Okay friends, so I am talking about the importance use of
this as a single word but multiple use in your daily life.
You must have noticed it and that's better for you.
You will be using.
See, step by step we will learn from such things and use it.
When you use it, you will enjoy it.
Like I was telling you that there is a candidate who says
that I can't speak.
I can't speak.
I said, it's okay, don't speak.
Come to the stage.
There is no problem in coming.
He is not confused for going on the stage.
In going on the stage, he is not confused.
He is confident now.
In the next, I asked Mr. Paul, you just came on the stage.
I think you can say something about yourself.
You know your name.
What do you do?
Where do you stay?
Where do you live?
What do you do?
You know your name.
And he came on the stage.
I said, yes, why don't you know?
I don't know my name.
What are you saying?
I said, I am also saying the same thing.
So, come.
Tell me your name.
What do you do?
Where do you live?
And he just came.
And he was sweet.
Hello everybody.
I said, at least say hello.
According to time, you know how to say morning and evening.
This is a small thing.
He said, yes, absolutely.
I said, hello everybody.
Good evening to all of you.
And this is St. Paul.
Chandranarayan Paul.
I am staying in here and there, wherever.
And I am a lawyer.
Thank you.
Clapping.
In the next scene, I am saying, Mr. Paul.
We are old friends.
We know each other.
I said, then do this.
Tell the public about me.
Who am I?
What do I do?
Where do I live?
So, now he is saying, hello everybody.
Good evening to all of you.
This is Mr. Chandranarayan Paul.
And I am staying here.
And I am a lawyer.
And here is my friend, Mr. Vinit Gautam.
And he is a motivational speaker, soft skill trainer.
And he is staying here in Faridabad, India.
Haryana, Delhi.
Nice to talk to you.
Thank you.
Clapping.
Mr. Paul is thinking, what did I do?
I said two lines about me and two lines about him.
I don't know how to speak.
I can't speak on stage.
But you see, Mr. Paul has already spoken 8-9 lines.
He has spoken.
You are a junior in the office.
Okay.
You have to handle the stage.
You said, come Mr. Paul.
You said in the next program,
Mr. Paul, today I can't come.
So, you do one thing.
I can't come.
I will come, but I will come late.
So, what do you have to do?
What are you trying to trap me?
No, no.
You say two lines about yourself.
Say about me.
Then, the company in which we work, you know about it.
Yes, what are you saying?
I have been working here for 20 years, I know.
Yes.
Since last 20 years I am working here, I know it.
So, please tell something about, what kind of company is?
What does the company do?
What's up?
Work.
Since when working?
What is the manpower?
What are the human resources?
What is the project?
What have you done?
Yes, I know everything.
I know it every day.
So, in the next video, Mr. Paul speaking.
Hello everybody.
Good evening to all of you.
And one more thing, while doing this process,
Mr. Paul also started getting confidence.
Because in between people say,
Hey Paul, you can speak.
What are you saying?
What did I say?
I said introduction.
It's not introduction.
Tell two lines about yourself and two lines about him.
We have known each other for years.
I also know.
Yes, yes, that's right.
Whatever you said, you said it right.
Mr. Paul, it seems.
He said anything from the front.
See, when people are different.
Did I really say it?
Did I say it right?
If everyone is saying, then they must be saying it right.
And everyone likes to hear right for themselves.
Appreciation boosts up everyone.
It thrills everyone.
When Mr.
Paul is alone, he said it right.
In that, someone said,
Hey Paul, you were looking very dashing on the stage.
Now when Mr.
Paul is going, do you have to go today also to speak?
Means the same two lines.
So let's see in our wardrobe, which cloth looks good?
Okay, everyone says that I look good in this.
What is that doll?
Sprayed a little.
Got a little salon too.
Whether they say anything or not, they are getting thrilled
inside.
So now looking is done.
And I thought, let me prepare a little.
Everyone is saying, if it is good, it should be a little
better.
No, no, no, I don't know anything.
Oh man, I look useless.
Your peak is so good.
Oh no, it's useless.
You are just appreciating.
But there are things inside him, those beads have been
applied.
One positive thing has come to his mind.
And now come to the stage.
Well dressed, good polished, good hairstyle, properly ready.
There is also twinkling on the face.
Because whether you believe it or not, but appreciation is
boosting his confidence.
And now Mr. Paul Singh.
Hello, good evening to all of you.
The tone has changed.
Good evening to all of you.
This is Mr. Chandler Paul.
And I am staying here.
And I am doing this job.
I am a lawyer.
And here I am working as a lawyer.
Saltak Shintam.
He is my friend,
Mr. Vinit Gautam.
And he is doing this job.
He is my senior.
And since last 20 years, we are working together.
And we are working on this concern.
This is a concern of manufacturing.
Working on this thing, doing this thing.
This is my manufacturing project.
We completed together.
This is having a very, turnover is very high.
This thing, that thing.
What he knows.
I think.
And in the end saying, okay, thank you so much.
Till, I reached there.
Till then, Mr. Paul is commanding the stage.
Getting the clappings.
And now, the person who was saying,
I cannot say a single line, cannot come on stage.
Today, he has said 15 lines, 20 lines.
He has been commanding the stage for 10 minutes.
He does not know.
He knows from inside.
But gradually, he has developed.
He does not know.
So, you can do things in this way.
When he saw his video, cut it.
Hey, I am saying this.
For so long, everyone is clapping on the stage.
The person's chest becomes wide.
Everyone has desire inside.
Expectation is happening in the heart of everybody.
Everybody is expecting, thinking to do something else.
Whatever,
is missing so far in the life.
Everyone wants to achieve.
But, there is a fear, that I cannot do.
And because of this, they are not moving forward.
They are not moving forward.
And because of not taking action, things get spoiled.
One idea you are having, if you are confident, you are
using that idea, you are moving forward, you are getting
new ideas, and a project is going to be done.
But, one idea you are having already, but you are not
having the confidence, you don't use it.
It is a seed, a seed.
If you don't use it, it will slowly finish.
Your desires will finish.
Then you compromise with life.
And life goes on like this.
So, get ready to initiate yourself.
Get ready to take the first step.
And then you will do.
So, always try to do something else, whatever you couldn't
do so far.
Whatever you couldn't do so far, always try to do something.
Else like that, life is a change, always get ready to
accept the change, if you want to improve yourself, you
want to be successful then.
So I am going to talk something else actually, something
else I am going to talk.
I am going to talk something else, I am going to teach
something else, I am going to say something else, else,
else.
Just hold on to one word, it is a very useful word and it
is going to help you a lot, okay.
So I am going to talk now something else really.
Here actually I was talking about, sorry, pardon, excuse me.
Pardon, afraid, one, two, three, four.
You will say, one last line is looking new, otherwise
everything is sorry.
When to say sorry?
Mostly people know, whenever making mistake.
So whenever I am making mistake, until I am not feeling
guilty, I am not going to say sorry, the right situation is
what?
Whenever you are making mistake but feeling guilty, then
only you are saying sorry.
Whenever I am making mistake and feeling guilty,
Until I am not feeling guilty, I am not going to say sorry.
Whenever you are making mistake and feeling guilty, then
only you are saying sorry.
So the right situation is when you are making mistake and
feeling guilty, then you are saying sorry.
Whenever you are talking to somebody else and the voice of
that person is not audible,
The voice is clear, inaudible means not clear.
So whenever you are talking to somebody else and the voice
is audible, then ok.
If not audible, then you are saying sorry.
No baba, what is the situation of sorry?
When you are making mistake and feeling guilty,
Did you make mistake by saying sorry?
Mistake is his, his voice is not clear.
Concept is not clear, you are not able to understand what
he is saying.
Still you are saying sorry.
No, sorry is not the right word.
Pardon, pardon please.
I beg your pardon.
This is his use.
Whenever you are talking to somebody else, voice is not
clear or concept is not clear.
Concept means you are not able to understand what he is
saying.
So you will say pardon please.
I beg your pardon.
Pardon.
This means your voice and concept is not clear.
You need to repeat that person, that thing again clearly.
Now third situation.
Excuse me.
Excuse me please.
When? Whenever you are going to disturb anybody. Whenever
you are going to disturb anybody.
How? 4-5 persons are sitting together and talking. You are
getting a call.
And you are disturbing others to receive the call.
You want to leave from there.
You say excuse me.
You leave.
4-5 candidates are talking.
And you are to talk to someone else.
Who is there.
Somebody in that meeting.
You want to disturb them.
Excuse me.
I would like to talk to you.
I want to say one thing to you.
You are going on the way.
4-5 candidates are in the way.
They are standing.
You are not getting your way.
You say excuse me please.
Means you disturbed them.
You asked for the way.
You will not say like this.
Please give me the way.
So please keep aside.
Give me the way.
Excuse me.
Just disturbing.
So in this situation.
Whenever you are going to disturb anybody.
You are using this word.
Excuse me please.
Okay.
I am afraid.
In these three situations.
Mostly sorry is used.
But you have seen.
Difference exactly.
In all these three situations.
Most of the persons use sorry.
No.
Sorry is not the right word.
Sorry is just going to be used in one situation.
Whenever you are going to make any mistake.
And feeling guilty.
Then saying sorry.
That's all.
Here pardon.
Excuse me.
I am afraid.
Since maybe the person is going to use sorry.
Suppose.
In your office.
Somebody.
Your friend is going to be suspended by the board.
And they are going to.
Ask you that.
You go and convey this message to him.
Someone is in your office.
Your friend.
Your colleague.
Who has been suspended by the board.
For any reason.
Contact problem.
You go and convey this message to him.
Your friend.
What will you say?
My dear friend.
You are suspended.
Will you say this?
What will you say?
I am sorry to say you.
You are suspended.
Mostly they say this.
Sorry.
You are suspended.
Why are you saying sorry?
Whenever you are making mistake.
You are making mistake.
You are just doing your duty.
At your door.
At your home.
There is a salesman.
They are asking you.
Dear.
At your door for.
The promotion of any product.
Ma'am please.
Here we are having a company product.
This is free.
Ma'am is saying.
I don't want to take.
Please go.
Ma'am please.
We are not going to charge.
For.
Watching.
Ma'am please.
But again ma'am is saying.
Sorry.
I don't want to take.
Please go.
I am sorry.
I don't want to take.
Why are you saying sorry?
I think you are not making a mistake.
Have you made a mistake?
You don't want to take. You have refused.
You.
We give a message to our circle of relatives. What do we
say?
Sorry to say you. He is no more.
Why are you saying sorry?
When will we be correct? Till when will we keep working?
I don't understand.
We make TV serials.
We say our channels are seen in national and international.
People keep making mistakes.
What do we want to give the image of our country to the
world?
They are really
They are at their best place, they used to think like this
about us, even now their thinking is the same, nothing much
has changed, they are forcibly accepting us.
Today Britain has made our Indian candidates PM, not made
but forced, compelled they are, the economy is not managing.
That lady had resigned within 43 days, they know that this
candidate is economically very sound, has good backup, has
the status of India in the world.
So, I was talking about these things, why don't we improve,
these are small things, we are dragging them.
We keep looking at the technical part, design, colour, why
don't you consult a language candidate, who can give you
proper guidance.
So, I am not a lawyer, but sometimes things are needed here.
I am telling you about an institute here, claiming itself
as a national institute, and writing, learn spoken English
from India's number one English learning institute.
From, we spoke to the mid-director, we said that from is
the right word.
You claim yourself as India's number one institute, and you
give big ads in the papers, and you use the word from, from
is used for distance.
Do you teach from a distance?
You don't teach in a regular process.
I said, no, we teach in a regular process.
I said, why do you use from, I think it is the right word.
He said, it is not, but the public understands, that's why.
I said, who will explain the difference to the public?
He said, if you are the director, then who will explain?
Who will teach?
The public is ignorant.
If you are the director, and you are claiming that you are
the number one, then who will explain the difference?
Who is going to train the right thing?
And if you don't improve these things, then one day you
will be finished.
And that institute is already finished.
10-15 years ago, the parrot used to speak.
Now you have finished it, and you are sitting outside.
If you don't update according to the time, then it will be
finished.
If the plant doesn't grow on time, then the plants around
it will grow, you will suppress it, and it will be finished.
If you don't want to be finished, then update yourself,
upgrade yourself.
Otherwise, you will be left behind in the risk of life.
And here I am talking about these simple things.
You have been speaking English for 20 years, but you are
making this mistake.
Why don't you want to improve?
Three situations I cleared you.
Here, it became a little emotional.
Come to the point.
Not emotional, things get stuck.
I am afraid.
Whenever you are going to deliver a negative message to
anybody,
he will not be happy.
He will be feeling sorrow.
He will be feeling guilty.
Not guilty, you can say feeling sorrow.
So in that sense, we say I am afraid.
We say it in Hindi.
With a lot of sorrow, you are informed that Mr. Sharma is
no more.
It is his 13th or 12th day.
You told your friend, I am telling you with a lot of sorrow
that your company has suspended you.
You are in college or school.
You have rusticated a child.
You are a monitor.
I am telling you with a lot of sorrow that you have been
rusticated.
But what do we say?
Sorry to say you.
Why to say sorry?
I am afraid to inform you.
You go to meet someone and he is not available.
What do you say from inside?
Ma'am says, sorry sir, he is not there.
When a child goes, what does the aunty say?
Sorry son, Rohan is not there.
Why sorry?
Ma'am says from inside to sales boy and sales girl, sorry
brother, I don't want to take.
Why sorry?
This is the right word.
I am afraid to say you.
Convey you.
Con-way.
You have to convey a message.
I am afraid to say you that Mr. Sharma is not available in
the office right now.
But we have a habit of saying in small things.
Sorry to say, Sharma is not there.
Sharma is not in the office.
The right is, I am afraid to say you that Mr. Sharma is not
available in the office right now.
Mr. Sharma is not there.
He is not in the office right now.
So this is the right word.
You keep working by speaking in yourself.
The experts in English are not going to stop you on the way.
But they do understand what your label is.
You make so many movies.
You make 1600-1800 movies per year.
You don't get an Oscar, you get an award.
Why?
You keep working like this.
They keep laughing and making fun of you from behind.
They say, we keep working uselessly.
Yes, they are not taking it seriously.
Countries with a population of 2-2.5 crores are ruling us.
If 50 such countries enter our country.
But how many populations are there in Australia?
When are we going to improve?
They train us.
If we want to become a trainer, we go there.
Our technology, our equipments, our talent, they rule us.
We go to America to get our surgery done.
And the doctor from our country does our surgery there.
And we say to ourselves, get your surgery done in America.
Doctors are ours, scientists are ours, engineers are ours.
Technical persons are ours.
When?
When are we going to get out of this mindset?
You will say that we are teaching English and we are doing
it with a mindset.
English is a language.
Bal Gangadhar Tilak said, make the English people run away
and make them accept English.
We don't want their slavery.
No one has a language.
Poetry, poet's language.
This is not a direct language.
English is an international language, a common language.
This is what we need.
This is not their father's property.
Yes.
We need it for our use.
Who will we keep teaching Hindi to?
In India, everyone doesn't know Hindi.
Go to South India.
So in India, everyone doesn't understand Hindi.
Who will we keep teaching in the world?
So English is a common language.
And that's why it is international.
Because most of the countries were ruled by the British
persons.
They took a few words from everyone and used them.
And made it international.
It is common and nothing else.
Just learn the language.
Use it and improve yourself.
Nothing else.
She is an aunt.
She is not a mummy.
She is like her mummy.
She will remain the same.
Respect your mother tongue.
Use this language.
Learn this language.
Improve yourself.
Make yourself successful.
Settle yourself.
But don't forget to respect your mother tongue.
No matter how good the aunt is, she will remain the same.
She will not become a mother.
You can say she is a good aunt.
But the mother will remain the same.
Yes.
So I am not criticizing this language.
This is an important one.
Because this is a common language in the world.
Most of the countries of the world are going to use it.
Learn it.
Enjoy it.
But understand the details so that others don't make fun of
it.
We are having the power, the stamina.
We can learn it.
We can improve it in a better way.
So why don't you improve yourself? Do it. Don't make fun of
yourself. Learn properly and use it properly.
The university we are talking about, our lecturers look
like they are teaching well and training well.
People have not heard our tone in years. Sonia Gandhi has
been here for so many years.
She has been a speaker of such a big party.
Even today she doesn't know how to speak proper Hindi.
And we have been speaking English so well for the past 6
months, that they don't even know that this person is from
India or Australia, Canada, America or England.
Yes, we are having the power, the stamina. We can do it.
We can do it. It is natural.
Our stamina is natural. Our talent is natural.
We need to use it.
We need to use it. We can use it.
We are having all the basic technical parts.
This is the communicative part, writing part for being
international.
So get it. You can do it.
Do it from wherever. I am not criticizing whichever part of
the world you are.
You can improve yourself.
This is just a common language.
Learn it, use it and get the success whatever is missing so
far.
Best of luck.