Hello everybody, good evening to all of you. This is Vineet
Gautam, your coach, your trainer.
And today, I am going to talk something which is related to
the life of everybody.
Whatever you are, in whichever profession you are, you can
be a student, a homemaker, a professional, or maybe this
thing you can judge in your relationship.
It is said that bad times are inevitable because only then
you will know who is with you and who is not.
Simply put, in bad times, who is with you and who is giving
you knowledge.
I have already told you not to do this, you will end up
like this. You are not listening to me.
You are not supporting me. You are giving me knowledge. You
are making fun of me.
So, bad times are inevitable. Lean patch.
In order to identify yourself as a human being.
Because you are not trusting such people who are not
supporting you in your bad times, but only giving you
knowledge.
And at that time, you need support and support.
Bad times are inevitable because only then you will know
who is with you and who is giving you knowledge.
This is the thing actually I am talking about.
Whatever you are, it can be in the life of anybody, the
lean patch.
Bad times can happen at any phase. It is possible.
I am talking about your sales professionals, HR
professionals, marketing professionals, doctors, engineers,
lawyers.
There are ups and downs in your professional life.
Now the question is, who is supporting you at that time?
And who is making fun of you?
Or who is giving you knowledge?
You will know this.
And you need to assess this thing in detail.
Assess this thing in detail and finalize your list.
I am talking about an experience based list.
Sorry, actually I am not feeling well.
I am talking about an experience based list.
Finalize this list.
Who is going through what kind of situation?
And do this thing.
Do it on a serious note.
I was just using the sanitizer.
It is very important to be careful.
When you make a list of your friends, If you are in an
office,
If you don't want to get cheated on the spot,
Then make a list of your friends.
And make a list of good people based on your experience.
Who is supporting you?
And who is not supporting you?
Ok.
You feel,
And let me tell you one thing,
The people who are supporting you,
They mostly don't talk sweet to you.
Those people talk sweet to you,
Who don't want to support you on the spot,
They just want to take advantage of you.
You are in a misunderstanding.
And you are being used.
They respect you.
They don't respect you.
They use you.
And those people who use you,
They will never support you when you are in a bad situation.
Let me tell you a small story.
A husband and wife went to visit a Jew.
In Chidiyagad.
They saw a monkey loving his wife.
The wife told her husband to learn something from the
monkey.
The monkey loved his wife so much.
The husband didn't say anything.
They went ahead.
When they reached the lion's den,
They saw the lion sitting there.
The lioness was sitting there.
The wife said,
Look at the lion.
He is just like you.
The wife was sitting there.
The husband said,
Will you do something?
Take a stone and hit the lioness.
But first, let's hit the monkey.
The husband hit the monkey with a stone.
The monkey ran away instead of saving the lioness.
The husband hit the lioness with a stone.
The lion was sitting far away.
The husband hit the lioness with a stone.
The lioness jumped and came towards the lioness.
If there was no fence in between, The lioness would have
attacked the lioness.
The husband said,
It is different to love in a normal condition.
It is different to support in a bad time.
This disease, this emotion is not for everyone.
I am saying that, It is necessary to come in a bad time.
Only then you will know, Who supports you and who doesn't.
In a normal condition, you must have understood from this
example,
The people who are hugging you,
Talking sweetly to you,
Tie this knot.
Mostly, 99%
Those people are not going to support you in a bad time.
But,
Like a wife is not able to understand something, she is
giving an example of a monkey.
Learn something from a monkey.
Similarly, you and I are common people, we also don't
understand this.
We also feel that this should be the case.
What looks like, in reality that thing does not happen.
A person's nature and intention is identified only on the
occasion.
Who supports you?
Or who calls you immediately and says,
I need a lot of money.
Such situations do happen.
I am talking about a practical life.
Even in such a situation, who gives you a calculated amount?
The amount that you give.
Some people don't even give that on the occasion.
Some people say, Oh, if you would have told me yesterday, I
would have given 5 lakhs or 10 lakhs.
The amount does not depend on the digit.
The amount that you give, you will give 5 times that
amount. You have transferred it yesterday, you have given
it to me.
If you would have told me yesterday,
Oh, if the problem has come today, how would I have told
you yesterday?
But people do this.
Even if you would have told me yesterday, they still say
the same thing.
Even then they say the same thing.
Understand their intention and nature.
Leave the support.
If you are trusting them, that they will support you in
life, then they will not support you.
And do not live with such people.
Do not live with such people at all.
I am talking about giving a life lesson.
As a life coach, I am talking today.
You take a personal level lesson.
You take a professional level lesson.
But I am giving a life lesson that how you can assess
someone in your life.
Many of your well-wishers, in reality, they never come in
front of you. They never want to come.
Your life is going smoothly.
You are enjoying.
So they stay away.
But when the bad time comes, they keep inquiring about you.
But as soon as the bad time comes, they come to you.
And there are many people who stay with you all the time.
But when you really need them in your bad time, they leave
you.
They leave you.
I will give you one more example.
Girls, married girls, listen and understand.
There is a girl.
She is educated.
She is married.
Her mother has taught her from day one to get separated as
soon as possible.
To separate her in-laws.
Otherwise, she will find out that you will have to serve
her for no reason.
She starts fighting for her from day one. On small things.
On small things.
Do you know, in every house, if you want to make a mess,
I will give you an example.
After taking a bath, you leave wet clothes in the bathroom.
They have been lying there for many hours.
Mother-in-law says, pick up the clothes and spread them.
You start shouting.
In this house, no one wants to let me stay. They don't let
me stay.
What is the problem if the clothes are lying there?
You tell me.
There are many such examples.
She started fighting with her husband as soon as she came
back from office.
People use their beauty.
A to Z, one by one.
In a married girl's house, if her in-laws, especially her
mother,
call her four times a day or four times from here to there,
then there is bound to be a problem.
And that's what I am talking about.
She reports everything.
And the mother-in-law tells how to behave with whom, in
what situation you have to behave.
When her daughter-in-law does the same thing with her, she
feels bad.
But she is making her daughter do it in someone else's
house.
So, she is telling you such ways as if she is understanding
herself and teaching Chandragupta Maurya how to win a war.
Yes.
This is how it is.
While doing this, she keeps provoking her husband.
One day, he gets tired and says that he is taking a
separate room.
We are shifting from here.
The parents also thought that it is better to live
separately than to get irritated every day.
They should live in peace.
But let me tell you, such people with mentalities do not
let you live peacefully even there.
Time passed.
One day, when the mother was coming from the market, a
stranger told her that you don't know me, but I know you.
And your daughter-in-law is admitted in the hospital.
She is pregnant.
She comes home quickly.
She packs some clothes and takes some money.
And she goes to that hospital in an auto.
She goes there and takes care of her daughter-in-law.
Actually, her landlord because her husband is out of
station for work.
The landlord and the landlady took her to the hospital.
The doctor comes and asks who is with her.
The daughter-in-law says that she is her daughter.
The mother-in-law says that she will have to undergo a
surgery for the child.
She should sign the paper and submit the money on the
counter. At that time, the mother-in-law has half the money.
She says that it is okay and that she will call her husband
and ask him to bring the money. The mother-in-law says that
she will call her husband and ask him to bring the money.
The father-in-law arrives with the remaining money.
The daughter-in-law has not called her husband.
She has called her mother-in-law and told her that she is
coming.
But everything is done.
The surgery is done.
The child is born.
The mother and father of the girl come to her house.
They are so ready that they are coming with the fragrance
of the perfume.
The father also wears his blazer and tie.
Like I have come to a party.
Maybe I don't have to tell you further. You can understand.
When they come, she packs her things and says, Okay, I am
leaving now.
Daughter-in-law holds her mother-in-law's hand.
She starts crying.
Mother, don't leave me.
Both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are talking to each
other.
They are talking about sadness and happiness.
Emotions are being exchanged.
Five minutes later, ten minutes later, when they look back,
the parents of the girl who were sitting, are no longer
sitting there.
The girl has realized who is hers and who is not.
I want to tell you mainly from this story that you are
living in this misunderstanding till date that your parents
are your own.
So, remove this misunderstanding from your mind.
You don't realize that many times, they are digging your
roots.
Especially if you have an elder son, then this injustice
happens to him.
Younger brothers and sisters do everything for them.
Even the father does it.
I am not questioning him.
But the father does it.
Whether the son takes the name or not, the world knows who
did it.
The son is his.
But the elder brother is killed in a worse situation.
By doing everything for him, by making him stand, by making
him study, by making him write, the son is killed.
The life of a son is very difficult.
The parents who celebrate the birth of a son, do they know
why they celebrate?
Because it is the support of their old age.
We have ATM cards, we will use it everywhere.
The younger brothers and sisters care for the elder son.
When the son grows up, he will get married, so he will take
care of his wife.
When he grows up, he will take care of his parents.
When he has his own children, he will take care of his own
children.
No one is going to ask him whether he is in pain or not.
If you are in pain, then go to hell.
You are just a helping machine.
Help others.
Take the pain of others.
You don't have to get married.
You don't have to suffer.
If you are sick, then die.
But do it.
This is life.
I want to tell all the boys to recognize this.
Recognize it.
When you are in a position to do something, when you can do
something for yourself, then you become a good brother, a
good son, and you keep doing it for everyone. And everyone
keeps filling their own pockets.
And later on, everyone became smart for themselves.
And you, no one is ready to support you in your bad times.
Forget about support, everyone is ready to point fingers at
you.
That you did this wrong, you did that wrong, you couldn't
do that.
No one is counting the things you could do.
Yes, you did this much.
What's the big deal?
Even after doing a hundred wrongs,
you helped out with Rs. 500.
Today, because after ten years, the price of Rs.
500 has become Rs.
So, you can't see the value of Rs. 500.
But at that time, that Rs.
500 was worth it.
I will tell you a story of a man.
His father is working.
He takes a VRS from the company.
After taking the VRS, he tells the city, let's go to the
village.
He was in the city till now.
Let's go to the village.
Although, I understand the pain of his father.
With him too.
Because not everyone supported him.
A middle class man, his father was working, that's why he
took the VRS. He was also very helpless.
I can't say that he is 100% wrong.
He was a very helpless father.
But he was right in his own way.
Let's go to the village.
He had a plan in his small area, that he will educate his
children there. Whatever is possible.
He had two daughters, two sons, three sons.
Three sons and two daughters.
Whatever is possible, he will do it and get married.
If this could have happened, then it would have been good.
But the middle class man, took the responsibility on
himself, that he will do it.
He took the responsibility.
Now he is going to the village, in the name of
responsibility.
He started from day one.
He is not doing anything for himself.
Everything is for him.
My younger sister should study in a good school.
It's a dream.
What do parents want?
What we didn't get, they should give to their children.
Similarly, the elder brother also wants to be a good
younger brother. But, by doing this, he is not able to do
anything for himself.
There is so much pressure in this.
He is a young 18-19 year old boy.
It is not easy to take the responsibility of the whole
family.
So, the voluntary retirement that father took, he has to
take money from it, from time to time.
He has to take it, because the money is being spent on the
family. But, the loan is being written in his name. The
father is also adding to the account that I gave you so
much money. He is taking care of his own children.
When the father is adding to the account, no one is saying
from here that the money was spent on all of us.
No one is saying.
The entire expense is being shown that he took the entire
loan.
Look at the condition of that boy.
He is thinking that he took the money from here and spent
it on them.
Look, it is said that when the boy used to be a dacoit, to
change his life, a saint had said that whatever you are
doing, will your family members be involved in this sin?
He says that the role of a dacoit that I am playing, I am a
dacoit because I want to feed my family.
A saint told me to go and ask my family members that for
whom you are doing all this, will they be a part of this
sin?
When I went and asked,
I found out that they refused.
Why will we be a part of this?
The people of the temple said, where do you get it from?
How do you get it?
It is your responsibility to feed us.
If you do a sin, then you suffer the sin.
The saint asked, why? It was a matter of elders.
The boy continued, it is nothing for us. It is nothing for
us.
I am getting my sister admitted in a good school.
I am spending.
I am not able to do it.
I am not able to do it properly.
There is no counting.
The bad things are counted.
The good things are not counted.
My younger brother needs a bike.
He is getting a bike.
From where and how?
My father has not been able to buy a bike.
His condition was different.
It was a painful situation.
Getting married at a young age, having children, how does
one end one's life while raising a family?
And by doing this, life is moving forward.
One is not able to settle himself.
He is dependent on others.
Name is yours.
And when everyone started earning a little, then no one
cares.
Everyone is spending on themselves.
And the basic expenses, like house rent, food, electricity,
ration, they are all on him.
He does not have a family, but everyone has their own will.
And because he is not his father, no one listens to him.
If he tries to tell his story, people say, he is showing
off.
He is showing off.
He is showing off to his brothers and sisters.
It is only to do that.
Somehow, he got a bike for his younger brother.
And later, he got his younger brother married instead of
his own marriage.
So that they get married.
When everyone was going by train, he bought all his
belongings and gave them to the village.
He made his two brothers and sisters sit.
He stayed alone.
His parents were already there.
He said,
I have some things left.
I will buy them and come back.
He got a ticket.
He does not go to the reservation because he has some
things left.
I will buy them and come back.
There, it is also said that he wasted the ticket.
But, no one will think, why did he stop.
Somehow, he got the ticket.
The story in the middle.
His brothers and sisters are going.
At night, their main suitcase gets stolen.
In which, all the wedding clothes, jewellery, and other
things are kept.
Early morning, his suitcase got stolen.
How will he get married now?
They cancel the wedding.
His elder brother says,
Elder brother says, parents do not say anything here.
Sisters do not say anything.
I will tell you in the next story, how many wise people
have become now. His elder brother says,
No, no, do not worry.
I will arrange everything and buy everything again.
In two days, he arranges everything and comes back. The
wedding takes place.
He is very happy because he got everything done.
But, his elder brother says,
Wedding is a ritual.
In the village, all the clothes and jewellery are offered
to the bride.
This is also a ritual of Bihar's wedding.
In this, his elder brother does everything.
While doing everything, his elder brother is there.
But, at the right time, when it was time to do everything,
the priest said,
If the elder brother is not married, then he cannot do this
work.
Ask that priest, when the elder brother is doing
everything, without getting married, why does he not ask
that he had to do this when he was supposed to get married.
It is right to fulfill responsibilities.
But, when it was time to sit, the priest refused and that
father accepted it.
He accepted it.
It was a pain.
Imagine the pain.
At night, everyone is celebrating.
That person did not even eat.
Where is he?
No one cares where he is.
This is worldly life.
In bad times, who is with you?
I am giving you an example.
No one is with you.
No one is there to listen to or understand your pain.
Do not clash with the rituals and traditions of the society.
Do not clash.
People say, farming is done by fate.
If the elder brother is asked to get married for the first
time, how painful it is to clash with him.
I am telling you one by one.
Even after being so innocent, the next day comes.
He is making such a sacrifice, but people think that he is
doing it at his own will.
The message is that he will not get married.
His younger brother and his wife did everything the next
day.
He gave his brother's wife a nice jewellery.
It is a ritual to show love.
They were also happy.
They brought a ring from both of us.
He wore the ring for a while and then took it off.
He took it off and gave it to them.
He gave it to them and said, keep it.
I will wear the ring when I need it.
Everything was done.
Even now, he is not worried about his emotions.
His sisters are coming back.
His parents will stay there.
He will stay there with his brother.
His younger brother thinks that he has understood the
importance of his jewellery.
He does not care about his emotions.
He is a machine.
When it was his turn to get married, he spent money on
other people.
He could not increase his qualification.
He spent money on a good school.
One day, she said, you are educated.
A girl like you should never get married.
Be ready.
His younger brother and his sister's family started doing
charity.
They had a plan that they should not get married and their
wealth will be in their hands. They did not even return the
ring that they had given.
His younger brother gave him the bike.
When the situation was such that he was not ready to get
married, he said, After doing all this, bad time comes.
In bad time, for every bite, it is told that he is eating
sitting down, no one is remembering him.
Yes.
Being helpless, he had to live separately.
Here also, parents are just separating, not giving solution.
Maybe he is also helpless in his place.
What is it? I don't know.
Till then, younger brother has two daughters.
So, it is also being told that he has two daughters, that's
why he is separating, that he has to take responsibility.
He is not thinking that he is not married yet, what will
happen to his life?
No one is thinking.
How shameless people are in this world, how shameless!
You can understand like this.
Because younger brother has two daughters, that's why he is
separating.
Before saying this, what he is saying, he is not thinking
that he is not married yet, his life has not started yet,
what will happen to him?
And the plan is that if he is not married, then he should
take over the entire property.
After many years, somehow, he is troubled because of this.
He was very lonely once.
The worst thing is loneliness.
A lonely person gets trapped.
So, he becomes like a mad person.
His situation also became like this.
And in this world, your parents, your relatives, your
family, everyone comes.
Everyone salutes the rising sun.
You say to yourself,
I say today, that first of all, if you want to help
someone, then help yourself. First make yourself strong,
then help others. Because if you become weak, then no one
will support you.
You can do anything to help others.
For whom?
It is said that the snake that you will milk and feed, one
day, after drinking, it will bite you.
The lion that you are feeding milk to, when it grows up, it
will kill you.
Yes.
They separated.
So, he had a bike.
His younger brother had a bike.
He said, give me the bike.
I need it.
So, he took it.
His father-in-law said, the bike belongs to you, not to
your son-in-law.
If you have taken it, then file an FIR at the police
station.
A case of theft will be filed.
The bike belongs to you.
This is how religions are.
This is a bad time which makes a person recognize himself.
After this, he gets married.
He tries to get married.
But he does not go to the wedding.
His younger brother goes to the wedding.
So, will you believe what he does after marriage?
Can an enemy do this?
Think about it and tell me.
On the night of marriage, his younger brother is getting
married. He goes to his daughter's mother and says,
I am not going to the wedding.
He says, don't you know where you are getting married?
I am his younger brother.
I have two daughters.
Even then, he is trying to avoid marriage.
Both husband and wife have gone to the village from the
city.
The husband has gone to do this after becoming a trend.
The wife has not gone.
She is sitting in her maternal home.
If she goes, she has to give.
She has taken a lot.
So, she has to give.
That is why she did not go.
Slowly, the suffering continued.
He is slowly getting married.
He is getting out of bad time.
Today, he is married.
He has spent his real crucial time and money on her.
Now, she got married.
Now, it is her turn to do.
She has reached an age.
At that time, whatever she used to get for 100 rupees,
today she is getting the same thing for 5000 rupees.
When she had 100 rupees, she spent it on her.
Now, she has to get her family.
She has to do something for herself.
The world does not let you live.
The world says in one word that you have not done anything
for yourself. When the same people are not ready to do a
favor for you, then who is the world going to believe?
They themselves say, what have you done for us?
You have not done anything.
So, I want to tell you clearly.
I have told you this story because it is a practical story.
Bad time comes so that you realize your real situation.
You should know which people are with you and which people
are not with you.
You should recognize them.
One of them is only yours.
So, make him yours.
Support him.
Because sometimes you also do Jati.
You use the one who supports you.
And you are busy helping your family.
If the family is not supporting you, then one day the one
who is supporting you will also be separated.
The family is not with you.
Then what will be your situation?
Think about it.
And after some time, things become abnormal.
So, before taking such a decision,
I would like to tell many people from my practical
experience that there are many elder brothers who still
stand in front of their parents and want to take
responsibility of their younger brothers and sisters that
they should not get married at all.
They should get married first.
Today, when a younger brother gets married, his children
will get married and the world will not let them live.
If you ever gather in a public gathering,
people ask, why are the younger brother's children getting
married when their younger brother's children are getting
married?
No one will explain to them that you got them married
without your consent.
When the one you got them married is not ready to accept
the favor, then who will give the message in the world?
Only those people will give the message.
That is why I am saying that you should never give your
sacrifice to others.
But first, make yourself strong.
First, invest yourself.
First, help yourself.
Then get married.
It is possible that you can keep a condition in front of
the girl's family that I want to help my younger brothers
and sisters.
You will have to support them.
But, the dealing should be done in the future.
Because if you take such a decision, then not only one, but
this thing will follow you and your children will follow
you.
Their marriage will follow you.
Their children will follow you.
Everything will follow you.
That is why you should not take such a decision. And,
whether it is a personal life or a professional life, in a
professional life, whoever is talking to you in a buttery
way, you should believe that he is not going to support you
at the right time.
He is not going to support you.
And, at the right time, you feel that you do not need his
support.
Many times, you tell yourself that you need him.
Everyone needs him.
And, even if you do not need him, and there is a person who
is with you as your companion, but he is not going to
support you at the right time, then he will deceive you.
Many people were killed because Because at the right time,
their own people betrayed their trust. So, your life can
also be lost.
Therefore, for such people, put a process of assessment.
When you go into worldly talks, then use your mind.
Think practically.
Think away from emotions.
Then you will be able to understand these things.
You will be able to understand these things.
Please, whoever is watching this video, whether it is of a
personal level, social level or professional level,
I am talking about all the way.
You are the only human being.
You have to deal at the personal level, social level and
professional level.
And people from this society are in your office, in your
home and in your society.
And there are such people everywhere.
There are such people everywhere.
The people whom you have brought up, when they slap you,
when they abuse you, how will they treat you?
Think about it.
And make your circle with such people. Your sons don't
support your parents.
So, if you want to be safe and secure in old age, then do
some things strongly for yourself.
Be a little selfish.
Do some things strongly for yourself.
Similarly, if you want to be stable in your job, then
recognize the people in your circle in real life. And keep
at least one or two of them as your mates.
Keep them as your sincere bonding.
It is said that if you have one good friend, then you have
millions of such average friends.
It is better to have one.
It is said that the book gives knowledge and the world
explains it.
But it is said that a good friend is better than a library
of books.
Because the books will tell you what has been written.
But a good friend can say yes or no to you in the practical
situation.
He can tell you what is right and what is wrong.
That's why.
And you call such friends as friends.
Everyone who works in an office is a friend.
But when you get stuck in bad times, then you should assess
in real life that who is exactly with you. And in such a
situation, your solid bonding team, your friendship team is
formed.
If you can make it right, then you will do something big in
the long run.
Otherwise, everyone is ready to finish you whenever you
want to move forward.
They are ready to finish you.
Yes.
I am talking about this world.
If I talk about a true friend, then he is God.
There can be no one more true than him.
But you have to live in this world as long as you are in
the physical world.
Till then, you have to use your mind in this world.
Finally, leave it.
Finally, he is the biggest true friend.
You are a part of him.
You are from him.
You have to blend in with him.
Don't break the bond with him.
There can be no one more true than him.
If you have good teachers, make a relationship with them.
Don't go away from them under any circumstances.
Because you can't see God.
You can see the people of this world.
But Guru is that power which is in this world and is
connected to that world.
He knows the situation and how to save you from this world.
He knows it.
I would say, a true friend, a true Guru, if you want to
make one, then make one like him. And for this, good deeds
are necessary.
Don't leave that path.
I have a Guru too.
And today I want to say that Guru Mohini Bisari, even if
you meet lakhs of devotees, you have many like me, but I
don't have many like you.
Oh Guru,
I am very scared in this world.
I am very scared.
I don't know whom to trust, whom not to trust.
I don't know.
Who is mine, who is not.
I don't know anything.
What kind of world is this?
What kind of world is this? You are the only one I have,
Baba.
Don't leave me.
Don't leave me, Baba.
I want to tell you all, you should also make someone like
him as your support.
Otherwise, this world will not leave you.
This world will not leave you.
It will not leave you.
There can be no stronger support than this, it is there for
every pleasure of this world and for that world also.
It is a seed that will give you the pleasure of this world
and that world also.
It will make you pass through that world also.
It will liberate you from this cycle of wandering.
It will give you salvation.
It will liberate you from the pain of this wandering.
It will liberate you from wandering in this cycle of
wandering.
So, from childhood to personal life, social life,
professional life, in the end, everyone has to leave this
world.
But how do you want to leave? To come back again?
And to keep coming and going?
How long?
It is important for this to make such a relationship, to
make such a bonding, which is said, people say LIC, here
and there, LIC is not known here and there, but Guru is
such a bonding, Guru is such an element, Guru is such a
power, which is with you
in this world and in that world also.
So, why not make such a friend? Make such a friend, who is
with you here and there.
Rest of the relationships that are formed, you will get
trouble from them, because these relationships are formed
according to the time of birth. According to the time of
birth.
If you are someone's father today, if a son has come to
this world as yours, then you have some connection with him.
That is why he has come as your son.
If your wife has come as your wife, then you have some
connection with her.
And if she is fighting with you, then it is possible that
you have done it with her before, and you are paying for it.
So, there is no truth in the relations of this world.
You will say that by going there, the truth of the
relations of this world will not be known, the pain will
not be less.
It will not be less.
If you eat chili, it becomes spicy, you become restless.
After that, you are given the qualities to eat.
Jaggery cannot end the spiciness of the chili, but it gives
the power to bear it.
This jaggery is the Guru Tattva.
The spiciness of the chili of this world, which you have to
bear, you have to bear it.
You have come to bear this materialism, then the Guru will
work in the form of that jaggery, which will give you the
power to bear this spiciness.
You will be able to bear it, you will be able to endure it,
you will be able to stay alive.
And then slowly, slowly, you will be separated from this
world, you will go on your right path, anyway, you have not
come to stay permanent.
The one who has come, he has to go, so go in such a way
that there is no need to come again.
For that, it is very important to have a true Guru with you.
And when the bad time comes, then you feel the need in such
a way.
So maybe, the bad times of this world knock you down, so
that you know who is your own in reality, who can put the
right medicine on your pain.
You should recognize him, recognize him, go to him.
Life is very unique, do something to pass it.
It is said that God gives this humanity by doing a great
favor, wandering in 84 lakhs of animals, different animals,
insects, insects, this is the best animal,
do not lose it.
If you do not use it correctly, and get free from this
cycle of wandering, then you will know which Yoni you will
go again.
When will you go and get this humanity again?
So, I request everyone, that in bad times, you should do
something for the world.
I do not say, Guruji says,
Keep devotion to God, suppress it from Guruji, and live in
this world as you wish. Because in this world, according to
the spiritual life, it is said, do karma, do not worry
about the result.
That Gita verse,
Lord Krishna did not say for worldly life, do karma, do not
worry about the result. What he has said, is for
devotionalism.
It is not for materialism.
It is for spiritual.
It is from the spiritual line.
In this world, you have to account for your karma.
You have to.
You have to introspect yourself.
Identify the good and bad.
Because if you are not able to choose the right path for
yourself, then if you go on the wrong path, then its result
will also be wrong, its goal, target will also be wrong.
So, choosing the right target is the biggest decision of
life. Think today, what
is the truth of this life? Why have you come to this world?
Why have you come?
Identify this truth.
Identify it.
It is said, when you wake up, only then you will be awake.
Otherwise, the difficulties will increase.
Wake up.
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