Hello everybody. Good evening to all of you. This is Vineet
Gautam, your trainer, your coach.
And today, I'm going to talk a very different thing for you.
And this is the expectation of everybody.
Whoever is, wherever, whatever you are, you want to go on
top.
You want to become a topper.
You might be thinking, why am I wearing goggles?
Actually, I'm having the eye flu.
And that's why, it's better to stop working.
I thought, why not using the goggles and start working.
Okay, so I'll come here, the topic is a topper.
How can you?
How can you become, wherever you are, whatever you are, you
can be a school student, you can be a college candidate,
you can be an employer, business personality, whatever you
are.
But, you always, everybody do think, I want to go on the
top of my field.
I want to become a school topper, college topper.
I want to become a topper in sports.
I want to become a business topper.
I want to become a top employee.
I want to become an employee of the year.
How? How are these things possible?
Look, it's hidden in this word.
For example, if I ask you to give your introduction.
So, what do you do?
You are going to talk about you.
Whatever you are, you are going to talk about yourself.
Whatever is inside you, you explain it.
I am confident, I am good, I am bad, whatever you are.
This is your name, this is your address.
Means, you are telling about yourself.
Whatever is in you.
So, to become a topper, it is hidden in the word topper.
How can you become a topper?
So, I am just going to explain the topper word.
And that will help you seriously.
It will help you, how can you become?
How can you become?
This is going to help you on a serious note.
Okay?
Okay, on a serious note.
So, very first, what do you have to do?
You have to do your test.
Test means what?
Assessment.
Where are you exactly right now?
Where are you right now?
You have to do an assessment of this.
Mostly, what happens?
We don't accept our real condition.
And until you don't accept, your journey is not going to
start.
So, if you want to be a topper, so, very first, you assess
yourself, your real situation.
Where are you?
If you are in the class, if you want to be a class topper,
so, first you have to find out, where are you right now in
real? 40%, 50%?
Then you have to do the rest.
So, very first, what do you have to do?
Where you are?
You have to assess yourself.
Test yourself, that where you are exactly right now.
Where are you right now?
It is important to test this.
Until you don't know this, where are you?
How can you start your journey?
You can't.
If you want to go somewhere, you have booked a cab.
You are telling that you want to go there, but how will the
cab driver reach there?
First, you have to tell, where are you right now?
So, when you want to start your journey, how will the cab
driver start your journey?
When he is in real.
Destination is later.
First, you should know the location.
So, you can't reach your destination yet.
To reach there, you have to start the journey first.
To start the journey, you have to know the right location.
So, first test and assess yourself, your right location,
where you are exactly.
Then, operate.
O for operate.
To operate, you have assessed that you are here.
But are you mentally prepared that you want to go ahead?
To operate, it is very important to be mentally prepared.
To be prepared.
You prepare to go anywhere, right?
You do all the preparations.
So, have you done those preparations or not?
Take your time.
You will run away immediately.
Later, you will realize that you didn't bring this, didn't
bring that.
What you could have needed there, you don't have.
You didn't bring confidence.
You didn't bring action.
You will need a lot of things.
Performance, this, that, whatever.
You will need a lot of things.
So, you should be mentally prepared to operate.
Until you are not ready for the operation.
Ready, ready.
The army team is ready for the operation.
So, a name is given for the operation.
Where is the label?
Where do you have to climb?
Everything is given.
The team is ready for the operation.
So, are you ready to operate?
With all your knowledge.
What does team mean?
Inside you, are your hands ready?
Are you well?
Are you mentally prepared?
Everything.
That's the thing I am talking about.
Are you ready for the operation or not?
You have assessed it.
And started crying.
I am not able to do it.
It's done.
Where is the operation?
That is the missing part.
So, first you assess.
Second, you get ready to operate.
Third is programming.
You must have a program that where do you want to go?
What is the real meaning of your success?
What is real?
Suppose, you are earning 50,000.
Your success can be 1 lakh or 5 lakhs.
Yes.
If you want to get something, you have a parameter in it.
You have set it.
Otherwise, do it.
Do the program.
And how to do it?
In the program, we make a lot of things.
That this work will be like this, step by step, step by
step.
So, wherever you want to go, whatever you want to achieve,
it is necessary to have a proper programming, planning.
It is very important to have a proper program or plan.
And that's you do.
If you want to be a topper.
For that, you can do your research.
Take experiences.
The track you want to go on.
You said, I want to be a school topper.
So, learn from the school topper, what he does.
And make a plan for yourself.
That I will also do such things.
For college.
Learn something from the best employee award.
The one who is doing business.
Your opponent who is always dominating you.
You learn from him.
There is no problem in learning.
You have to learn.
And then, make a program for yourself.
Learn.
Don't imitate.
I am not talking about imitating.
You learn.
Take the lesson from others.
Get the knowledge.
But, Programming, do as you like.
Then, Get ready to perform.
You have to perform.
See, one is to do the work.
Just doing the work anyway.
Just doing the work somehow.
Like 9 to 5 people do the job.
You go to the office.
You look at the watch.
Yes, like this.
You keep looking at the watch.
Those who look at the watch of 9 to 5, they keep looking at
the watch all their life.
Because, Their focus is something new.
Excited.
Something new.
They don't have anything to do.
They are not passionate.
Nothing like that.
And, you need that.
If you want to go round and round, then, life will go round
and round.
If, to perform something, if your motto is just doing or
finishing the work, then, forget about the topper.
The one who is doing the normal homework, the one who is
doing the daily work of the boss, if he thinks it is his
work, then, that is the normal way.
Just doing.
You can't be a topper by doing the normal work.
For that, for the topper, doing something extraordinary is
necessary.
100% is not enough to be a topper, so you have to upgrade
yourself, develop new skills so that your 100% is also 100%
for the outside world.
You are running race, you gave your 100% but you are
already running 1km 100m behind the topper.
So you have to double your speed to be a topper.
If you are not able to do this thing, then don't think to
become a topper.
You have tested everything, you are ready for the
operation, you have made the programming, you have done the
planning, you will give your performance, you will give
your best, everything is there but execution is missing,
implementation is not there.
So whatever the idea or plan you have, you must execute or
implement over those things.
We make plans, I will do this, I will learn English, I will
learn soft skills, I will develop myself.
But if you don't execute, then you are not a topper.
As a mind coach, I am saying that if you think about it,
then it is the first step, but if you just keep thinking
and don't execute, then there is a problem.
Think about it, it is the first step, but you have to
execute and implement.
Then I am saying reward.
You are doing good, yes.
You can't expect the respect from others.
You are well-maintained, you dress up well, you are happy
with yourself, you start respecting yourself.
If you are a good person, then you will become a judge for
yourself, you can assess yourself.
So if you want that others should like you, then very first
you are to like yourself, you will have to like yourself.
You have to develop new skills, you have to develop a new
habit.
So you have to develop them so that you can like yourself.
So you have to assess yourself, then when you start liking
yourself, you will start respecting yourself.
When you start liking yourself, then the world will also
start liking you.
Why don't you accept it? It is said that God resides in
everyone.
So give reward, whatever you are doing, make it small or
big, appreciate yourself and it will refresh you.
When people used to fight in the olden days, they used to
motivate themselves, when they started losing, they used to
pronounce their name again and again and remind themselves
that you are weak in anger, you can't lose.
Self-motivation, you are giving yourself a reward, you are
remembering your old work, you are giving yourself a
reward, you are self-motivating, because the motivation
that comes from within you, there is no answer to it.
If you have done something bad in the past, then you should
also repent and if you have done well, then you should also
give a reward.
Wherever you are, you want to be a school topper, you want
to be a college topper, you want to be a business topper,
you want to be a topper employee, whatever it is, everyone
wants to be a topper.
So these things, I should know where I am now, at what
level I am, I am ready to do any kind of operation, I am
ready to do any kind of execution.
I have made the programming, do I have a plan for the next
year, two years, five years or not? This is a very
important part, the vision, a plan that I will do this next
year, next year, next year, this is important.
Then performance, to give my best, whatever it is, 24 hours
is for everyone, I will use it 24 x 700%.
You will say, if I sleep, how will I use it? See, even
while sleeping, taking a sound sleep is the most beautiful
utilization of that time.
Best utilization, because until the body is not relaxed, it
cannot be healthy, and if there is no healthy body, there
cannot be a healthy mind, then there is no execution.
So, utilize the whole time and then plan these things and
then go and then you will see that gradually, see don't
expect in one day, I have told you that the topper ahead of
you to fill up that gap, you have to walk gradually, today
there are better developed countries than us, our growth
percentage is better than them in today's time, but because
they are already ahead of you, so even though the growth
percentage is more, the gap that has been created, you see
it simply, that you are driving
a speed of 120, the other one is driving at a speed of 80,
but he is already 100 km ahead of you, so how much time
will it take you, Baba, it will take time, then you will be
able to complete this gap and when you complete it, you
will be able to move ahead very quickly, but you can't do
it in a minute, if he is driving at a speed of 80-100 km,
then he is driving at a speed of 80 km per hour and you are
driving at a speed of 120, okay, but you are already 100 km
behind, so he turned out to be
km, you went to 120, now you are 60 behind him, in the next
hour
you can catch him, he will go to 80 and 60, 140, you went
to 120, you are still 20 km behind, but in the third hour,
when he will go to 80, there is a gap of 20 in the plus, so
100 and what is your speed, 120, so he will go 100 km and
you 120 km, in the third hour you will be able to move
ahead of him, but you will have to wait for the third hour,
you will not be able to move ahead in the first minute,
Baba, if you have this expectation that I am putting my
life into it, then why didn't I do it
the first hour, you understand this gap and for that I am
only saying that till then you have to keep patience, you
will have to keep patience, because many times we give our
best and the result, because we do not set the parameters,
we think that I am not dominating, I could not become a
topper, so we surrender, sometimes we finish ourselves, I
see that the children have not cleared the
IIT NEET exam, it did not happen, so they commit suicide,
Baba, you will do it next year, you gave your best, I said
that your best was yours, but the best of the competition
was less than what was required, so you upgrade yourself,
develop a new skill, learn a new technique to change the
best of that competition, not to finish yourself, now you
have finished yourself, finished, now you have gone up, now
you have finished after 12th, you will come, you will take
birth again as a small child,
nursery, LKG, UKG, you have already gone so far, it was a
matter of one year, now it has become so long, so don't
take the opposite step, don't take negative step, don't
think negative, keep coolness, keep giving rewards, keep
appreciating, when you manage point to point, you will be
able to understand things, you will not get frustrated,
mostly in frustration a person surrenders and when you
surrender, then nothing will happen, don't surrender, keep
this also positive, today the topper is a
like you, if he can be, then you can also be, yes you can
do, convert your problems into your power, first assess
your problem, make it in your power and then keep the
patience till you are not going to become the topper, yes,
carry on.