Ok friends, we are going to start the next part here and so
far I have already talked about this 6 points, tell likes
and dislikes and number 7 actually I am going to talk about
your positive and negative attitude.
Ok, first you tell one thing, do you know what is attitude?
People say, look at his attitude, how much attitude he has
with me.
Let me tell you one thing, the person is the same, the
candidate is the same, the value is of attitude.
If someone is showing attitude in front of you, then you
start taking him seriously.
If you say to someone, would you like to be my friend?
Oh, no way.
You may take him in that way, but that thing is always
running in the mind.
And now that is the target for you and you use every method
for getting, for saying, getting yes from that side,
attitude.
If someone is simply following you, like you are, then you
are also in denial mode because attitude is not visible
from that side.
So attitude is always matter, but attitude should not be
hollow, it should be logical.
You should have logical argument, I told you this in
presentation skill, that whenever you are going to present,
you keep the language as a server,
but you should have confidence in presentation, the concept
should be clear and you should have argumentative logic,
you need knowledge for that.
So I was talking about positive and negative attitude.
Here whenever you are going to talk to anybody, may be in
interview or personally, so people say negative and
positive attitude or strength or weakness, we can also say
this.
So you are going to talk about yourself, what is exactly
your strength and weakness.
Mostly you talk about your strength, you can say
hardworking nature, disciplined, punctual, cheerful
personality, good learner, quick learner, self motivated.
If something goes negative, then I motivate myself and
start again.
And if you are talking about your personality traits, then
these things should be visible from your language, eye
contact, impression.
You keep saying that I am a cheerful personality, I like, I
am, and while talking to the other person.
So those things should be visible.
When you are talking, you are telling about yourself that
these things are positive in me.
Because these things are visible in front of you.
You said well-dressed, uptate, modern dresses.
Whatever you say, do it.
But these things are visible in front of you, so these
things should be visible.
Now if you don't say negative, then people will say that
everything is positive in you.
There is nothing negative.
So you say negative, but you explain a lot about your
negative.
Even then a negative part is formed that you are doing your
bad.
Although doing your bad is a very brave thing.
But you explain it happily.
So people say that there is so much bad.
If you know it, then why don't you improve?
So whenever you are going to present yourself about your
negative part, means weaknesses.
So how did you say that I don't have the impressive
communication skill?
You said.
I am having problem in English spoken.
Simple, writing.
But right now I am improving myself.
Because wherever you are going, this is exactly the
requirement.
These things are in demand in eligibility criteria.
That's why you can't deny this.
So you are improving this.
You will tell this and that would be the better option to
express yourself.
You said.
I am having short tempered nature.
Means you get angry little by little, irritating.
This is a very negative thing.
If you get angry little by little, you get out of control.
You hit the other person on the head.
This is a very negative thing.
Then you said.
I am having short tempered nature.
But in most of the cases, I control myself.
I control myself in 99% of the cases.
Sometimes it is necessary to get angry for your right.
You don't forget to do your duty.
But don't forget to get your right also.
Because the world doesn't give you right till you don't ask
for it.
Sometimes you have to snatch it.
I am talking about myself.
Don't snatch other's right.
So I am talking about this thing.
The positive and negative attitude.
And this attitude is going to pay you.
Pay you.
See.
Well dress up.
Well presentation.
Whatever it is.
Like God has told you.
Whatever you have made is good.
Thank him.
But the way you have made it.
Maintain it properly.
Then present it.
And according to that attitude.
What is attitude?
You don't know who he is.
But still by looking at him you feel.
You don't know who he is.
But there is something.
There is something special.
There is something.
There is someone.
You went to a party.
And by looking at someone you feel.
I don't know who this person is.
But there is something special in him.
And you want to meet him.
You want to get introduced to him.
This means there is something special in his personality.
There is something special in his attitude.
When he talks.
When he walks.
There is something special in his walk.
There is something special in his talk.
These things explain your personality.
You need those things.
Those things are very important.
And you have to work very hard for them.
You don't get this attitude in any market.
That you go and buy a kilo.
It is 200 rupees a kilo.
Or it is 200,000 rupees a kilo.
You can't even buy a kilo worth 200,000 rupees.
You have to earn this thing.
You have to earn it.
Respect.
You don't get this in any market.
You have to earn it.
Similarly attitude.
If you want to keep an attitude without any reason.
Then keep it.
But in reality attitude.
If someone starts saluting you.
Then assume that you have the right to keep an attitude.
You have the right.
But still keep your head down.
It is better.
Keep your chest wide.
But keep your head down.
Because when success is on your head.
Then assume that bad days are going to come.
When full moon happens.
Then what happens after that?
Cut, cut, cut, cut, cut, cut.
They come to zero.
Thirdly, in that.
It is very important to keep yourself in control.
Don't leave it by saying negative.
You have to conclude it in a positive way.
Okay.
So far we have done seven points.
How to present.
See, mainly I am talking about the presentation.
About which I have already spoken.
Very first.
You have to pay attention to your language and speech.
What are you saying?
How are you saying?
Secondly, your concept should be clear.
Thirdly.
Concept should be clear.
When the concept is clear, then you present it confidently.
Losing confidence will put a question mark on your concept.
Third is, there should be argumentative ability.
You should be able to argue in support of your topic.
And for that, you should have logic.
And to have logic, knowledge is necessary.
Knowledge, then doing practice, getting experience.
You are going to become logical.
Next is, whenever you are speaking, in support of that, for
example, you said color in like and dislike.
You said red color, black color.
Baba, do some research.
Every color has its own meaning.
And whatever you are saying, it has a proper meaning.
And you can present it properly.
So, when will you be able to do this?
When you have done research on it, gained knowledge,
practiced it, and then you are able to speak properly.
Then these things can happen.
So, then, in the end, how are you presenting?
Your body language, dress sense.
Okay? Now you see, simply, I come in a normal dress.
Things are the same.
If I change and come in a normal dress, will things change
immediately?
No.
But if you come in this way, then I also feel positive.
And the other person also feels very positive.
Why? I just said, when you are presenting, your audience,
your viewers, are like mirrors for you.
They are like mirrors.
The way you present yourself, the same way they reflect.
So, if you present yourself positively, then they will
reflect positively.
They don't have options.
Yes.
If you do it negatively, then it will be negative.
You understand that they are acting according to you.
The way you stand in front of the mirror and say yes or no,
the same way you see.
Similarly, your audience or viewers are also there.
Okay? You will say, in some cases, that you are doing good,
but still people...
Okay.
Some things are manipulated everywhere.
But 99% will be positive.
Okay? So, these are the things.
In presentation,
I am talking about that thing.
Presentation only.
You do it, now you can do it.
You have done a lot.
Now you can do it successfully.
Then I am going to talk about the next point.
We have extra-curricular activities.