Okay friends, so this is Swareet Gautam and we are here for
talking something about the English communication skill.
You will be improving very nice I think so far actually we
have done a lot of work I think and you did or not that's
you know better because how much important this thing is
for you that's you know no one else can say you and no one
else can do you anything for you so you know the importance
and you will be doing.
Today actually I am going to talk something about how
efficiently we are doing these things in a different
situation and how much the importance or the response we
are getting from the public
How effectively we are presenting ourselves
How effectively we are presenting ourselves that's
seriously matter.
You are just presenting or you are presenting yourself
effectively that's matter and there is a difference also.
We are need to understand about the effective presentation
One thing is saying speak to grow.
You just don't speak for speaking anything
Your motto of speaking is you want to grow yourself and for
that you are in need to speak effectively
Effectively and effective communication can give you a
better result, required result, expected result
Effectively if you are speaking, if you are speaking the
response you was speaking or not that's a question
I am saying how effectively we are presenting ourselves.
Speak to grow because one thing you are just doing, just
doing
One thing is you are doing the work, one thing you are
finishing the work and one thing you are performing
One thing is doing, one thing you are finishing and one
thing you are performing
In all three conditions, an average candidate is exactly
going to say that you are just doing
But here I am talking about that performing in a decent way
The difference in presentation or communication, if we are
going to talk
You did a math question, you did a math question crying,
laughing, scared, how did you do?
It's not matter, if the answer is right, if the process is
right, you will get the same marks
But here if I am going to talk about the communication
skill, the presentation
You are presenting crying, you are presenting scared, you
are presenting without any expression
And with expression positive body language, if you are
presenting by adding all these contents
Then the answer will be different
You are presenting crying, you will not get the same marks
You are presenting scared, you will not get the same marks
And intentionally in a proper way you are performing
So here I am talking about you are doing, you are
finishing, you are performing
So you are doing, finishing or performing in your
subjective way
You do anything in the subject, so that is no problem
Answer will be same, number will be same
But here doing average, finishing negative, performing best
So this is the difference you have to understand of
effective communication skill
Just don't speak for speaking, speak to grow
Your motive is you want to grow yourself in whichever the
field you are
You want to grow, then speak to grow from that point of
view of making yourself effective
Effectively you are going to present yourself
You are planning properly and then performing in a better
way
And then you are going to get the response
So these are the things you need to take care about
You need to take care about these things
How can you perform yourself effectively
I have already talked many times in my other videos about
the effective communication skills part
How can you do it?
You have to take care about your language and speech
What you are going to speak
What is matter?
When is matter?
And whom are you going to talk?
According to whom your what is changed
Your how is changed
And at the end you have to take care
How much to speak, how much to say to whom
With whom you have to talk how much?
That is matter
When you have to talk how much?
That is matter
Whenever you are going to cross your boundary
That will create a problem for you
So you have to control yourself
Stick yourself to the topic
In your extra contents
Extra smile, positive body language, eye contact,
expressions
The better word, the better sentence you can choose
But how much to speak?
You don't forget
Concept must be clear
What are you going to say?
This word can hurt anybody
You have to take care
The word you are going to use
It can hurt somebody
You have to take care
You have to keep in mind
These words can hurt anybody
If you feel so
Then you need to be careful
So if you want to
If you want to get the real impact, the real result
Then speak effectively
If you want a real growth
Then speak effectively
And if you are speaking
Speak effectively and grow
As much as you want
Or deserve
Speak effectively and grow
As much as you want or as much as you deserve
I wrote deserve because
Sometimes your want is so high
Means your want is high
But you don't deserve
Yes If your want is high, then your efforts should be high
Just give more efforts
And then you will get more response from the others
Of course
The more result, the more response you will get
If you are going to give more efforts
So whenever you are starting to speak
Don't speak anything to speak.
Don't write anything just for writing, you must know the
motive, why are you going to write that, why are you going
to speak that.
Your concept must be clear and that what, I am talking
about the content, either you are writing or speaking, that
what will be changed according to person, you change your
words according to the person.
You see,
For small we say Too, for big we say Aaa, For your friend
you say dil Do.
Yes, the same things are here, in Hindi I am talking about
okay in English of course I say legal but in hindi if
someone is elder and single then we use he instead of he
but in english we will use he ok in english we don't have
the different word but we are giving the etiquette the body
language he is coming please come please come so some
things we are getting like this and then we are going to
make it better a person a lady without make up without well
dress and without jewelry in a normal
and then going to make up in a decent dress according to
body language and as she is feeling comfortable jewelry is
just looking like a bright difference of course look is
changed in the same way whatever you are going to say you
draft your contents decorate with proper words and proper
sentences and then with decent smile accent body language
positive expressions eye contact and then you are
presenting yourself and you are going to get something
different for you of course so you just to speak
speak you are just doing the work this is communication
this is art when artist works with mind then something
different happens there was a singer when he used to sing
birds and animals used to come to listen in the jungle it
used to start raining so a king of a kingdom said in his
kingdom his singers singers from the king's side
Rajgayak something like that so he said to his singer that
you are not capable like that singer when he sings birds
and animals also come to listen surround him even rain
starts when you do it, it doesn't happen singer replied
that he does it on his own will
I do it on your will whether my mind is there or not I have
to do it so when you have to do it you are not able to give
right performance for right performance you are in need to
make yourself intentionally ready you have to prepare
yourself intentionally
then only you can you can give your best you can speak in a
decent way present yourself in a decent way if you are
planning that's why I am saying choose your time
give your presentation in best way give your talking in
best way
I am saying not today then tomorrow you will get the
response at which moment you will get the extra response
you don't know so it's better to get ready and perform or
speak in a decent way in a better way always always try to
present yourself in a better way it will be better don't
know your effort if not today if not tomorrow if not day
after tomorrow when will it be fruitful so it's better to
do yourself in a decent way as much better you can do
yourself ok so I am talking about speak to
speak effectively and grow as much as you want or as much
as you deserve but for that the condition is what you have
to speak effectively to make it effective you don't have to
do it you don't have to finish it you have to perform it so
perform yourself or get the right response for yourself ok
so best of luck