Hello everybody, good evening to all of you. This is Vineet
Gautam, your coach, your trainer, motivational speaker,
mind coach, corporate trainer, life coach and author.
And today as I am talking in my success blueprint series,
in my last video I talked about one topic, if you want to
be successful then be smart in all the way, in each and
every activity you are in need to be smart.
I talked this thing in my last videos, about that point I
will talk more because all the way everything should be
different, smart.
If you want to get something smart, decision, result, then
there must be the work to be smart also.
If you want to attract smart people towards you, then you
also need to be smart.
I am talking about maintenance, how smartly you maintain
yourself.
When you are getting an opportunity, take advantage of it.
If you want to attract smart people towards you, then you
need to be smart.
If you want to attract smart people towards you, then you
need to be smart.
So I am talking about this thing, today in my success
blueprint series, how to become successful, how can you get
dream success, in this series I would like to talk to you
about a very different and crucial thing, but which is most
important.
You must have heard about it.
Let me tell you something different, the topics I am
talking about, I have already talked about them.
My target is absolutely implementation, nothing else.
How to implement things, because until you implement,
things will not give results.
You may be knowledgeable, but you are not doing anything,
there is no benefit in it.
If you want to take benefit, then start implementing things.
You have taken a lot of knowledge, Law of Attraction, Power
of Subconscious Mind, Mind Mastery, Advanced Mind Mastery,
this skills, that skills, hypnotism, you have learnt a lot.
But how much you are able to monetize it, how much you are
getting out of it, at least in this physical life, things
are assessed in this way, how much you are able to monetize
it.
If you are not able to monetize it, then it is useless.
So in this series, in Success Blueprint series, if I am
talking, then I am not talking as a motivational speaker
only, I am talking as a trainer, as a implementation
trainer, implementation coach.
Where I am talking activity based, that you learn these
things, understand and implement and take benefit of it,
bring change in your life.
Here in this series, today I would like to talk about the
topic, Confidence.
What is the importance of the confidence? Where there is
confidence, there is success.
If you want to be successful, in whichever the field, at
whichever the level, as a wife, as a husband, as a parents,
as a social person, as a professional doctor, engineer,
manager, CA, lawyers, teachers, trainer, professional,
wherever you want to be
successful, what is the secret?
The secret is that whatever you do, do it with confidence.
Do it with honesty. Do not compromise with your honesty on
small things.
Because on small things, you compromise with honesty.
In office, the tea vendor gives you tea, you keep count of
it, but still you ask him at the last minute, how much is
it? He is an illiterate person, he tells you 2-4 glasses
less, you know that 4 glasses are extra, but you say, okay.
You have assured yourself that he has only said, the poor
man is illiterate.
You know the right calculation, if you give 4 glasses
extra, you will not be suppressed.
He is watching.
Because if you compromise with your honesty on these small
things, then you cannot be honest with yourself.
You compromise with your honesty and then?
You are not able to make a real target.
You don't accept your reality.
You don't recognize your real potential.
You start cheating a little there as well.
And then at the last moment, you face big losses.
These small things, you present them in a better way
Things will be more better.
You will be able to do things in the right way.
I am saying this honestly.
Because if a confident person does such things for a small
amount of money, then let me tell you one thing.
He may have made a mistake.
He doesn't know the calculation.
But he has to do it.
He has to do it.
He doesn't know the calculation.
But whenever he comes in front of you, you will definitely
remember that you have kept his 40 rupees.
The mistake he made, think about it.
You are not going to become rich with that 40 rupees.
That is also his.
But if you give him that 40 rupees,
then he will definitely be dedicated to you.
In his eyes, your level of respect will increase.
Because there is no one who will return the extra money
from the front. But you are doing it.
Then you are a different personality in the eyes of that
person.
In his eyes, you are a different personality.
So, don't you want to become a different personality?
And if you want to become, then get ready to do something
different from today. If you want to get something
different in your life, then get ready first to do
something different.
These small things, small deceptions, are not getting you
anything.
Anyway, you are not going to get anything even if you do
something big.
It will definitely have a big loss in the future.
Many times people do such things, make big earnings, and
become rich illegally.
So, nature balances it according to its own will.
Big diseases, big losses, big thefts will happen in the
house which they will not even be able to file an FIR.
Because there was 200 crore black money in the house.
Who will they tell?
When they will file an FIR that 100 crore has been stolen,
the first question will be
how will the money which was stolen come out?
If not today, then tomorrow.
If not tomorrow, then the day after tomorrow.
But the money will definitely come out.
So, I am saying that first of all, be honest to yourself.
You have to take responsibility for yourself.
If the world takes, then take.
If it doesn't take, then don't take.
You have to
be honest to yourself.
Don't do anything that you can't even look at yourself.
If you suddenly lose your sleep, if you don't like to look
at yourself in the mirror, you will hide from others.
How long will you hide from yourself? If you become honest
to yourself, then many demands,
good and bad things, but keep good emotions and honesty in
your mind.
It is ready to give a lot.
Just be ready to grab the opportunity.
So here,
I am going to talk about the topic, the confidence.
And what I am talking about now,
I am talking from this point of view that confidence
you will know practically and understand.
If there is inefficiency, then how to improve it,
I will tell you.
You will improve it and then from today itself, don't take
any date that from tomorrow or day after tomorrow, from
today and now, implement it.
We will start.
Implement, I think you know, even our Hindi understanding
people are understanding this.
Implement means from today itself, bring it into practice.
Like I talked about honesty, that by mistake, the samosa
seller, the samosa seller is giving you extra, the
vegetable seller, poor guy is busy, there are many
customers,
he gave you Rs. 20 instead of Rs. 10.
He didn't pay attention, but you paid attention.
And you quietly walk away with Rs. 20.
In that Rs.
10, you are not going to grow up.
But in God's diary, there is a negative mark on your
honesty.
You return Rs.
from the front.
So, in the eyes of that vegetable seller, there is a plus
of honesty, and there too, a plus of honesty is added.
And then, you don't know, in return for that Rs.
Rs. 10,000, Rs.
10,000,000, Rs.
10,000,000, because you had
Rs. 10 to give, which you gave.
If there is Rs.
10 on that,
he will also give it.
The one who has that much, he gives that much.
So, he has the right to give. I don't know, in return for
that Rs.
10, he may give you Rs.
So, be honest to yourself.
Now, I am coming to the topic about the confidence.
That you will learn today, and from today, implement these
things.
You will start using it daily.
Everyday, in your life, you will start doing it.
What is confidence?
It is being sure about your abilities, about your feelings.
Self-confidence.
What is it?
You have to be confident Self-confidence, Atma-biswas, Khud
pe biswas hona means khud ke kshamata pe, khud ke ability
pe, khud ke power pe, kayi baar humare mein kshamata hoti
hai, potential hai, knowledge hai, lekin humare aas paas ke
mahaul ne aisi
soch di hui hai, jo us Atma-biswas ko us knowledge ko use
nahi karne dete hain, aap kehte ho ki mai yeh kar sakta hu,
lekin aapki low caste hai, aap niche jati se ho, niche
samaj se ho, gareeb tabke se ho, toh log aapko bolne nahi
dete hain, sunna nahi
chahte hain, aur kayi baar aap khud bhi aisa nahi karna
chahte ho, kyunki aapne apne aap se keh diya, mai gareeb
hu, mai choti jati se hu, mai kam padha likha hu, mai aisa
nahi kar sakta, aapne khud hi khud pe question mark laga
diya, aapne khud shwem
pe question mark laga diya, jab aapne hi laga diya toh
duniya toh lagati hi hai, duniya ne kab kisi ko aage badhne
ke liye motivate kiya, bhai mai as a trainer motivate kar
raha hu, kyunki mai aapko nahi jaanta, lekin aapke bhai,
bandhu, hit, rasdaar
mostly usme se 90% aise milenge, jo aapko de-motivate karte
hain, jalte hain, wo nahi chahte ki tum aage badho, tum
safalta pao, unki mansa aise hi hai, unki mansa aise hi hai
bhai, kaisi hai, aage nahi badhne dene ki hai, unki mansa
hai ki tum aage na
badho, bas aimi hi ghisate raho, samjh rahe ho, tum kya
chahte ho, aage badhna chahte ho na, toh agar aage badhna
chahte ho, kuch karna chahte ho, toh aage badho, confidence
khud pe rakho, bishwas rakho, tikki, confidence kya hai,
mai ye kaam kar sakta
hu, ye hai confidence,
jisko aap bishwas kar sakte hain, lekin, mai ye kaam nahi
kar sakta hu, ye hai low confidence,
matlab bishwas nahi hona, jisko main mana kar raha ho, ki
low confidence nahi hona,
aapko ye bishwas hona chahiye ki mai ye kaam kar sakta hu,
lekin, agar aapko aisa lagta hai,
ki sirf mai hi ye kaam kar sakta hu, toh isko hum
confidence nahi, arrogance bolte hain,
ati aatm bishwasi, ya isse hum ahem bhi bolte hain,
ghamant, jo ki achi baat nahi hai,
ghamant, achi baat nahi hai, so sirf confident rahein, aur
confident banda, jisko khud pe bishwas ho, wo banda secure
feel karta hai, surakshit mehsoos karta hai, usse apni
kshamata pe bishwas hai, usse kisi ka dar nahi hai,
realistic meh, confidence
kya hai, jab aap sachmuch capable hai, jitna capable hai,
utna hi aap apne aap pe bishwas karte hai, kayi baar log
dikhave ke liye bhi ye baat keh dete hain, ki mai capable
hu, mai us bishwas ki baat, us confidence ki baat nahi kar
raha hu, aise wale
confidence, jo dikhave ke liye hai, realistic nahi hai,
sach nahi hai, agar aise confidence ki aap baat kar rahein
hai, toh aap kahi na kahi fasoge, kahi na kahi fasoge, aur
phir tumhe koi nikaal nahi paayega, isliye aap kabhi bhi
aise wale, unrealistic
confidence ki baat nahi karein, jab bhi maine pehle hi
kaha, is topic se pehle, ki aap apne aap ke parti imandaar
bane, maine dusron ke parti example diya tha, lekin, jaisi
dusri aadate hoti hai, waise hi imandaari bhi ek aadat hai,
jab aap das das rupe
ke liye apni imandaari daav pe lagayenge, bemaani karenge,
toh ye aadat aapme bhi aa jayegi, toh aap apne parti bhi
imandaar nahi rahenge, means, aap real mein capable nahi
hai, sakchham nahi hai kisi kaam ko karne mein, lekin
kyunki aap apne aap ke parti
imandaar nahi hai, isliye aap galat statement dete hain, ki
main capable hoon, jab ki vasto mein aap hai nahi, phir aaj
nahi toh kal, kabhi na kabhi aap fas jayenge, toh maine kya
kaha, confidence ka matlab, sakch mein aapko apni chhamta
pe bishwas hona
chahiye, aur chhamta kaunshi, jo real mein ho, aur bishwas
bhi kis tariqah ka hona chahiye, ki main ye kaam kar sakta
hoon, lekin sirf main hi kar sakta hoon,
ye confidence nahi, arrogance hai, over confidence hai,
ahem hai, ghamand hai,
aur ye achi baat nahi hoti.
Aage kaha, confidence isn't about feeling superior, main
isi baat ki kaha raha tha, ki main hi kar sakta hoon, to
others it is a quite inner knowledge,
ye bilkul ek aantrik gyaan hai, that you are capable, aapka
khud pe ek bishwas hai,
ki tum capable ho, tum sakchham ho, tum sakchham ho, tum
sakchham ho, ye khud pe ek bishwas hai, ye aantrik bishwas,
dikhave ki jurot nahi hai.
Confident people feel secure rather than insecure,
agar aap confident hai, khud pe bishwas hai, to main pehle
hi kaha, ki aap swakchit mehsoos karte hai, aapke andar
aswakchha ki bhavna nahi hoti hai, main das das logon se
lad sakta hoon,
agar realistic confidence hai, to jab das log aapko gher
lege, to bhi aap secure feel karenge, saant, kyunki aapko
khud pe bishwas hai, sachchi wale, ki main inse lad sakta
hoon. ek agar bishwas nahi hai, to aap ghabra jaayenge,
dusra, agar vaastu mein
aap capable you are not able to fight against 10 people,
but you have said it to show yourself or someone else.
If you have said to yourself that I can fight against 10
people, I can do this work, but in reality you are not able
to do it, then you are going to get trapped.
When those 10 people surround you, then you will be very
upset.
Therefore, a person who is a confident person in reality,
who believes in his capability, the capability of truth,
the ability of truth, then he feels safe.
So, I am to say capability aapke andar hai and you believe
that yes you have capability, you are capable to do this
work or that work, it means you are confident.
You can do this work is confidence, but if you think only
you can do this work, it is arrogance and this is not good.
Be realistic about your capability, then you will feel
realistic, you will feel secure.
But if you are just claiming, but you don't have that
capability, that much of capability, then you will feel
insecure.
Here, I have already told that we are in need to be honest
to yourself.
Humme apne aap se imandaar hone ki jurrat hai.
Jab tak hum apne aap se imandaar nahi honge, kisi aur ke
saath toh hoi nahi sakte.
Agar khud se chhal karne ki aadat hai, toh doosro se bhi
karenge.
Wo nahi karna hai. Fir main aage baat karta hu. Ways to be
more confident.
Dikhiye, maine pehle bhi kaha ki in saare cheezon ka mai
jikr main purane apne doosre video mein kar chuka hu.
Ek nahi do do baar kar chuka hu. But fir bhi abhi main baat
kar raha hu.
Toh ab mera motto bilkul clear. Talking to you all. Not
only professionals.
As a corporate trainer, I am talking to the professionals.
But as a mind coach, as a life coach,
I am talking to remaining everybody and to the
professionals also.
Kyunki agar aap aaj kahin professional hai, toh kahin aapki
personal life bhi toh hai.
Kahin aapka social circle bhi toh hai. Toh kya pyaar ka,
kisi bhi tree ka ek branch hi bada hona chahiye ya saare
branch.
Toh kya aap apne sirf professional life mein success
chahate hain?
Ya personal life mein bhi, social life mein bhi, spiritual
life mein bhi.
So if you want to all the way development in your life.
Agar aap apne zindagi mein sarvangir biswas bikash chahate
hain, you want to get your life transformed.
Agar aap apne poori zindagi badal dena chahate hain, so of
course I am talking from transformation point of view.
But sart ek hi hai is baar ki abhi jo mein baat kar raha
hun, unhe aap implement karna sikhe.
Implement, agar aap implement nahin karenge, toh iska koi
benefit nahin hone wala.
Kuch nahin hone wala baba, pehle bhi aapne suna hoga, aaj
bhi sunenge, bhul jayenge.
So come to the point here, ways to be more confident.
Fortunately there are several ways you can increase your
self confidence.
Kayi tariqe ke tariqe hain, several ways jo aapke
confidence ko build up karne ke liye kaam aa sakte hain,
unko aap ease mein le sakte hain.
Whether you lack confidence in one specific area, chahe
aapka confidence kisi ek particular area mein kam ho.
Ya struggle to feel confident, kayi baar aapki soch hi
confident nahin hoti hai about anything.
Kisi cheez ke baare mein aap confident nahin hai ki main ye
kaam kar sakta hun, ye cheez mujhe mil sakti hai.
Dekhi, agar aapko hi khud pe sankha ho gaya, ki ye cheez
mujhe nahin mil sakti, main deserve nahin karta hun, toh
aapne khud jab aisa kaha, toh aapka genie, aapka
subconscious mind, jo aapko wo cheez dilwane wala hai, usne
aapke decision pe question nahin
mark it karna hai, wo toh yes karega sirf.
Aapne kaha ki main iss cheez ko nahin pa sakta hun, wo
kahega yes.
Lekin ek baat aur kahun, jis pal tum ye kahte ho, ki main
iss cheez ko pa sakta hun, fir bhi wo yes karega, aur wo
cheez tumhar liye la ke dega.
Ek minute baad hi agar aap apne opinion badal dete ho, tab
bhi wo aapse yeh sawal nahin karne wala, ki aap ek minute
pehle toh keh rahe the main ye cheez nahin pa sakta hun, ab
kyun? Haan, sayed wo immediately bishwas nahin karega,
kyunki wo kahega ho
na ho, aap mazaak kare ho, aap confused ho.
Toh affirmation ya manifestation ko baar baar baar baar
isliye karna parta hai, ki universe mein ya subconscious
mind ko yeh real message jaye, affirmation wali ki main iss
cheez ko pa sakta hun, yeh cheez meri hai, yeh meri hai,
yeh meri hai.
Yeh baat jab aapne boli aaka ke roop mein, toh aapke jinee
ne kaha, yes mere aaka yeh cheez aapki hai, aur isse laake
main dunga aapko, aur phir wo cheez aapki ho jati hai.
Toh aapka confidence, jab confidence wali vibration tarange
universe ko jati hai, toh jis cheez ke baare mein aap
confident hai, wo cheezein, wo kheech ke lekar aati hai.
Confidence wali jaayenge, toh confidence leke aayenge,
aapne kaha confidence ki yeh cheez meri hai, toh wo cheez
lekar aayenge aap tak, kaise usko paana wo saare tarike, wo
cheezein.
Lekin aapne agar kaha, ki yeh cheez meri nahi hai, main
aasa nahi kar sakta, is cheez ko main nahi pa sakta,
toh phir, wo tarange aapke liye negativity leke aayenge.
Main kaha na, jinee ne question nahi karna aapse, usne
kaha, aapne kaha, ki yeh cheez meri nahi hai, main isse
nahi pa sakta, usne kaha, yes mere aaka, aapne kaha main pa
sakta hun, phir bhi kaha, yes mere aaka, toh pa sakta hun,
toh lao, yes, jo hukam
mere aaka, aapko sirf ikchhaye karni hai, confident wali,
karni hai.
Confident act karte raho, kaam karne wala aapke sareed mein
hi aapka subconscious mind hai, jo ki 95% hai, 5% aapka
conscious mind, jo decision making hai, jis soch mein
fluctuation laoge, toh uska action fluctuate karne lag
jaayega.
Aapki soch confident hai, toh uska action confident hoga,
aur wo sari cheezein ek ek karke tumhe dega.
You will get everything if you are confident.
So, the writer of the Power of Subconscious Mind, Mr.
Murphy himself writes in this Power of Subconscious Mind,
you can call it as Power of Subconscious Mind, Law of
Attraction, Positive Thinking, Manifestation, Affirmation,
but it is important to have a firmness in it and continuity
on your concept and
demand.
He says, I wanted my book to be translated in French and
French people should read it.
He says this continuously before going to sleep and then
goes to sleep.
He says, I want my book to be translated in French and
French people should read it.
He says, I want my book to be translated in French and
French people should read it.
He says, I want my book to be translated in French and
French people should read it.
He says, I want my book to be translated in French and
French people should read it.
He says, I want my book to be translated in French and
French people should read it.
He says, I want my book to be translated in French and
French people should read it.
He says, I want my book to be translated in French and
French people should read it.
The Power of Subconscious Mind
For example, the demand of a boy has reached to the
marriage bureau.
Now, according to his preference, finding a girl for him is
the job of marriage bureau.
Similarly, fulfilling your demand is the job of your
subconscious mind, your genie or universe.
Similarly, the demand of Mr. Murphy is the job of the
marriage bureau.
For example, the marriage bureau has put all its sources
everywhere.
And from there, the girl of that boy's choice has been
brought.
Similarly, this universe spreads your thoughts and your
demands all over the world.
Similarly, the demand of Mr. Murphy is the job of the
marriage bureau.
As you reach to the marriage bureau, your profile matches.
For example, the marriage bureau matches the profile of a
girl who has a demand of a boy.
Similarly, the marriage bureau matches the profile of a
girl who has a demand of a boy.
Similarly, the marriage bureau matches the profile of a
girl who has a demand of a boy.
Similarly, the universe is the job of the marriage bureau.
You don't have to think about how your dream will be
fulfilled.
It is the job of the universe to think about where your
profile matches.
Mr. Murphy, who wanted his book to be translated into
French, these trains go on and on and reach a publisher.
The publisher is thinking that after reading Mr.
Murphy's book, The Power of the Subconscious,
he will translate it into French and the French people will
read it.
Mr. Murphy's desire reached there.
The publisher's desire was that he would do it.
Now both of them have met each other's profile.
And who did the job of bringing them together?
The universe did.
After a month, when Mr.
Murphy is constantly thinking like this, before going to
sleep every night, one day when he wakes up in the morning,
he gets a courier.
In that courier, the publisher's desire has been expressed
that we want to translate your book into French.
You give us the authority to do this.
And as a royalty, we are also sending you a signing amount.
Mr. Murphy says,
Because of continuous affirmation, this desire was
fulfilled.
You think for yourself.
The kind of girl you are demanding from the marriage
bureau, if you change that demand every day or two, then
you may not be able to find the girl of your choice in
years.
But, because until you move forward in your search, you
have hit the brakes.
Start again.
Break again.
Start again.
Break again.
Start again.
Break again.
And many times you get tired and stop working on your
profile.
So, whatever your desire is, think about it and decide.
But once you decide, don't change it again and again.
Don't change it again and again.
And if you do this,
if you do this, then that desire of yours, that demand will
definitely be fulfilled.
This universe is very powerful.
Call it your subconscious mind, call it super power, call
it universe,
or call it God.
We are His beloved children.
He wants to fulfill all our desires.
But, by changing our demands every moment, we only trouble
Him.
We only confuse Him about what we want.
We don't understand what our desire is.
So, when your demand is constantly on something, your mind
is stuck somewhere, then that desire of yours will
definitely be fulfilled.
But if you change your desire every moment, then that
desire will not be fulfilled.
I told you, the customer who goes to the shop, who tells
the sales boy, give me that thing, he goes to buy it, he
tells the sales boy, give me that thing, he goes to buy it,
he tells the sales boy, give me that thing, he goes to buy
it, till he changes
his desire, another customer comes, he asks for only one
thing, he brings it and gives it to him, he gets his thing,
because he only demanded for one thing, he didn't change
that demand again and again. So, many times our desires,
when we want something,
why doesn't our desire get fulfilled? Because of this,
because we keep changing our desires, our demands, or till
the Universe starts activating it, starts giving it, till
then you have changed it.
So, affirmation, manifestation or demand, it is necessary
to have firm desire and continuity.
Now suppose, Mr.
Murphy, if two days later, if you had forgotten this,
If I want to print my book in French,
then maybe their wish will not be fulfilled.
But because they kept demanding only one thing for a month,
what do we do?
Actually, we put many desires in our mind at once.
I want this, I want that, I want this, I want that.
And let me tell you, because of this ABAB,
you get nothing.
You say one desire at a time,
take it and enjoy it.
Enjoy it.
Then, ask for another one.
Another means another.
Not just the third or the fourth.
Then get the second one.
Enjoy it. Enjoy it.
So, dreams are fulfilled one by one.
When we keep putting one dream in between another,
then none of the dreams are fulfilled.
Because of this confusion,
we get nothing.
And this is the reason for not fulfilling desires.
This is the reason for not letting your desires stay at one
place.
When you are not letting your desires stay at one place,
then the one who is going to give,
also gets confused.
Until he prepares to give,
until you change your desire.
I told you, you asked for five things,
the shopkeeper is going to give one by one,
you are changing, you don't have anything.
One person came, asked for one thing,
the shopkeeper gave it to him and he took it away.
At least he took one thing with him.
You asked for five things instead of one,
you got nothing.
So, that is the problem.
So, one time,
there must be one desire only.
Clearly,
there should be only one desire,
at one time.
In this,
you don't have confidence,
you don't have patience.
Sometimes you are not confident,
that's why you change your desire.
Sometimes you don't have patience,
that's why you change your desire.
Sometimes you don't have confidence in yourself,
that whatever you have asked for,
will I get it or not?
That's why I ask for another small thing.
Sometimes you are so anxious to get it,
that you think, I will take this,
I will take this, I will take this.
But the one who is going to give,
himself gets confused.
Neither he could give, nor he could give,
nor he could give, you didn't get anything.
One thing is to have a clear concept, that what do you want?
And to be confident about it.
Second,
patience is necessary.
To have patience.
Many times our patience gives the answer,
and we change our desire.
We question the one who gives.
You are not questioning the one who gives,
you are questioning yourself.
You start thinking,
maybe I won't get this thing.
The one who is giving,
is planning to give.
He is in the process of giving.
He is delivering that thing for you.
And you think,
I won't get this thing.
Maybe I don't deserve this thing.
I am not worthy of this thing.
The one who is giving, got confused.
Oh God!
I am going to give this thing to him.
Subconscious mind says,
Oh God!
What is this confusion?
I am going to give this thing to him.
Now you are confused.
Should I give or not?
Because you are confused, he is also confused.
So, once you are clear in your demand,
and after being clear,
maintain your confidence,
continuously,
and for some time,
keep patience.
Maintain patience.
Patience is a very important thing.
Maintain it.
For those who demand 10 at a time,
forget 10,
not even one desire is fulfilled.
And by doing it one by one,
20 desires of those who demand 20,
are fulfilled.
Now you understand the thing.
Not your 10,
50 demands will be fulfilled,
but
you will not get 50 at a time.
If you make 10 demands at a time,
not even one of the 10 will be fulfilled.
But by doing it one by one,
until one is fulfilled,
do not demand for the other.
Until it is not fulfilled,
continue his demand,
continue his affirmation,
continue his manifestation, continue his demand.
Continue your impatience towards him.
Do not let your impatience turn to the other side.
Let me talk on a light note.
You are college friends.
You want to have a friendship with a girl.
You tried hard, you tried hard,
as soon as the matter reached him,
the message was going right,
the relationship was going well,
but it took some time for this to happen.
Now she is also attracted to you,
she is ready to accept your offer.
But now your impatience,
your patience is giving the answer.
You have started feeling that she will not say yes,
she will not say yes.
That is not right,
now this is right.
The day she comes back from home,
to say yes,
you are seen with someone else.
Or you are seen going after someone else.
Yes, it has not happened from there yet.
She saw,
she said no.
And you are going here, here also she is going to be with
you,
because you do not have the patience.
Baba, everything is possible.
Everything is possible.
Have some patience.
Have some confidence.
Keep your confidence.
You will get everything.
Everything you will get for you.
You will get everything,
according to your mind.
Clear your desire,
your demand,
your affirmation.
Be confident about it.
And until you get it,
continue to demand it.
Do not change.
What happens here?
I want this car.
I do not know if I will get it or not.
It is expensive.
I calculated it myself.
I do not want this, I want this.
She was driving for 2-4 days.
Then she changed and said she wants this.
Then she said she wants this.
Then she found out,
after a year, 2 years, 4 years,
she did not get any car.
She did not get any car.
If you keep on making demand on one thing,
whether it is expensive or cheap, how will it be?
It is not your job to think about it.
This is the work of the universe.
In the market, children go with their parents to the fair.
They say, I want this thing.
They don't think about how much this thing is worth, how it
will come.
This thinking is the work of the father, he makes him get
it.
The child says, how will this thing come? When he thinks
how it will come, he says, okay, let it be.
Demand cancelled.
You must have seen in your house, you have three children.
One of them fulfills all his demands.
While the other one is compromised.
Because how will he think, why should I bother my father?
The father also says, okay, fine.
The one who doesn't think, his demands are fulfilled.
Gradually, all his demands are fulfilled.
When he grows up, he gets admission in his favorite school,
college.
He gets everything.
And in the same way, because of his victory, he gets more
happiness, wealth, everything in life.
Because he didn't have to think how to fulfill his demands.
He just had to demand.
You also become selfish about your demands.
Becoming selfish, asking for things, thinking how to get
them, is not your job.
The day you start thinking how it will come, then the
question will arise on how to fulfill it.
You may not get those things again.
Maybe you won't get them again.
Believe me.
Therefore, first of all, you should be confident and clear
in your demands.
Then keep the continuity of that demand clear.
You will say, what to do if I get negative thoughts many
times?
Whenever you get negative thoughts, immediately, you
replace it with positive thoughts.
You replace it with positive thoughts on that day, at that
time.
In the power of the subconscious mind,
Mr. Murphy gives an example.
A girl goes to a mall.
There she sees a beautiful bag for girls.
She likes it.
She wants to buy it.
But when she sees its price, she doesn't allow her pocket.
She is about to say,
I can't take this bag.
It is out of my pocket.
I don't deserve it.
But at that time, she remembered the affirmation.
The thing that replaces negative thoughts with positive
thoughts.
The thing that she heard in Mr. Murphy's motivational
session.
He says, an idea can change the life.
She remembered that idea.
And she replaced the negative thoughts that she had about
the bag with positive thoughts.
No, I can take this bag.
This bag is mine.
I deserve it.
It is for sale in the market.
So it is mine.
It is for me.
By thinking like this, what happened to the universe?
A message went to the genie.
You said, this bag is mine.
What did your genie say?
Yes, my master.
This bag is yours.
And it is my responsibility to deliver it to you.
The universe is ready to take that responsibility.
But we become foolish and interfere.
We interfere in our own desires.
We don't let them be fulfilled.
So don't be foolish.
Don't interfere in your own desires.
If you want to fulfill your desires, then don't interfere.
Let it be.
Let it be fulfilled.
So, be confident.
I was talking about the girl.
What happened when she said this?
It was her birthday that day.
When she meets her fiancé in a restaurant for the birthday
party, her fiancé, her fiance, has brought a gift for her.
When she opens the gift, she is surprised.
Do you know why?
Because in that gift pack, there was the same bag that she
saw in that mall.
The universe made her fiancé a medium and fulfilled her
desire. This is the headache of the universe.
How does it fulfill your desires? But if you feel that you
can't do it, that you are not able to do it, then the
universe can't do anything.
If you feel that you can do it, that you can write this
book, that you can write, that you can write, then keep
your positivity.
You don't have to write.
The universe has to make you do this work.
He will somehow make arrangements for it.
But you keep this positivity that
I can write,
I am writing,
I will definitely do this.
I am the writer of this book.
While printing that book, while publishing it, visualize
that the world is reading your book.
People are reading your book.
The book is being inaugurated.
People are reading it and feeling happy.
They are enjoying the lesson.
Manifest this.
Make affirmations.
Think like this.
This will happen.
It will definitely happen.
Think about it.
Your book is being translated in the whole world.
Just like Mr.
Murphy thinks that his book should be translated in French.
He is just thinking about it.
Everyday, everyday, everyday, everyday.
And one day, he gets an offer like this.
You also think like this.
Everyone is reading my book.
So your book will be written, published, the world will
read it.
But when you ask yourself a question that you are not able
to do it, then it will not happen.
Then it will not happen.
You just have to think that it will happen, it will happen,
it will happen.
I am able to do it.
My book has been published.
How it was inaugurated on the stage, think about that scene.
Visualize that situation.
Everyone is feeling happy.
They are reading your book.
Look at that scene.
Remember that.
Everything is possible.
Your every wish is the universe.
You said that my book is being published.
Your genie said, Yes, my master.
It is the responsibility of genie to publish it, not yours.
My book is being written.
It is being written.
My book is being written.
I am writing.
Yes, my master.
Yes.
Your genie said yes to this.
Whatever you think,
Your genie, subconscious mind, universe has to say yes to
everything.
Yes to your no and yes to your yes.
And after that, if you say no, you don't have to do the
work, it's their work.
And if you say yes, then doing the work is also their work.
You are not a doer.
What misunderstanding are you living in that you are a doer?
You are a doer, remove this thought.
Your work is to decide to do the work, to affirm, to
manifest, to demand.
I am a writer, Vinit Gautam.
I am a writer, I am a writer, I am a writer.
I am writing a spiritual book on my Guru, which has been
given by Gurudev.
I am writing a book, I am writing a book, I am writing a
book.
The process is going on.
Now there will be publishing, on publishing, on
inauguration.
There is such a crowd on Guru Purnima.
Guruji is inaugurating himself.
The whole world is watching.
Life is going on.
Everyone is getting happy.
I am very happy to see this scene.
I am very happy.
I want my book.
I want it.
The book on which my name is written,
I want that book.
I want the book.
I am writing the book.
I want the book.
The one who said,
I am writing the book.
The work of writing is of the universe.
If your hand writes, your subconscious mind is going to
give the instruction. Not the conscious mind.
Not the conscious mind.
If you say this to the conscious mind, that it is not
happening, then the conscious mind stops the hand. It
creates a situation where it is not written.
Why do you talk like this?
Don't talk like this.
Open your hand.
Leave it.
And accept that the book is being written.
I have written a book on corporate in the name of learning
attitude.
The book is going to be published.
It is being published.
The world is reading it.
Different opinions are coming.
A lot of positive is coming.
Everyone is getting happy after reading it.
They are learning from it.
They are congratulating you.
Your book on life skills, you can do.
It has come.
People are reading it.
You are getting congratulations from the whole world.
Everyone, everyone, this affirmation, to complete it, the
work of the universe, the work of the subconscious mind,
keep making your affirmation.
Keep making positivity.
Every work will be completed.
It will definitely be completed.
No one will stop it if you don't stop it yourself.
If you want to stop it yourself, then the matter is
different.
If you don't stop it yourself, then no one else will stop
it.
No one will stop it.
So, it's up to you.
Here I was talking about, because your being confident is
very important in your law of attraction, which is a major
part in your success blueprint.
Law of attraction can make you successful.
But how?
When you are confident about your desires, about your
demands, about your actions, which you don't have to do,
you said,
I can do this.
The one who said,
Yes, my master, he will do it.
You just have to confidently say,
Yes.
Now, if you raise a question in that too, then it's your
problem. So, here I am talking about,
There are several ways you can increase your
self-confidence.
Whether you lack confidence in one specific area, or
struggle to feel confident, these nine tips can help you be
more confident. These nine tips are going to make you more
confident.
Stop comparing yourself to others.
The society in which you live, the people you are in
contact with, you keep comparing yourself to them.
Whenever you have a desire to achieve something new, you
compare yourself to the people of your society.
Many times, when you express your desire to become an IAS
officer, they say,
Is there anyone in the family who will become an IAS
officer?
You compare yourself to them, and you kill that desire.
Now, listen to this carefully, The desire that arose in
you, it arose because, it was awakened by the desire.
The desire knows what capability you have in real life,
what purpose you have come into this world. This desire did
not arise by itself.
The one who has put it, will also fulfill it there.
When he will fulfill it there, then why are you comparing
yourself to the people around you, and why are you killing
that desire there?
Therefore, stop comparing yourself to others.
It is not necessary that what has not happened till now, in
your society, will not happen even now.
Why will it not happen?
It has not happened till now.
That is why,
God felt pity, that there should be such a person in his
society.
He sent you to become an IAS officer, to become a role
model for everyone.
And you, you want to become one of them.
You came to become a role model for them, that you become
an IAS officer, then tomorrow all the people in your
society will say, that there is an IAS officer among us,
till now, the people who have come to say, that there is no
IAS officer among us,
Tumhare mann mein aayi hai, ikchha ek beej hai, jis beej se
ek podha banega, ped banega, aur yeh beej kahan se aayi?
Yeh beej ikchha wali upar wale ne daali hai.
Upar wale ne daali hai, kya tum uspe sandeh kar rahe ho,
uspe sankha kar rahe ho?
Uske banaye sareed mein, uske mann mein, uske banaya hue,
usne ek ikchha daali hai, jisko dridh karna, balvati karna,
uspe biswas karna,
Us ekchha pe biswas nahi karna, matlab aapka apne aap pe
biswas nahi karna, aur apne aap pe biswas means, aap galt
message uske liye de rahe ho, uspe bhi biswas nahi karna.
To agar aap kuch different karna chahate ho, kuch different
karne ke liye tum bane ho, aisi soch aati hai, kuch
different, matlab upar wale tum pe, kuch different karna
chahata hai, tum kuch different karne ke liye aaye ho.
Isliye doosron se compare karna, aur apne aap ko demoralize
karna, demotivate karna band karo.
Tum doosron ke liye role model banne aaye ho, jis soch mein
wo aaj tak doob rahe the, mar rahe the, us soch ko badalne
aaye ho, aur tum unki tarahi banjana chahate ho.
A comparison tumhe yeh kaam karwaati hai, isliye kabhi bhi
aap apna comparison doosron se nahi kare, bilkul nahi kare,
kyunki comparison karke kya hota hai, how do you build self
confidence when you notice that you are drawing comparisons.
First, remind yourself that doing so isn't helpful,
everyone is running their own race and life isn't a
competition.
Aur tum unki tarahi banke rahe jana chahate ho, yeh tum
apne banane wale ke saath anyaay kar rahe ho, uske saath
kar rahe ho, usne tumhe unme se ek banne ke liye nahi, unke
liye role model banne ke liye bheja hai.
To apne us iksha ko banaye rakho, banaye rakho, wo bhi toh
aisa hi chahate hai, aaj tak aisa nahi hua hai, agar
scientist agar soch rehte yeh bulb kaise banega, roshni
kaise aayegi, toh aaj hum bulb ki roshni mein nahi hote.
Jitne bhi invention hue, aaj tak nahi hue, agar wo aisa
soch le, ki aaj tak nahi hua toh kaise hoga, toh nahi hote
inventions.
So you are here for doing something different, that's why
different ideas are coming in your mind.
Soch ho tumhare dimaag mein hi hua idea kyu aaya, kisi aur
ke dimaag mein kyu nahi, kyunki tum different banne ke liye
aaye ho.
So stop comparing yourself to anybody else, kisi aur ke
saath khud ki comparison karna band karo, bilkul band karo.
So one tip for being confident.
Next is, surround yourself with positive people.
Next example, jaise main upar wale points mein hi bol raha
tha, ki jab aapke dimaag mein IAS officer banne ki iksha
aayi, toh baho se log purane baato ka example dekhe ki
hamare samaj mein aaj tak koi bana nahi, toh tum kaise
banoge.
Aisi baate tumhe samjhane lag gaye.
Tum nahi ban sakte, tumhara baap toh wo hai, tum uske bete
ho, tum is jaati mein ho, tumhari sikhsha itni hai, tum
kaise kar sakte ho.
Tum is school se padhe hue ho, economical condition tumhari
itni kharab hai, tum nahi kar sakte ho.
Aisi baate kar kar ke, jo log tumhe demoralize kar rahe
hain, demotivate kar rahe hain, jo tumhare baare mein
tumhari feeling negative kar rahe hain, jo achi iksha aayi
thi tum kuch kar gujarana chahate the, aaj un logone tarah
tarah ke negative baate
karke, tumhari us iksha ko negative kar diya, tum bhi apne
aap ke baare mein yeh sochne lag gaye ho, ki sahi baat hai,
main is jaati se hu, main aisa kaise kar sakta hu.
Mere economical siti itni achi nahi hai, main achi school
se sikhsha praapt nahi kiya, main yeh kaam kaise kar sakta
hu.
Jo log tumhare baare mein bad feel kar rahe hain, jin se
baat karke, ya jis kisi particular bande se baat karke,
tumhe apne baare mein negative feeling aaye, toh tum us
bande ko, us society ko, soch lo ki good bye kahne ka time
aagaya hai, and you are
to take a hard decision to say good bye to that person or
that society.
Tumhe unse baat karke apne baare mein bura bura feel hota
hai, tumhe aisa lagne lag jaata hai, ki vasto mein tum
capable nahi ho, toh is samay tumhe apni us iksha ko nahi
chodna hai, un logon ka, us bande ka saath chodna hai, apni
iksha ko banaye rakhna
hai.
Khud ke saath chalo, us ko chhodo, ya us society ko chhodo,
mat chhodo khud ka saath, mat chhodo apne us iksha ka
saath, jo tumhe aage badhne ke liye predit karte hai, tumhe
kuch kar gujarne ke liye predit karte hai, toh iksha agar
tumhare mann mein uparwale
ne dali hai, toh wo tumse kuch khaas kaam karwana chahata
hai, agar uske aade koi khaas banda aa raha hai, ya koi
khaas society aa rahi hai, toh tum usse chhod do, wahan se
nikal jao, aur wo step lene ka time aaj hi hai, aaj, abhi.
Just go and take this step, say goodbye to that person or
that society, but apni iksha ko, us iksha ko goodbye mat
kaho, kyunki aisa karke tum apna saath chhodoge, tumhari
iksha tumhare saath hone chahiye, phir uska saath bhi chhod
rahe ho, kyunki aaj
jin ki baat maan ke, tumh apni iksha chhod rahe ho. You are
leaving your support, you are leaving his support.
Those people will leave your support tomorrow.
Therefore, before they leave, you leave them.
You leave them.
The people you spend time with can influence your thoughts
and attitude.
The people you spend time with can influence your thoughts
and attitude.
Perhaps, more than you realize.
You do more than you think.
Because slowly, slowly, you are like a sugar bag.
You pour water on it, the whole glass.
Slowly, slowly, that bag absorbs all the water.
Similarly, your mind, your brain, the negative thoughts
that are going on around you, slowly, slowly, it absorbs
them.
You feel that you are the same.
No, when you change, you don't even realize it.
Your weight slowly, slowly, increases.
You look at yourself every day, but you don't realize it.
When you weigh yourself, you realize that your weight has
increased.
Without weighing yourself, you see yourself every day, but
how come you don't realize it?
Slowly, slowly, it increases. You couldn't even assess it.
Similarly, when the effects of their negative thoughts are
coming on your thoughts, and when you start working
according to their thoughts, you don't even realize it.
Similarly, when simple young men become terrorists, slowly,
slowly, their thoughts and actions are changed.
As long as they are able to understand, they have already
become terrorists.
And now, they are not able to get out of it.
Therefore, you should accept that the society in which you
are, the effect of that society on your thoughts is more
than what you think.
It is said that the people you spend time with can
influence your thoughts and attitudes about yourself.
Perhaps, more than you realize.
The people you spend time with can influence your thoughts
and attitudes about yourself.
Perhaps, more than what you think.
So, pay attention to how others make you feel.
If you feel bad about yourself, if you feel bad about
yourself, after hanging out with a particular person, after
living with a particular person, after living with a
particular society, if you feel bad about yourself, that I
am not capable, my look is
not good, my personality is not good, my caste is not good,
my qualification is not good, if you feel like this, then
it may be time to say goodbye.
So, as I said earlier, the one who is negating your
thoughts about yourself, the one who is talking about
sacrificing your will, the one who is talking about
stopping you from moving forward,
it is time to say goodbye to that person.
Don't say goodbye to your will.
Don't say goodbye to your positive thoughts.
Say goodbye to those who are trying to make your positive
thoughts negative, who are trying to prove you negative.
Who are trying to kill your will.
I will say to those girls, that the society that tells you
that studying is not a girl's right, that you have the
right to get married at the age of 14, 12 or 11, you should
get married, you are born to make children, the society
that gives you such thoughts,
and does not want to let you study, don't kill your will to
study, leave that society.
Keep your positive will, to study, to write, to move
forward, live with your will, live with your dreams, move
forward with your dreams, fulfill your dreams. This is your
right.
Remember one thing, if you have such a desire in your mind,
then it is the one who has created you. Have faith in
yourself.
Have faith in your will, that you can do this.
Don't leave it.
Have faith in it.
You can't do what the other person tells you to do.
Your will is not right.
You are not made for this.
You should not study.
You should get married and have children.
Leave that person, leave that society.
Leave it.
This is the confidence.
Should I talk further?
Instead, surround yourself with people who love you and
want the best of you.
Leave such people, surround yourself with those who love
you, who want the best for you.
Seek out others who are positive and can help build your
confidence.
You should find such people who have positive thoughts, who
make you feel good about yourself.
They say you can do it.
You should study.
You should not get married at this age.
Surround yourself with them.
Surround yourself with that society.
Because this positive attitude, positive thinking will help
you build your confidence.
Self confidence and positive attitude go hand in hand.
If this thing, if positive attitude builds up,
then you are confident, you are positive. If you are
positive, you are confident.
So, second point.
First was, do not compare yourself with anyone.
Second was, keep yourself in the society of positive
people. Stay away from negative people.
Those who down your confidence, down your morale.
Stay away from them.
Next is, take care of your body.
Take care of your body.
Body.
Healthy body keeps healthy mind.
And healthy mind, having healthy ideas.
And for completing your ideas, for fulfillment of your
ideas, the support of healthy body is always required.
So, it is important for your body to be healthy.
So that healthy mind is there, and healthy ideas are there.
If your body is healthy, then you can do this.
This is how you feel, with confidence.
And when you are sick,
coughing, body is not supporting you, then you think, I
can't do anything, I can't do it.
Body is not supporting me.
Even if I get ideas,
how will I do it, body is not supporting me.
Confidence down.
So,
today if I can record for an hour, two hours, three hours,
four hours,
because I am feeling healthy.
If I don't have the strength to stand for so long,
Idea is here, I want to record, I am talking to you, but
body is not supporting me.
I said, let it be.
Means, even if you want, you are not able to maintain your
confidence, you are not able to execute your ideas, because
your body is not supporting you.
So, take care of your body.
This beautiful body, the body of the Lord, the body of the
Lord,
God has given you as a gift.
So, one way to thank him is, to take care of this body.
Take complete care of it.
It is said, Sukrat was not so smart, but he used to keep a
piece of glass in his bag, and he used to look at his face
again and again.
People used to say, you are not so beautiful, but why do
you keep looking at your face again and again?
He said,
such a good body, however it is, but it is very good,
he has given it to us as a gift.
So, I just take care of this gift,
I meditate on it,
I thank him,
O Lord, you have given such a beautiful body, beautiful
mind, every part of it is complete,
I thank you.
If someone, if someone of your kind, has given you a good
gift,
and you do not take care of it, if someone comes to your
house, and there is dirt on him, if he is in a bad
condition,
will you feel good to see him?
Will you feel good?
Similarly, he has given you such a good gift, he has given
you such a good body, and you do not take care of it,
will he feel good?
If you take care of a person's gift, and you take such
care, then next time he will try to give you a better gift.
Similarly, he will do it.
That is why,
from the point of view of saying thanks, and you,
you should be able to execute the ideas that come to your
mind, you should be able to give it a real form, for this,
the health of the body will be very important, otherwise,
many times, even if you want, you will not be able to do
it, you will not be
able to do it,
you want to go on stage for an hour or two, and give a
motivational speech,
but the body is not supporting you,
you will not be able to do it even if you want to, that is
why,
take care of your body, you want to work for 18 hours,
but the body is not supporting you,
if you remain fit like Modi Ji, then even at the age of 72,
73, you can do 18 hours, without falling sick, sickness is
also called goodbye, there is no entry for you here, this
is a healthy body, there is no entry for you here, and when
you said this,
in the form of a conscious mind, then your subconscious
mind, which is your genie, it says, yes my master, and he
stopped the disease there,
the universe stopped all the negative germs of the disease,
you said, there is no need for disease to come here,
I am feeling healthy,
I am healthy,
I am not sick,
all diseases, even cancer, get cured, in front of a
positive thought, affirmation, in front of manifestation,
yes, so,
you take care of your body,
for this,
if you are calling your body negative, then it is difficult
to feel good,
when you practice self-care, you know you are doing
something,
positive for your mind, body and spirit,
yes, here are, few self-care practices linked, to higher
levels of self-confidence,
some more self-care, especially for the body, that you take
care of it, you can improve your self-confidence, you can
make it better, how? there are some more tips, for making a
better body, it is important to take care of the diet, you
said, take care
of the body, it is not possible to take care of the body
only,
with taking care, you have to do something else also, what?
diet,
you have to give diet to your body,
healthy eating, comes with many benefits, healthy eating,
comes with many benefits,
including, higher levels of confidence,
healthy eating, higher level of confidence,
you feel in yourself, you want to give a speech of 4 hours,
I can do,
because the diet is in my hands, you are feeling healthy,
you have confidence,
you are a wrestler, diet is in your hands, the body has
power,
I will do it,
I will beat it, confidence, where did it come from? from a
healthy diet, from a healthy body,
self-esteem, when you fuel your body, with nutrient dense
foods, when you give fuel to your body, give energy,
with a balanced diet,
you feel healthier, you are in yourself, you think,
I have eaten almonds, cashews, raisins, walnuts,
fruit juice, milk,
energy tablets,
I have eaten all these things,
in this thinking,
when you feel down, when you feel pain,
when you feel pain,
this thinking gives you confidence,
you have had double glass of juice,
you have eaten green vegetables, you have eaten a plate of
salad,
you are feeling strong,
and when your conscious mind said,
what did the subconscious mind say? yes my master, you are
feeling strong, and then the subconscious mind, gave order
to every part of the body,
don't eat and drink,
pain will not work, diet is strong, so you are strong,
and that feeling,
went to every part of the body, and you are feeling strong,
and more energized, and you are feeling more energy,
sometimes when you feel down,
you remember that you are hungry, that is why you are
feeling like this,
and when you say like this, what did your genie say? yes my
master, and he made you feel down, but you have eaten food,
you said,
I have eaten food,
I have full energy,
I can't feel down, then genie said, yes my master,
and then, the part, the leg, that is not moving, the
subconscious mind gave instruction, stand up, move forward,
you have taken full diet, you have full energy, you can't
do pull down, and then the leg, started to stand up,
started to run, and the person
who was down, got up, stood up, and ran and won the race,
because of healthy diet, positive energy, Energy positive
feeling was another I feeling better
about yourself up a puny bar in a better feel Karte hai
or up
Haribhi Bajji B
Jeet Jatay Hain Haribhi Bajji
Jeet Jatay Hain
Kya Karte Hain Jeet Jatay Hain
Okay Next is exercise
Well, I'm Nevada Kia
Kya Diet Key healthy body Kiliya of exercise
studies consistently so that physical exercise boosts
self-confidence
Studies Consistently about Battalion to physical exercise
Karnasi
Apka self-confidence with that
the K exercise Karenge aapki body fit Reggie
Apka diet say Raga apka digestion say Raga
chair a pig low Reggie
Apco appreciation Mila
Or Apki better physic they K aapke opposition wale aapne
wale opposite sex wale bhi attract hote hain
We did key a duniya Dari me negative just see botany a a
duniya Dari
Negative Kata female male ko banai isliye ki ek doosre ka
attraction ho aur isi attraction ke base physical life
chalta hai
A bhautik Vodka base yeh yeh agar male female ka attraction
nah ho
Uparwale ne male me jo organ bataye hain jo banaye hain
uske parthi
gents ka jo male ka attraction hona
Kyu hai are bhai oek organ hi hai na
Aisa ek
Aapka sakte ho ki
Ek deodorant
Aisa hai
Kete hain ki bachpan me toh theek hai
Jaisa jaisa bachche bade hote hain
Jab girls ki poverty ki time aati hai aur boys ki
Jo moustache ka time aane lag jata hai jab teen age me
entry karte hain
Toh aisa ek insulin ek aisa liquid
Sareer me banna suru hota hai
Ladies ki girls ke sareer me aisa draw
Develop hota hai liquid develop hota hai
Jiski frequency jo uski
Jiska flavor hai uski khusbu hai
Wo gents ko achi lagti hai jo
Khusbu naturally girls me built ho rahi hai
Wo kisko pasand hai boys ko
Aur jo mardana khusbu
Boys me built ho rahi hai jo ki teen age me banna suru hoti
hai
Wo pasand kisko aa rahi hai girls ko
Jo feminine wali khusbu
Aapne suna hoga ki ye perfume lady perfume hai ye deodorant
gents deodorant
Kyun Lady deodorant
Lady deodorant is point of view se banaya jaate hain jo use
to ladies karte hain
But who attract boys ko karte hain
Aur jo boys deodorant use kar rahe hain ye unke usi natural
Jo mardana wali khusbu naturally upar wali ne banai hai
jiske karan girls unki tarah attract hoti hain
Uska outer part hai wo wo upar se duo wala daal rahe hain
jisse ki wo girls attract ho rahi hain
To ye male female ka attraction
Aisa kya hai
Wo thoda aage ka ubra hua bhaag piche ka ubra hua bhaag
Aisa kya hai usme kuch bhi nahi hai
Lekin ek aisi soch
Daal di gayi hai unke sareer se aisa srao
Khusbu nikal rahi hai natural jiske parti banda attract
hota chala jaata hai
Ye naturally built hai
Isliye attract hona natural hai
aur Jab exercise aap karte hain to aap ki body real shape
me aati hai agar girls hain
To real physics Developed hoti hai cha back side o cha
front side o cha thighs ho
Chai hips ho chai boobs ho
Chai aapka chehra real shape me
aapke kate rasile hot
Aapki aankhon me chamak aapki chamak daar karli baal
Aapki jab body fit hai hips to aapki chaal bhi badi
Kate haath you alichal
Aur yeh saari cheeche kya karti hai
Yeh aapke opposite sex me
attraction payda karti hai
Aur jo wo attract hoke aapko appreciate karega
to aap
Confident feel karege aur yeh kyu hua because of doing
exercise
Aapki body ki skin bhi exercise karte hai
Aap exercise karte hai
Aur diet lete hai
To aapki skin bhi chamakti hai jo ki saamne wale ko pasand
aati hai kya chamak hai bhai
Aise hi jab aap exercise karte hai
boys To aapki bhi physics mardana o development o dole sole
o thighs o
chodi chhati jo ki aur to ko pasand hai
Chodi chhati dekhti hai boys ki to wo impress ho jati hai
Jo majboot jabde dekhti hai to impress ho jati hai
Jo majboot aapki baju dekhti hai to impress ho jati hai
majboot thighs dekhti hai to impress ho jati hai
Aisa impress hona
Natural hai kyunki inbuilt hi aisa banaya gaya hai ki
female ka male ke parti attract hona hai aur in cheezon ko
dekh ke attract hona hai wo kahte hai na
Ki female ke paas mein wo hai jo male ko chahiye aur male
ke paas mein wo hai jo female ko chahiye aur
Dono ka ek dusre ke parti attraction hai ek aise
Aise ek draw hai aisa ek liquid hai ek aisa insulin
Teenage mein develop hota hai jo dono ka attraction ek
dusre ke parti banata hai
Jab aap extra perfume use karte hain
Physical exercise se aap body fit banate hain
to saamne wale ke parti attraction ek dusre ke parti banta
hai
aur aap Jiske parti attract hai
Woh bhi aapko aisa hi response de rahi hai ya de raha hai
To aap confident feel karte hain
Woh bhi confident feel karegi ya karega
Aur is tari ke se dono mein confidence develop hota hai
karte hai that the physical exercise boosts self-confidence
For instance study found that regular physical activity
improved
participants body image body ke ek betar image banti hai and
When their body image improved they felt more confident
Main aapko real practical psychological example diya
Ki ye
Duniya jo bhotik vaad hai
Male female ka ek dusre ke parti attraction ke kaaran hi
chal raha hai
Uparwale ne bhi aisa banaya hai
Ki jo male mein hai usko dekh ke female attract hoti hai jo
female mein hai
Usko dekh ke male attract hota hai jo khusbi naturally
Female mein se nikal rahi hai wo male ko pasand hai aur jo
male se khusbu nikal rahi hai
Woh female ko pasand hai
Isliye male aur female ka perfume alag hai
Kyuki Male ka jo perfume hai usme naturally jo male wali
khusbu bani hai
Usko badhana ka kaam karti hai aur
Aapko bataun jo male wali perfume hai wo vasto mein attract
kiso karta hai female ko
Aur jo female ka perfume hai wo attract kiso karta hai male
ko
Jo kapde jo jayan kiye jaate hai
Jis tarike se design karke female ko pehnai jaate hai ki
kuch part dhake kuch
Dike ubhre kis liye taaki attraction bana rahe
Taaki attraction bana rahe kyuki attraction jis din khatam
us din
Kaya ki saadi kaya ka love kaya ka attraction kaya ka
likeness main teri liye kyon maru gift ke liye main teri
liye kyon karun
Bhai saadi hoti hai kyunki dono ki physical requirement
hoti hai chahe wife ho chahe husband ho
dono ki hai
Samaj mein ek balance bana rahe isliye kar diya gaya
Pehle hote the bhai khubsurat aurte hoti thi
Jinko sab log karte hai na ki wo raj ki bahu maan lete the
sab apni iksha purti ke liye uske paas jaate the
Cheeky aaj humne saadi karke apne apne kar lete
Because it is based on that only and if you
do physical development through your exercise, if you have
a better body shape and image
then it is an attraction.
Your family life
is better, your environment outside the office is also
better.
It is not necessary that we do everything from a bad point
of view, but
if you have a beautiful girl, a good physique, then it is
an attraction. If you have a good boss, a good body shape,
then it is also an attraction.
So, in general, it is an attraction and because of that
attraction you get confidence.
If someone looks at you and says that your nose is very
crooked, will you get confidence?
If someone comments that you are a lean and thin guy,
neither proper hairstyle nor makeup,
neither proper shaving,
what a body you have, you are a man of one bone, then your
confidence goes down.
If you see a girl who is of a bad complexion,
if she is of a bad complexion,
you must have seen many girls who are of a bad complexion,
but their physique is good, what an attraction, mind is
happy.
So, complexion does not matter, but better physique is
always matter.
Wear the dress according to your liking and that is an
attraction.
So, when someone else's attraction is created, your
confidence is boosted.
So, you can't deny the importance of exercise. I am talking
about this topic.
Next is meditation.
See, meditation is not an exercise to relax.
Meditation is something which is going to introduce
yourself to yourself.
By going into deep breathing, deep meditation,
you can identify yourself, your real image, why you have
come.
So, meditation, yoga, all these things,
in your whole day,
the negativity that came in your thinking from all sides,
you focused it, introspected it, concentrated it and now
you are able to develop it,
you are able to boost your morale.
You know, when you are feeling better physically,
well-dressed, you feel confident,
you are able to do extra work,
because you are looking good.
You are feeling good,
such thinking inspires you to do better work.
You do it and you get the response.
Yes, so,
meditation introduces you to yourself.
Meditation is not just a relaxation practice. Meditation
can help boost self-confidence in several ways.
For one, it helps you to recognize and accept yourself.
You are able to know who you are,
why you are here, what is the purpose of your life, what is
your motto, your energy.
Secondly, you can do your external cleaning with soap, you
can wash your clothes with detergent.
But internal cleaning, even if there is negativity in your
thinking, it helps to clear it.
Meditation helps you to get rid of your thoughts and
intentions.
You are not able to get rid of yourself.
When you meet yourself, you will naturally feel confident.
So, it is helping in boosting your confidence.
Meditation also teaches you to stop negative self-talk and
disconnect from unhelpful.
So, I was talking about
Meditation also teaches you to stop negative self-talk.
If you are from a lower caste, if you have a poor economic
background, if you belong to this state, if you belong to
this country, if you have never done such a thing in your
life, if you can never do such a thing, such things are put
in your mind and
you gradually
I have said this before that other people's thoughts affect
you.
Maybe your thoughts are more than what you think.
When those thoughts make you go away from your thoughts and
intentions, you don't even realize it.
When you meditate, you go back to yourself again.
Meditation teaches you to go back to yourself, to your
thoughts, to your intentions
and you come back to yourself again.
And you are feeling confident.
You stop negative self-talk and disconnect from unhelpful
mental chatter and the negative chatting that is going on
in the mind helps to disconnect with your confidence.
And this way, skimping on sleep and this way your
confidence which by doing negative chatting which has come
in the mind due to other people's thoughts, your confidence
is down.
In that, by removing these things, your self-talk has
become positive again and your thoughts are positive, your
intentions are positive, they have come to you and again
you come out with your intentions and your positive
thoughts.
So, meditation is going to help you in avoiding the
negative self-talk, negative things, negative thoughts
which are coming from the outside to you, going to
influence you.
You remove them.
The power of energy comes from inside.
The flow of water comes from inside.
When this happens, the dirt on the surface scatters
everyone away and the water becomes clean.
Similarly, when we do meditation, the energy arises from
inside and that energy which has come from outside,
scatters everyone away and your natural thoughts, natural
activities, which were self-talk positive, that I can do
about you, again comes to you
and you are feeling confident.
Then, you can say, meditation is going to help you in this
way, in feeling confident.
Next point is, sleeping.
It is said, a sound sleep is very, very much crucial, just
like exercise for keeping you healthy.
If you want to be healthy, if you want to be healthy, then
sound sleep is very, very important.
Sound sleep is very important.
If you want to be healthy, if you want to be healthy, then.
Why? Because what is sleeping?
Sleeping is a process of relaxing your body.
How do we relax?
By working all day, the cells which are broken, which we
call as tiredness
how do we get rid of that tiredness? when we sleep we relax
our body we give rest so when we get that time those cells
slowly get repaired after repairing the cells when you were
feeling weak feeling light now you start feeling energetic
your organs the
organs which were tired because of working all day now they
are in relaxed mode in their real shape they are standing
straight like you were being burdened you were suppressing
now the burden is removed
you see, you put a stick on a plant
it doesn't break it turns slowly when you remove that stick
the weight then slowly slowly it stands again you can say
that by working all day our tiredness our body condition
becomes like that plant which is suppressing but when we
remove that burden
of tiredness at night and leave it relaxed then slowly it
stands again and comes in its real shape if you can't do
this for a long time if you keep the plant suppressed by
that weight then the portion which is suppressed will start
to dry similarly when
we don't give proper sleep to our body don't relax it then
in many parts of our body problems start even if we don't
take sound sleep irritation irritation even heart attack
like serious problem also happens the body starts to become
weak and when the
body becomes weak then you know in this society it is said
that whenever you are breaking from inside don't tell this
to anyone in this society why? because people take the
bricks of the broken temple people break the broken one
once Shankar ji and Parvati
ji are going
Parvati asked Shankar ji
Prabhu you make the broken one more and make it better and
the broken ones they are getting poorer and richer and
richer why is this? he said I am not doing this, everyone
does this he said no, this is the divine play he said
I will answer your question
I am hungry make arrangements for food
I will answer after eating he said ok to eat quickly they
collect some things like wood then to make food they use
bricks they collect bricks to make food then he asked where
did you get the bricks? he said there was a broken well
there the edges the
walls the walls were breaking so I got some more bricks he
said that far away there is a well nearby the walls are
very good why didn't you get from there? he said the walls
were good why would I break them?
I got the broken one he said you are also doing the same
the broken one
I broke it more the good one
I didn't do anything means to say if you are broken you
start looking like the well was visible then people will
start collecting bricks one by one until the whole brick is
gone if you declare yourself as broken then people will
take the bricks one by
one they will try to break you in every way you came in
emotion and said that I have this pain this pain the world
is not the provider of your pain and pain they will
increase your pain that is why you are broken never declare
this way don't tell anyone
about your pain if you tell people about your pain people
will make fun of you they will increase it by making fun of
you they will not support you that is why don't share your
pain share happiness now I was saying sleeping that
sleeping also breaks your
body and when the body will break it will become weak
I said that everyone attacks the broken they break the
broken then every disease your immunity system will also be
down the immune system will become weak then all diseases
will overpower it you will fall down in bed then how
confident you will be you
know it very well that is why a sound sleep is very very
very much important for you to keep yourself healthy I
started the topic from healthy body so for healthy body if
diet, exercise and meditation is important then sound sleep
is more important
sound sleep is more important if you don't get time to
sleep then learn yoga nidra from a yoga trainer if you
sleep in yoga nidra then adult body needs 8 hours sleep you
don't have 8 hours mostly in city life you don't get 8
hours sleep to sleep so learn
yoga nidra it is said that if you sleep in yoga nidra for
3-4 hours then the motto of sleep is to relax the body in
3-4 hours the sleep in yoga nidra will give normal sleep
equal to 8 hours sleep so you can practice for the yoga
nidra by expert yoga trainer
but don't forget to give a sound sleep to your body this is
very very important for a healthy body so I talked about
the three important part and the recession of the success
blueprint the importance of the confidence and in
confidence I talked about
three points how to develop your confidence and in that
stop comparing yourself I explained that surround yourself
with positive people avoid negative people stop comparing
with others and thirdly I talked about the health of your
body take care of your
body because healthy body keeps healthy mind and for a
healthy body diet exercise meditation and sound sleep I
hope you understood
I already said this is the thing I am talking for
activating from today implementing from today start using
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