Ok friends, this is Vineet Gautam. Actually I am going to
talk about this communication. I was talking about the
personality.
How can you develop and discover?
Mostly when we talk outside, we talk only about development
and development is done for outer things.
But before that it is important that why don't you find out
your inner personality.
Inbuilt memory and outer memory.
Inbuilt apps, the technical part which is already inbuilt
by God.
There is something, there is talent.
Like the Indian Idol, when you go to find out the singers,
the raw material.
What is there?
They see that there is something inbuilt in it.
The stone which we carve and make it precious.
Diamond.
What is there?
It is inbuilt.
We just polish it and develop it.
So first it will be inbuilt.
Then we polish it and develop it.
We say that we have made it a diamond.
The better it is polished, the better it will shine.
And that is personality development.
We always do development of outer.
First find out the inner.
That is also an important part.
So here how do you do and what are the main requirements?
So that you can understand the presentation properly.
What are the small things that you can do?
I am going to talk about those things here.
Here.
Triple C.
I am talking about.
What is Triple C?
You can call it the assets of personality.
Three.
Biggest
assets of one's personality.
See, first is your confidence.
Confidence.
What is confidence?
You are having some idea about anything.
And you are having the knowledge.
You are having the experience.
And you are confident about that.
Knowledge.
Experience.
Because confidence is required.
Experience.
Because he has done this work many times.
Knowledge.
Then practice.
Then experience.
Driving.
You are having the knowledge.
You have already done a lot of practice.
Tourist guide.
What is that?
Knowledge.
Presentation.
It makes it more important later.
So, you can't deny the importance of this.
Confidence.
Glass.
Ask there, they will tell you.
Not here.
Okay.
So, I was talking about
First.
I said, three biggest assets of one's personality is triple
C.
C plus C plus C.
First is confidence.
And where confidence comes from?
Knowledge.
Practice.
Experience.
And these things going to make you confidence.
Now, you will say, where?
Where will it come from?
Proper dressing knowledge.
Then you put it and saw.
You are comfortable.
And other people also appreciate that you look nice.
You have experience.
Now, the day you want to look good.
So, you look for that dress in your wardrobe.
Yes.
I feel good in that.
How many people had given me comments.
Nowadays, even Facebook and social media would have come to
know.
Oh, I had 5,000 likes.
5,000.
10,000.
So.
You took knowledge of proper dressing.
Put it.
Practiced.
And people gave positive response.
Your experience was better.
It was a very bad experience.
It was a good experience.
So, good experience is boosting confidence.
And negative experience, bad experience is making it down.
You have put it aside.
So, first is confidence.
If you want to give presentation, then solid knowledge.
Then practice.
You took knowledge, but did you practice to give
presentation?
You did dance very well.
But did you practice before dressing?
Lata Mangeshkar was such a big singer.
But she also says that one day I didn't practice.
So, the next day I didn't dress.
She didn't record the song.
Why? Why?
Why Baba?
She has a lot of knowledge.
But she didn't practice.
Rehearsal.
Before the recording.
So, no.
You can't deny the importance of practice.
What do you know there?
On your practice and occasion, you want to put a note like
this.
If you have practiced, then you put it.
And if you haven't practiced, even if you want to, you
can't play it.
You can't put notes.
You can't take cuts.
Even if you want to,
problem happens there.
So, that is required.
So, first, the biggest asset of your personality is
confidence.
Okay? First is your confidence.
Second,
Second, I am going to talk about clarity.
Clarity.
Whatever you are going to say,
you can also call it concept clarity.
Concept
clarity.
Whatever you are saying, in that concept, whatever you are
doing, the clarity of the concept,
in your career,
whatever you want to do, if the concept is clear, even if
your speed is low, only then you will go straight on the
track.
You have a lot of inner personality, a lot of talent.
The concept is not clear.
What is the speed of 100?
You are driving at the speed of 200.
You don't even know your destination.
Destination is missing.
You got to know, you went 400 km and came back to the
square.
Again, you don't know your destination.
You drove 1000 km in a day.
But, you turned around and because you dont know where to go
so it is necessary to clear concept and clear target i will
move back concept this will be applicable to all topic
destination clear, concept clear and clear target it is
important speed can be as high as 200 or 40 If you are
clear where to go then you can achieve your target today or
tomorrow or day after tomorrow.
Because you are moving in slow speed but you are on the
road and you know where you have to go.
So don't take decision in haste.
Take your time while you are taking decision.
But when you decide and the concept is clear then start
with full confidence.
With full confidence, with full knowledge, with full energy
give yourself a push.
Become passionate.
Crazy.
It is said that dreams inspire us to move ahead.
Who are the dreams?
The dreams that we see while sleeping at night.
Dreams inspire us that do not let us sleep.
The dreams that we see while sleeping may not do anything
to us.
The dreams that do not let us sleep will definitely take us
to our target.
We definitely achieve those dreams.
That dream.
The dream which you are saying while you are sleeping may
be fulfilled or not, not sure.
But the dream which is not letting you sleep is going to be
fulfilled.
Of course.
Because they will not let you sleep.
You will work and work and you will achieve it.
For that first, it should be clear what is your dream.
The second major part of personality is clarity of target,
clarity of concept, whatever you want to do.
You have started your career.
Think about it.
What do you want to become?
You have left home.
Have you thought about it?
What do you want to go? Where do you want to go?
Where do you want to go?
Shall I tell you one more thing?
If you don't know where to go and you are out of home, then
others are going to misguide you also.
If the concept is not clear, then others will misguide you.
And in the same way, misguided young candidates are going
to become terrorists.
In the same way, misguided young candidates are going to
become terrorists.
Because their concept of life is not clear.
What do they want to do?
What do they want to become?
And that's why they are going to be misguided.
So, if you have come in life, then keep the philosophy of
life clear.
What? Why?
See, anything.
I am telling you to take this English class.
Until these concepts are not clear, if your concept is not
clear, then whatever you say will also be negative.
It is important to be clear.
Your body language will also be negative.
Your dress sense will also be negative.
Your appearance will also be like this.
Your presentation will also be like this.
And you will not be able to achieve your target.
Because you are not sure where do you want to go.
There is a person who will do this and that four days
before.
Four days later, he will do something else.
Six days later, he will do something else.
He doesn't know what he has to do.
So, each and every day.
Passing, passing, passing.
So, the three biggest assets of your own personality.
Triple C.
First is your confidence.
Second is your clarity.
Clarity of your target.
Clarity of your concept.
Clarity of your thought.
Whatever you say, these things should be clear.
Third is communication.
The third major part of one's personality is communication.
How are you going to communicate yourself?
Communication is the presentation of one's personality.
You can tell by eye contact.
You have guts.
You can tell when you do second.
This is the part of inner personality.
Inner personality cannot be seen.
Have you seen the air?
But it is there.
Do you understand?
So, this is confidence.
So, communication.
Communication also has confidence.
You said, yes, I am confident.
Whatever I am saying, I am confident about.
So, when you get these three things,
Triple C, it makes your personality shine.
A miracle change in your personality you are getting.
And then you are going to present yourself.
Others are going to start clapping.
Yeah, this is it.
And from there, you are going to start a new era for you.
Yes.
These things.
You have to discover some things.
What I said about inner personality.
You have to develop some things that are outer.
And in major, you have three parts.
Confidence, clarity, and communication.
These things.
For confidence, these things.
For clarity, it is important to have a clear target.
You have to decide.
In communication, we are talking mainly.
How to develop a better communication?
I told you.
First impression is the last impression.
That's you are going to get with the help of a better
introduction.
Taking and giving both.
Then sentence formation.
That is the part of communication.
You need that.
Input will be better.
You need words.
You need sentence formation.
Your opinions are coming.
Intentions are coming.
Inner thoughts.
It is a wonder.
A lot of opinions you are having.
But you are not having the words.
You say, I don't have words to praise you.
Communication.
Whether it is written or verbal.
You need words for it.
You are very happy to see someone.
You want to say something about him.
You want to say poetry.
You don't know how to speak.
There are no words.
So words are the major part.
Then you will just keep on saying words.
Eyes, eyes, eyes.
Say something in front of the eyes.
You need other words.
Then you will have to make a sentence by combining 2-3
words.
So how to do that?
That comes under communication.
We have told the category.
What do you want?
How do you want?
Then because we are not speaking in Hindi.
We are speaking in English.
So we know some words.
We don't know some words.
So we have to develop that one also.
We have to learn.
For better words.
For better communication writing.
Good words.
Idioms.
Phrases.
In Hindi.
We are using that too.
So all these things.
There is a lot in our content.
I am mixing it.
You do this.
This content is a complete mix.
Not just communication.
If I don't tell you.
Communication is for developing skills.
I am a communication expert.
I am a communication trainer.
Yeah.
But no.
I am just not a communication.
I am a soft skill trainer.
Time management.
Team management.
Communication.
Inner personality.
Outer personality.
How to build a team.
Inner will.
Personal.
Interpersonal skill.
There is a lot of content in this.
All those things are required.
All the way.
For improving a better personality.
Confidence.
To be clear about the concept.
To be clear about the target.
Clarity.
Whatever you are going to do.
There should be clarity in it.
Then.
Communication is part of presentation.
Everything is right.
You have made a project, you have written all the right
data, logical, your confidence is improving, see in the
section of knowledge, what is the motive of that project,
whatever you are making, it is very important to have its
clarity, the concept should be clear, and then you made a
correct presentation, which is coming in the communication
section, you did all these three things, project done,
similarly your personality is a project, now you have to
add all these three things and present in
right way, and then you are saying yes, yes and yes, others
are going to say yes for you, but first you have to say yes
to yourself, when you are making a project, you enjoyed
watching it, what a thing, I made it, it happens, if you
are honest with yourself, then this feeling comes many
times, and it is very important to be honest with yourself,
do you know one thing, what am I, I keep saying anything to
others, but exactly who am I, I know it very well, no one
knows himself better than
no matter what we say to the world, but what exactly am I,
we give a paper, the world says, you did all these things,
you will get so many marks, if you ask yourself honestly,
you will know how many marks you will get, and how many you
have done, honestly, so no matter what you say to the
world, be honest with yourself, yes, I am also saying this,
you be honest with yourself, it is not necessary to present
your honesty, the world will make fun of you, if there is
something less, it will not
it will make fun of you, if there is more, it will start
asking, so be diplomatic towards others, this is worldly,
physical work, but don't forget to be honest to yourself,
you will say to yourself, sit separately and talk to
yourself, self introspection, self assessment,
this is very important, ask yourself for 5 minutes, who are
you? why have you come? what are you doing? are you doing
right? have you come here to do this? is it enough to do
this? if it is not enough to do this, then how much should
I do? so these are the things you have to do, just do it,
move forward, and the world is yours, the world is waiting
for you, the world is ready to welcome you everyday, are
you really presenting in that way, when world is ready to
welcome, that's the scene you
to create, start doing so, you can do it.