Ok friends, so in the last video actually I was talking
about this, how can you improve yourself in a perfect
communicator, how can you develop your communication skill
in the best way, perfection in communication skill how can
you get.
If you are thinking just words, sentences, grammar rules,
idioms, phrases, if these all things are going to make you
a perfect communicator, perfect speaker, confident speaker
then you are wrong, you are absolutely wrong guys, you are
absolutely wrong.
How to earn money by using money?
Even they don't have the money, they are taking money,
taking finance from others and developing their business,
money is important or that technique, that talent is
important which is going to help you in earning more money
from that money by using that money, I think you will be
agree, money is matter but more important part is that
technique or talent by that you are getting the business,
getting the extra money, here I am talking about the same
thing.
Main ise cheez ki baat kar raha hoon, so far you have
already taken in the communication
I have already told you starting from the intro, first
impression is the last impression whenever you are meeting
anybody new, you have to introduce yourself and taking the
introduction of the next person and if you are able to do
this thing in a better way naturally your first impression
will be better, am I right, right, I think yes.
So again, pehli meeting kisse karni, meeting ke liye aap
bechayen hai, meeting karni, meeting karni, meeting karni
hai, meeting ka agenda kya aapka clear hai, kya
presentation aapki clear hai, how to talk, aaj meeting
karni ke liye aap bechayen hai, meeting ke baad pata chale
ki cast meeting main nahi karta, aur jisse meeting kareyon
kare, yaar ye to bekaar ka aadmi, so kya aapne socha jisse
meeting karne ja rahe hain, usse aapko kya bolna hai, so
very first, whenever you are going to, aap
ki baat mat samajhye, I am talking about everywhere, aap
ghar mein muh kholte hain, dimaag use kiye bhi na, problem
wahi khadi hoti hai, mai kisi ki bhi baat kar rahe hoon,
whenever, wherever you are starting talking, before
starting, kya aapne socha ek baar what to speak, kya bolna
hai, wo draft apne dimaag mein aap zarur bana lein, zarur
bana lein, either you are going in the presentation of the
office, talking with your friends, talking in a party, agar
aapne agenda nahi banaya hai, what to
so kayi baar saalon ki banayi hui aapki image, within
minute fresh ho jati hai, within minute, abhi letters aapne
dekha, Rahul Gandhi ne bolte bolte, blo blo mein Modi, Modi
surname ke saath mein kayi logon ko le liya, aur saath mein
Modi ko bhi lapete mein le liya, aur kya bola, ki yeh Modi
surname wale sab chor hai, dekhi,
I am not supporting this party and that party, I am not
talking about that thing, I am a
trainer, mein politician nahi hui, but I am way of talking
ki baat kar raha hui, agar plan tariqe se baat ki hoti,
saath mujhe lagta hai us bande mein, yeh hi problem hai, he
is having the knowledge, idea, sab kuch hai, but present
kaise karna hai, kya bolna hai, aur kitna bolna hai baba,
boundary cross kar dete ho tumhe pata nahi chalta, so what
to say and how much to say, what to tak to sahi tha, how
much, boundary cross kar diya aur because of that result
kya hai, itni mehenat se kamayi hui
wo log besa kis ko present kar le, ki humare kuliyo ke
dominate kar rahe hain, but aisa nahi hai, jab tak hum yung
yungli lagate rahate hain saamne walo pe, tab tak hum self
development nahi kar sakte, if you want to develop
yourself, you are in need to start introspecting yourself,
introspection you know, aatmanirakshan karna, self
assessment, ask the question to yourself on any topic,
aapne kuch kiya, jiska result aapka negative aaya, aap apne
se sawal nahi puchte hain, saamne wale ko galt
dete hain, aur apne ko satisfy kar lete hain, you know I am
right, ye to saamne wali ke galti hain, aap us bandi ko
dekho bolte hain, neerao modi, ye modi, wo modi sab chor
hain, aur saath mein last ki line add karne juroori hain,
agar kuch clear nahi hain bolne ke liye confident you are
not, to aap adjective mat add karo, extra line mat add
karo, ye extra line aapke jaan ke liye aafad ban jati hain,
last ki line hi to aafad bani, ye modi, wo modi sab hain,
ye modi saarname wale saare ka saare
hain,
leo, fas gaye, fas gaye, seat bhi gayi, ek jagah se to
bhaage, dusri jagah jaan bacha, ijat bacha hai apne seat ke
liye, aap wo seat bhi gayi, opposition ka main leader,
jo apne aapko tapas bhi bata raha hai, ki itni badi yatra
hain, kari ye kari, yo kari, I changed, I discovered a new
Rahul Gandhi, wahan bhi presentation mein problem lagi, ki
maine Rahul Gandhi ko maar diya, arre nahi baba, us purane
Rahul Gandhi, means us vichar ko maar diya, and you
discovered a new, main abhi discover and development
personality ki baat kar raha tha, of course, he can say, ki
maine ek new Rahul Gandhi find out kar liya hai, discovered
kiya, discover, talent wo andar hain
ke, usko discover kiya,
so main apne topic pe hoon, maine ek example aapko diya,
what to speak and how to speak,
vartak toh sahi tha, bol rahe the, but how much, aapne
boundary kab cross kar di, aapko pata hi nahi chala, aur as
a result kya hua, gaye, so agar aapne in 5 things mein,
what, when, whom, how, how much, what to speak, when to
speak, whom to speak, how to speak and how much to speak,
maine abhi what pe baat kiya, ki whenever you are going to
start talking to anybody, either you are writing, chahe
mail likh rahe hoon, chahe baat kar raha chahate hoon, so
pehle aap what to speak or what to write,
aap ek baar draft jaroor karenge, draft banaye, ek baar aap
pen down karo baba, aap whatsapp message likhte ho,
email daalte ho, ya kisi se baat karne jate ho, aap apna
agenda, kya baat karne chahate ho, aap clear kariye, toh
toh meeting mein success hone ke poori chance hai,
dekhi meeting kuch bhi ho sakti hai, aap relative se milne
ja rahe hain, aap apne bete se baat karne ja rahe hain,
bete apne father se baat karne ja rahe hain, aap apne
teacher se baat karne ja rahe ho, aap apne professor se
baat karne ja rahe hain,
You are going to talk to your professor, you are going to
talk to your colleague, you are going to talk to your boss,
to whomever you are going to talk, very first, you are in
need to clear what to speak.
Your agenda, your motto, your purpose, draft your agenda,
purpose, what is your motive to talk, otherwise you don't
know what to say, you will say anything, the other person
will not take you seriously, he will say you are just
passing time and you are wasting my time.
Next time he will not give you an appointment, he will not
want to talk to you.
So, very first time, communication doesn't mean just you
are having the words and sentences.
Now, what to say is the first point, you are going to talk
to anyone, very first, your motive, your agenda should be
clear that what do you want to talk.
See, I have given you words, grammar rules, better words,
idioms phrases, you will be talking, but now I am exactly
talking, you can call it as literature part, now I am
mainly talking about the communication skill, how to
develop the communication skill.
The first part of the skill is what, whenever you plan to
talk to anyone, before that, you must think what to say.
Now, you will say, do you know why I am saying this for
drafting, you make a simple note, keep it in front while
talking, on which topic you want to talk, because many
times while talking, you forget the topic, you get
diverted, or the motive of the other person is to divert
you from the topic, you get trapped in his talks, you get
trapped, but you have the topic in front of you, you will
be able to see it, then you will again return to your way.
So, very first thing, whenever you are planning to talk to
anybody, presentation is everywhere, whenever you are
getting up from the bed in the early morning until late
night, whenever you are going to bed, whatever you are
doing, whatever you are talking to, whomever you are
talking, those all things are your presentation, all those
things are your presentation.
You will say, will I keep thinking while talking, it is a
10 second talk, I can think for 2 seconds, right word,
right sentence.
Do you remember, a very good anchor, Chaurasia ji, such a
good image, an image made for years, to say one word here
and there, it was fired, it was fired, it doesn't matter,
it matters that such a person, such an experienced
candidate,
it was fired, why? Because you have forgotten what to say,
what to say, you have forgotten.
At domestic level, all of you think, assess and see, you,
first of all, whoever you are going to talk to, don't
forget his importance, your son is not your property, he
has his own existence, respect him, talk to him with
respect, your wife, respect her, she deserves the respect.
And till this thing doesn't come, you won't be able to
control on what, you say anything, have you ever thought,
that if the same thing is said to you, how will you feel?
My motto is saying very clearly, to whomever you are going
to talk, first of all, you clear, make a draft in your mind
and may be written, that what is the agenda of your talk,
what is the purpose, what is the motive, then write word,
write words and sentences.
Then keep that candidate in your mind and choose the right
words and sentence.
If you are able to do this, you will feel later, that you
have presented yourself better.
Before that, if it is necessary to listen to him, then
mentally you should be prepared to listen to him.
Many people have a habit, that they keep their words, to
some extent you will be successful, but in a limited, many
times you are going to get stuck badly.
So, don't forget to listen to the next person and then
stick yourself on your agenda, that you are here for
talking what.
So, I talked about what, that whenever you are going to
talk to someone, you want to talk, be it whatsapp, email,
letter, telephonic chatting, face to face meeting,
So, who are you going to talk to and what you have to talk
to, you have to keep your purpose clear, keep your concept
clear.
This is a presentation. Confidence, clarification,
communication, expression, body language, eye contact, all
these things are required.
These all things are required. You are right.
I said, you know me.
You see, the sentence is the same, I want to say one simple
thing to the other person, but I have changed my expression
and tone, and the same sentence, one sentence of three
words, you know me, and he is giving four meanings in four
sentences.
You are also understanding this, you know me, assertive,
imperative, interrogative, exclamatory.
This is an art, baba. This is an art, language is an art,
boss. Relax yourself from outside, but don't forget to keep
yourself confident from inside.
Confident from inside, but it is very important to be
relaxed from outside.
Thank you.