Okay friends, so we are doing communication skill, how to
improve this and this is need of today.
How can you say you know better?
This is Vineet Kotham and so far whatever we did actually
today I was thinking to talk something about that.
We have made already so much videos related to your
introduction to your grammar person and after that I talked
about how to start speaking in different situations, kaise
start kar sakte hain, presentation kaise de sakte hain, how
can you go for gossip, debate, jitters, interview skills
and step by step hum cheezon ko karenge.
So ab tak humne kya kiya, little bit I just want to go for
those all things, aap kar bhi rahe hain, nahi that is the
thing you have to take care sincerely.
Just contents agar poora karne ki baat kar rahi jaa rahi
hain, to contents to aapko waise bhi bohot mil jayenge, har
jagah available hain but contents are not going to train
you.
He is a training session and for that you need to do the
practical, you have to start yourself, move forward and
then only you can get the response.
To uske liye jaroori hai ki aap step by step cheezon ko
move kar rahe hain, uske saath chalein.
Jaise humne very first kya kiya tha, introduction.
You know the first impression is the last impression and
that's I told you in the section of the introduction, bane
aapko wahan bataya tha, yeh bohot log aapko kehte hue mil
jayenge the first impression is the last impression but kya
kabhi aapne rokke yeh socha ki agar first impression last
impression hai, if the first impression is the last
impression how can you make it impressive, that is a
question.
Your need to think and then act upon also ki kaise karein,
very first aap yeh cheez dimaag mein bilkul clear daalnein,
whatever you are, wherever you are, if you are thinking to
improve yourself from there onwards, aap jo bhi hain jaha
bhi hain agar aap yeh chahate hain ki aap wahan se aage
badhna chahate hain, improvement karna chahate hain,
pragati karna chahate hain, then this thing is the need for
you, this thing is the need for you.
Aap jo kuch bhi hoon, main uspe comment nahin karna chahate
hain, but yeh fact hai, you can be a lawyer, you can be a
doctor, engineers, CEO, accountant or whatever, teachers,
principal, director, chairman, but agar aaj ke time ke
saath adjust karna chahate hain toh yeh aapki need hai,
humne start kahaan se kiya tha, introduction, very first
time if you are going to meet anybody, toh usme aapko
introduce karna padta hai, a first impression is a last
impression, toh aap kaise behtar banayenge,
aapko introduction hi batane wala hai, ki how can you make
your introduction better and how can you leave an
impressive image for you in the eyes of the next person to
whomever you are talking.
So how can you do that?
Just simply in a polished way you are in need to introduce
yourself, ek acche saubhar tariqe se apne aapko introduce
karna, aur isme ab main isliye dubara baat kar raha hoon,
ki aap kaise sakte hain ki yeh simply, teen line toh hai,
general intro, it's not the questions of three lines or two
lines, it's a question of presenting yourself in a decent
way, aap in teen lines ko in a decent way aap present karte
hain and that's matter, wo chiz seriously matter karte
hain, usme jaise presentation
maine aapko bataya ki aapko expression, body language, eye
contact, yeh saari cheezein aapki jaruri hain, yeh saari
cheezein aapki jaruri hain, agar yeh aap nahi karte, simply
aapne words pronounce kar diya, bol diya aur words ki bhi
pronunciation mein aapko bataun, words wahin hain, aapne
bola, it is alright, aapne bola, it's alright, difference
aapko dekh raha hai, yeh difference aapko dekhana hai, as
much more you will do the practice, the difference you will
feel and if you are going to
next person will feel definitely, definitely, you know, I
have already told you, the audience or the viewer are the
mirror for you, whatever the thing you are presenting as
much better, jaisa aap present karenge, jitna behtar
present karenge, utna hi response aapko milta hai, agar
aapne, apne flow mein public ko le liya, jaise stage pe
rohne ki acting ho rahi hai aur public roh padi, emotional
ho gayi, means aapne, apne flow mein unko le liya, that is
the right way of presenting yourself, haan,
program hai, koi movie ki shooting toh ho nahi rahi hai,
retake hai, toh stage program mein, live stage program hai,
so there you are in need to do more rehearsal, rehearsal
means more practice, so here you are in need to do more and
more practice, wo cheez jaroori hai, toh aap general
introduction ke teen lines hi hai, aap jaante hai, wohi
aapko bolna hai, but right expression, body language, eye
contact, properly start karna, properly start karenge, so
take your time, take your time, aap apna
lenge, aap aap kahenge ki ek minute, do minute ke bolna
isme time kya lena, paan second le lo, atleast mentally
settle karo, sentence, jo topic aapka hai usko kaise
present karna hai and then start, with a nice smile, with a
nice smile
I am talking about, this is the thing which you have and
freely available, arey hasan mein koi paise thodi lagge
hai, nahi na, leke cheez badi kaam ki hai, jo upar wale ne
hume free mein gift mein kiya hai, ek hasta hua candidate
sabko hi pasand hai, hasta hua chehra, cheerful personality
sabko hi pasand hai, so why don't you improve yourself, aap
kyu nahi apne aapko is tariki kaise improve karte hain,
karna chahiye aapko, ok, so take your time and cheerfully
start, aap cheerfully, thoda sa
liya, aapne do second, paan second, aap cheerfully aapne
start kiya, hello, kya, hello, I am Vineet, I am from
Faridabad sector 31, Faridabad and I am a soft skill
trainer and motivator, aapne simply, hello,
I am Vineet from sector 31, Faridabad and I am a soft skill
trainer and motivator, thank you, thank you, aapne thank
you kahe ke conclude kar diya, nice to meet you, nice to
talk to you, aap isko add kar sakte hain, nice to talk to
you, nice to meet you, see you again, see you later, aap
kuch bhi isme se add kar dijiye.
This is a simple, sober, first day, first meeting
presentation.
Believe me, whoever you have said this to, in his mind,
your expression, when you are saying, hello, second, there
is a way to second, your confidence shines, the other
person gets an impression.
There is a gentleman, who is a little tight, a little,
don't break his hand, if it is a girl, a lady, then softly,
be careful, for gents, full grabbing is coming, and for
ladies, like this, ok, so this thing, like this, this much,
this much portion you will hold, so, that too softly,
gently, ok, gents mostly like this, ladies like this, or
maybe like this, so, this thing you will keep in mind, it
is a small thing, follow the etiquette a little extra with
ladies, see, maybe they are your
juniors, seniors, but, because they are ladies, they
deserve a little extra respect, they deserve, you too, for
your daughter, sister, wife, mother, you expect extra
respect, if you expect, so, don't forget to give this
respect to other ladies also, if you, for your daughter,
sister, wife, mother,
extra respect, that people also respect your family
members, as you want, which happens, so, you give respect
to others also, to your daughter, sister, mother, give, it
is important, whatever the change you want, whatever you
are expecting from others, from society, first, you just
get ready to give that thing to that person, whatever you
are doing, the things, it is said, whatever you do well, in
the form of reflection, in any way, it comes back to you,
so, if it is, which is, your good deeds
coming back, to you, always,
good for good, bad for bad, it is a fact, you can say,
sometimes it doesn't happen, some situations can be
typical, but the fact is, you will get a positive response,
so, I said here, very first thing, whenever you are going
to meet anybody, you have to introduce yourself, because
the first impression is the last impression, and that you
can get in a better way, in an impressive way, by
introducing yourself in an impressive way, and that starts
from a general introduction only, very first time,
you are meeting anybody, you can't give all the details
about you, and you can't take all the details also, one
candidate, made a friend on Facebook, and in the first
time, he told her his whole story, told her all the pain,
she thought, you have become very good friends, do you know
what happened, in the next moment, the girl in front of
him, blocked him, nobody is going to share your pain, first
you have to make them ready, mentally prepare them, first
listen to them, listen to them, tell
the whole story, they will say, he will keep sharing his
pain all his life, nobody wants that, step by step, listen
to them, they will also feel, we also have someone to share
our pain, so they will also listen, this is the world of
give and take, this is physical life, this is physical
life, this is physical life, here, relationships are also
based on give and take, it is said, if you are born as a
son, then there is some relation of previous birth,
otherwise, understand it in this birth only,
it is a give and take, if parents are doing everything
right, then family also behaves right, if there is any up
and down, like what happened in this corona, then family,
they don't take time, neighbors, relatives, everyone, if,
pocket is empty, everyone bye bye, so, there is no need to
feel bad, this is the world, this is physical life, so just
get ready, you will do this, for the first time, three
lines only, but in a proper way, and when there is a need,
you have a weapon, people surrounded
do you have the guts, to take out the weapon, and save
yourself, by attacking them, if you miss a minute, then
your life can be lost, you just saw the letters, the murder
of a candidate, when there are two bodyguards with him,
there are bodyguards, with weapons, weapons are also with
them, he is also killed, both are killed, on the spot,
I am not saying, that they don't know how to shoot, but it
is a matter of minutes, and things have changed, so, on the
spot, whether you can use it or not, that's matter, just
get ready to do this thing, and the success will be yours,
we are going to talk about something else, okay, so, I
think I am sure about, you are going to do this thing, when
you need it, you will be able to do this, and do it, that's
better for you.