Okay parents, good afternoon to all of you. Today actually
I am going to talk to something about the communication
skill we are talking about.
And so far we have done a lot of things. I think you will
be doing the practice also.
The main thing, you are doing the practice or not, that
matters seriously.
Because till you are not doing the practice, no one can
help you. Be sure about that.
No one can help you, either me or anybody else, whoever is
you are talking about.
Material, the study materials are not the matter exactly.
Step by step the things we are going to give you, if you
are going to follow.
And I have already told you that we are just not going to
give you the materials.
And the videos we are going to help you.
While having any kind of the confusion, although we are
making the videos in such a way that there is no confusion,
but even after it can be.
So you can ask your questions in the comment sections and
there.
We are going to make new videos for you with the help of,
especially for your comments, means your queries, having
doubt.
Or maybe once in a week we are going to come online, live,
to solve your queries.
So we are not going to leave you alone like others.
We will stand with you till the end.
So be sure.
I was talking about how to develop, and we were talking
about not only the communication skill with the writing
skill and what is that?
Do you know it well?
So not only the writing, the communication, developing the
personality, main thing is getting the confidence, the
voice clarification and then communication.
Personality is having the two parts, I have already told
you, the inner and outer.
Try to find out always about the inner personality which is
the talent you are having inbuilt.
For that you can contact, you can consult a life course
personality development trainer or maybe somebody else in
your family, relatives, your parents, maybe they are the
best friend you are having.
And then outer personality you are trying to develop from
these institutions, it's going to help you.
And then you are going to get your work done.
The motto is what?
You want to get your work done.
How will that happen?
Until you are not able to keep your point properly.
In this I will talk about technology because technology is
going to help us a lot to present ourselves in a better way.
Today we cannot deny the importance of technology.
We can take our point to the place where we were not able
to think yesterday.
Or a lot of ideas we are having to, we can have, we can get
a lot of ideas from these technologies.
But Google is neutral part, technology is there, artificial
intelligence is there.
Mainly we have to take it in action.
What to take, how to execute it, I am going to talk about.
You can take material from Google.
But I was talking about how to develop the perfect
communication skill.
As I said personality is having three parts.
The major part is your confidence and clarification.
And most major is your communication skill.
So how to develop a perfect communication skill?
As I was saying the importance of technology we are having.
We can have the data, the notes and material from anywhere.
Yes we have.
You will say this is all on YouTube, here and there.
What do you have to select from that?
What is better for you?
Who, where, how to use it?
Who will give this knowledge?
And you have taken the gun, it is available in the market.
But when to use it?
When not to use it?
Where? Timing.
These all things are matter.
With whom?
You are playing cricket.
What is the speed of the ball?
And when do you have to hook it?
You are not able to balance it.
You have seen the video.
But it will be out.
If you have done it before the second.
If you have done it after the second.
Right time.
How can you judge?
This will be your self-assessment.
This self-assessment gives perfection.
You can imitate.
You can learn.
But self-development will be yours.
Development.
Your self-efforts.
Can lead you to your self-development.
Your self-efforts will lead you to your self-development.
Not artificially.
We say it normally in the village.
The wisdom taught is of two and a half hours.
If you add something from the wisdom taught and make it
yours.
Add it to your list.
Then it can help you.
But as it is, you have adopted it.
Things that don't work on the spot.
Self-development.
Your self-efforts can lead you to your self-development.
And that's the action you need to take for yourself.
You will have to take it yourself.
And in that assessment.
You have taken a lot of notes, material, ideas.
But the question is.
Whenever you are going to start talking or writing.
You must know.
What to speak.
Or what to write.
What to speak.
Here I am talking about the what.
It can be speak or it can be write.
You want to write.
Mail.
You want to write any letter.
Any draft.
Application.
Any whatsapp message.
What to write.
You got the material.
Turn it out.
According to your need.
And whom you are going to talk.
Whom you are going to write.
What exactly you want to write.
What is your motto.
What is your agenda.
What is your target.
You are in need to select the words.
And sentences.
If you are able to do this thing.
And that thing.
Can't be developed in one day.
I asked you.
Your self efforts.
Efforts you have to keep doing.
A continuous process of efforts.
Are required to develop you.
You can't develop in one day.
Which is developed in one day.
And next day.
It will be finished.
Children make houses.
House made of sand paper.
They make it in one minute.
And in second minute.
They spoil it.
So.
The thing which will be developed in one day.
that can be completed in one day, self development is a
process step by step.
Wherever you want to go, don't plan the whole distance
together, how to do it.
You thought that today I am a PCOM, I want to become a
finance manager.
So from today, the distance between finance manager is 5-7
years, you are in need to move next ahead.
Take the next step, you will join as a finance executive.
There you have to learn things successfully step by step.
So a single step towards your goal can lead you towards
your success, towards your target.
You start taking single step, but properly think that is it
the right step or not.
In your concept, before taking the step, you are in need to
be clear.
Your concept is not clear, your target is not clear and you
took your step.
Then after some time you thought that no, I am on the wrong
track and you are coming back.
You wasted your time.
So take your time, think, decide properly and then what to
do, what to speak, what to write and what not to do.
We forget this, we think what to do, but we did not think
what not to do.
And the problem is that many times, knowingly or
unknowingly, we do things which we did not want to do.
Because you did not make the category of not doing.
So I am just not going to talk about what to speak.
If I am talking about communication, till then I will tell
you what to speak.
But writing, what to write.
Personality, what to say and what not to say.
What to speak and what not to speak.
That I have to say this, but I don't have to say this at
all.
I have to write this, but I don't have to write this at all.
I have to do this, but I don't have to do this at all.
We should be absolutely clear about the difference.
Because it is absolutely clear.
So if someone misguides you and says that I am guiding you,
then you will understand that this is not guiding, this is
misguiding.
So very first, whatever you are going to do, either you are
writing, speaking, any action you have to take, you want to
decide what to do.
Just like you are going to decide your career.
Now kids have given 10th, 12th paper to the board.
They are thinking which career to choose.
Which career to choose?
This is not a small question, it is a very big question.
It is not a small question, it is a very big question.
After all it is a question of your career.
With which you want to survive for the whole life.
You have to spend your life with that career.
So this is not a small question, it is a very big question.
So what to do in life?
This, this you have to decide first.
And you have to do it very carefully.
Assess your capability.
Ask the question to yourself.
Where are you comfortable?
That's what I was saying, you need to find out your inner
personality.
Inbuilt power, what is your talent?
It is very important to assess that first.
Till you are not going to assess these all things and you
are starting your career.
Because friends said it, because friends said it.
Because relatives and parents said it.
And you decided that this is what I have to do.
Mostly people do this now.
No.
Career is yours.
You have to adjust with this career for the whole life.
So here the decision is yours.
Just go and take the advice from others.
But when you have to take a decision that is it right for
me?
Then you will use your CPU.
Which God has given you for free.
Boss, use your CPU for you.
It's for you, specially for you.
Got free but used for you.
So what to do?
What to speak?
What to write?
Just listen from here and there.
Take notes material.
Take material today.
Today someone said, you agreed.
Then tomorrow you feel bad.
You want something else.
Day after tomorrow you want something else.
Things keep moving like this.
No, this is not fair.
Take your time.
Think properly.
Churn out the opinion.
Introspect.
Then decide.
What is exactly right for you?
In this process.
In communication.
What exactly to say?
What exactly to talk?
What exactly to write?
Before you talk to a particular person.
Draft.
Think.
Then talk.
If you think and talk like this.
Your meetings.
Your conversation.
If you talk without thinking.
Many times it can happen.
That instead of fruitful, it becomes negative.
Think.
Then take a step.
It is better for your image.
For your career.
You are going to choose a life partner.
What? What means?
Who? Who can be?
It is important to think.
Think a little.
Then decide.
What is exactly?
How? There is no logic.
Consult the professionals.
Your relatives.
On whom you trust.
Your uncle.
Your parents.
Your best friend.
In your life.
You must have taken examples.
On whom you can trust.
And who is.
Capable to give you advice.
You just go and take the advice.
Then decide.
What is exactly right for you?
The partner.
The career.
What to talk.
How to talk.
Like this.
With whom?
Okay.
So next I am going to talk about.
I am just not going to talk.
It is a communication topic.
But my personality life course.
Because I am just not a.
I am a motivational speaker.
And life course also.
So in life.
What to do?
This thing.
Decide.
It is not that easy.
But it is not that difficult.
So nothing to worry.
Take your time.
And decide.
With the heart.
With the soul.
With the mind.
The decision will be mostly correct for you.