Hello everyone, good afternoon to all of you. This is
Vineet Gautam, your trainer, your coach.
And today actually I am having a very unique topic for you.
Exactly we used to do a lot of work but along with that we
spend a lot of our time on others.
Thinking about others, giving them advice, free way.
Because we consider ourselves to be knowledgeable.
You know the most easiest way is what? Advising anybody.
You know why?
Because the advice that you have given, whether he does it
or not, it depends on him.
If he does it, he gets paid. If he doesn't do it, he gets
paid.
If the advice is with responsibility, like the doctor gave
the advice, if it has a negative impact, then it becomes
his responsibility, then he doesn't give the advice just
like that.
The lawyer gave the advice and if the client is going to
have a good or bad experience, if it is bad, then it
becomes his responsibility.
He doesn't give it for free.
The consultant, the financial consultant, they don't give
financial advice for free because it becomes their
responsibility.
Here also actually if I am talking about something, so it
is my responsibility and that's why I am saying with
responsibility.
But mostly outside what we do is, we give advice to anybody.
I am telling you a very simple but very serious thing.
Once there were two candidates.
There was a girl who was having stomach pain for 18 years.
So they simply, as you might have seen outside, if no one
sneezed, then take this.
If you have fever, then take this medicine.
Everybody keeps giving advice.
So the girl was having stomach pain and she had to go to a
party in the evening.
So in the name of advice, she asked, tell me a medicine so
that I get well soon that I have to go to a party in the
evening.
So exactly you must have heard MG in medicines, which
denotes its power.
She had to give a medicine of 50 mg.
So they were young candidates.
They said, let's give her a medicine of 500 mg.
What will happen with this?
She will get well soon.
But what was the result?
Instead of getting well, due to 10 times extra power, her
blood started vomiting.
And blood vomiting, you know, anything can happen.
They took her to the hospital quickly.
The doctor asked, which medicine did you take?
She took this one.
Who told you to take this one?
How did you take it?
The doctor said, I will not treat you.
First tell me who recommended this medicine?
That day,
that advice, which you are giving without thinking, but
what was the result?
That the girl was about to die.
Why did this happen?
When you are not a doctor, it is not your job to do it.
But you did it.
There are two ways in this.
One is from a social benefit point of view.
Let the CA give the financial advice.
Let the doctor give the doctor related advice.
Let the lawyer give the law related advice.
Education, training, motivation field, that is our job.
Because we have gained that kind of knowledge in this.
We have studied in an authorised way.
There is certification.
So we are the authorised trainer.
There is responsibility in what we are saying.
Responsibility is the most important part.
The most serious part is your responsibility.
To do the work.
I am not saying that work is small or big.
Work is work.
But the hard work of a PN, his boss, police officer, once
feels that he is not working hard.
PN feels that way at least.
But PN feels that his salary is 15,000.
His salary is 75,000.
Once this happened.
There is a PN in the police department.
So the PN, the small level officers,
I am saying 4th grade officers, he was told that the
inspector is half my age.
He works less.
I work a lot.
I am very experienced.
But his salary is 4 times more than mine.
My salary is 4 times more than his.
I complained to the inspector.
The inspector.
Again, I am not laughing at him.
Work is work.
The price is not of work.
The price is of responsibility.
How responsible your work is.
That is the price.
And the quality of work also increases.
If you have heard this story.
The inspector says, okay.
I will do this.
But before that, you both give a test.
And based on that, I will decide.
Who is capable of what in real?
And what should I do?
He said, do one thing.
The inspector said, yes, Ram Singh.
Go to that village.
And there is a goat there.
Go and see whose goat it is.
Is it there or not?
He goes and sees.
Yes, sir, the goat is there.
And this is the owner of the goat.
Which color is the goat?
He said, sir, I have not seen the goat.
He said, okay, go and see the color of the goat.
He went and saw the color of the goat.
He said, sir, the goat is black and white.
Okay.
Okay, where are the kids of the goat?
He said, sir, I don't know about the kids.
He said, okay, go and find out about the kids.
He said, sir, there are four kids of the goat.
Okay.
Ram Singh, how big are the kids?
He said, sir, I have not seen the kids.
There are just four.
I have asked everything.
He said, okay, go and find out how big the kids are.
He said, sir, the goat gave birth to the kids three months
ago.
Okay.
So, tell me, out of the four, which one is the male goat
and which one is the female goat?
He said, sir, I don't know.
He said, go and find out.
He said, sir, there are two male goats and two female goats.
Go and find out about them next time.
Did you find out about the color of the kids?
And what is their health?
He said, sir, I have not found that out.
He said, sir, go and find out.
Then he went and found out that this is the color of the
kids.
And two of them are healthy.
One is not looking healthy.
And one is sick.
Okay.
And how many years have these goats been here?
He said, I don't know.
Then he went again.
He found out that he bought this goat from here.
He bought it so many years ago.
Okay.
Where did he buy it from?
He was sent to find out again.
He had to go to that village 7-8 times.
And he was busy all day.
But he spent the whole day in this report.
Then the SP called the inspector.
And said, you go.
There is a goat in this village.
I want the entire report of it.
Okay.
So the inspector went.
Yes, sir, he bought the goat from this village.
And he has been here for so many years.
He has given birth to four kids.
Now the color is black and white.
He is so old.
And he has given birth to four kids.
Two are male and two are female.
This is their color.
They are healthy.
Two are healthy.
They are very strong.
One is average.
One is a little sick.
She has a disease.
But they are getting treatment.
They are getting treatment from this doctor.
And they have assessed that she will be fine.
And they are very caring.
And they are also very good.
After doing this, the inspector submitted the entire report
within hours.
Now the SP asked the watchman.
The work you have done in the whole day.
Did the inspector do that work in one hour?
You tell me.
Your salary is four times higher than his.
But according to the work,
The work you did in eight hours,
He did it in one hour.
So his salary should be eight times higher than yours.
Or, Now his salary is four times higher than yours.
So his salary should be eight times higher than yours.
your salary is less, should I increase your salary or
reduce it?
The doctor said, no sir, no sir, as much as you want.
The exactly work is okay, payment is of responsibility, he
says, focus on your work, the topic is, in our mind you are
on Venus.
But the educated people who do mental work, as their age
increases, as their experience increases, their importance
increases, and it is necessary that at the place of others,
it is the value of responsibility,
I am talking about the importance of responsibility, on
here the topic is, mind your own business.
Why am I saying this?
This is also your responsibility.
When you start advising others, like I started with advice,
that you went to advise, it is not your work, you are not
authorised candidate, but you went to advise, and it became
the life of others.
So at the place of that it is better, in whichever field
you are specialised, so do that job only, and that is also
paid job.
When you do paid, then it becomes your responsibility,
doctor has taken fees from you, so if something goes wrong
with you, then it becomes his responsibility.
The one who advised on the way, and it became his life, it
is not his responsibility.
So, the one who is going to take the service, he should
also keep in mind, what is your real responsibility, and
the one who is going to give, at the place of criticizing
others, criticizing others freely, and talking about
others, gossiping, it is better to mind your own business,
pay attention to your own work.
If you don't have anything to say, then keep quiet, learn
something, get something, knowledge, improve yourself,
update yourself, upgrade yourself, meditate, recite the
name of God, chanting, do bhajan, whatever you can do for
your betterment, you can do, your time is yours, your
brain, your energy is yours, so use it for yourself, use it
for yourself, and then move ahead, move ahead.
It is better to waste your time on others, you will waste
time on others, when others don't need you, they are not
going to ask you, you keep wasting time on others, keep
giving free advice, and you didn't do anything for
yourself, you didn't make yourself better, so tomorrow no
one is going to ask you, so at the place of this, it is
better to do something better for yourself, do it for
yourself, move ahead, improve, mind your own business,
people say, it is better to do your own work, than to
in others' business,
otherwise, sometimes you go to give free advice, people
say, do your own work, that is what we say in English, mind
your own business, and mind your own business, is better
for them also, they are feeling bad, that is why they are
saying, and why are you going to say, do you have brain in
your useless time, why are you saying, lawyer takes money
to give advice, financial advisor takes money to give,
doctor doesn't give consultancy for free, so why are you
going to give it for free, you give
own price, yes, with that price, when you go to give
advice, for that responsibility is required, and for that
proper knowledge, specialization is necessary, so do your
own job, mind your own business, means, focus on your own
work, in whichever field you are a specialist, advice in
that field only, that would be better for you, and that is
a secret of your success also, you will gradually move in
that, and one day you will be very very very much
successful, so, if you want to be successful, in
field you are, it is better to mind your own business,
focus on your own work, and move ahead, be a responsible
person.