Hello everybody, good evening to all of you.
This is Vineet Gautam
Your coach your trainer and today
Before I'm going to start the topic as the series of
success blueprint is going on.
I've already given the two parts
in Success blueprint series.
It's part three if you want to grow
You are a need to learn if you want to be successful
wherever whatever You are wherever you are.
success blueprint part 3
Learn to grow
Learn to grow and for learning
The required is the learning attitude
Yes, I'm going to talk about this thing in a very detail
today
To you everybody whoever intending to be successful in your
life
Whatever you are wherever you are, whatever you are doing
But from wherever you are you want to move ahead So You
have to do something or the other
Different and what is that different you can do for you for
your life for your professional life
For your social life or for your personal life.
That's the thing actually I am going to discuss with you
here today
Before starting the video actually, I would like to go for
the same process as I do
first thing you are to go for the deep breathing and
Concentrating yourself and then you'll activate before
doing your job your work
Whatever you like to do
If you want to give your best I've already told you you are
need to follow this process
And be sure about that.
This process is
naturally Going to help you in producing the result
As you want
Vaisa result produce up kar sakte hai agar
kisi bhi kaam ko start karne se pehle aap deep breathing
karte hain
Mai phir se batara chahun
Chahunga ke deep breathing is a process
By doing that you are going to concentrate yourself self,
you concentrate yourself, you focus yourself and you can
start from there.
You will feel relaxed by doing this.
There is a diversion in the mind, many times you are going
to do something else, but something else is going on in the
mind.
So, this method will help you to bring your focus to the
place where it should be exactly.
This is what I mostly tell in every video, because every
video is a new video, every lesson is a new lesson and our
motto is that you understand the thing, do it, execute it,
because until you execute it, there is no benefit of
listening and understanding.
Keep listening, keep understanding like a story, you will
get many such videos, when you don't have to execute it,
you will get many such videos.
But if you have to execute, then it becomes very important.
This is what I am saying.
This is what is going to happen, but you are not doing it,
because you have to do some actions, no one else can do
anything in that. So, this is the process I gave you.
The second thing you will do is accelerating yourself after
deep breathing.
Yes, yes, yes, yes.
So, in this way you are accelerating yourself.
So friends after excavating you can start your work
You can get your desired result
Means to
Until you can't know your exact position you will not be
able to move towards your exact location I mostly say
When you book a cab
You have to tell the cab driver your current location
before your destination
3. Accept your present
Accept yourself
If you don't accept your present situation, you can't move
forward on the path of growing.
If you want to move forward on the path of growing, first
of all you have to accept your present situation.
If you don't accept your present situation, you can't move
forward on the path of growing.
If you want to move forward on the path of growing, first
of all you have to accept your present situation.
If you don't accept your present situation, you can't move
forward on the path of growing.
If you don't accept your present situation, you can't move
forward on the path of growing.
If you don't accept your present situation, you can't move
forward on the path of growing. What is the reason for not
being able to achieve what you want to achieve?
When you will do an assessment and introspect, you will
find out that something is missing.
Until you find out what is missing, you cannot find a
solution.
Until you find out what is missing, is it possible to treat
it?
It is not possible to treat it until you find out what is
missing.
So, it is not necessary to find out the disease. It is very
important.
You have to find out your disease.
1. Accept your present reality.
Actually, it depends on you whether you take everything
positively or negatively.
How do you take it?
You are going by car, scooter or bike.
There can be a small accident.
You may get frustrated.
Or you may take it as a positive attitude.
So, it is very important to have a positive attitude.
You must have heard the story of Akbar Birbal.
I will tell you a small story about how to make your
thoughts positive.
Once, Birbal said to Akbar,
Akbar got angry and said,
I cut my finger.
Birbal said, it is good. Put him in jail.
Akbar said, he is a king. He can do anything.
Akbar went to the forest to hunt.
The forest people caught him.
They wanted to sacrifice a man to their goddess.
But there was a tradition that a sacrifice will be given to
a person who does not have any organs.
So, before the sacrifice, a check was done.
They found that his finger was cut.
So, they left him.
They said, we cannot sacrifice him.
The king was saved.
When the king came back, he asked Birbal to come out.
Birbal said, you were right.
Everything happens for a good reason.
When you said that I cut my finger, I got angry.
But today, because of the cut of my finger, my neck is safe.
He told me a story.
It was my fault that I put you in jail.
Birbal said, no, it was a good thing.
He asked, why did you put me in jail without any mistake?
If you had not put me in jail, I would have gone with you.
Your finger was cut and you were saved.
But I would have been sacrificed.
Akbar said, you are right.
What I mean to say is that whatever is happening, you
should accept it.
Find a way out of it.
Instead of that, you torture yourself.
It is better that you accept the present situation.
You are not going to get anything by torturing yourself.
Yes, if you accept the present situation as it is, then you
will definitely get a cool mind.
People say, this thought can be called as an illusion, that
if a cat crosses the road, it becomes peaceful.
They say, these animals can see many bad things.
You can also take it this way, that there is something bad
that is going to happen, so you should wait for a while.
This is what they do.
A scientific reason is also given, that when a cat crosses
the road, its hair keeps flying.
And when the cat's hair flies through our nostrils,
Today we will see an opportunity for ourselves.
There are two cells.
It is rainy season.
It rained a lot that day.
One cell is filled with water and it is raining.
One of the two cells thought that the weather is very bad.
Today work cannot be done.
It is difficult to go out.
That's why I am taking leave today.
We eat fritters at home and enjoy.
In the same situation, the situation is not different.
It is rainy season.
It rained all day.
Water is filled all around.
It has been raining for the last two days.
The rain is still continuing.
The other cell thought that it is difficult to go out in
the rainy season.
All my clients will meet at home today.
They will be free.
No one will be able to say that I am busy and cannot talk.
That's why I am calling everyone today.
I will complete my target for the whole month.
The situation is the same.
Someone accepted it as a problem.
That day, he decided not to work.
The other person did not consider it a problem.
He considered it an opportunity for himself.
He used it as an opportunity.
He completed his work for the whole month on that day.
That's why I am saying that neither the time is good nor
bad.
It depends on your thinking.
How do you take it?
It was the time of Corona.
There was a crisis for the whole world.
Running, all the work was getting over.
People were worried.
But some people used it as an opportunity for themselves.
They created new start-ups.
They created an online business, an online industry.
And they made a lot for themselves.
So it's up to you how you take any situation.
Keep one thing in mind.
It's your thinking.
It's going to happen the way you think.
Whether you are a professional, an engineer, a manager, a
doctor, a lawyer, a CA, a teacher, a professor, a trainer,
a homemaker, a political person.
Whatever you are, as a human being,
If you feel bad, if you think bad, Then believe me, the way
you are drafting your thinking,
Its vibration will go to the universe.
And it will attract the same things for you.
If you think that I am a failure, I am sad, I am desperate.
If you think that such things have been written on your
mind,
The vibrations of this thought are going to the universe.
The universe is within you.
Your subconscious mind is the doer.
Your conscious mind is the instructor.
The way it instructs, the same way the subconscious mind
will work.
You said you are a failure.
It said, yes, my master.
So you are a failure.
The proof of this is that your subconscious mind will do
all the arrangements for you to remain a failure.
How do people become failures?
When you say that you are a failure, Then you will start
meeting people who are failures.
And not failures, they keep telling their crying stories.
Everyone shares their pain with each other.
And because everyone thinks the same,
So it is the same with everyone.
Everyone shares their pain with each other.
If you want to get out of a problem,
I am talking about any kind of problem.
Whether it is a personal life or a social life.
Even if you talk about a professional life.
Then you discuss the problem or its solution.
If you think about the problem and discuss about it, you
will be a part of the problem.
The problem will be continue with you.
Believe me, no one can stop it, no one can stop it. It will
happen, it will definitely happen.
Do you understand?
Now the second thing is that even after...
People say that you show false happiness.
You must have heard in your childhood that if you keep
smiling even in bad times, then bad times are avoided and
good things happen to you.
I had heard, but never cared.
Now as a mind trainer, as a mind coach, now I understand
these things.
And with my training and the power of subconscious mind,
like reading, listening, understanding knowledge books,
meeting such trained people, after doing all this, I came
to know that what I want to share with you, I am sharing,
see, you are in a bad state,
but you are hiding your pain and showing good.
What is the message?
Good.
That is why the educated and wise people are not mostly
successful because they get emotionally trapped.
Emotions are visible on their face, pain and sorrow are
visible.
If you want, when you see pain and sorrow, your thinking
will be like that.
You said you did drafting like this.
When you did drafting like this, you wrote such things,
called manifestation.
You gave such a message to your subconscious mind.
What did Genie say?
Call it subconscious mind, call it super power, call it
universe, call it Genie.
Genie said, you said, I am sad.
Genie said, yes my master.
He will make arrangements to make you sad.
It is said, in olden times kings used to say, I am sad,
make arrangements for such lighting, play such sad music,
no one laughs in front of you, create such atmosphere, Now,
you are thinking, the king, the conscious mind, is the
master, and the people
who made all this arrangement, are your genies.
You can call them universe, you can call them subconscious
mind, who are following the orders of their master.
Similarly, the king said,
I am very happy today.
Then all the ministers, made arrangements for celebration,
put flowers, the atmosphere became happy, music, dance,
celebration.
Look, I gave you two situations, which came out of each
statement.
You said, I am sad, you are master, you are king, your
followers, your courtiers, you said, I am sad, they created
a sad atmosphere, reduced the lights, everyone is sad,
music is sad, created such atmosphere, sad, no one is
laughing, even if they want
to.
Because, the desires of others are naked in front of you.
Similarly, whatever desires you have, this universe, does
the same with you, and remains the same with you.
The same thing happens with you,
Whatever you are today, yesterday, the way you thought
about yourself, you are the result of that thought.
You are the soil, in this, the way you sow the seed of
thought, the same way, the tree is going to grow.
Your life, is dependent on the seed of your thought.
If you sow the seed of your thought, then how will you get
the fruit of the mango, Baba?
In this, first, it is difficult to understand, that you do
not have a good or bad idea of plants.
Second, many times you have an idea, but you want results
quickly, so you have a small thought.
It is said that a small thought, and a sprain in the foot,
does not allow a person to move forward in life.
If you want something big, then it will take a lot of time.
Investment, patience, you want it, right? Now tell me, you
want to eat Sahi Biryani, but your patience is like Maggi.
So, will Sahi Biryani be made in the time of Maggi?
No, it will not.
So, even if you have a basic biryani, but what will you
have to eat? Maggi.
You will have to satisfy yourself with that.
Why? Because you do not want to wait for the biryani to be
made.
Let me tell you one more thing.
Many times people say, that there is something in Birwan,
something that is seen in childhood.
See, something is seen, something is seen because, Because
according to the law of nature, but everything looks good,
it's not like that.
Law of nature means luck.
Luck is something like that.
But there is something like labour, hard work, effort which
a human being can do.
I was watching a movie, 12th fail, the guy became an IPS.
Here, people are passing 12th easily, and the guy is just
swinging.
And that 12th fail guy, this is destiny. Sometimes
something bad happens to you.
And you get worried.
You don't know, that situation, God has done it for you
with a big plan.
See, on the village level, a cricket match is going to
happen, where the entry fee is Rs.100. And there is no bat,
I am not laughing.
This happens on the ground.
There is a bat, but no ball, so you have to put a ball
worth Rs.10.
11 players are going to go, it will be Rs.110, right?
Everyone got Rs.10.
But the 12th fail guy, he doesn't have Rs.10.
So that he can fill Rs.10 and enter as a player.
Now he can cry over this, that he doesn't even have Rs.10.
But, there is a commentary, you can do commentary for free.
So he becomes a commentator instead of a player.
In that, as a cheap guest, STM comes, and they get happy
with that guy's commentary,
and appreciate him.
There is a scene before that, that he and his younger
brother buy an old auto and drive it.
And one day before, that auto, due to not being able to
complete any paper or any reason, the police officer caught
the auto and put it in the police station.
So his younger brother says at night, after hearing such
appreciation,
See, the scene is the same.
As I said, the way you think, and the seed of that way of
thinking, that, as I said, you are a land, you are soil,
and the way you sow the seed of thought in this soil, the
same plant, the same tree will grow.
STM comes, appreciates the commentary, and he is happy with
the appreciation.
But what did he see?
He saw that, the police officer who scolded me yesterday,
and caught my auto and put it in the police station, how he
was standing with his hands tied in front of STM.
The police officer has no level in front of STM.
STM has no level.
And in his mind, a thought was born, that brother, if you
want to become something in life, then become like this.
See, in his mind-like soil, what kind of thought is growing.
Shall I tell you one more thing?
To get such an idea,
this also happens according to your destiny.
If God gives such an idea, then this is also your destiny.
You will say, when it has to happen according to your
destiny, then why thought and why law of attraction? Do you
know what is in your destiny?
No, right?
So, the one who knows, he keeps supplying things according
to your destiny.
He is thinking like this,
and he is crying at home, because his mother had borrowed
money from someone, and he bought an auto for Rs.40,000.
He had to pay that money too.
And the auto was seized.
The auto was seized.
In this problem, both are not able to sleep at night, so
the younger brother tells him, that the STM,
they have recognized you, they were praising you, they will
recognize you.
He says,
I don't know whether they will recognize me or not.
He says, let's go tomorrow.
Let's go tomorrow, and you tell them to leave the auto.
If they say, then the police will leave it.
Did you see, how the police was standing with folded hands
in front of him?
But he says, think.
He says,
they think I am educated, they think I am talented.
I will go and tell them, that I own an auto, so the label
will fall on me. I won't go.
But the younger brother says,
I have to go, my auto is stuck,
I have to get it out.
He says, let's go, the STM will recognize you.
Yes, Manoj, how are you?
Sir, I am fine.
The younger brother says, the STM has recognized you, talk
about the auto.
He says, if I talk about the auto again, it will be the
same thing.
Till the time the STM asks, tell me how did you come?
Sir, just like that.
What are you doing?
What studies have you done? 12th has failed, but what does
it say there?
I have passed 12th.
Sometimes, you have to manage things.
Here, I will say this too,
Law of Attraction or Manifestation, if you fail, if you are
crying, then you will fail,
you will keep failing.
Even if you fail, if you are saying pass, then you will
pass tomorrow, you will keep passing.
This Learn to Grow, why am I telling you these things in
the topic?
All these life lessons,
I am telling you to learn, that you take these lessons,
take this lesson from the law.
If you want to grow in your life
You have come to meet me, I am happy to meet you.
What is there to do in life?
He says, Sir, I have just passed 12th standard.
I will study further.
What is there to become?
He says, I want to become like you.
He says, an idea can change the life.
After hearing this, SDM sir feels good.
He feels that the boy is intelligent.
He says, it is a good thing.
SDM sir says, once a person decides, then nothing is
impossible.
The matter that has come, he comes out of it.
Bhai says, he had recognized you.
But you did not talk about leaving the auto.
He says, leave the auto.
He says, once a person decides, then nothing is impossible.
Nothing is impossible.
The younger brother agrees to this.
He says, now I have to do anything.
But I have to become like him.
Dev comes.
I have to do anything.
But now I have to become SDM.
The 12th failed person is thinking like this.
If this is said to an ordinary person,
then people will call him a fool.
He does not pass 12th standard.
In physics, chemistry, math and English,
he gets 10 marks.
And he says, I will become SDM.
When you say such things,
then the world calls you a fool.
But believe me, it is possible.
If a person decides,
then life changes.
It definitely changes.
Transformation starts from where you have made a positive
thought.
Your one positive thought
starts the transformation for you.
So, in the video so far,
you have seen
and if I conclude this video here,
then I would like to say that
if you want to be successful,
then make a learning attitude.
Be a learner.
Learn to see good in everything.
See good in the worst of situations.
Because the kind of seed of thought that you sow in the
soil of your mind,
the same plant, the same tree
is going to grow.
You are going to get the same result in life.
There will be many things
that will happen
while struggling a lot.
It will definitely happen.
You accept your present situation,
whether it is good or bad,
whatever it is.
But,
I said that the kind of seed of thought,
if you keep your thoughts positive,
then a positive plant is going to grow from there.
If you keep the seed of thought of mango in a bad situation,
then you will get the mango plant.
If you keep the seed of thought of cucumber,
then you will get the cucumber plant.
So, if the thought is of cucumber,
then you will not get the mango plant.
So, I talked about thoughts in this video.
I hope you understood.
I think, make your thoughts positive.
I will talk further.
The boy is impressed by what SDM said.
See, this also happens due to destiny.
When and whom to meet.
I told you,
if you could not play as a player,
then either you would have cried on this.
Because, those who filled 10 rupees, they played as a
player and stayed there.
No one knows or recognizes them.
And because they did not have 10 rupees,
they became a commentator.
And from his commentary,
SDM got happy, recognized him, appreciated him.
From there, he got to know him better.
He got motivation from him.
And then,
there was a change in life.
He left his auto at the police station.
He went to study.
He passed 12th standard.
He graduated.
He started preparing for the exam.
Do you know,
such people become successful
because they are not smart enough to read.
If they are not smart enough to read,
their mind does not work properly.
Their mind does not work properly.
Their focus is always on one thing.
If they do something there, they will do it.
If they have a good mentality,
then they are good.
Because, they do not have many thoughts.
Because, they are average.
That is why,
average students are more successful in life
because they do not have much diversion in their thinking.
They do not change their thoughts often
because they do not have many thoughts.
You read a lot of books.
You get a lot of thoughts from them.
And sometimes, you get stuck in those thoughts.
And sometimes,
you get stuck in good thoughts,
new thoughts,
creative thoughts
because your educated mind
says,
how can this happen?
If that 12th failed student goes to someone
and says,
I want to become an SDM,
I want to become an IPS,
I want to become an AC,
what will happen? So who was going to believe it? Now as
far as saying it to someone else is concerned, many times
you say it to yourself that how can this happen?
Suppose,
you get 10 marks in chemistry, and you are thinking of
becoming SDM, IPS, IAS, and this thought comes,
and the person surrenders.
It is a useless thing, it is useless to mess up.
End.
But there is another reason, educated people think that I
will do something else, this thought is useless,
I will become a supervisor,
I will become a teacher, I am not saying anything wrong,
I am saying that how can we divert thoughts?
Because he is in average studies, he does not understand
anything else, he just decided once, because he does not
even know how to become a teacher, he does not even know
how to become a teacher.
Yes,
he does not even know how to become SDM, how to become IPS,
but he is only aware that
SDM sir said that once a person decides, then anything can
be done.
He said this to me,
he has only that visual in his mind, nothing else.
And only that one visual, that one statement, put him on
track.
Keep moving forward, keep moving forward.
Whenever he gets too down, gets tired, loses, what all did
that person not bear? His room partner, deliberately
closing the door,
leaves.
He keeps wandering on the road for 3 days.
At night, he sleeps with the beggars at the roadside.
In the hotel, food, food, but,
in all this, if you have saved your conscience,
then even after being with the beggars, you cannot become a
beggar.
Again, I am talking about thinking.
A beggar, if someone gives him something without any hard
work,
then he becomes happy after getting it.
But this person says to the hotel owner, that I am hungry,
I want to eat,
but, I will eat only if I do some work in return.
Can you give me some work?
I am hungry,
I want to eat, but will you give me some work?
He says,
I do have someone to work for me, but you eat.
He sits down, eats, and puts the food on the table.
He is hungry, he is eating with great impatience.
The hotel owner is seeing how hungry he is.
But after eating, he comes to the hotel owner,
that I have eaten, now you tell me some work.
He says,
No, no, leave it.
He says,
No, tell me some work,
I will not go without doing some work.
In between, see the scene, his old friend comes, what
happened?
What happened?
The hotel owner says, he was hungry, he wanted to eat, so I
fed him.
But he says,
I have eaten, so I will do some work in return,
I will pay you, then I will go.
See, I told you, this is the difference in thinking.
I do not believe in any caste, but I belong to a golden
society.
I am a Brahmin.
But I believe in society, because society gives us thought.
I am talking about thought, that the way you sow the seed
of thought in your mind, your life will become like a
plant, like a tree.
I don't believe in casteism, but I believe in society.
and he said, yes, I am hungry,
I took food and ate it, and beat the child at home.
The child is a mother.
The same other society, which is flourishing in the name of
reservation, what is being taught to them?
Even if he has eaten, and someone asks,
I am hungry, and he says the truth, that yes,
I have eaten, then he will be beaten at home. Was it
necessary to speak the truth? You were getting two rotis,
you were getting ten rupees, would you have brought it?
A child of a beggar, his parents have given him this
thought, that if the hotel is feeding you, then eat and
leave.
That is why he is going to remain a beggar.
Because the beggar has got the thought of a beggar from his
family.
Don't take my words otherwise.
I am talking about thinking.
But this poor boy is going through a bad phase, but he has
not got the thought of asking for food.
That is why he is hungry, he asks for food, that I am
hungry,
I want to eat,
I am very hungry, but I will do some work.
His friend asks how much money he has.
I told you that his friend came to the NMOK.
The hotel owner says 30 rupees.
He says I will give you 30 rupees, he holds his hand and
says no, you will not give.
I have eaten,
I will work hard and pay.
I had told you earlier.
The hotel owner is tired and says, give him the work of
washing utensils. He goes and happily washes the utensils
and comes back.
He says now it is okay.
I am leaving.
The hotel owner is happy.
Look, from here you can see the principle, the thought.
The owner of the hotel hugs him, he is not getting support
from his family.
This government should be ashamed.
The economic caste of such a society, even though it is
big, but it is economically down.
We should think about such children.
They are going through such a difficult time, and it is
very difficult to save their dignity. You have given them a
reservation, and they will eat on the streets, and you
can't even say anything to them.
You are making them useless.
Nothing else.
If a person is forced to work in a library, for his food,
he will be able to afford a house, because he has to live
in the library.
He has seen three things.
He will have to live there, he will have to eat whatever
money he gets, he will have to study if there is a library.
But one day, the librarian put the blame of theft on the
garbage that came out of the library.
Because these people don't understand the situation of such
people.
Now, he went to the hotel hungry, and the hotel owner
thought he was a beggar.
But his thinking, his stubbornness, told him that I am
hungry, but I am not a beggar. Don't think I am a beggar.
I don't have money to pay for food.
I am hungry, I have to eat, I am hungry,
I am saying this, but I am not a beggar.
I will not eat the food you throw away,
I will work hard, I will pay, then I will go, then I will
eat.
Many people call this ego.
The beggar category, who have been taught to take from
others since childhood, they call it ego, how arrogant they
are.
That he is eating, and he is saying that there is no
problem, but still he says that I will not work, he is
arrogant. This is not arrogance, this is called attitude.
And this attitude is identity, nothing else.
It is said that the certificate degree of a school or
college, is not an identity in your life.
Many people go around with CA degrees, doctor, manager,
engineer degrees, many people go around with MBA degrees.
Do they go around with their degrees all the time?
I did CA,
I did MBA,
I am a professor,
I am an engineer.
No.
That degree is only the time and fees in the college, and
the receipts.
Your identity is that attitude, with which you go around.
Always, with your face, with your gestures, eye contact,
face expression, body language, sitting style, moving
style, dressing style, with your words, the attitude that
shines, this is your identity.
That certificate degree is not your identity.
It is not, never.
Many times people outside call this attitude important,
they call it pride.
This is not important pride.
Yes, he is hungry, he is not eating on demand, but if he is
hungry, he will die, but he will not eat, and by working,
that is wrong.
Because in our society, we cannot do small things, if we
are not able to do big things, we will starve.
No.
It is important to be practical.
When a librarian files a complaint, the person who got the
job, his friend takes him to him, he says, against my
principles, my attitude, this is called attitude.
He has put a very disgusting allegation on me.
Just like the hotel owner understood, the librarian also
understood.
He is a common man, working in 2000 rupees, what is his
level?
A man does not even think for a second before filing a
complaint.
But his ego got hurt.
This is called self-respect.
This is not arrogance.
Ego, attitude, that is the identity.
How can you forget this?
It is said,
Raghu Kulrit Sada Chali Aayi,
Praya Na Jaaye Par Bachan Na Jaaye.
How can you leave that identity?
Both the people explained to him.
The friend said, that in 2-3 months, there is an exam of
UPSC Prelims.
If you suddenly change your place, there will be a problem.
Where will you go?
How will you do it?
Continue here.
He says yes, because he also has to maintain his
self-respect.
But, on the same day, he leaves.
He works for a flour mill.
He lives in a dark room.
A month later, he goes there.
When he meets the library, he finds out that he left it a
month ago.
He left it on the same day.
Secondly, there is another lesson.
You should follow your principles and attitude.
You should fight on your strong point.
His English is weak.
He is interested in Hindi literature.
He performs well in it.
He leaves Gwalior and goes to Delhi.
Mukherjee Nagar is a hub for UPSC Prelims.
He comes there.
The result of the first exam is going to be announced.
I liked that scene.
The result of the Hindi literature exam is going to be
announced.
A girl says,
I don't know who is going to top.
She says,
I will top.
The best Hindi is mine.
The second boy says,
Those who are studying there, they know who is good in
Hindi literature.
I will top.
The boy sitting next to them is quiet.
Because it is new there, what should I say?
I go to class, teacher comes,
page is flipped, topper's name is mentioned.
He asks, who is Manoj Kumar Sharma?
He raises his hand in hesitation.
Such words that you get to hear from your trainer, teacher,
Guru, these are people who can change your life.
I request you to never pass wrong comments about your
students.
Mostly I see ma'ams,
they say, you can't do anything, useless, you'll be like
this all your life.
Don't put such thoughts in him.
What does the teacher say, who is Manoj Kumar Sharma?
He says, Sir, it's me.
He says, this boy has all the qualities to clear UPSC.
You say such things in raw, you don't know.
Even SDM sir said such things in raw,
that he made the right decision.
If a person decides to do something,
then he can do anything, nothing is impossible.
That one thing made him reach so far.
Today, while giving UPSC training in Mukherjee Nagar,
the professor said,
this boy has all the qualities to clear UPSC.
He has the highest marks in Hindi literature.
I would like to say to teachers, trainers, professors,
your work is not just a job.
You are the creator of careers,
you are the creator of children's future.
The world may or may not respect you,
but you should remember your responsibilities,
don't forget them.
Don't say such things like a normal person,
about the children who are studying from you,
which will demotivate them.
This is right.
Parents and teachers always want the best for their
children.
But, many times they get hurt by your bad words.
That's why,
why do you say bad things?
When you have to say something, say it well.
Young children trust their teachers,
the teachers of KG class,
so much,
that one day, the teacher may write something wrong,
and we are looking like college professors,
we are looking like traitors.
I am talking about my daughter,
she is a corporate trainer.
I say, this is wrong.
She says,
what do you know?
My teacher has written it.
She is not a teacher, she is a Brahmin.
She has written it, no one can cut it.
So, the trust of these children in you,
you should understand its responsibility.
Your responsible behavior,
activity, attitude,
talks,
will change the lives of children.
It will change.
You don't know,
when something clicks in the mind.
I will give my example.
I belong to district Siwan Bihar.
I completed my education from there till 8th standard.
In 9th standard, I came to Delhi NCR.
I had come from a village environment.
The environment here was very strange.
I was not feeling well for many months.
In 9th standard, I got admission very late,
but in 8th standard, my result was good.
88%
25 years before today,
I was a minor.
Now, I am talking about 98%.
I got admission.
The school wanted my record.
But,
the principal gave me this condition,
that the child will not be naughty.
I got admission in October.
The session starts in April.
I took the test, everything.
The base was good.
People said, whether I agree or not,
in the class before A,
in 8th standard,
I was taught in 9th standard.
But, I kept flying in the air.
In 8th standard, I was taught in 9th standard.
I knew everything in the syllabus.
I remember the scene of Day 1.
I was sitting in the class.
The children were so
compared to the village,
so well-versed.
Dress.
I was sitting scared,
looking at everything.
I was sitting in the back.
The children were having fun.
After 6 months,
how did I get a new entry?
The class teacher comes.
First of all,
I was like a new animal
in the jungle.
A new bird.
Children,
Ma'am, new entry, new admission,
new admission, new admission.
Brother,
Madam called me.
I am not going out of fear.
Son, come.
Son, call me.
She took me to the principal's office.
Ma'am, new entry.
Ma'am, do it.
Yes, it is okay to study.
I have taken the entry.
But if someone misbehaves,
I will throw them out of the gate.
I swear,
after hearing such words,
my breath stopped.
But,
misbehaviour was not in its nature.
It was a record.
It was okay to study.
But,
my English was good from the beginning.
My uncle was an English teacher.
I still respect him.
I still respect him from the bottom of my heart.
There was an atmosphere at home.
I used to give English tuitions to others.
I used to study with them.
I became so good
that when I was in 6th grade,
I could learn the syllabus of 7th grade.
In 9th grade,
after the chapter I had taught,
Ma'am said,
I will take the test tomorrow.
Everyone will bring a new registrar for the test.
And this is a question.
I think there were 6 questions.
She got the answers.
Question and answer.
She said, I will take the test from these.
Tomorrow, come with a new registrar.
Be ready.
My English was a plus point.
Chapter was absolutely clear.
I got ready and went.
Next day,
I took the new registrar.
But, seeing the atmosphere of the first day,
I was scared.
He was sitting behind.
Ma'am came, gave test, she gave 2 questions out of 6
questions that answer these 2 questions.
I did and kept it.
Second time I started to see when the kid next to me was
looking at me.
Who is doing what, something special was happening, I
couldn't see in the class.
40 minutes period, the bell was about to ring, 5-7-10
minutes were left.
Ma'am is saying, come on show.
I was sitting there scared, the guy who came yesterday.
And everyone was acting as if they don't know what is going
on, where are the 30 marks.
The atmosphere of the city.
I was sitting there scared, not getting up.
I was seeing that no one is getting up.
Now Ma'am started abusing me.
No one is doing anything, nothing is happening, this is
this, that is that.
No one is going.
The guy next to me said, you have done it, go and show.
I am not going because I am scared.
I said, you have also done it.
Actually he copied from me.
I said, you have also done it, you show.
He said, Ma'am knows everything.
Ma'am knows everything.
She will start listening there.
She will get beaten.
Then Ma'am said, at least show, no one has done it.
Then the kids said, Ma'am, the new kid has done it.
Ma'am said, the new kid has done it?
Yes son, he has done it.
Now I had to speak out of fear, yes Ma'am.
Then she said, come, bring, bring, bring.
Now I moved forward.
Ma'am saw the answer.
I got all the marks.
The new copy, the original copy of the test.
The kid who copied from me, he also did not have the copy
of the test.
Again Ma'am took me to the principal's office.
This is the second day.
The principal Ma'am was also an English teacher.
Our class teacher was also English.
She took my copy and also took me.
Ma'am, the kid who came yesterday had the test today.
So in the whole class, he has done it.
Look, he has got a new copy.
You see the answer.
All correct, all marks.
Principal Ma'am said, I did not keep it like this.
I also took the test.
The boy is intelligent.
You take care, take care.
He will give a good result for our school.
Things change.
Ma'am comes to the class and says,
pick up the bag son.
Come and sit in the front.
And on that day in the class, it was said that
this seat will be reserved for him in front of me.
My confidence also increased so much.
One day before, the kid was suppressed.
Principal Ma'am said, if you make a mistake, get out of the
gate.
The next day, he got the appreciation that he got the front
bench.
You do not have to give your introduction.
Do your work.
Your work is your introduction.
And that introduction will be practical.
No one will be able to deny it.
No one will be able to suppress it.
Then one by one,
whether it is math or science,
in everything,
I got the response.
There was a talk of appreciation.
In the success blueprint,
in the learn to grow series,
in the success blueprint series,
if I am talking about the learn to grow topic,
then I am talking about the lesson of life.
If you want to move forward in life,
then how much does appreciation matter?
I remembered an incident.
As a communication coach,
I started at the age of 18-19.
I started my career in 1999 as a trainer.
But I remember,
at the age of 16,
my English was good,
but for the communication skill development,
when I went to take the class,
Dr. Bhatia Sir was our trainer.
That first day's session,
I still remember,
when a 16 year old boy,
on the round table, there was a chair around the table,
he used to teach there.
When I sat there,
there was a health club session,
Sariram Health Club,
there were many activities there,
apart from gym, yoga,
communication classes, everything.
So I sat on a chair on that table,
all the people sitting around me,
some were engineers, some were managers,
some were doctors, some were 30, 35, 45 year olds.
Age doesn't matter, just look at the post.
I was just a 12th pass student.
I remember, that day,
you must have heard the synonyms of the words,
but in the communication session,
we give the synonyms of the sentences,
so that when a person talks, when a person talks,
then he can keep the same thing in many ways.
Meaning, the sense of the sentence should come out there,
meaning, the feeling should come out there,
but the sentence should be spoken in a different way.
Bhatia Sir, that day,
gave 8-10 sentences,
and said,
that you will make the synonyms of it,
as many as you can make, he told me,
he told me,
I have to do it this way, this way,
he said,
on the new copy,
you will work on it,
and bring it tomorrow.
After seeing all the people,
I was already scared,
I don't know,
again,
I worked on it the next day and took it,
but I am not showing it,
because the condition I was in, in the English class,
that even after doing it,
I am sitting quietly,
the same condition was here also,
here also, I am sitting quietly,
But no one else did the work, then he asked me, so I showed
him.
I had done at least 5 pages of work,
about 4-5 sentences.
I had made it from each sentence.
He took a copy,
looked at the work from a different angle,
turned the page,
did not check,
only saw the work of 5 pages.
I had also done a clean job.
By God, if I do it carefully, I get good writing.
Then he asked me,
Son,
suppose,
the work you have done,
is all wrong.
Whatever you have made is all wrong.
Then how many marks should you get?
Simply, the thought of a child,
if everything is wrong, then zero.
But he said something,
which I still remember,
which still inspires me.
Today, I am an inspirational speaker.
The world listens to me.
But wherever I have got inspiration from,
I am sharing this story,
that,
ordinary children,
ordinary people,
from teachers and trainers like us,
consider every word as an inspiration.
So, it becomes our responsibility,
to think before we speak.
Without thinking,
we should not say anything.
What were his words?
He said, Son, logical.
I was telling you, decisions are not logical,
they are emotional.
He said, Son, logical is right,
if all are wrong, then zero marks.
But I am saying,
if all are wrong,
then I will give you 100 out of 100.
Not for work.
For this effort,
which you have done in this entire class,
the youngest child,
the child who came yesterday,
but you have done the homework alone.
For this effort,
I will give you 100 out of 100.
And Son, I will say one more thing,
that this passion,
this passion,
should be maintained.
Whether someone else does it or not,
you should know what you have to do.
And,
you should work according to your thinking,
like you did today.
If today,
I am a national, international
communication coach,
corporate trainer, motivator,
mind coach,
then maybe,
all these inspirational words of our Gurujans,
have an effect even today.
Because even today,
if I am too down,
then these things,
come to my mind.
I remember,
when they said,
I will give you 100 out of 100,
even if everything is wrong.
And after appreciating those efforts,
they clapped.
Everyone clapped.
I was sitting in a chair,
straight,
and they said,
Son, sit with your chest out,
and work like this.
You have come into this world, so do something.
You have come into this world,
so do something.
God has not sent you like this.
He has sent you with a special thought.
So,
don't let your faith break.
Move it forward,
make it strong, show it.
If we are talking about appreciation,
in the success blueprint,
learn to grow.
So, I am saying,
appreciation boosts the confidence.
If I talk about this session,
I remembered one most important thing.
I went to Lonavala, Mumbai,
for the training of Mind Mastery,
Advanced Mind Mastery,
in 7 Apple Resort.
For training with Sudarshan Sahabat Sir.
I remember,
from 6 in the morning,
our training sessions used to start,
and we used to walk till 1 in the night.
And from 6,
to attend the session,
we had to wake up at 5.
18 hour hectic schedule.
It was fun,
I was getting to learn a lot.
I am saying this today,
with pride,
Sir taught me a lot.
I remember,
I used to share my experiences,
with him.
He showed me things,
like we walked on fire,
we crossed the burning fire,
where there was a flame,
1.5 feet high.
We burnt the cotton,
and took it in our mouth.
When we broke glass bottles,
80 bottles,
and put them on the floor, we walked barefoot.
So after all these activities,
what are these activities for?
Fear.
To get rid of fear.
What do we have?
Mind training is this, nothing else.
The fear that is in our mind,
if we walk on glass,
it will stick to our feet,
that is why we always avoid it.
If we walk on fire,
we will burn,
we keep moving away like this.
If you burn fire and put it in your mouth,
your mouth will burn,
that is why we don't do this.
And we keep the fear in our mind,
and sit down.
In mind training session,
we do all these activities,
so that the fear,
that is sitting there,
is called,
face the fear.
Face it,
face it.
So after all this,
for feedback,
whoever wants to share their feedback,
they can do it.
I also got a mic,
I shared my feedback,
many times,
so mostly,
some people didn't do it,
some people did it,
so they were given 30 seconds,
so in 10 seconds,
they said it,
or couldn't say it.
I used to get it,
so I used to take 2 minutes,
10 minutes, 5 minutes.
I was giving the same feedback,
on SVP,
so I said,
the thing that challenges you,
that is what changes you,
if you face it,
then,
everyone was clapping,
whenever I used to say,
see, I am not praising myself,
I am telling you the value of appreciation that from the
other person, as a teacher, trainer, professor when you
appreciate, as a boss, as a leader when you appreciate your
juniors, your employees then how much enthusiasm fills your
team
I am telling you the value of this appreciation
I remember, Sudarshan sir always used to call me Vinit sir
I asked him, why do you call me sir?
He said, let me speak, I speak after thinking
I said, Vinit sir, you will have to give the mic because
time is bound all the contents are made like this but one
thing is decided today in this international session, I am
saying this is not mine this is Sudarshan sir's words that
Vinit Gautam one day
will become a very big international speaker one day he
said, one day you will become a very big speaker of an
international level the world will listen will listen, will
remember even today when I remember those words when I
remember those words then
my shoulders stand up and when I am tooled down then I get
so much energy that yes
Sudarshan sir had said this about me who has written 13
books
India's number one mind trainer owns 11 companies is known
at national and international level is building a mind
power university he said this
then there must be something in you, Vinit Gautam in these
few months so confidently how many contents did you do?
today I continuously for 4-5 hours
I stand on the recording, continuously maybe all these
things come from those appreciations which I have been
getting from time to time as a tonic that's why as a
trainer as a mind trainer
I would like to tell you all you are a manager you are a
leader you are a teacher, trainer, professor you are the
head of the house you are the head of the society if you
want the best result from your team, family, students which
you want then you should
judge and assess every small thing and must appreciate the
appreciation of words someone appreciates by giving an
award someone appreciates by celebrating but must do you
must be thinking that appreciation is only from words or
not only from words on
the day of conclusion number one gift
Rolex watch
I will show you in a video not this one
I got this one first award whenever I see it
I feel proud
I just want to say as a trainer it is our responsibility
that we should appreciate the talent of our aspirants who
come to us to learn
we should appreciate their talent because it is our
responsibility to make them feel their strength they are
our Hanuman who does not know their strength
Hanuman ji when he had to go to Lanka to find out about Sita
all the monkeys I will not say monkeys all the men of the
forest were not monkeys Hanuman ji or the army of Sugriv
Maharaj today they have made a movie in which they have
shown monkeys not humans all the men of the forest were
monkeys not monkeys so all
the monkeys were showing their incapability that how will
they go to such a big ocean in that movie our Bajrangbali
was also included
Bajrangbali has a curse that you will forget your strength
you will forget until you are reminded you will not
remember when he swallowed the sun
he swallowed the apple then this happened to him so Jamvant
ji who is the son of Brahma he as a Guru reminds Bajrangbali
Hanuman ji of his strength
O Bajrang you are the son of wind
Kesari Nandan you are the wind he appreciates him reminds
him of his strength
and then Bajrangbali by remembering his strength he is able
to understand his real identity and he does what has been
recorded in history forever our responsibility is also to
the aspirants who have come here to learn something whether
they are small
or big
I am saying because every level of people come here whoever
is coming with the desire to learn our responsibility is
that we make them recognize their real potential make them
appreciate we will make them appreciate only then they will
understand their
identity we as a trainer say your real potential and find
the best version of you
give your best performance and become the best in your life
and rise the world will remember you this is the motto
So appreciation is always matter.
I would like to conclude this session of video.