Ok friends, so good evening to all of you, this is Vineet
Gautam and here I am for training you the English
communication skill and we are doing right now the
different departments of this communication and the
writing, just one department, if you are talking about the
communication, here I am talking about the public
communication, the public speaking, the interview
preparation, group discussion, presentation skill,
presentation is going to be done everywhere, whenever you
are talking about
presentation skill, that's going to be done everywhere,
either you are going for interview, group discussion,
either you are going to speak in public, of course wherever
you are, there you are presenting yourself and you have to
keep this thing in mind that you have to present in a
decent way as much as possible from your side, because this
is not accounts or maths where 2 plus 2 is equal to 4, here
2 plus 2 can be 10, can be 40 and if not performing in a
better way, then it can be 0 also and
it can be negative, the negative, as you are going in the
group discussions, you are speaking very nice but the
quality, the content is not on the track, whatever you are
talking is not on the track, you don't have the clarity of
the concept, then at the place of plus you will get minus,
so this is communication I am talking about, if you have
written 2 plus 2 is equal to 4 correctly, then in maths, in
which mood you were or not, that's not matter, if 4 is the
right answer, then you will get
right number, but here according to your mood, according to
your expression, your body language, these all things are
going to improve your quality of presentation or
communication, so just your words, words be which word, you
are going to eat food, taking food, taking meal, so here
you are just not going to talk about the food, we are
talking about the food quality, so just not talking about
the words, we are talking about the quality of words
according to your level you are going to use, a
student whatever the kind of the words using, a college
candidate can't use, and a professional average, mediocre I
am talking about, and then a senior professionals, if going
to use the same words, then how can you differentiate among
the quality, the quality is coming from the updated words,
some advanced level words, idioms, phrases, proverbs, these
things, and then your accent, yes, your body language
looking positive, confident, yes, the expression, the eye
contact, these all things are
matter in your presentation or communication,
while you are communicating, anywhere, presentation doesn't
mean whenever you are standing on the stage and anywhere
you are delivering your speech, that is just not the
presentation, presentation is whatever you are speaking
from your tongue, your mouth, wherever, from getting up
from the bed and going to bed till late night, in between,
wherever, whatever you are speaking, those all things are
your presentation, yes,
Professionally you are having a decent image, but you don't
have the personal level society,
yes, that's why I am talking about, that you are to
maintain your personal level also, the balance in social
life, personal life, professional life, is exactly if you
are able to do that, you can say, you are the nice person,
it's a tough job, of course it's a tough job, but balance,
why I am saying, because mostly we are very much careful
about the official talkings and presentation,
communication, but as much careful we are there, so much
careless we are here, we are not taking care, in your
life and personal life and friend circle, we are not taking
care,
maybe that precious thing is not for you or someone else,
it's a possible job, so in your personal life, your family,
your friends are not precious for you, if your boss, your
colleagues are precious, your organization people are
precious, of course they must be, should be, there you are
to present yourself in a better way, but here also you are
in need to present yourself in a decent way, you are in
need to focus all these three parts, just one part, no,
your body grows with balance, you should assume, your legs
have increased in height, but your hands are still like
kids, how will it feel, how will it feel, body is looking
odd, in the same way you have made your image decent, by
doing good communication and presentation, good behavior in
your office, but at home, in your friend circle, there is
no time, you say, as many times there is no time, you are
saying, the day everyone will say together, that we also
don't have time for you, then you
feel the difference, the reaction, the impact, whatever you
did so far, so, why am I giving you this knowledge, massive
importance of presentation, skill, communication, I am
talking about everywhere you can do it, everywhere I am
talking about, just if you are thinking that this English
is the need for being successful professionally, no, no,
no, you are wrong, it can help you a better social person
also, it can help you a better personal level, a good
person at your family level, friends
I am just not talking about the English, I am talking about
the communication skill, presentation skill, presentation I
told you, you have to take care about your language and
speech, confidence and concept, argumentative ability,
examples and points, and then your body language, your
dress sense, your presentation, you have to take care of
all these things, so, is the requirement of a correct
language not required in family level talking, is the
logical requirement, logical means with
there is no need to give, see, when I talk about giving
argument, so just don't you think that you are going to
give arguments and dominating the next person, no, no, no,
no, no, no, you must be ready to listen to that person also
to whomever you are talking,
but if you are not a good listener, who is going to take
care of you?
So, whatever you want to do, you want to make next person
listen to you?
Of course, the next persons are also interested to make you
listen.
And if you are not going to listen to them, they will also
not.
Whatever you are.
If you are not going to listen to the demands of the
public, then the public is not going to listen to you.
If you keep on telling them, they will tell you in the
vote, that we don't take care of you.
You will have to listen to their demands, you will have to
listen to their demands, you will have to fulfill their
demands.
Here also.
That's the presentation I am talking about.
It's going vice versa.
So, I mean to say overall, a good communication or
presentation is just not required whenever you are going to
present yourself in official atmosphere.
It is the need of social level, personal level.
And just don't think to say, before that mentally prepare
yourself to listen also.
To listen.
Have you ever been a child with them?
Presentation is not only with words and sentences, it is
also with activities.
Presentation is also with activities.
And it is said in children,
Activity speaks louder than your words.
Your actions, your activity, speak louder than your words.
And children always follow your actions and activity.
What about the activity?
You say, don't lie, don't lie.
And you keep on lying 10 times a day at home.
You teach your child.
You say, son, don't lie, don't lie.
And when you get a call, you say, son, tell them, dad is
not at home.
Your child is also going to do the same.
So, whatever the activity you are doing, that is exactly
going to be followed in your office also.
So, if you want to improve your surroundings,
first improve yourself.
Whatever you are expecting from others, first you need to
be the same.
Whatever the change you are expecting from your
surroundings, first you need to be that change.
Whatever the change you want to see in your children, you
need to act upon that thing very fast from your side.
If you are thinking that you will not do, you keep on
abusing others, and you are expecting that your children
are not going to do this thing.
No, no, no, no, no, no.
Don't expect anything like this here.
The wrong communication if you are using, then you can't
expect from the next person that he is going to do right.
If that person is in your surroundings, then it will be
100% with you.
It will be.
Instructions you are giving a lot to your colleagues, your
juniors, especially I am talking about your juniors, if you
are the boss.
You are not punctual, you are not disciplined, you are
careless, and you are expecting from your juniors, you are
careless, and you are expecting from your juniors, that
they are going to become.
Just you improve yourself fast.
I told you, whatever the change you are expecting from your
surroundings, first be that change.
I am on the topic.
I am talking about the presentation and good communication.
The better word, the better sentence and phrases.
Update it to the point.
To the point.
Of course, your juniors will listen to you, will learn from
you.
And one day you will see,
your office staff, your office atmosphere, is just like the
reflection of you.
The reflection of you.
If you are good, then good.
And if you are...
Again, there is reflection in the good one.
And what is there in the bad one?
No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
Even in the bad one, there is reflection of you.
You are in need, to assess yourself.
I am not saying 100% is going to happen.
Sometimes it may be something wrong.
There can be some cases here and there.
But,
mostly it does happen.
So, I mean to say,
As told you, the daily use abbreviations, words, sentences,
whatever you are talking about, gradually you are moving and
presenting yourself, communicating in a better way, but
where to communicate, wherever you are having the chance to
communicate yourself, everywhere, from when you are getting
up from your bed in the early morning and till going to bed
late night,
in evening, at night.
In between, whatever you are doing, wherever you are
talking,
you are in need to take care about all activities and
words, sentences, abbreviations, body language.
We do a lot of things with body language instead of words,
sentences, with activities.
So,
now you are in need.
So far, whatever we have given to you, if you are using
those all things, so now, you are just not in need to write
and learn.
You are already in that frame.
You will be writing, you will be speaking, but we are
talking about the quality of the speaking and everywhere.
Here, further we are going to talk about the interview
questions.
In interview questions, also you are going to present
yourself.
Of course, you are presenting your personality, your
presence of mind.
I am going to talk the same thing in the next video
actually.
Okay.