the situation.
This is another thing that in today's environment, he wants
to make his friend say, if you need anything, just say it.
Until he says, he wants to make himself look big and
himself look small.
Because this is the age of Kali.
The habits of 56 have come.
This is why this age is going on.
This should not happen in reality.
This is the first level.
The second level is that I am coming down from above.
This is the top level that the shopkeeper told you.
The third level is that the person in front of you knows
your needs, emotions, poverty, helplessness.
He is laughing behind you.
When you say, I needed so much money, then he is counting
the money that he has put down with your entry.
But what does he say?
Oh man, you are a little late in saying.
I have just paid someone.
If you had told me two days ago, then I would have given
you 100,000.
This is the third level, which is the majority.
So the reality is that whatever you do, it will happen with
you.
It is not that he is making fun of his friend like this.
The wheel of time keeps spinning, my friend.
And whatever you have done with time, that thing is going
to come back to you.
Today you did it with someone else.
Tomorrow someone else will do it with you.
He will definitely do it.
This is the time.
He will definitely settle his account.
People say that there is no time for good.
Yes, there is.
If there was no time for good, if everything was about good
and bad, then the world would have turned upside down.
If there is salvation, then along with bad people, there
are good people and good people.
That is why there is a balance.
Otherwise, the situation would have turned upside down.
So my friends,
I just want to say that this is the skill, the emotional
intelligence, the emotional quotient.
Most of the dealing, whether it is personal, social or
professional.
I am talking about the professional deal also here.
I have already told you in the video.
You see the advertisement.
The prestige cooker.
It shows all the qualities.
The logic is not working.
The last tagline.
Emotional.
Those who love their wives, how can they refuse the
prestige?
Is this a logical statement?
No.
It is emotional.
You have maintained the quality.
You have given everything.
You have priced it.
You have made it logical.
Still, in the end, why did you need to put an emotional
tagline?
Do you understand?
Look at the advertisement of Basmati India Get Rice.
The ladies are taking Basmati rice openly.
The actor asks,
Madam, why open Basmati rice?
Are you taking Basmati rice?
Yes, mother-in-law has come.
Oh, you want that your mother-in-law does not come to you
anymore?
She says, no.
I love my mother-in-law very much.
Then why open Basmati rice?
Basmati rice, no compromise.
If you love your mother-in-law, then why do you refuse
India Get Basmati rice?
Again, emotional deal.
So, that actor, he is going to become very much popular. He
is becoming very popular.
You must have seen the milk bikkis.
He has come to drop his son at school.
A lady's son is eating normal biscuits.
He says,
Madam, Mr.
Tinku's school is international.
Racket.
What is the matter?
Everything is so advanced.
Why are these biscuits normal?
Again, emotional deal.
The biscuit is also international.
Britannia Milk Biscuit is international.
So, it means, wherever you are intending to win, what is
your need there?
Make an emotional deal.
Manage your emotions.
Understand the other person's emotions.
How? You can influence other people's emotions.
When Modi ji, our Prime Minister of India, when he starts
dealing with the public,
and when he says,
My family, do you understand? In this one word, what
emotional touch, this vibration is going on.
You know, if I say as a mind coach, whatever you say, your
affirmation, its vibration is going towards the other
person, towards the universe. And the way the waves are
going, you are pulling it.
When you send emotional waves, then people's emotions will
also come to you.
Yes.
So, how many statements have you seen?
You praise,
Engineers,
Engineers, Scientists, Contractors, everyone does it.
But the laborers, the cleaners, no one does it.
No one asks them.
Modi ji, he sits with them.
He doesn't make them sit, he washes their feet.
He sits with them and eats.
He leaves the chair and sits with them.
This is
BJP has won in one state a few months ago when they did not
talk about AVM.
In these three states, Congress won with a very nominal
margin five years ago.
In one state, BJP had more vote share but Congress got more
seats.
In one state, BJP did not talk about AVM.
But now, when BJP is losing in these three states, they
have started questioning AVM even before the declaration.
Actually, this is the difference of opinion.
They also feel that they are playing an emotional game.
They are giving the right message to their workers.
Why did we lose? Because of AVM.
And why did we win?
We did not talk about AVM then.
So, this is emotional intelligence.
You are in need to understand the importance of this.
It is very important for you to understand its importance.
If you understand it and execute it, you can take maximum
benefit of it.
Emotional intelligence, ability to understand and manage
your own emotions.
As well as recognize and influence the emotions of those
around you.
As well as recognize and influence the emotions of those
around you.
I have told you this in detail before.
These are the core components of emotional intelligence.
You can use it in maximum way.
And when you use it, you will be able to do your maximum
work.
The result will go in your favor.
What are the five core components?
Empathy, social skills, self-awareness, self-regulation,
and motivation.
These are the five core components.
I have talked about it many times.
And I am still doing it.
Because I know that once you understand it, you will not be
able to do your work.
Until you start executing it.
Until you start implementing it.
Once you start implementing it, your work will start
getting done.
Your work will start getting done.
Start playing the emotional card.
Emotional card.
Think about your emotions.
Develop the power to use it in a positive way.
Understand the emotions of the other person.
The day you start doing this,
I will tell you a sentence.
A practical example.
I used to take a communication skill session.
I will tell you about a class.
There was a 16-17 year old girl.
I used to see her in the class.
She used to be quiet.
I used to notice that she was sitting.
Her attention was elsewhere.
I used to ask her after the class, Do you want to say
something?
She used to say no.
And she used to leave with the rest of the students.
But I used to feel that something is going on in her mind
that she wants to share with someone. I used to ask her
everyday.
Because I used to feel that
Do you want to say something?
She used to say no.
The day you feel that you want to share something and you
can trust me, then you can share.
I will try my best to give you the right guidelines.
And I assure you that you can trust me.
After 4-5 days, she asked me one day
Sir, I want to talk to you.
I said yes, go ahead.
Let's sit in the office.
I used to feel that.
Then she said that if someone forcibly builds a house on
someone's house, suppose the ground floor is yours and your
neighbor starts building a house on your house, what can
you do?
When a 16-17 year old girl asked such a question,
I had a belief that there is a big problem in her mind.
It got worse.
I told her to contact a lawyer.
Take a stay.
There are lawyers in my session.
I will introduce you to one of them.
You can take a stay.
She started feeling relaxed.
Then she left.
I told her that if anything happens, you can tell me
without hesitation.
After a few days, when the class was over, she sat alone in
the class.
I asked her if she wanted to ask me anything.
She said, Sir, I want to talk to you.
If you give me some time.
I agreed.
Let's sit in the office.
When I sat in the office, she told me her story.
I told her the story for 10-15 days.
Her trust slowly built up.
In reality, she did not want to discuss her story with
anyone in the world. She was scared.
She was scared of everyone.
Why? Listen to the rest of the story.
Today I have put a quote on my status that many diseases
can be cured not only by medicines but also by asking how
are you?
Even by patting on the shoulder you get a lot of courage
and this is the importance of gratitude which is a major
part of emotional intelligence and no one can deny its
importance
I told him that before you tell your story, tell me why you
agreed to tell your story He said clearly that 10 days ago
he didn't have trust
I didn't know you but for 10 days you kept asking me and
only you kept asking
There were other people in my class
I was looking and thinking like everyone else but no one
could see me sad
How could you see in my eyes?
How could you read my face?
So I felt that this person is a true human being
He is a sensible person, he understands me and I needed
someone like him because what was going on inside me is now
impossible to stop
Listen to the story
He has 3 sisters
He has a younger sister
He has 3 sisters
He has 3 children
His uncle killed his father for money because he had a lot
of property
I am telling you this story more than 15 years ago and at
that time he had a lot of property
Today we can count this in billions
His own brother killed his father and in that grief his
mother also died
He was born and his parents died
His aunt raised him but people accused him of being a bad
person
His parents died as soon as he was born
Just like our society does
What is his fault in that?
But he was slapped
He was scared of strangers because when he grew up he came
to know that his uncle killed his father for money
Just think what an innocent child must have gone through
and how can he trust anyone in this world
In his name he bought 50 acres of land
The building he was talking about
Dehradun In the main city there was a 500 acre house next
to it was his uncle's house which was covering both the
first floor and his house
At that time in his account he was talking about 1.5 to 2
crore rupees
15 to 20 years ago today you can say it is 1.5 to 2 crore
rupees
He owned this much property
But he was scared of everyone
He used to think that when his own brother killed his
father and his brother killed his brother then his uncle
will kill me
He used to think that he used to be scared of anyone who
was after my life
In this situation he trusted me because for 10 to 15 days
I kept giving him gratitude
I kept giving him emotional touch
I kept giving him gratitude
That is why his self belief developed that this person is
trustworthy and he told me the whole story
I asked him why don't you marry someone because your
sisters got married and his in-laws handed over his share
of property
He was unmarried and most of the people had taken 50 acres
of his land
He was not living in a bungalow and his uncle had taken it
He had a balance in the bank and he was scared that no one
will kill him
He used to think that he will get a lot of people to marry
but they will marry my property and after giving me their
property they will kill me
He was so scared
But despite being so scared he married me because he was
sure
He was sure because of emotional touch the gesture the
gratitude I showed him
I am telling you this story to tell you the importance of
emotional intelligence
This emotional touch can save someone's life I will tell
you a story later She came here from Dehradun
She used to live with her uncle Her aunt was jealous of her
because her aunt was not in a good condition
She was not in a good condition
She was from a lower middle class family
She had so much property
She was jealous of her
She used to taunt her
She wanted her to get married soon
She was always annoyed with her
She used to taunt her like the world used to taunt her that
she ate her parents as soon as she was born
So then I remembered you and then I felt that there is a
person who understands me, understands my pain.
God has sent one such person in touch with me.
I will at least share this opinion once and then I will
take such a step or I will do what he says.
This is exactly the importance.
She is not in touch with me now.
She stayed in touch with me for a few days.
I tried to make her understand.
She used to say, sir, get me a job here.
I said, I will get you a job, what will be the condition of
living?
She said, sir, do anything.
But nothing could be done.
She had to go.
She was crying uncontrollably.
She was not ready to go.
She said, I have found a person whom I can trust.
I think my decision was wrong.
I should have done something for him at that time.
I don't know now.
I had sent him a diary.
Whenever you get such a feeling, like committing suicide,
then note it down, write it down.
When we talk on the phone, share it.
But don't take such a reverse action.
I don't know where he is now.
In what condition he is.
I tried to get to know his uncle's family many times.
But you know, in this society, no one accepts the
relationship of girls and boys.
No one believes it.
You have empathy, but no one believes it.
You can see it with your own eyes.
His uncle's family told me about him.
But they didn't tell me anything about him.
I still remember him.
I remember him a lot.
Even today, I pray to God for him.
I pray to my Guruji that wherever he is, keep him happy,
keep him safe. I am not praising myself.
I just want to tell this story that how trust is built up.
No one in the world has faith in it.
But the gesture of 10-15 days.
What do we do?
We do it for 1-2 days, then we ask, and then we step back.
I am talking about any kind of success.
I told you about the law of attraction.
We do affirmations for 1-2 days, then we step back and
accept that this work has not been done.
Like I said, you set the thermometer for 1 minute, then it
shows your temperature.
You set it for 30 seconds and take it out.
You do this 10 times.
It cannot show your temperature.
And you say that this temperature is not showing.
Many times people say that it is not successful, my luck is
bad, this thermometer is bad,
God has made my luck like this, in such a caste, in such a
place, in such a society, by giving birth to me, he made my
birth right.
We keep thinking about many things.
But we never paid attention that the thermometer has to be
kept for 1 minute.
I am not talking about 1 minute.
I am talking about if I had stopped asking for 1-2 days to
do any work, then as she is saying, if I had stopped asking
for 1-2 days, then I would have also said that this is also
like others.
But because I kept asking for 10 days in a row, and I am
also saying to her that you used to ask only me in the
whole class, not anyone else.
And no one else used to ask me.
So both things are unique.
This means you are understanding my emotions, that is why
I was able to trust you.
So, I just want to say that you understand the real
situation, understand your emotions, learn to manage them,
along with understanding other people's emotions, and
influencing them.
Influence on other people's emotions comes under
stress-tolerant skills.
When she had taken a negative decision that I will jump
into the drain and die, but because of her decision and
emotions, my words had an influence because of which when
she saw the board of my institute, she thought that I will
not take action on this
decision and I will not commit suicide.
I will talk to my boss and share this with him.
I will do as he says.
So, this is the thing that you understand your emotions
because until you understand your emotions and learn to
manage them, you will not be able to understand other
people's emotions, manage them, and influence them. And
here your emotional intelligence
skills will be deficient.
Means, you are not perfect in emotional intelligence skills
which is very crucial.
And I am telling you that I accept my mistakes and I should
have helped her.
Sometimes God keeps such situations in front of you.
If you are capable, then definitely help her.
God knows that you had an opportunity in that problem. If I
add one thing, she was crying and saying to marry me. I was
not married at that moment.
She was saying, if you are not interested in property, then
I will donate everything but please marry me.
The only one person in this world upon whom I can trust.
She used to hug me and cry and shout like a mad person but
still
I did not accept because of the society's customs.
I am very sorry about this. I will never recommend anyone
to have such a situation.
In that problem it was for me too.
If I would have been a millionaire and her life would have
been safe then it would have been great.
I don't know where she is now and in what situation.
I still feel sad for her.
I feel sad for her.
Many a times God gives you such opportunities that you miss
them.
You are not able to grab the opportunity.
Then you have to repent for years.
You have to repent only.
Take the right decision.
I am not recommending the inter-caste marriage or something
else.
I have nothing to do with this.
But if you feel better, then there is nothing wrong in
doing this.
This society will accept you sooner or later.
You are in need to take the action.
You should take the action.
Here actually I am talking about these points.
What is empathy?
I am coming to the point.
I have discussed many points with you.
Start listening to others more without interrupting.
This is a very important point of emotional intelligence.
Mostly we keep talking but do not listen to others.
Whenever there is a situation of disagreement, try to keep
yourself in other's place and understand his point of view.
Then you will be able to control the situation.
Recognize and show your appreciation for your team members.
Be open to sharing your feelings where appropriate.
Wherever you feel it is necessary, do share it.
Wherever you feel appropriate time and appropriate person,
do share it.
This was his bad luck that I did not support him.
I regret that.
I will not recommend anyone to not support in such a
situation.
You must support him.
This will change his situation.
And maybe your luck will also change.
Today I am not a normal trainer.
Maybe I have a big business personality.
Today I am not in lakhs.
Maybe I am playing in crores.
And most importantly, the person whose faith I had won,
today she is with me.
She is my own.
I used to get a lot of peace.
When I used to comfort her, her eyes used to shine with my
comfort.
She used to feel so happy.
She used to feel so secure.
I am requesting to all of you,
If you are going to get any situation like this,
you should be able to help someone.
And as I say, and as a fact, in such a typical situation,
if you are able to help someone, then God forbid, if such a
situation arises with you, then someone or the other will
be able to help you.
Because in that account, your credit is entering.
The bank may give you a loan, but they will not do that.
They will return you with interest.
Volunteer for a role in a worthy cause.
Some good deeds.
As I said, this will also be a good deed. If somebody is in
need, and you are helping him, then do it. Practice loving,
kindness, meditation, and mindfulness.
Love and kindness.
Kindness is that thing, which as a human being, it is your
duty to be kind to others.
If you do not have this thing, then you should not call
yourself a human being. Many times you think, why should I
help him?
Why should I be kind to him?
Then I answer, Why should you help him or be kind to him?
Because you are in that situation right now.
He has made you worthy enough to help or be kind to him. If
he has not kept you in this situation, that you can help or
be kind to someone, then what will you do?
For that, it is a shocking thing, that today he has made
you worthy enough to help, tomorrow he will put you in a
situation where you will ask for help.
Today you are in a situation where you can be kind to
someone.
Tomorrow you will know that you will be worthy of kindness.
Then what will you do?
For that, whenever you ask yourself, why should I help
someone?
Why should I be kind to someone?
Then the answer is, you are worthy enough to help.
And if you think that you are worthy enough because of
yourself, then remove this misunderstanding.
Because he has made you worthy enough to help right now.
And if you are not doing that work, then he will not leave
you worthy enough to help someone or to be kind to someone.
Then when you, when you need help or need kindness from
someone, then the other person will not be kind to you and
no one will help you.
Because when you were in a position to help, then you did
not help.
My friends, understand this point very carefully.
I am talking about the professional life.
Whether you are a senior or a junior, whenever you are in a
situation to help someone, even if it is a small help, then
do it.
If such a situation is coming in front of you, then you
should understand that
God is giving you a chance to do good to someone.
Do not miss it.
Do it. Get a credit entry in your account, because today
you are in this situation.
Get your entry done today.
You don't know whether you are in a position to help
tomorrow or not.
Then you will not be able to do it even if you want to.
And if the situation gets worse, when you will need help
from someone else, and you didn't help anyone in your good
days, then don't expect anything from anyone.
Mostly this question comes in today's situation, in today's
environment, this question definitely comes.
Before doing anything bad to someone, no one thinks why
should I do bad to him.
But before doing good to someone, before doing good to
someone, we ask ourselves ten times, why should I do good
to him?
Should I do good because you are in a position to do good,
and because of his goodness.
Then do it.
Tomorrow he will take you out of this situation, and you
will be in a position to help him.
When you will be asking for help from someone else, when
you will be in a position to show mercy, then what will you
do?
If you are so proud that it won't happen, then even Ravan
was not proud.
Triloka, Vijay, Ravan, in the end, they were all in the
dust.
No one was proud.
If you look at today's practical life, Vijay Mallya, the
one who lived a more luxurious life than kings, became
Diwali, became Bhagwada,
Anil Ambani, there are many more people,
I am talking about today's practical life.
Our Ashram Bapu, if he has a follower, he should not feel
bad.
I just want to say, what good days have he not seen? So
many people's grace, faith, service, such a luxurious life.
But what is today?
That is why, if the time is good,
God has given good days, then use that good day.
Use that good day.
Don't misuse it.
Don't remain neutral.
I remained neutral in my situation.
Maybe because of that,
I have gone through a lot.
Since then, in my life.
I have gone through so many ups and downs, what can I say?
Later, great astrologers said, that was your peak time.
If you had been married at that time, then the bad time
that came in between, would not have come.
Because your peak time was down, but his peak time was up.
Because of his luck, you would have been dominating from
above.
Believe it or not, these things do happen.
They do happen.
Those who don't believe, are good with them too.
Before Mukesh Ambani,
Anil Ambani used to say, but today Anil Ambani is nowhere,
and Mukesh Ambani is everywhere. An artist like Amitabh
Bachchan, used to be a superstar of big screen at one time.
A time came, that he was going to be auctioned off his
house. He was drowning in debt.
How did he manage to get out?
Because he understood the bitter truth of the world, the
situation of the planet, he still has the blue sapphire in
his hand.
This is honesty, what else is there? Time did not spare
such people.
If we go back to our stories, Ramchandra was wandering in
the jungles, barefoot, those were the days.
If we talk about the traditional story,
King Harishchandra,
King Harishchandra, was working as a doormat in the
graveyard.
And look at the bad situation, his son comes back dead, his
wife is bringing him back, she does not even have clothes
to bury him. But the doormat has been banned.
He is not a doormat, he is a servant of the doormat.
Without a shroud, he took the charge of the graveyard, he
will not let him be buried.
He is forced to tear off his sari.
Time has shown such a situation.
So if someone has the courage, that whoever I am, it is
because of me, why should I help someone, why should I show
mercy to someone, then do not be in this state.
Today is a good day.
In the light of the day, do something good, earn some
credit.
Because if today is a day, then tomorrow night will also be
there.
So for the darkness of the night, arrange for a bulb.
Arrange for a bulb.
Light, at least you will get life, not like the religion,
but in the light, the light of the night will also come out.
You will be able to cut the darkness of the night.
Otherwise, the pain of darkness is very painful.
The situation will be very painful.
So whenever, before helping someone, you think, why should
I help him, why should I show mercy to him, then just
think, that I will help him, because I am a servant of the
doormat.
I will help him, because I am able to help him.
I will show mercy to him, because I am able to show mercy
to him.
And this is by his grace.
Otherwise, it will not take him a minute, to remove you
from the state of a helper,
and make you stand in the line of a helper.
Remove you from the state of a helper, and make you stand
in front of him, and make you stand in front of him.
And then, no one will help you.
Because the way you are thinking, being here, that why
should I help, those people will also think the same, and
will definitely think, because the way you did, you will
get the same. This is the practical part of the emotional
intelligence,
I am talking about.
I am now, calling this emotional intelligence, a spiritual
touch.
I am connecting it to you, and making it clear.
Not only being emotional, but also managing yourself
emotionally, helping others, influencing others, showing
gestures, all these things are necessary.
I am talking about working with emotions.
Being emotional, and getting trapped, I am not talking
about getting trapped.
So, whatever situation you are in, if you are in a position
to do something, then do it.
Do it for sure.
Otherwise, I don't know, whether you will get this chance
or not.
Work on your body language, and reading that of others.
Make your body language, positive, understand it, gesture,
posture, body language, eye contact, sitting style, moving
style.
What does it mean?
It means that I judged the girl's big language, eye
expression, face expression, that something is going on in
her mind, she is in pain, I was able to do this only when I
consider my own emotions in such a situation.
So you judge your big language, assess it, many times you
also probably judge your big language.
So you judge your big language, assess it, many times you
will also be in problem, so others will be able to
understand your big language by judging it.
And try to read other people's big language so that you can
understand how they are feeling or how they are feeling.
Maybe she needs it.
I am telling you about 3 days ago, I was going to drop my
child to school, it was a walking distance from my house,
my daughter.
A young girl was standing on the road, I was walking and
she was looking at me very carefully.
I did not understand what she was looking at, but she was
looking at my pocket.
I understood that she needed something.
I asked her, yes, tell me.
She said, sir, I need a mobile phone, I do not have a
mobile phone.
I am going to get a bus to college, but I am getting late.
Are you coming or not?
I had to call and confirm.
Yes, it was a simple thing.
Thousands of people are going from that road, but you can
trust anyone.
Actually, bad luck, I did not have a mobile phone at home.
My school children were nearby.
So I left without a mobile phone.
It was a two-minute walk.
There was a vendor selling biryani in front of me.
I asked him to go from there.
He is not going.
He is already standing there, but he is not going to ask
for a mobile phone.
See, trust.
Not everyone trusts anyone.
He sees in the eyes, who can I trust.
Some people take advantage of it.
I said, I am standing here, he knows me.
You go, I will talk to him.
Then she is looking back, she is going.
She hesitated, I said, go, I will talk to him.
She went there.
I said, give this girl a mobile phone, she will call.
She calls and takes it.
I am leaving the child at school in two minutes.
I asked, did you get the mobile phone?
He said, yes, sir, it's done, the bus is coming, thank you.
The mobile phone was not mine.
But I stood up for a minute.
His work was done, I did not have it.
So nothing goes in this.
But you don't do this much.
What do I do?
Why should I do?
Thinking like this.
He has kept you in that situation.
Be grateful for it.
Otherwise, tomorrow you will also be in this situation.
You will definitely be in this situation.
Because day and night are different.
Time is not the same for everyone.
If you have not done it in your good days, then you cannot
expect it in your bad days.
So, show gesture, show gratitude.
Emotional touch, compassion, help, mercy.
As much as possible.
Dissolve all the emotional intelligence skill.
Emotional quotient.
Know your emotions, understand, manage, use positively.
Use in a productive way, not destructive.
Know and understand the emotions of the other person.
Help him.
Influence him.
I told you, right?
The influence of thoughts is that the other person wants to
discuss with you before committing suicide.
But if you have so much faith, this faith is made with
great difficulty.
It is made by a lot of effort.
Whether it is someone from the previous life or someone
close to you, whenever someone can have so much faith.
If someone is separated from you, then don't break the
faith.
We don't know, but he is sitting there, he is the one who
unites the two separated people.
And then you think about the small rituals of the society,
traditions, caste, and leave them. Don't leave them.
It is very painful.
The one who you leave, you will also leave him later, as I
have been doing till now. I have been doing.
By thanking God, because he has made you capable that you
are able to help someone, you are able to have mercy on
someone.
Don't keep ego in yourself.
Thank him, that he has made you capable.
As a human being, just start doing.
You can do.
You can.
Count me in.
I'll make sure to spread the word to all my friends.