Hello everybody, good afternoon to all of you.
This is Vineet Gautam
your trainer your coach and
today I'm talking about very crucial topic of the corporate
section corporate training section
Communication and in that actually I'm talking about the
topic of the confidence
What is exactly confidence?
In the last video actually I was talking about
The confidence and what is exactly the importance of the
confidence in our daily life, whatever we are doing
Whatever we are doing
Either you are studying at your school level at your
college level in your personal life in your social life
Whatever the activity you are doing
Confidence is everywhere and it is exactly
Important you know
And that will be boosted that will be the best form of that
thing
Confidence will be boosted and then you will be the best
that thing will be the best
That action will be the best that presentation will be the
best that work will be done in the best way
So if you want to get the best of anything then boost the
confidence
and
You can get your best
You can get your best confidence is the state of being
clear-headed
Clear head, confused head
Wherever is confusion there will not be confidence
Confidence is the opposite part of the confusion if you are
confused means you are not
Confident and if you are confident means you are not
confused
So confidence is the state of being clear-headed
either that a
Hypothesis or prediction is correct.
Whatever you can say or
That a chosen course of action is the best or most effective
Whatever you are doing
Whatever decision you have taken, you are confident that I
am damn sure this is the right decision
I have chosen this course, it is the best for me.
This training session is the best for me
It can.
Until you go to the doctor and there is a problem to be
shown
If you are not confident that this doctor is best for me,
he can cure me, till then that doctor is not going to do
anything for you
I am not going to tell you anything good
If you are confident that this doctor is best for me
The doctor will give you the best prescription and advice
The medicine will work on you and you will be fine
But when?
When you have faith in him, your confidence will cure you
Not medicine
If you go somewhere to learn something and you feel that
yes, I can learn something from there
Then you can learn.
If you think you can't then no one can make you learn
If you feel that you can't then even God can't make you
learn
Forget about common people, even God cannot make you learn
if you think that no one can make you learn
So your confidence
Here the state is saying that chosen course of action is
the best or most effective
Whatever action you have chosen, whatever course you have
chosen, whatever you have chosen to do, it is best and most
effective
Confidence comes from the Latin word
FIDRER which means to trust
Confidence has come from Latin word and it means to trust
Trust Trust I said earlier that you trust yourself You have
confidence in yourself
Until you trust yourself, why will the world trust you?
You are good You go for job interview
You are asked questions
But the answers you give
Based on those answers
The person in front of you will trust you
You are good You are good You are good The person in front
of you will trust you
And the answers you give
You have confidence in them
You trust yourself That I can do this
That's why you say
You can do this
So who trusted first?
You trusted yourself So you trust upon yourself
Means you are confident about you
And then people are going to respond This world is
responding to your action So you have confidence
This world is responding to your action Today you are
Wearing a king's dress
And walking like a royal rider
So people will see
This is the same person
And then they will say
No, the face must be similar
This must be some king
If you sit like a beggar
In front of a temple
So your friend will also leave from there
He will think This is the same person
No, how can he be my friend He must be a beggar
And he will leave you
No one has time
To think
How you are doing
The way you present
People start giving reaction
So if you Are confident
Then people
Will start giving you confidence
In the form of reaction
See As much as you are presenting
As much as you are presenting
If you do it right
Response In the form of appreciation
If you don't do it
In the form of tomatoes
Nowadays tomatoes are very expensive
So I mean to say
As you are presenting
Yourself so much In the same Quantity This is English In
the same quantity
In the same quantity
As you are responding
The response is coming in the same quantity
In the same quantity
Response is coming And those things are seriously matter
Very important
So You must have understood the importance of confidence
And this is very very crucial
Topic Actually I am doing video recording of corporate
training section
But I am saying
This is on the social grounds
On the home grounds
On the study grounds
Whatever You are in sports
You are a psychologist, confidence booster, motivator In
any field At any level At any level At whichever level Of
the life At whichever level Of the field This is the need
This is the need
To make you successful
If you want to go on the top
You are in need to
Take the
Doze of confidence
That is
In this process
I will talk about it in detail later
Ways to be more confident I am coming to the topic
I am coming to the topic
I will tell you some ways
How you can Make yourself
Confident How can you be
How can you make yourself confident
Fortunately There are several ways
You can increase your self confidence
You can
Boost your self confidence
In many ways
Whether you lack confidence
Whether you are in a specific area
Or struggle to feel confident
In any particular area
You are feeling less confident
Or you are struggling
About anything
These nine tips
Can help you be more confident
I am going to give you nine tips
Which can help you
To be more confident
I am going to give you nine tips
Which can help you
To be more confident 5.
I am going to talk about 9 tips one by one.
1.
2. You will get your own thing and when you will get your
own thing, you will get your own result.
1. Stop comparing yourself with others.
2. You are unique.
I am not saying that you are the best.
You are saying that I am the best.
There is no one else.
I am comparing myself with others.
I am just finishing the conversation.
Don't compare yourself.
Race is going on but don't compare yourself with others.
You will feel low confidence.
Everybody is unique in his or her style.
You can say that your complexion is low.
You are of Saawali type.
Some people say that Radha was also of Saawali type.
But Krishna was also of Saawali type.
He loved her a lot.
Some people say that he is white, dark, confident and tall.
Sachin Tendulkar is the world's best batsman.
If he thinks that his height is low, how can he become a
batsman?
If he thinks that he is not the best in the world, then
don't compare yourself with others.
You don't know.
Maybe some people don't like you.
But the way you are, you will find someone who will like
you.
If you have a project and everyone is rejecting it, it
doesn't mean that the project is bad.
It means that you haven't found someone who will like the
project.
You can think like this.
But don't compare yourself with others.
Comparison is done only when you start feeling low.
You know that some people have a good physique and
complexion.
But some people have a good smile.
They don't have a good physique and complexion.
But they have a good smile.
I don't know who will like what.
There is someone who will like you.
You have something special.
You should trust the creator.
You are having something different.
There is something unique.
He will not do injustice to you.
He has not done it.
So don't compare yourself or your working style to others.
You can learn from others.
You can take the lesson.
But never imitate others.
Don't copy someone.
Learn from others and improve yourself.
If Shah Rukh Khan had left his Kiran style, then the world
would not have followed him.
You should give your best.
Whatever you are doing, you should make it your best.
Don't compare and make yourself low in confidence.
Don't stop comparing yourself to others.
It doesn't mean that you should not improve yourself.
You should improve yourself.
You should find your best version.
Like I put my tagline.
Unlock your potential and be the best version of you.
You have all the potential.
Try to give your best.
Don't compare to anybody else.
Learn from others.
Learning is very important.
Because the one who learns, he moves forward.
Learning is very important.
Second is surround yourself with positive people.
I was talking about this in the last.
The way you live with people, you become like that.
If you live with confident people, you will become
confident.
People say, the effect of company is there.
If you live with negative people, you also become negative.
So your confidence also goes up and down.
So here the second point is, surround yourself with
positive people.
You should live with people with positive thinking.
Take a moment and think about how your friends make you
feel.
Think about how your friends make you feel.
What kind of comments they make about you.
What do they say?
You look useless.
If someone is telling you, your work is useless.
Leave such people.
Leave them.
Why are you wasting your time over there?
Leave them.
Make a society according to you.
So that you become confident.
It is important to be positive.
Be positive.
Wherever you are, set a target for yourself.
You can reach there.
Do they lift you up?
Take a moment and think about how your friends make you
feel.
Take a moment and think about how your friends make you
feel.
Do they lift you up?
Do they appreciate you?
Or do they bring you down?
Do they lift you up?
Or bring you down?
Are they constantly judging you?
Or do they accept you for who you are? Are they always
passing judgment on you?
Or are they ready to accept you as you are?
Acceptance is a very important part.
When you accept yourself, whatever you are, wherever you
are, at whichever level you are, when you accept yourself,
it becomes a base.
From there, from that day, your development starts.
From there onwards, you will develop, develop and develop.
It may be a single step.
Slowly, slowly, but you will progress from there.
Similarly, your friend circle, is accepting you as you are.
So, the friendship is progressing from there.
And if not, they are passing comments, criticizing you,
then it is better to end that friendship.
Here the topic is saying,
Are they constantly judging you?
Or do they accept you for who you are?
Whoever you are, they are accepting you.
The people you spend time with, can influence your thoughts
and attitudes about yourself.
The people you are living with, those people, can change
your thoughts and attitudes about you, about yourself.
The thoughts you have about yourself, they can change it,
they can affect it, they can make it positive or negative.
If they come to know that you are feeling better today, and
tomorrow, they will keep saying negative things, and make
your thoughts negative about themselves.
And you start thinking, my friend is right,
I am not good.
I am not good at all.
Then what happens?
Then what is the meaning of life?
What does it mean?
Going and committing suicide
Anything can happen
And if you are making them feel positive
Then also
You can do anything
You can reach anywhere
You tell me
I was watching an Indian Idol program in some regional town
The girl who becomes a state topper
I don't think
Looking wise
Although girls are always beautiful
You should never comment
Girls are always beautiful
But There is one thing
That confidence
Because It is selected at the top level
If the surroundings were negative
She says in the interview
My friends always boosted me
You can do
You have the talent
You can do
She kept going
She became a state champion
Now look at PT Usha
What is it?
You see
She is known by the name of Uran Pari
Talent Everyone has it
But the surroundings
In which you are living
Is that surrounding
Helping you to identify your talent
To move it forward
Or Commenting on you
It is a matter of thinking
Because your surroundings
Gradually influences you
Your thoughts about yourself
Influences it
If you are right
Your thoughts about yourself
Will keep getting better
And if they are going to say wrong
Then gradually you are going to be negative
About yourself
So surrounding is always matter
That's why I said
You should surround yourself with positive people
You should surround yourself
With positive people
Means make your circle
Your friend circle positive I said
The people you spend time with
Can influence your thoughts and attitudes
About yourself
Perhaps more than you realize
See how important this line is
The people you spend time with
Can influence your thoughts
And attitude about yourself
The people
You spend time with
Can influence your thoughts
About yourself
As much
Perhaps more than you realize
As much
As you can And more than you
Because you
Are the only one who think about yourself
But when five people
Speak Then you think bole toh theek hai, doh bole toh theek
hai, teen bole toh theek hai.
Panch-panch log kai rahe hai ki tumhare bas ka kuch nahi
hai.
Toh sahi baat hi hai.
Tum jabardasti ke jeet kiye huye ho, ki tum kar sakte ho,
tum kar sakte ho.
Girijoli aap apne pe bishwaad chod ke unki baaton pe
bishwaad karna suroo kar dete hai aur aap negative ho jate
hai. Waise hi, dusra part main kah raha hu, agar aap apne
baare mein negative hai aur panch-panch people are saying
positive, then you forget
your negativity, your negative thinking about yourself.
When you are alone with yourself, then you say, why do I
think that I am negative, negative?
All my friends say, you are not saying wrong, one will say,
two will say, three will say, not everyone is saying wrong,
it means that it is right, I can do it, I can do it, you
can do it, you can do it, you can do it.
So pay attention to how others make you feel.
If you feel bad about yourself, after hanging out with a
particular person, it may be time to say goodbye, taking
action, action taking line, if you feel bad about yourself,
after hanging out with a particular person, it may be time
to say goodbye, after
hanging out with a particular person, it may be time to say
goodbye, taking action, after hanging out with a particular
person, it may be time to say goodbye, taking action,