If you put your self-effort for yourself, many times we put
our self-effort not for ourselves but for someone else, we
put it for someone else and we make ourselves stand up, we
make someone else stand up and we make ourselves stand
aside.
It happens.
Eldest son of the family often does like this.
He puts his self-effort, money and everything for his
younger brothers and sisters.
He doesn't care for himself.
See, father does the same.
He doesn't do anything for himself.
He does everything for his children.
But there is one plus with father.
When children will develop, the world knows that children
are his.
He gets his credit.
He gets his credit for what he is bearing.
But when the elder brother does, he puts all his efforts
for his younger brothers and sisters.
He makes them stand up.
After they stand up, they walk their own paths.
And till then, the time of the elder brother, which he
could have done for himself by struggling and putting in
efforts, that too has passed away.
When it is time for himself, sometimes things are not
suitable and the candidate is forced to suffer.
But here I was saying something else.
The self-effort that you are putting in, sometimes you are
sitting in the office and you are getting all the work done
by your juniors.
You don't pay attention to this.
Temporarily you can get the benefit.
But the one who works will learn.
The one who learns will move forward.
You are not working.
The one who is working, if your junior is working, he will
learn and he will move forward.
And when your seniors come to know that this person does
not work, he gets all the work done by his juniors.
And sooner or later, someone will come to know through
someone else or he will say that
I do all the work.
So, when you have not developed yourself, you have not
learned anything.
And the system will think that when the work is done by the
juniors, then what is the need to take it out?
So, this is a loss for you.
Because if you had put in self-effort, if you had worked on
your own, then you would have self-development.
And time to time, it is important to be updated and
developed.
And you will be developed or updated only when you put in
self-effort.
When you move your hands and feet, then you will be
physically active, you will develop.
When you move your mind, then you will develop mentally.
So, if you want any kind of development in yourself, which
is required, if you think that you will be stable
somewhere, this is, especially I am talking for the
professionals.
Do you feel that you do not want to be in such a
competition?
Do you want to live your life according to your own
standards?
No.
If you drive on the highway, then you have to catch the
speed of the highway, not your own speed.
And the race of life is like the highway.
So, you have to match up with the speed of this world, not
your own speed.
Otherwise, people will push you and push you back.
And then, you will come to a time, because you are not
putting in enough self-effort.
You have not updated yourself, you have not changed
according to the time. I am talking about those efforts.
So, if you have not done these things, then you should
assume that you are going to have a problem.
In the coming time, you will be in a stagnant position,
which is not good for this society, for your family, for
your working atmosphere.
You will be out of date.
And no one asks about out of date things.
You should keep it aside.
When you are out of date, you should keep your favorite
dress aside.
You bought the dress with great interest, you wore it with
great love that day.
But if it is out of date, then you should keep it aside.
Similarly, if you have not updated yourself, then this
organization, this system, is not owned by anyone.
The price here is for work, not for your name.
You think that you have worked for 5-10 years, and you
start thinking systematically like your own house. You are
a tenant of a house.
You have been living here for 10 years, but it is not your
house.
You will be treated like a tenant any day, and you may have
to vacate the house.
Similarly, even in a company, it is not your family.
You can be a tenant of any company.
The price here is for your work.
As long as you are working properly, and fulfilling your
needs according to the system, then you have a demand.
Otherwise, you don't have a demand.
No matter how many years you have been a tenant, whenever
you start feeling that you are a burden on the system, then
you will be kicked out.
The system that was given by the voluntary retirement
companies many years ago, and still continues to exist, why
does it exist?
It exists because whenever there is extra pressure on the
system, then they do such things.
Now I say that this will happen anytime.
If you put in self-effort and don't do it, it will happen.
Yes, it will definitely happen.
But those who have updated themselves by putting in
self-effort, who have self-developed, the number is not
theirs.
The number is theirs, those who are less required.
Those whose need is less for the company, those candidates
are required.
So if you want to develop yourself, if you want to get
success in your field, in whichever field, either you are
in the sales, marketing, personal, in any kind of
professional field you are, if you want to develop
yourself, then just don't depend upon
your juniors.
Even if you are at the senior level, don't totally depend
on your juniors. You should be active.
You should be active.
You should keep updating yourself.
The updated work required, you should tell your juniors to
learn it. Before they learn, you should learn it.
They have to do the basic work, but you have to monitor.
If you don't know, then even the juniors know that sir
doesn't know this work.
Then they will start doing whatever they want.
Many a times, it becomes a big tragedy for you that you
don't know, and you have to take the report and submit it
to the senior.
So intentionally, juniors, because the signature is yours,
you have to do the check.
And if the juniors know that you don't know this thing,
then they intentionally make a mistake on it, leave it,
because they know that you don't know. If you want to
remain the part of the system, your self effort will
develop you.
Your self development will happen.
If you think that others are going to get your work done,
then development is going to happen to them, not to you.
And in this process, one day you will be out of the system,
you will be cut off.
And then no one is going to ask you.
It is said that a lame horse is not made to run in a race.
It is cut off.
That is why if you are not developing, then you are going
to be like a lame horse for the system. That is why, change
yourself as per the time, update yourself, upgrade yourself.
If you are a senior level, then first you need to update
yourself.
I am talking about any field, even if it is communication,
I am talking about overall development.
The reason why a CFO level candidate is cut off from the
company,
I am giving a practical example.
The reason is that your communication,
written according to your level, is not up to the mark.
According to your level, up to the mark, communication is
neither written nor verbal nor non-verbal.
This is what they are told.
Meaning, if you consider yourself to be okay in the system,
I am talking about the junior level self-marketing people,
there updation is very much required.
Because you are always in competition.
You are in the highest level of competition.
That is why you feel today, but in the next 5 years, your
level, your talent, your knowledge, this will be sufficient?
It will not be.
In 5 years, the world will change a lot.
So, according to that change, you develop yourself.
And you can develop only when you put self-effort in your
development.
When you do not put self-effort in your development, then
self-development you can't do.
Whoever will do the effort, will develop.
You are not going to be yourself.
Many times you think, as a senior, your work is already
being done.
Keep in mind, keep in mind properly, your work is being
done, your junior is doing it.
You have not developed yourself.
You do it from your level.
I am not saying that you keep learning every junior's work.
But, according to your level, whatever you are, wherever
you are, the level at which you are working, according to
that level, you must keep developing yourself.
Develop.
As it is, it is better to learn something every day.
Life keeps moving in a positive direction, which will be
helpful for you, it will be very beneficial.
So, here the topic is, your self-effort can lead you to
your self-development.
Your self-effort, your self-effort can lead you to your
self-development.
Your self-development, self-effort, will do the effort that
you have done.
Someone said it and you heard it, but you didn't do it.
And, you said it to someone and he did it.
So, the one who did it, action, implementation, that person
is going to develop.
You are not going to develop.
And, many times what happens is, you give knowledge to
someone else, and he believes in that knowledge and
develops himself.
Tomorrow, he will stand in your competition as your
competitor.
And, he will take your profile.
Your dream profile.
Your junior, while learning from you, became so capable,
that when it comes to promotion, he is given the promotion.
He is given.
So, you must work upon this thing.
I am talking to all the professionals.
Whoever you are, at whichever the level you are, whichever
level you are,
whether you are a market executive, whether you are an
assistant manager, manager, AGM, DGM,
GM, at whichever the level you are, whichever level you
are, competition is going on at that level as well.
Whether you are in sales, marketing, HR, personal
department, engineers, managers, CA, account department,
banking sector, at whichever level you are, you must assess
yourself daily, whether there is any new change coming in
you or not.
What is the update going on in the field you are in?
You must try to adapt that, to learn.
For what?
For self-development.
For self-development, you must put in self-effort.
You must learn it yourself.
You tell your junior, learn this thing.
If he will learn it, he will learn it for himself.
If you want your own development, you must learn it
yourself.
You must learn it for yourself.
Otherwise, the car is not going to run.
There will be a break somewhere.
These days, there is a lot of development in technology.
New technologies are coming.
So, what happens in this?
When technology comes, the job becomes a limitation.
Many people will lose their jobs.
And who will lose their jobs?
Those who will not be self-developed.
You often think that those who are old, they will lose
their jobs.
No.
Even if an aged person has updated himself, then his
experience is an asset.
The system will not remove it.
And if you think that you are young, but not updated, then
you will face problems.
So, the secret of success, if you want to be successful in
your field, in whichever the field you are, so, your
self-development will be the need for you. And for that,
you have to do your self-effort.
You should do self-effort at whichever the level.
Whatever the demand is, wherever your profile is, if you
want to take promotion, if you want to go ahead, then the
seniors in that field, the leading persons in that field,
what are their qualities?
Or you should find out yourself, what are the things which
you should improve and by improving you can go ahead. So,
keep doing those things and then only you can.
If I talk about sales marketing persons, they always have
promotion options.
Better options always.
Because people are in the field market.
In different companies, different companies, they have
contact with different employees.
So, if you feel that a person adapts very quickly to learn,
learns something new, he has learning skills, he has a
learning attitude, so, you are going to such people in the
company for 6 months.
In 6 months, the change which is being given to you, the
kind of deal you are doing, the change you are seeing, that
yes, this thing was not there,
I learned this, I learned that.
So, such energetic people, people with learning attitude,
everyone needs them. And the development which will happen
in you, everyone will see the difference.
Whether it is in communication, confidence, dealing,
negotiation skills, your dress sense, body language,
whatever you say. If you are developing yourself, then this
development is visible to the world.
Developing yourself is the most important thing.
You should adjust yourself according to the system.
You should have a passion to move forward.
So, your self effort can lead you to your self development.
Keep this in mind.
And while keeping this in mind, update yourself time to
time.
So that you can achieve your target of developing yourself.
You can do.
You can do this.
If you are trying.
Everybody can do.
Then why not you?
You can.
You can earn points that you can redeem for discounts or
even cash rewards.
Count me in.
I'll make sure to spread the word to all my classmates.