Hello everybody good evening to all of you this is Vineet
Gautam your coach your trainer
and today i'm here to talk to you on very crucial topic in
the personality development section
as a motivational speaker how to create the positive
attitude in yourself
How to create the positive attitude in yourself
In that you lost your job in everything
Now what are you thinking?
Is your luck bad?
Did you face a lot of bad things?
What will happen to your family?
What will happen to this? What will happen to that?
What will happen to my circle? What will happen to me?
You started crying
Or You thought
If I lost my job
I will get a better job
God has thought something better for me that's why
I lost my job
If your girlfriend leaves you
What do you think?
My bad day has started
My girlfriend is leaving me
I'm in a bad situation
Whatever it is
It may be
Something was going wrong
I'm trying to get better than her This is the way to think
How do you think ?
I wrote a statement here
My loved ones pushed me to drown
My loved ones pushed me to drown to drown but it helped that
I learnt to swim
My loved ones pushed me to drown but it helped that
I learnt to swim learn how to swim.
God wants you to learn how to swim.
learn how to swim.
God wants you to learn how to swim. God wants you to learn
how to swim.
God wants you to learn how to swim. God wants you to learn
how to swim.
God wants you to learn how to swim.
God wants
you to learn how to swim.
God wants you to learn how to swim.
God wants you to learn
I am talking about the top faculties in swimming.
Yes, I did it. I learned swimming.
In the process of learning swimming, I took many different
trainings.
I took training sessions for advanced mind mastery.
I took corporate training.
I took for soft skills also, for advanced level.
See, you always have to keep updating yourself in the
training industry.
The biggest thing is that the things that used to go on in
the mind,
I used to think what is it, what is it, what is it, I never
noted it.
When I started noting myself, now today I am an author also.
I have my books on learning attitude on corporate training.
As a life coach, on life skills, I have my book ready on
you can do.
Yes, I am writing a spiritual book also.
With Guruji's permission.
That is also in process.
Slowly, but it is in process.
Yes, in between I can say that I lost my father.
But I have no role in it.
This is destiny. What has to happen, has to happen.
But before leaving, Papa also told me that you have to do
this.
You leave everything in between.
You don't have to leave it in between.
This is your dream.
You do this.
You will fulfill this dream.
Where you will enjoy.
I like this training industry.
When I take session for training, I forget to eat and drink.
I don't look at the time.
I like it. I enjoy it.
After solving other's problem, I get a lot of peace and
happiness.
When other's problem is solved, I get a lot of peace and
happiness.
I like this.
I like the blessings that come from others.
So, before leaving, Papa also told me not to leave anything
in between.
This was his dream.
This was his last wish.
I am trying to fulfill his last wish.
I am trying.
I am writing a book in his memory.
I am writing a book.
It is a sad book.
But, there is a lot of change in the last one year.
So, my dear ones, those people, even after visiting the
site 3 times,
I said yes.
When I went inside, took all the furniture, site,
everything, then pulled my legs back, trapped me, it is
clear that I pushed myself to drown.
But, the benefit was that
I learnt to swim.
Today, in my field, in my training industry, successfully I
am doing.
As a corporate trainer, I am working.
As a soft skill trainer, I am working.
As a life coach, I am working.
As a motivational speaker, I am working.
I am recording.
I have recorded around 500 videos.
Yes.
I am coming on a big level, on a brand level.
I am going to launch.
Yes, my books are ready.
I have a lot of volumes under process.
Going on.
So, so much within a year.
So, friends,
I want to tell you all, that if someone pushed you to
drown, then don't worry.
Your job goes, your people leave you.
Your girlfriend left you.
Don't commit suicide.
Don't be sad.
Don't repent.
You think that
God is thinking something better for you.
It is said that a diamond needs a lot of hard work to
become a diamond.
It is crushed a lot.
Yes, I remember, once I went to my Guruji's Ashram.
And that day, I was so determined that I want this thing
today.
I have complete faith that my Guruji can do anything.
He can even cut the Brahma's writing.
This is my complete faith.
So, I was so determined on this faith that I want that
thing today.
I had stopped eating and drinking.
It was a very tight schedule.
I was not able to meet him.
Everyone was saying,
What are you doing?
You are not drinking tea or water.
You are not eating anything.
What is this?
Very tight.
But I decided.
I did.
I remember that day.
Even after such a tight schedule, the Namdaan was going on.
I was tired.
It was evening.
I went upstairs.
Everyone said,
You will not come now.
You are resting.
You are tired.
After 10 minutes, he came down.
He shouted,
Guruji is coming.
He came till there.
And answered his questions.
I have many children.
I was so determined.
I was so determined that I want this thing today.
My children,
If you have so much faith in your Guru, then your Guru is
so capable of maintaining this faith, that whatever you are
asking for today, he will give it to you right now.
But if you have faith in your Guru, then give him some time.
You go to the vegetable market, to buy tomatoes,
vegetables, brinjals, potatoes, onions.
You go to 4 shops and see.
After that, you judge where to buy from and how to buy.
Let me judge a little.
Is what you are demanding really worth it?
Or you deserve to get something more better, different?
If you have faith, then wait.
I am remembering that day today.
We cannot see it, but he can see everything.
Before and after.
Next life, last life, what is going to happen in the future.
I am really very, very happy.
That is why, friends,
I want to tell you all, nothing to worry about what is
going with you in your life today.
If something bad is happening, then you go into this
negative zone.
That bad things are happening to me.
My luck is bad.
You blame God too.
Some people blame themselves, blame the situation, blame
God.
But they are the ones who are successful.
Those who find the right path even in that situation.
Yes.
They find the right path.
For the right path.
This statement says, my loved ones pushed me to drown.
But the benefit was that I learned to swim.
Yes, my loved ones pushed me thinking this.
It does happen.
What did God do?
God said, until you push him.
When a bird gets a little older, a little, then the bird
itself pushes it from its nest.
To drown.
But the result of pushing is that it learns to fly.
It learns to fly.
So many times, you should not think negatively, but think
positively.
Because until you are pushed, the bird will not learn to
fly.
Until you are pushed, you will not learn to swim.
Until you are pushed for struggle in this life, you are not
going to create anything new.
Until the seed is buried in the ground, it will not grow.
Yes.
Until the child is buried in the mother's womb for 9
months, in the dark, until the child is buried, there is no
new life.
So, transformations do not come in an easy way.
The process of transformation is not easy.
It is a very tough process.
It is a tough process.
So, get ready, mentally prepare yourself to get yourself
transformed.
If you want to do something amazing, different, if you are
ready for transformation, then only you will be transformed.
The stone that is not ready to bear the pain of a hammer,
that stone can never become a statue.
So, for transformation, you have to bear the pain of a
hammer. Otherwise, one more thing, if you are not ready to
bear the pain of a hammer, then after today, be ready to
bear the pain of a hammer forever.
Let me give you an example.
When the sculptor started carving a stone, the stone could
not bear the pain. The stone said, I have a dream, that I
do not want to become a statue.
Look, I am not talking about the stone. When something bad
happens to you, you are tortured, you are trained, you are
not given time, you are not given work, you surrender that
you do not want to be transformed.
The stone said,
I do not want to become a statue,
I cannot bear the pain.
He tried on another statue, but he asked, are you ready to
bear the pain of a hammer?
The stone said, yes, I am ready.
The statue became ready.
The temple people came to take the statue.
They said, we will establish the statue.
Then they looked at the stone.
They said, take this stone too.
Why? The statue was established there, which will be
worshipped.
Look, the one who is ready for transformation, who is ready
to bear the pain, his worship will definitely happen today
or tomorrow.
But the one who is not ready to bear the pain, that stone,
the stone who was not ready to bear the pain, the hammer,
they brought that too.
And it was placed in the feet of that statue.
And what happened to it?
Hundreds of coconuts were broken every day.
Today, when it is time for transformation, you have moved
back.
You are not ready to bear that pain.
It is time for exams, it is time for studies.
I am talking about students.
Today, you have moved back from bearing the pain.
So, get ready to bear the pain for the rest of your life.
Get ready to bear the pain for the rest of your life.
Yes.
And now, it is time for studies, it is time for struggles.
If you bear the pain for a few days, then you will become
so much better, that you will also enjoy your life.
The world will support, salute, worship.
Otherwise, you will become like that stone, on which
coconuts will be broken for the rest of your life.
And, if you could not bear the pain of a few days, then
now, you have to bear the pain of coconuts for the rest of
your life.
Yes.
This is the life.
So, be positive, about yourself.
Whatever the negative is going to happen with you, it does
not mean, that your luck is bad.
You should blame yourself, blame your luck, blame God.
It is better, that you, look at the positive part of it.
The seed, which is lying outside, enjoying, no one is
asking.
But, the seed, a mother, says,
Like a seed goes to the soil and stays in the dark
Similarly, a mother, a girl, in the process of becoming a
mother, endures a lot of pain
but gives birth to a new life, she also has a new birth and
then the respect she gets as a mother a mother, mother is
that word which gave birth to a new life only a mother can
do this, only a girl can do this
You cannot understand that feeling how much pain she endures
You tie a 5 kg stone here adjust it for 2-4 hours you will
know how much pain she has to endure while walking,
walking, getting up, sitting and she continues to endure
this pain for the next 9 months
Until the positivity is not there that I will become a
mother, I will become a mother inside you are kicking you
are thinking, let me kick you let me come out, I will pull
your ears pull my ears, what?
You continue to walk on the path of success in that hope
that one day I will achieve it then I will enjoy it hope is
life, hope is life so be positive nothing to worry about a
negative part if the time, the situation, the people are
pushing you to drown
if people are doing this to you
assume that they are doing this to you for whom? they want
to do a new transformation on you and you just get ready to
get that transformed form your image get ready for that so
nothing to worry you friends, get ready your loved ones
pushed me to drown
the benefit is that I learnt to swim are you ready to swim?
or are you ready to fight those who push you to drown?
don't waste time on fighting learn to swim move ahead who
will you fight? there is no benefit the time is the same
your hands, legs, brain
is the same instead of wasting time on fighting learn to
swim swim and move ahead the people who push you will come
after you yes, they will come so nothing to worry think
positive be positive do something different and become
something different an example
for the whole life for the whole world yes, and believe
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