Hello everybody. Good evening to all of you. This is Vineet
Gautam, your coach, your trainer.
And today I am talking about the same contents since last
one week.
And that is very crucial content, very crucial skill.
And that is important for, not only for professional
candidate, the same professional candidate, somewhere the
social candidate also.
And the same social candidate somewhere has personal and
family.
So, all the way how much beneficial this is? How much
benefit is there about this thing I was talking.
I was talking about the emotional intelligence.
Which had five components. This one.
And later on I talked about the components of this.
And one by one I talked about these all five components,
the importance.
And what is the need of these in life for you.
Later on I talked about these in detail.
And now I am talking, because this is nothing like school
and college syllabus.
Which you read, understand and write in exam and take marks.
And your work is done after passing the exam.
You have passed the exam till date.
Yes, yes, yes. I was just trying to activate myself.
आज आप तक exam पास करते आए हो.
And even now whoever is watching this video.
The professionals, mostly they are educated.
Educated doesn't mean I am talking to the person, whoever
is having school or college certificate.
May be the person who is having the life knowledge.
Those candidates are also educated in my point of view.
Friends, this is Vineet Gautam, corporate trainer and mind
coach.
I am a certified mind coach.
Corporate training I am doing since last 20 years.
Training the professionals in different kind of skills.
And my trained candidates are working successfully as
managers, engineers, CA, CFO, lawyers, senior lawyers,
company owners.
Even now they are some of the candidates.
Successful top class doctors.
So, if I am now talking about these contents again.
Then my motto is very much clear.
That if you just think to learn and get the certificate.
वो आप कर चुके हैं.
But even after you are suffering.
Even after you know it very well.
That something is missing.
कुछ तो missing है.
यह बात आप अभी जानते हैं.
अभी जो यह training है.
This is a practical training.
Training for implementation.
Whatever you are learning.
You don't have to learn it and give an exam.
You have to give an exam of life.
You have to be practical.
What is a good human being?
Or what is a professional?
You don't have to learn its definition and take marks.
We have to be a good human being.
We have to become a good professional.
Till you are not implementing.
The knowledge which you are getting from.
This video content knowledge you can get from different
kinds of books from the world.
You can get audio books from the internet.
me, Vineet Gautam, my motto is just not giving you the
knowledge, my motto is making you practical.
Aap kya aap practical hona chahte hain yaar sirf doosron ki
tarah aur doosre books aur doosre source of messaging ai
jahan se aap knowledge le sakte hain, aap sirf knowledge
lena chahte hain yaar dekhna chahte hain bas, aapki marji
hai but mera kahna
bilkul clear that until you implement it, you will not get
the real benefit. So now the question is, are you willing
to implement whatever the thing you are learning from this
video from us?
Yes.
I am just going to endorse you, say you, I can't force you
that you do it and if you are doing, it would be better,
you will get the benefit, you will get the response.
Whatever you do, you will get a response, you will get a
benefit, it is your wish.
So, if I ask you all, what have you decided?
Do you want to implement it or do you just want to see and
learn?
There is nothing in just seeing and learning.
The real fun is in doing it.
You can get satisfaction by seeing, but the real benefit,
the real satisfaction is in execution, in implementation.
So, it depends upon you that you are intending to implement
those knowledge, whatever you are getting from here.
Whatever you are learning from here, you should implement
it.
So, here actually I am talking about the first point, the
empathy and the second one I was talking about, the
effective communication, your social skills.
What is the benefit of it?
I already told you that the person, the leaders who are
having better communication or social skills, it helps in
making meaningful, mutual and respectful relationships.
It helps in making meaningful, mutual and respectful
relationships.
The relationships that are developing, they have a meaning.
They are not just relationships for show.
They have a meaning.
Mutual understanding is being formed.
And in that relationship, there is respect for each other.
These three things are happening.
If you are having a better communication skill or social
skill, then in your relationship, you are having
meaningful, mutual and respectful.
You have a meaning, mutual and respect in your relationship.
When? When you are having a better communication skill,
effective communication skill or better social skills.
First understand this word, better communication skill or
social skills.
It is called synonyms here.
Means to say, this is the best social skills.
It is going to make you social.
If you are having a better communication skill, means you
can be a better social person.
It is so important that we call it social.
Because it is really very beneficial.
Now I am going to talk, here are six more advantages of
workplace social skills.
I am going to talk about six more advantages of workplace
social skills.
1. Social managers carry more influence.
2. Cultivates awareness of yourself and about your team
members.
3. Adopts both influence, conflict and relationship
management.
4. Enhance social awareness.
Further this one.
And the next one.
Enhance social awareness.
Then I told you about
some strategy which can help you in improving your
social skills or communication skills
which strategy
job to social skills your communication skills co-developed
Karna may help Karsaki hair
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That's how I'm going to talk about
the first one is
So interest so interest in
others people
Dosti logo me up interest the high
Jipta up to chop better Hange
Dosro me interest up Nidhi Kange
the Kange Kissing a kissy ko initiate to Karna Paraga, Naba
Even a couple discuss Kiyata and hence you are
Verbal and
Non-verbal
Verbal or non-verbal
Just kind of after body language be at the hair
communication skill co-developed Karna ki baat ki a man
Can hence your verbal and non-verbal communication skill?
Don't open up Korea
Verbal K in which we use the words and
What is non-verbal in which?
We don't use words
Expression eye contact body language
gesture posture moving style sitting style second Yes, I
reach easy your dress sense
Maybe a key outer personality hair
up is cool outer personality be
Outer personality bolsak the hair of our social negative
personality to a key hotel
What is outer and what is inner?
Actually personality a knee-hurti hair
A Trip personality hotel a job are seductive
This a hammer develop Karna ki jorat party hair
Inner personality is something which is inside and inbuilt
This a quick functions hotel a Joe a Mari mobile laptop may
inbuilt hotel
A Chameleon bars a download Karla
Apple a tech Hamas a personality development kiba Suni yogi
But here I'm talking about
personality discover
Joe functions already inbuilt hair
Aki mobile may a laptop may to up with a don't they have
another say
kick, ah
Up with a download to make a
Up my load download Karna jathe hai
To apple a koi dos kata are a kaha download kara yet to is
me already hair
Ways a he
Joe, ah ko John the wallet log hai
Agar up kuch AC cheese sick neja re ho
To up a trainer after relatives parents kata hai
Ki to jimito equality already hai
To a discovered to occur
So outer personality yeh wah
Juman a Likha or inner personality apka confidence apka
attitude
Calculative power will power
Mindset Yes, Ari, Joe cheese a
Aki inner personality a logo may Allah Allah category key
hotel
Decision-making power your decision-making skill hair
Yeah, we logo may Allah Allah hotel confidence.
So yeah, Aki inner personality hair
disco Hoon a key to rotate a
hooning a cub
Jab a AC situation apne liye create karte hai
Jab in ko use karne ki jururat hai
to Us situation may up ko pata chalta hai
Ki up kpass yes, Ari quality already
hair You are so confident.
You are so brave up
kata hai
A Me up a real potential ka pata chalta hai
How much potential you have?
You can't come to know about this thing
in general condition
Koki general condition me
Agar up us potential ko us knowledge ko execute karte hai
To low is a hit the hawa kate hain lakin
Kya a panic wall is situation me
cool rep are they
Yeah, I'll be panicked who's a teha
Yeh wapka potential
Because it is said that
Whoever is capable
To keep himself or herself
Cool Even in tough situation
Can do anything
Can achieve anything in his or her life?
You may nene kaha, but I like this statement
Mostly, I don't like the statements of others
But this is statement.
I like it
because Because this is statement touches me
told by Swami Vivekananda
Joe apnea po
Jitna cool control rep I got
Who up a life may utna better achieve kar paega?
Yes, so up jitne cool controlled rete hain
Hey Barlow control reneko chota
samajh lete hain lakin Vasto me Joe bat bat pe uchalte hain
Joe bat bat pe chila te hain
o vasto me chote hote hain
Up a coin ko zameen pe girao.
Oh chunky awas karega or uchalega bhi
Lekin a panso ke note girao
Na toh usne uchalna hai
or nahi awas karni hai toh kya uchalne se
ya awas karne se
five rupees ka coin
Panso ke note se adhik kimti ho jayega kya uska wait uski
keemat usse adhik ho jayegi kya
Kehne ka matla mera yeh hai ki awas bat bat pe karna ya
uchalna
Chote pan ki nishani hai
Bade log toh bade hi dheer gambeer rahate hain
samundra kitra chote chote baaris aadi tupaan aur nadiyon
ke milne se uske upar koi fark padta hi nahi hai
Isliye wo samundra hai pata nahi apne andar kya kya samaye
hue hai
Lekin jab samundra mein tupaan aata hai
toh tahalka mach jaata hai
Nadi mein tarange hamesa aati rehti hai
Lekin samundra saant pada rahata hai
kyunki uske tupaan aane ka kuch matlab hota hai wo aas paas
ke area ko barbaad kar dega ho log yeh baat jaante bhi hai
aaj toh science itna develop hai ki samundra mein tupaan
aane wala hai is baat ka pata kar lete hai aur isliye
tupaan se pehle aas paas
ke area ko khali karata hai wo aas paas ke area ko barbaad
kar dega ho log yeh baat jaante bhi hai aaj toh science
itna develop hai kyunki uske tupaan aane ka kuch matlab
hota hai wo aas paas ke area ko khali karata hai kyunki
jaante hai ki samundra mein
roj tupaan nahi aata hai lekin aayega toh kuch bada nuksaan
karke jaayega waise hi baat baat pe nahi uchhalne wale log
People know that
this person does not speak, it does not mean that he is
weak. When he speaks, he will speak about a lot of work.
People give weight to your words,
they wait, they also believe.
So saying means that a major part of your personality,
inner personality is
you must discover if you have, if you don't have, then try
to improve it,
develop it, enhance it.
Or if you have it and not that much,
sometimes you control it, sometimes you don't.
Then try to do yoga, meditation, meditation, deep breathing
and develop your self-control.
As much more you will develop,
see, the more self-control you develop,
the more self-introduction you will be able to have.
You will have self-introduction, you will be able to
recognize your energy, you will be able to recognize your
real potential.
And recognizing your real potential
is not enough.
Preserving it for a long time
is more important.
If you have taken a revolver, if you have taken its license,
it does not mean that
you can take out a revolver at any time.
No, you are a black belt in martial arts,
it does not mean that in the neighborhood, in the office,
there was not even a little talk
that you started.
Big powers,
big power,
you should come with a lot of patience.
If you are a black belt in martial arts,
then it will not be common for you to raise your hand.
It will be a small thing for you to break the hands and
feet of a few people.
Even black belts are also told
that if you hit one hand, the person will become
unconscious or even die.
If we have such soft nerves,
then are you an expert because you keep hitting people?
No, if God is giving great power to someone,
then you also need patience.
And you should develop that thing.
And till the time your work is going on with small
activities,
your fight is going on with small weapons,
then why do you use the Brahmastra?
You should stop it for the right time.
Stop it.
I am not saying that you should not use it.
You should use it, you should definitely use it.
But let the time for Brahmastra come.
Let the time come.
So I mean to say
that you should
develop your verbal and non-verbal
communication skills. I was talking about outer and inner
personality.
There are some qualities and personalities in a person
that we need to discover.
They are already inbuilt.
The one who has manufactured us
has already put some qualities in everyone.
Like I said, a mobile manufacturer, a laptop manufacturer
already puts some functions in it and sends it.
During manufacturing.
But when a common customer buys it,
then he may not know about it.
So he has to discover what functions are available in my
laptop or mobile.
If we say functions, then it is his power.
It is an app in him.
Of the system.
Similarly, the system of our body that God has made,
He has also put different functions in different people and
sent them.
Our inbuilt personality, inbuilt quality.
Mostly you don't know.
In our trainings, we are just helping the candidates to get
their real potential
and to be the best version of you.
Why? You should find out your hidden potential.
We will tell you.
We will give you such different situations.
When you will know
that you have this task, but you have the ability to do it.
You can do it.
From that day, you will believe in yourself.
Or others are also going to start believing upon you that
you can do.
You can do that.
So I mean to say, you just improve such type of quality if
you have.
And for that, you have to discover.
You have to search.
Yourself.
Next was,
Observe and learn from the
social skills of others.
naadaan hai
bevkoop hai
toh aise soch wale mostly bevkoop hote hain.
Aap istari ki ki soch
na rakhe if you want to learn something.
Then aap always learner bane rahe.
Learning attitude banaye rakhe.
Learning mode mein rahe.
Kehte hai na ki bhai sleeping mode mein nahi
active rahe aur active ke saath mein
learning mode mein rahe doosre log jo hain aapke aas paas
aapke junior bhi ho sakte hain, colleague bhi ho sakte
hain, aapke boss bhi ho sakte hain.
Mane junior sabse pehle isliye bola
kyunki aap unko third number ki category mein daal dete
hain.
Aaj mein keh raha hu aap 20 saal experience employee hain
aur ek new junior aa raha hai toh aaj ki modern technology
ko seekh ke aa raha hai, wo aaj ka ladka hai.
Aaj ka candidate hai wo uske paas aaj ki activity
creativity ho sakti hai.
Jo 20 saal pehle saad aapne nahi seekhi hai.
Isliye aapko sabse adhik seekhne ko agar kahin mil sakta hai
toh wo usse mil sakta hai.
Aaj college ke bachche kitne creative hai.
Hume unki creativity ko samajhne ki, polish nourish karne
ki jurrat hai.
Main batao mera contents develop karne mein, ek larki jo
help karti hai
Main college mein training ke liye gaya toh usse jab dekha
hunka, she is so dumb.
Nahi aata kuch bhi.
Lekin jab dheere dheere usse polish kiya nourish kiya 6
mehne ke training ke baad
jo usko kaam diya toh pata chala she was so creative.
Itni achi tariqe se contents ko
jo idea dete hain aisa karne ka usse beter kai bar kar deti
hai.
Aaj kal ke bande bade daring hai.
Unse ye cheez toh sikhi hi jaa sakti hai.
that they are very much daring
they don't hesitate to take action
they are very creative no doubt, the mobile technology that
kids are seeing today enough of anything is bad
but they are learning a lot from it they mention such
things in front of you which you would have not even heard
about 20 years ago so here it is said observe and learn
from the social skills of others you observe and learn from
others social skills this
is the easiest, practical and easiest way to learn this is
the easiest, practical and easiest way to learn
I say easy because you have to learn from your surroundings
you have to learn from the people around you 2nd important
thing many times you assume in your mind that I am older so
what do I have to learn from them so remove this thing
I have already said that you should be in learning mode
with a learning attitude
I had said that if you have a superior attitude then you
forget to learn you remove the superior, junior and this
and that attitude and replace it with a learning attitude
because if you try to remove it like that it will not move
it will not move suppose
there is a hole
and there is water in that hole you empty the water from
there if you replace that water with another pot then it
can be empty otherwise like you take out the water but as
soon as you leave it, it will come back so replace it put
it in another pot this
pot so replace the superior attitude with a learning
attitude stay in learning mode you can learn a lot from
your juniors, your colleagues, your seniors learn from your
seniors about their attitude learn from their experience
learn from your colleagues
who are going up from you how? you can learn something
practical learn something new from your juniors learn fresh
new technology learn energy why are they so energetic? how
are they? see Amitabh Bachchan at the age of 80 he is
working with people who
are in their 40s and 30s why? because he learnt from them
secondly I will tell you one more thing in mind training we
tell the candidates that you should remove the age factor
from your mind age is of two types there are two types of
age one is physical
age and the other is mental age physical age is the age of
your body the age you are born with, your date of birth the
age you are born with, that is your physical age but this
is the trend of today this is what I was saying to the
juniors that mental
age is half of physical age if you are of 40 then let it be
40 in the papers but outside you are just of 20 22 what
happens with this mental age? because of this thinking if
you are of 60 then you should not work so much you should
not jump around so
much you should not wear such clothes the world will teach
you this because they do not know this but if you learn
then you will be the biggest obstacle in your path of work
your thinking you will not go for jogging, you will not
jump around because you
are of 60 you will not wear clothes of young people because
you are of 60 if you think like this then you cannot do any
new venture, new project because you are of 60 if you think
like this then you will not be creative you will not be
active you will
not be productive but if you think like this that I am not
of 60, I am of 30 then a person of 30 can wear any modern
clothes
he can do jogging, he can jump around like kids he can be
active he can think of doing something new he can be
creative so age is just a number a KFC founder proved when
he started his venture after 60 when he retired because
childhood is childhood we
are not letting children live in childhood we have put them
in nursery from 1.5-2 years then nursery and at 6 in the
morning we put them in the bus
I think children are living a tough life at least adults
they don't get in the bus at 6 in the morning they get up
at 4-5 in the morning they sit on the toilet seat they are
holding it at 6-6.30 we put them in the bus
then we put them in the bus at 3-4 then they run quickly
change your dress eat something run for tuition then after
2 hours they come back from tuition then they get to play
or not then they do homework and after homework they go to
sleep early because
they have to get up early so we took away their childhood
there is nothing like creativity the lines of the bus the
syllabus of the school taught the syllabus of the school is
full of nonsense the books are full of nonsense the biggest
thing is the books
that were written 20, 30, 50 years ago
we are still carrying that thought and we are pushing it on
young children and if today we are talking about the
contents why are we reading this content because the
current education system or syllabus is not up to the mark
to make you a professional
that is why this gap, today the organization needs a
practical candidate who can work in the system from day 1
and college
What are you teaching in the college, why are you not
making the syllabus so practical that we don't need it?
You will say that you are raising questions on your
business.
No, I am talking on a big level.
I mean to say that your education system requires big
changes in the syllabus.
I was saying that you become more creative in the 60's.
I was saying that.
I will tell you how.
You didn't see the childhood.
Within 1.5-2 years you are in the nursery.
Then you are being burdened.
Gaurdian, tuition teacher, school people, they all create
pressure, what do they create?
Now, don't play, don't jump, now do something, read
something and don't know which study you are studying, what
will you become after that, because this is also a world
record that academically successful persons are not
successful in the life.
This is a fact, this is a world survey record, still we are
studying those syllabus.
Why are we studying?
A person wants to become a trainer, wants to become an
English lecturer, for that, A plus B the whole square is
equal to A square plus 2AB plus B square, what is the
meaning of this?
Why is he being forced to study till 3rd grade?
He doesn't know, doesn't know, why is he studying?
And what is the benefit?
If he doesn't become a math teacher, then what is the
benefit for him? This question, no candidate knows, doesn't
know.
But still there are syllabus, they are studying.
I mean to say, it is necessary to make the syllabus
practical.
Now I was talking, the school's pressure has been created
so much, you run towards the college, college's pressure,
practical project, this and that, while doing that, the
same condition is bad.
Then, in the 3rd year, already placement comes, you are in
the job, when you go for a fresher job, then everyone
creates extra pressure, you are new, energetic, work, work.
When does he go, when does he come, when does he sleep,
when does he wake up and run, you don't even know.
2-4 years of life is over, then parents say, life is set,
now get married.
As soon as you get married, madam's demand, extra duty, you
understand, extra duty is also required, mental, monetary
and physical, all three types of extra duty is required.
And after that, children, now more extra duty is required.
While doing this, you came to 30, came to 35, then you
again taught the children, now your extra duty is more.
Children, your office may be at 9 or 10, but you have to
prepare the children, drop them to school, you have to make
them sit for school bus, then you have to get up.
You have to get up and get up for the children.
You may make them sit for school bus, you come and get up
again, but you have to get up.
So, you are in such a mess.
You have to do extra duty at night, then get up early in
the morning, then your duty starts from office time, then
the rail is ready.
Okay? Now, your children have grown up, you are 50, 55, 60
years old. You have married off your children, they have
become busy in their lives, and you have to talk about
retirement.
Till now, from the age of 1.5 to 2, till the age of 60,
when did you get a chance to think?
You tell me.
You don't get a chance to think, why did you come to this
world? Did God make something extra in you?
Inbuilt? Is there any creativity?
You have never thought about that creativity.
And now, when you are 60, you have some moments of peace,
you are free, then what did you tell yourself?
Now, I am retired from life, what should I think now?
Now, I am waiting for death.
Why do you think like this, Baba? To be different from such
thinking,
That's why we are mind coaches, we are mind trainers,
that's why we are telling you, there is a physical age and
there is a mental age.
Now, you are 30 years old, mentally.
And now, you are free from all physical responsibilities.
You can think about you and about your creativity.
And having something, I am saying, if every person thinks,
after so many years of experience, if he has got real
creativity, if he executes it, then he can do something
different, and he will do something different.
So, here I am saying,
I have told you exactly, in a very calculative way, that
the age of 60 plus, is not to say the end of your life, but
to be creative.
Because before that, you never listened to your heart.
No one gave you time to listen.
No one.
You were made a machine, and made to work from the age of
1.5 to 2.
Run, son, run, run, run.
Run, Milka, run.
Where are you running?
You don't know that.
Milka Singh knew that he was running to win the race.
Here, the father-in-law doesn't know where he is running,
why he is running.
But running is important.
The stick is behind you.
Run, run, run.
Many times, the children don't know why the teacher gives
homework.
Why does the teacher make homework, why does she hit the
stick?
Why does she do this?
Why is the father-in-law doing this?
He keeps hitting the stick because there is no option to
say no.
Do you have an option?
Tell me, children, if you are watching this video,
I want to ask you, don't you get this question in your
mind? But do you have an option to say no to the teacher's
homework, to say no to the class work? Can you dare? No.
Can you tell your parents that I don't want to study?
I don't like studying.
We have not advanced so much yet.
Our education system,
I am talking about India, has not advanced so much.
Many Western countries, America, England, China,
Germany, Japan, they get their children brain mapped at an
early age, under 5.
Let me tell you, brain mapping can be done within a year,
the first year of the child.
And in that, you can actually find out which field your
child is made to go in. What difference has God made in
that? I said, inbuilt personality,
I am talking about inbuilt potential.
It is in everything.
What is brain mapping?
If there is a well-studied palmist, then brain mapping is
the study of the lines of our hands.
There is no map in the brain.
If it is properly studied, then you will actually find out
what are the plus and minus points of that particular child.
And which field should he go in? Let me tell you, when
India won the cricket world cup in 1983, at that time, when
the Olympics were held, China had won some gold medals.
We have developed cricket since then.
We are known as a good cricket country.
BCCI is ranked in the world of cricket today.
China developed itself in the Olympics.
And since then, they started the process of brain mapping
in nursery class.
At the nursery level, they do brain mapping of the children
and assess the real potential of the children.
And on the basis of that assessment, they start training
the sportsmen in a different way. And for the next five
years, they have general training in the first year of MBA
course. In the second year, they have MBA marketing, HR,
etc.
or your sales or IT they are different they enter in trade
1st year you have general training 5 years of general
fitness training of sporty nature people then in next 5
years they categorize and in 10 years they give them
different specialized games so
that at the age of 10 on their particular game like
wrestling, running or any other different kind of game they
put it in practice they put it in practice along with this
there is a different trend that he will become a doctor or
an engineer everything
is known we gave this world palmistry went from here but
today the world is doing brain mapping taking benefit of it
but we are not ready to understand it not ready today these
things are happening a little but today our education
system even if it is
wrong in IIT preparation lakhs of students sit and
thousands are selected if brain mapping is done before
sitting in training before sitting in UPSC then mostly they
will know whether they are capable for this field whether
they can do it or not one more
thing in palmistry or astrology by looking at the horoscope
if there is an expert astrologer or a palmist this is a
scientific name of brain mapping an expert astrologer or a
palmist can also tell and which field is really matter for
him or her in which
he can give his best
I will tell you a practical example
I met a national level astrologer who does not deal below
the ministry but he is our acquaintance
I was talking to him he gave an example that there is a
college owner who has a nephew who is preparing for UPSC
for the last 4 years but what happens is he falls ill
before the exam and fails the exam he is very sincere and
intelligent but this happens
to him the astrologer the owner of the college he was close
to him he told his nephew that this has been happening for
the last 4 years he told him to see he told him that not
only palmistry there are vibrations the real expert knows
all these things
he told him that you are trying to be useless an
administrative officer is the one who has a house lord
because he is an administrator your house lord is a guru if
you become a teacher in this the guru is the middle teacher
the one below is the best the
one below is the primary teacher the one below is the
middle teacher and the best is the college lecturer and he
said this is what will happen and he said this is the thing
that your guru is very strong so if you become a very
strong teacher but you will
become a middle class teacher your knowledge will be so
much that you will be able to pass the college teachers
but your designation will be that of a middle class teacher
of the government in one attempt you will clear the exam
and become a middle class teacher but you will not be able
to become a principal to become a principal you need
administrative power so
you just try and go there
so he became the IS basic but people come and touch the
feet of their trainers they touch the feet of the guru they
have no shame they know that they are their trainers so the
position of the guru's trainers is always better than the
existing administrators
and today this is the reality
I met that person when this was happening he was in front
of me
I met him he is a middle class teacher but he has a good
name when a problem occurs the college lecturers consult
him they solve it so he is a middle class teacher
but our education system does not allow us to do this I
started talking about it but I will say
I told you that from 1.5 to 2 years old to 60 years old you
have to learn about yourself you do not have time to think
about your creativity so when you are 60 years old and you
have time you do not want to think you tell yourself that
you are retired
time has given you a break start a new journey who has
stopped you it is time to start a new journey when Amitabh
Bachchan started his second acting career he said that
earlier we had to choose films according to the competition
so that it does not affect
our career but now
I have to choose my creative he did a film with Tabu or a
girl who is in love with her granddaughter I do not
remember the name she is in love with Tabu who is older
than Tabu's father and Tabu is in love with her he is able
to do such films because now
he is not worried about his career he is worried about his
creativity he can take up a challenge he did all this when
he was 60 you are also 60 so now no one can stop you from
being creative if you do not stop yourself but you want to
stop yourself now
stop yourself but if you do not stop yourself then no one
is going to stop you by doing whatever you want to do by
yourself, your creativity You can do it.
Let it be.
Who? Make a World Young Age Association.
Old Young Age.
Old looks like physical age.
But it is young.
Mental.
Make such an association.
To live happily in your own world.
Who has done anything for you till now?
From 1.5 years to 60 years.
Has anyone done anything for you?
Has anyone thought about you?
Has anyone given you time?
Leave others.
Your own people have killed you.
When no one cares about you.
Then why do you think what people will think?
What will people say?
Let the world go to hell.
Think about yourself.
What will people say?
Because of carrying this thought.
Many times we can't do what we want to do.
What we want to do.
I am telling you.
I know a CA.
He is a Baniya.
I am talking about Indian culture.
Here caste matters to do marriage.
Baniya.
He was in love with a girl of Punjabi family.
And.
In Punjabi family, there are two sisters.
And their parents own two companies.
Two companies.
Now he was interested to marry one of the girls.
But Baniya family is not permitting.
His elder brother.
The CA of that boy.
He is my friend.
He was telling me.
My younger brother's son.
He is in love with her.
And everyone is against him.
I said with a smile.
If he is smart.
Then he will do it.
And about your relatives.
They will come together in a few days.
And they will stay together.
And if he is stupid.
Then he will listen to them.
And he will do what he has been doing for years.
And then.
Life will continue in the same direction.
In both the situations.
No one is going to help you.
Even if you listen to them.
And even if you don't.
You become their relative.
And come to them to say.
That by doing this.
Our society will be ruined.
This will happen.
That will happen.
Nothing is going to happen.
No one is going to give you anything.
The boy was smart.
And he went out of the caste.
To marry a girl.
He was determined.
I will tell you.
Let them come together later.
Leave it.
The whole Baniya family.
Their society got involved in the marriage.
And the marriage was good.
And.
Along with the girl.
They got a company.
The company's owner.
There is a big wedding.
A wedding of 50 lakhs and 1 crore.
This is what happened.
I am just giving a practical example.
So if you think about people.
Then think.
But in that too.
Think as much as you can.
As much as you can.
If.
By listening to people.
You are suffering.
Then don't listen to them.
Why? Because in both situations.
No one is going to give you anything.
If you are suffering.
Then no one is going to help you.
And.
If you take some extra action.
If you do something good for yourself.
Then you will definitely get help.
No one will come to help you.
If you say something.
Then say it.
Stay behind.
What does it matter to you?
What does it matter to your health?
So what will people say?
Get this out of your mind.
Nothing to take seriously.
About this thing.
That who is going to talk what about you?
If this whole society.
Had to be controlled by one mind.
Then God.
Why would he give everyone a brain?
Why would he give?
He would give a brain to the head of a family.
And tell everyone else.
Do whatever he says.
Do what he says.
He will think with his mind.
Do whatever he says.
Here in our body.
Conscious mind.
And subconscious mind.
He has given everyone.
Conscious mind.
To think.
And subconscious mind.
Active part.
Doer.
Technical part.
Who is going to do.
So when you have the power to think.
God gave.
He also gave the one who does.
So why don't you decide on your own mind and do it yourself?
Why are you ready to accept other people's thoughts.
And do what they say.
I have told you.
If it is bad.
It won't take long to tell them.
That you are already educated.
You have listened to us.
We are stupid.
We have told you.
Why did you listen to us?
I am telling you.
It won't take long to tell them.
So.
Use your own CPU.
Use your own mind.
And.
Do what is best for you.
What decision are you going to take at 40?
What decision are you going to take at 30?
What will people say?
What are you going to do at 60?
What will people say?
You don't have to take care about these all things.
There are many actors.
There is Nawazuddin Siddiqui.
He has been in the industry for 20 years.
After 20 years.
Now he has been recognized.
For 2-4 years.
For 20 years.
He has been doing small roles.
Today people are saying.
He is an amazing actor.
Yesterday when.
In the movie of bad actors.
I am talking about actors.
Not commercial actors.
The artists.
In their movies.
They used to give so many roles.
At that time.
Didn't the actors feel ashamed?
Today.
Even today.
You are saying.
He is a good actor.
Because the public has accepted him.
In the same way.
You are so good or bad.
The people around you.
They will not decide.
You will decide.
And.
This world will decide.
Common people.
The public will decide.
You are made for what?
What can you do?
The founder of KFC.
He started KFC at the age of 60+.
KFC is running.
The world is accepting.
The world is eating.
Business is running.
Worldwide is running.
Who will decide.
Who started it.
When did it start.
People are learning from him.
Work can be done even at 60+.
Work can be done.
60 plus is not the retirement age.
60 plus is the retirement age.
Of physical life.
It is the retirement of the life of the bull.
I am using the right word.
It is the retirement age of the life of the bull.
The retirement age of creative life is getting started.
I can say with real confidence.
That your creative life starts at the age of 60.
From the age of childhood till the age of 60.
So, you were living a life of a bull.
The bull does not know why it is in the hall.
Why is it pulling the bull cart?
But it has to be pulled.
Otherwise, it will get a stick from behind.
This has happened to you as well.
Why are you waking up at 1.30 in the morning at the age of
1.5 or 2? Why are you not allowed to live your childhood?
Why are you not allowed to sleep peacefully? You do not
know.
You have to wake up.
Otherwise, what does the guardian say?
We do everything for you.
That is why we do it.
So that you listen to us.
Go to study. Go to do this.
The meaning is not told.
Why should you go to study?
That person thinks once that if you wanted to make a bull,
why did you give birth to it? He says,
You have been given life by giving birth to it.
We are doing you a favor.
Whereas, they have done a favor not on you, but on
themselves.
They are preparing you for themselves.
For themselves.
So, till now, you were living a life of a bull.
You were living a life of a machine.
In which you had nothing to do with it.
You were never allowed to talk to yourself.
That you are made for what?
Your life is for what?
Why is this life?
You do not know.
Now you should know.
If you want to be creative about some physical life, then
do it.
The connection of some spiritual life that you have got,
In our Sanatan Dharma, it is said that
In 84 lakhs of yonis, the best yoni is the yoni of humans.
When God gives us grace, that is when this body is given to
us.
And it is given to us because this is the speciality of
this body.
That whatever has been destined, the luck, we should enjoy
it.
But for the future, we can do something better according to
our thinking.
So now, this age of 60 plus is the time.
When you are able to think something creative.
However, you will say that sometimes a person leaves before
60 years.
So, I will say that you should not wait for 60 years.
If you can make yourself creative at any time, then take
out some time from 24 hours.
Ask yourself,
You are here in this world for what?
What is the motive of this life?
How can you become creative?
What is the real motive of this life?
Shiva, whatever you are doing in this world, earning,
eating, feeding your children, this is not your real work.
You have come to this world for real work.
To get liberated from the cycle of coming and going.
You have come here in 84 lakhs of yonis.
If you still don't understand,
If you have lived a life of eating, drinking and dying,
then you will go to some other yoni.
And you will come to know, that you will get a life like a
snake, a dog, a lion, etc.
In which they are forced to bear their fate.
A dog is not able to do anything according to its will.
But you can think, what is good and what is bad, you can do
it.
So, you don't know, how much time it will take to come back
to that yoni.
So, use this yoni correctly.
And get liberated from this cycle of coming and going.
Get liberated.
This is the real aim.
Before that, if you have come to this world, then do
something creative, something good.
So that even after leaving, people remember, that someone
had come.
Someone had come.
He did something good and left.
So, at least do something like this.
Who has stopped you from doing this?
Do it.
Do it for sure.
So, I was talking here, that observe and learn from the
social skills of others.
Learn something from the social skills of others.
I have just said the whole thing.
To be creative.
To learn from others.
To learn from your juniors.
You can learn from anyone.
Learn from your colleagues.
Learn from everyone.
Do what you feel like.
Execute it according to your interest.
Create your own image.
Do not imitate anyone.
Take the lesson, but implement from your own point of view.
This is why I say, that I don't like to write statements in
anyone's name.
I want to learn from all the top class writers, authors,
poets.
But after learning,
I want to make my own quote.
And I want to write it in my own name.
If anyone sees my importance in this, then I feel that this
should not happen. You yourself are saying, that learn from
everyone, but do not imitate anyone.
You should use it in your life according to your interest.
Execute it.
Implement it.
Take the lesson.
So why should I write a quote in someone else's name? Why
not learn from them, and make a new quote in my own name.
I have learned from everyone.
Mahatma Gandhi, Swami Vivekananda,
Dr. Morphy, Richardson, Einstein.
I have learned from everyone.
After learning,
Vinit Gautam realized, that where there is problem, there
is solution also.
Wherever there is a problem, there is a solution.
And who said this?
Vinit Gautam, Mind Coach,
Corporate Trainer, Motivational Speaker.
I am not saying that my next generation should write this
quote.
I have learned from my own experience.
They should learn from me.
They should not write this statement of mine.
They should also take a lesson from this, make a new
statement, and write it in their own name. This is what I
think.
This is what I think.
So, what I mean to say is, that you should learn from me.
Decide what is best for you, how to do it, and move ahead.
It is not like, that you follow me badly,
Followers can never become leaders.
I want all of you to become leaders.
I don't want to make followers.
Leaders will only become, if you execute and implement what
you are learning.
You will take a lesson from it.
And for that, you should learn from everyone.
Implement it in your own way.
Execute it.
And move ahead.
Practice confident eye contact.
I have already told you, how important it is.
If you talk with your eyes closed, you will know, how
serious the other person is, how much he understands you,
how much he does not understand you.
If he understands you, how much he understands you, and if
he does not understand you, then what is missing?
What is missing?
If you understand what is missing, then you can do it in a
different way.
Execute it.
But do it.
But when will it be possible?
When you make eye contact in reality.
Then it will be possible.
If you miss eye contact, then you will not know, what you
are saying, what you are doing, how it is affecting the
world, how it is impacting people.
Are people accepting you or rejecting you?
When they say, rating agency will tell you, then only you
will know.
Why? If you are talking face to face, then make eye contact.
If you are dealing with a sales marketing professional,
Confidence is very very crucial for being successful.
We can't deny the importance of being successful.
Ask open ended questions.
Ask clear cut questions.
Ask open ended questions.
Ask clear cut questions.
Ask open ended questions.
Listen more and practice active listening.
Listening is the first step of learning.
If you want to be a good learner, then first you start
listening more.
Be an active listener.
Listen more and practice active listening.
Listen more and practice active listening. If you want to
be a learner, if you want to grow, then you are in need to
be a learner.
And if you want to learn, then you are in need to be a
listener.
Learn to grow.
Learn to earn.
So if you want to grow, you are in need to be a learner.
And if you want to be a learner, then very first you are in
need to be an active listener.
You are in need to be an active listener.
And if you want to grow, then you are in need to be an
active listener.
In old ages, when people are sitting in the park, sit
quietly.
When you talk to them, you will learn a lot.
When you don't have anything to say, you don't have to say
anything, you just have to say it.
Instead of that, keep quiet.
Speaking requires energy.
Preserve that energy in your body.
Preserve that energy.
It will be less for you in future.
Why are you wasting energy?
Why are you wasting that energy?
Don't waste it.
You will be destroyed.
Life is based on energy.
And if you waste it, you will be destroyed.
Don't waste it.
So you should know what to do and what not to do.
If you don't know this, then you are in deep trouble.
If you don't know what to do and what not to do, then you
are in deep trouble.
I have told you about communication in detail.
And further, I will talk about other topics.
Before that, I will add a new topic.
It is a fun topic.
Confidence means feeling sure of yourself and your
abilities.
What is confidence?
Confidence means feeling sure of yourself and your
abilities.
Feeling sure of yourself and your abilities.
Many people don't have confidence in their abilities.
Having confidence in yourself is confidence.
What is the benefit of it?
Not in an arrogant way.
What is confidence?
I can do this.
I am capable.
This is confidence.
But if you say that I can do this, only I can do this.
This is arrogance.
This is over confidence.
We call this arrogance.
Don't be arrogant.
But if you feel that you can't do this, then this is low
confidence.
You don't have to think that you can't do this, but you
don't have to think that only you can do this.
Yes, you have to think that I can do this work.
I don't know about others, but I can do.
This is confidence.
Confidence is not arrogant, but in a realistic, secure way.
Stay on the ground.
Stay with truth.
Stay with security.
This is the way to talk.
Not in the air.
Confidence is not about feeling superior.
Yes, is it clear?
Confidence does not mean that you are feeling superior.
No.
To others.
You are feeling superior to others.
This is not called confidence.
Oh Baba.
Wake up.
To feel superior to others is not confidence.
It is a quite inner knowledge that you are capable.
What a definition you gave.
It was fun.
It is a quite inner knowledge.
It is a quite inner knowledge that you are capable.
What is confidence?
Confidence is a feeling.
Confidence is self-confidence.
Confidence does not mean that you are feeling superior to
others.
What is confidence?
It is a quite inner knowledge.
It is a quite inner knowledge that you are capable.
To say to yourself that you are capable is confidence.
But what is arrogance?
If you feel that only you are capable.
If there is no one other than you.
Then this is not confidence.
This is arrogance.
So don't be arrogant.
Be confident.
Confident people feel secure rather than insecure.
Confident people feel secure.
They do not have insecurity.
Who has insecurity?
Those who do not have confidence in themselves.
My competitor is better than me.
Those who think like this have insecurity.
Rajesh Khanna was a superstar in his time.
But he started feeling that Dharmendra is better looking
than me.
He has physique.
So he will make a better movie than me.
He will take my heroines.
He started feeling insecure.
You are an actor.
You have won so many awards.
Dharmendra did not get any award.
Because he had physique and smartness.
But he did not have acting.
You are an actor.
You should go for acting.
You should not feel insecure.
You should be confident. If something is missing then be
realistic.
Be realistic, accept the truth, develop yourself and become
capable.
And then say with honesty that I am capable.
You don't know who is capable or not but I am capable.
But others can be also.
No one else is capable.
Shankar Ji says to Parvati Ji in Sundar Kand.
When she says that Narad Ji has cursed Narayan for the
incarnation of Rama.
Then Shankar Ji says that she is a fool.
Parvati Ji says that Narad is a fool.
He kept cursing Narayan for 24 hours and now he has cursed
Narayan.
Shankar Ji says with a smile that there is no wise or fool
in this world.
Listen carefully.
Shankar Ji says to Parvati Ji that there is no wise or fool
in this world.
I will tell you a joke.
Shankar Ji says with a smile that there is no wise or fool
in this world.
This is the divine play.
He becomes as he wishes.
In that moment Narad Ji had to become a fool.
That is why he acted like a fool.
So if you have become a wise person and have become a
leader.
The world is giving you the same.
Then don't think that you have become wise.
This is His grace. Thank Him.
Because if you feel that I am wise and there is no one more
wise than me.
Then he will prove you ignorant in minutes in front of the
same public.
Remove the web of illusion and your knowledge will be
broken.
So don't think like this.
So this is confidence.
I talked about it.
Here you can see the confidence.
What is confidence?
I can't means you are not confident.
About anything you are not confident that you can do or not.
But what did we do?
This is the definition of confidence.
I can.
I can do.
I can do means I am confident.
Here confidence is the state of being clear headed.
What is he saying?
Confidence is the state of being clear headed.
It should be clear in your mind.
Whatever you are saying is correct.
This thing should be clear in your mind.
And right.
Yes.
And it should be logical.
Not just I am.
And when you are saying right, it should not be in your
mind that you are only right.
You can do this only.
No one else is right.
There is no one other than you who is confident and right.
Not like this.
This is not confidence.
This is arrogance.
There is a little gap.
Balance will be spoiled.
So, don't spoil the balance.
Means you are confident about you.
Upon whomever you are having the confidence.
This is confidence.
This is very very crucial for you professionals.
All the way.
Everywhere.
Whatever you are doing.
Confidence is something which no one has seen, understood,
or touched.
It is not like any object which you can touch.
It is not in any color.
You can identify the color.
Red, blue, white, black, green.
But it has no shape.
It has no color.
But it is that thing which is in everything.
It is in everything.
And by being in everything, it increases its value.
Confidence is in your body language.
If you are confident in your body language.
Then the value of your body language increases.
If you are confident in your speaking.
Then the value of your speaking increases.
If you are confident in doing any work.
Then the value of that work increases.
And because of that, your value also increases.
You are asked.
You go for an interview.
You are asked.
The work that you have been given in this profile.
The job profile that you have.
On that job profile.
Which work can you do?
So you said that I can do this, I can do this, I can do
this.
The second answer is.
I can do all three because I have already done.
Many times I am experienced about this.
And by presenting yourself in this way.
Your confidence shines.
Which was in your words.
There was confidence in your words.
And because of this.
You will get a better profile.
You will get a job.
Not just a job.
You will get a job.
You will get a better profile.
And a better package will also be offered.
And why did this happen?
Because there was confidence in your words.
So confidence.
It is something that cannot be seen anywhere in itself.
It has no existence.
Physical.
This is a remote.
This is visible.
It has a shape, size, color.
There is no shape, size, color of such confidence.
It is in everything.
It is in every activity.
In every activity.
You wear a dress.
And you are not feeling comfortable in that dress.
Means you are not looking confident.
You are not looking confident.
And you are feeling comfortable.
You are feeling confident.
So the importance of that dress.
Then it increases for you.
Then for others too.
You are looking more better, more smart.
And let me tell you one thing.
Your personality, outer.
Your dressing.
It also impacts your inner personality.
You wear clothes which are not properly pressed and may
have stains on it.
You wear shoes without polishing and leave quickly.
Now this is the part of your outer personality.
Your dress and your shoes.
But you think about it and you are low confident.
Its impact is on your words.
Your focus is on your dirty shoes.
Your focus is on your clothes.
If the other person is looking at you, your focus may not
be on your clothes or shoes, but because it is in your
mind, your focus is on that.
And one negative part of the outer personality, dirty shoes
or dirty dress, is also downplaying the confidence of your
inner personality.
You are getting confused about outer and inner personality.
Nothing to confuse.
Normally trainers only tell you about personality
development.
Development is done for outer things.
But personality is not only outer.
There is an inner personality, which is inbuilt by God in
you.
That is your decision making skills, confidence, presence
of mind, problem solving skills.
All these things are there.
And all these things are of different levels.
This is also a personality and a real personality.
Your thoughts, your mindset,
are those inbuilt personalities, which are inbuilt
functions in your mobile or laptop, which are already
inbuilt.
It is not easy to use these functions.
They are naturally built.
If you have downloaded some apps from outside, you can
delete them.
Changing your dress from outside is a matter of a minute.
If you have money, buy it.
If you don't have money, if you have money, buy it.
If you have changed your dress, you can buy the best dress.
If you don't have money, take it on rent.
You can ask your friends to wear it.
You have changed your dress.
But your confidence in that dress to build up, that is not
a matter of a day.
This is not a matter of a day.
You should know, the country where Ganga resides, there is
Govinda, he has a habit of wearing dhoti and kurta.
He was sent to the party wearing a coat and pants.
He wore a coat and pants.
The dress is a part of the outer personality, which he
changed in a day.
But his comfortability in that dress, where will you get it
from?
What was he doing in the party? He was feeling hot in the
coat.
His neck was stuck with the tie.
He took off the coat.
He took off the tie.
He took off the shoes.
He was feeling hot.
Shoes, socks.
He was carrying them in his hand.
Instead of personality development, he became negative.
He became a joke for people.
What else does he do?
See, the way a person feels about himself, the world feels
the same way.
What does he do?
It is a fun scene.
It is a solid concept for the training here.
The outer personality can be changed in a day.
But there is an interconnection between the outer and inner
personality.
That thing cannot be changed in a day.
What is he doing?
You made him wear the dress, but he is not comfortable.
Are they all comfortable?
He is taking off his clothes.
He is telling others to take off their clothes.
So, what I am trying to say is that your outer personality,
when you go for an interview, you should never wear new
shoes and clothes.
You will say, what are you saying, sir?
What I am trying to say is that you should wear the shoes
you are wearing 2-4 times.
You should be comfortable.
Otherwise, in your interview, he will divert your focus.
You will be focused on the same thing.
You will not be focused on the topic.
The clothes you are not comfortable in, even if you are
wearing new, you should wear them 2-4 times and see. Wear
them once at night and practice a little.
Walk and see.
When you are comfortable.
Girls are very smart about this.
Girls and ladies are better than us.
They are smarter than boys.
Whatever they bring, according to their physique, they make
them wear tight clothes, choose clothes, match clothes,
everything.
Fall and Pico.
It's not like they bring new clothes and wear them.
They never do that.
According to that, they bring matching sandals, bangles,
earrings, nose ring, hairpin, everything.
They are very much smarter.
They are not becoming successful everywhere.
It's not like that.
Because they are doing something like that for being
successful.
So, you are also in need.
Outer personality or inner personality. Outer personality,
which is talked about outside, personality development, you
have an outer personality, whose development is talked
about.
You do personality development, but before that, you tell
me, you buy a mobile phone, it's very good.
The mobile phone you bought, there were no functions, no
updates like that.
Now you have bought a good category, good quality,
expensive mobile phone.
So, what did you think?
I don't know what function is there in this?
So, the function you need, you are going to download it.
Your friend said, the mobile phone you bought, you have
been using it for a long time.
Why are you downloading it?
It is already inbuilt.
Discover it.
Similarly, I am saying, whatever you are going to develop
from outside, you are going to learn, before that, discover
what you have.
Enhance it.
Improve it.
See, improve, enhance, polish, and learn.
Learning means, you are learning something new.
You are learning something new.
Enhance, what you already have.
Improvement, what you have, there is a little less in it,
it needs to be improved.
Sharpen, that thing is done, you have a skill, you have to
sharpen it.
You have a pencil, you have to sharpen it.
It is not that there is no pencil.
Pencil is there.
Similarly, you have a skill, you have to sharpen it.
You have to sharpen it, so that it can be useful for you.
You can use it, you can take its benefit.
So, I am talking about this thing.
See, I am not talking about a junior level, and I am not
talking impractical,
I am talking very much practical.
I am talking very much practical, and I am talking about
that, which you have to know, understand, and execute,
implement, in detail, and get, your desired success, your
desired success, according to your mind, your dream
success, your dream goal, you
have to achieve it.
See, you read it ten times, read it a hundred times, you
don't have to read it, you don't have to understand it, you
have to execute it, you have to implement it.
Now, it is about implementation,
Baba.
Now, it is about execution.
Till now from school to college and my professional life
because my videos are watched by all types of people till
now you have learned a lot in your life
I am not saying that you are sitting as zero but still you
are watching this video means something is missing
something is missing which you still want to learn nothing
to worry, there is no age to learn if you want to grow in
life then lifelong learner,
I give you the formula of triple L stay lifelong learner
keep learning attitude always stay in learning mode you can
learn at any point at any point, at any age if you want to
grow in life you feel that something is still missing in
life whether you are
a manager, general manager, CA, CFO, CAO whatever you are
whether you are a senior doctor, lawyer, top class lawyer
but when you ask yourself when you do self-assessment,
introspection then you will know that wherever you are
there is life beyond that you can go beyond that you can
grow and people are going
I say as a teacher, as a communication coach
I saw that people teach Rs.
500 to Rs.
1000 per month then I saw that in Delhi people are taking
Rs.
5000 per month then people are taking Rs.
10,000 per month and people are paying
Anurag Agarwal he is charging Rs.
60,000 just for 48 hours 8 hours in a month he is giving
and he is charging Rs.
10,000 then I came to know that Sanjeev Dutta in Gurgaon he
is charging Rs.
1 lakh per month I was surprised to hear that 1 lakh per
month fee for a communication coach for a personality
development trainer yes he is charging and people are
paying then I went to Mumbai trainers, mind coach they are
charging Rs.
1 lakh for 4 days just for 4 days the varieties of
versatile personality life transforming programs they are
giving but he is a trainer and people are paying for 4 days
Rs.
1 lakh then I went to Patachala to train the trainers who
train the trainers and make them master trainers
Rs. 5 lakhs for 8 days program for 8 days program
Rs. 5 lakhs my god so where Rs.
1000 per month is the starting point of thinking and for 5
lakhs for 8 days and if I add it to the month then it is
17-18 lakhs per month this is per candidate fee not per
group there are 40 people in the group which means Rs.
7-8 crores is being charged by a trainer for a month and
the people are paying now to go from Rs.
1000 to Rs.
8 crores per month you have to do updation you have to take
training you can only do it after learning the thing is
I told you that a burger for Rs.
30 or a burger for Rs.
1200 a burger for Rs.
30 or a burger for Rs.
1200 you can consider it normal a vendor is selling a
burger for Rs.
30-40 you go to a 5 star or 7 star hotel there you are
getting a burger for Rs.
1000-1200 you are getting a burger for Rs.
1500 a coffee is for Rs.
10-20 you are getting a coffee for Rs.
500 how can a coffee be worth Rs.
50 there is a need in every field there is a requirement
now I am talking about that thing that knowledge is there
you learn it in detail understand it and better understand
it and execute it believe me when you start executing you
will get that feeling
a child climbs a tree he sees a guava fruit he climbs the
tree to pluck it when he reaches there and plucks it he
sees two more guavas in front of him he moves forward and
he plucks those two guavas till he reaches a little more he
sees two more better
guavas he moves forward and slowly he sees more he reaches
the top he did not climb to reach the top he climbed just
for one in the same way take a single step towards success
as a professional sales marketing HR whatever you are take
a single step towards
success you will have to take it when you take a step
forward like that child took a step for one guava then from
there you will see more better things and believe me you
will keep moving forward successful people do not know how
they became successful
when they became successful they tell them what is left at
the bottom those who were standing under the tree from
where they climbed the tree they tell them how high you
climbed how big you have become when he looks down he
realizes that he has really
climbed very high how big he has become these people tell
them because there is a gap between them you may not even
realize why? because the society you have reached there are
people like you that is why you consider yourself only one
of them if you have
become the owner of 500 crores then your society will not
have people of 50 lakhs the people around you will have
people of 500 crores so when you are of 500 crores and the
people around you are of 1000 crores then you will consider
yourself small and
it is better to keep this thought it is better to keep this
thought yes never forget where you came from if you forget
your roots then you will have problems and not only the
roots the people who were at your roots the friends, the
parents never forget
them what is the meaning of that success that you leave
your family, friends and relatives what will you do of that
Mercedes in which you have no one to sit with and don't
become so big that you leave your parents
I was just seeing there is a company called Raymond's Group
and the founder chairman of Raymond's Group handed over the
company to his son and when he handed over everything to
his son then that son threw his father out of the house and
the founder of
a company of 1000 crores is lying on the street alone do
you know why this news came because that son's wife
demanded 25% and filed a divorce case
Today, the father who built such a big building for his
son, today he has made it on the road.
Do not go so high that you forget your parents and their
hard work.
Then that success will not be on you.
God will be sad.
I have said that there is no wise man, no fool, no rich
man, no poor man in this world.
This is his Leela.
Whoever he wants, he can make him rich at any time.
Vijay Mallya did not live such a comfortable life.
In reality, he was called a rich man.
What a life he lived.
He became a beggar.
It is possible that he is still making money there.
But the one who had to leave his country, what a life he
lived.
Do not sin with him.
He has nothing in front of you.
Whatever he can give, he can take it with a snap of his
fingers.
From where he has lifted you up, he can bring you there and
can also throw you.
Never forget this.
Never forget.
If you forget this, then you will not be able to stay
anywhere.
Nowhere.
Why? Because then you will have the habit of living in
poverty. You will not have the habit of living in poverty.
Then you will not be able to stay there.
You will not have the habit of living there.
If you do not have the habit of living here, you will die
without death.
And death will not come.
Death is also going to come at its own time.
Because it will show you death all the time.
You will not die in peace.
It is not going to happen.
That is why you go up.
Take the first step for success.
Move ahead.
But do not forget where you came from.
And from whom you came up.
Do not forget those friends, relatives, parents.
For whom is all this success?
There is no value of success until you have your own people
with you to celebrate it.
There is no value of success.
So if you understand the value, then keep them with you.
Keep them with you.
And enjoy that success.
I do not want to talk in a circle.
Get out of the circle.
Everyone has only one life.
You may be a sales manager, general manager, CAO, CAO,
accountant, CFO, doctor, lawyers, engineers, teacher,
professor, trainer, whatever you are.
Whoever is intending to be successful in life.
I am talking about those all candidates.
Whether you are a homemaker or a political person.
Whoever is intending to be successful in life.
I am not saying that you are not successful.
Still, wherever you are, you want to go ahead.
You want to move ahead.
Those who have the will to move ahead.
Those who have the passion to do something else.
I want to talk to all of them.
Find this way, in this way.
You can move ahead.
Enhance your skills.
Do better, nourish, update, upgrade.
Learn new skills.
If there is nothing, then learn what is required according
to your profession.
Then, the main thing that I am saying, not just learn,
learn, learn.
Implement.
Till now, you have been learning.
You have been learning books.
You have increased your knowledge.
You have taken the certificate.
You don't know how to implement.
You go for a job.
The other person asks, what will you do?
You have got a degree of 3 years.
You don't know what you will do.
You should know this.
The job you have gone for.
What is the profile of that job?
You should know how to do that job.
You should tell the other person, I can do this job.
I can do this job.
The motto of our training is,
You have to be ready to do this.
From day one, you should confidently say,
I can do this work.
This is my motto.
Are you willing to be like this?
Then you are most welcome.
And I think, of course, this is the need for you.
You have to become like this.
Otherwise, you will be out of today's competition.
And I don't think you want to be out of this competition.
You want to be in the competition, right? So you have to do
this.
Willingly accept this challenge.
Move ahead.
Nourish yourself.
Polish yourself.
And start executing.
Implementing.
It will be fun.
Life will be fun.
I swear, it will be fun.
Success is also a drug.
It's a different thing.
But never get so high in that drug, that your friends, your
relatives, especially your parents who are giving birth to
you, forget about them.
Then they will get upset.
And if they get upset, then no one will be able to save you.
No one.
Be afraid of that.
Then whatever comes, whatever you want, do it.
And keep this faith.
You can do.
Yes.
I'll make sure to spread the word to all my classmate.