Ok friends, so just now I was talking about the importance
of extra activities and in which you do social activities,
your social image, see a person has three images, a
personal, a professional and a social.
So you build up all three images, we neither care about the
personal nor the social, we care only about the
professional, you can be a good professional but if you
don't care then you can't be a good personal person.
You didn't care about your family, have you ever thought
about your children's smile?
They are sitting in the office all the time, have you ever
thought of taking them out for a weekend?
They go home with chocolates, it is a small thing for you
but it is a big thing for them, try to understand, it is a
big thing for them.
So you can't avoid this thing also, you need to take this
thing seriously also.
You will say that I am giving a lecture, I am not giving a
lecture.
If I am talking about overall development then just by
reading these books and learning English you don't become
good, who will develop these things in you?
Your family is yours, so who will care for them?
Your image is yours, when will you become social?
When you are not social, you are not going to help others
whenever you are capable to do that, then how can you
expect the others are going to help you?
Why do you think so?
Do you think you are a slave?
That you will not be useful to anyone and someone else will
be useful to you?
Why will you be useful?
Have you bought someone?
This happens with God also, that is why it doesn't happen.
They are also social, that is why people come.
God Ram helped first, then the army of monkeys helped them.
Till you don't raise your hand, the world will not come
with you.
The person who is going to help himself or herself, then
God is coming.
But if you want social help, then first you have to take
steps.
You need social activity.
A man is a social animal, a person is a social animal.
If you are a social animal, then you have to take action in
the society.
You must do something social.
You have to do social activity.
Only then you will get that image.
And by doing such social activities, uneducated people,
because we are educated people, do not understand the
importance of it.
We have to stick to the books.
That is why.
Why do you cry when our 9th, 8th class becomes the chief
minister?
Why do you cry?
Because he cared for this part.
You did not do it.
You think all these are useless things.
So stop crying also.
Stop crying also.
I said there are three images.
Personal.
You are personal. You do not care.
It is the time of divorce.
Children do not ask you.
You cry in old age.
You say children have become like this and that.
How much did you care?
You say I have given my whole life by earning.
I have given by earning.
He will also give you.
Does it run your life?
Do you need time?
If you want to run your life,
this is your life.
One part,
if one wheel goes here,
and the other goes there,
will the car run?
Both have to be balanced.
You have to do professional work also.
You have to do personal work also.
If you do social activity,
then your engineering,
doctor,
you say 8th, 9th class has become the chief minister.
You raise questions.
You go and vote for him.
Because you do not have any activity.
You do not have any option to choose.
So you cannot raise questions.
You cannot call him 8th, 9th class.
You say he is not academically successful.
But socially he has activated himself.
You will say personal support.
Personal support is given for one day,
two days, four days.
Later you have to take action yourself.
I will talk about Tejaswi Yadav.
You keep saying 9th fail.
Your upma will not happen.
And today many educated people are also in support.
One state's biggest party was made on its own.
They were not in the father election.
They were in jail.
Made by everyone.
I am not telling his story.
But the reality is that
we educated people are so social.
Social activity is done.
We think it is useless.
We think it is a waste of time.
Then understand.
Then what do you expect?
Such people will be made.
Those who are in books have become employees.
Those who are backbenchers have become your owners.
And those who are out of the class,
those who are in social activity,
they have become your leaders.
They have become your leaders.
Chief Minister is that.
Company's owner is that backbencher.
Because he kept his own ideas.
Stayed away from books.
Our syllabus is not so active.
It is not creative.
I don't know what we have been studying for a long time.
I don't know who made this.
How active we are.
Child wants to study after 10th.
Non-medical, medical, science.
He will become an engineer, doctor.
We are teaching him Sanskrit.
What are you doing?
If you want to teach,
then teach our ancient books.
Teach Vedas.
Teach Mahabharata, Gita.
Teach Ramayana.
If you are a Hindu,
then teach him things of Hinduism.
Teach him things of any religion.
Tell him that.
Tell him the art of living life.
There is no age to get married.
How to live life after marriage?
How to develop personal life?
Which books are you studying?
After that you say, do this, do that.
And life is not successful.
Have you ever taught how life will be successful?
How to live married life in a proper way?
Has a mother ever taught her daughter in a proper way?
Here they teach others to dominate.
Go son, dominate in any way.
You talk about dowry.
Remove dowry.
How will dowry be removed?
There are expectations.
The one who has is giving extra and leaving.
And no.
Why are you giving?
Go and teach your daughter from the first day.
Go and dominate from the first day.
For so many years,
parents have educated their son,
raised him, did everything.
And you go and dominate from the first day.
Make yourself his slave.
Why?
What are you teaching?
When this happens with your daughter,
it feels very bad.
When?
I am talking about personal,
professional, social.
Have you ever thought about it?
Have you ever introspected?
Have you ever questioned yourself?
Have you ever asked yourself?
When?
If one portion was going big,
not the other, not the other, not the third.
When will you do it?
Then don't question them.
They are not academically successful.
But they have done social activity,
that is why they are giving.
Professionally you can be successful.
If you have not done personal care,
then the family will go.
It is compulsory.
Now you will say,
that you are busy in personal,
then don't do personal.
Do it.
Who has stopped you?
I am talking about balance in all three activities.
I am talking about balance in all three.
What has been made?
Management.
We learn management.
Have we ever learned family management?
Have we ever learned personal management?
Have we ever learned marriage management?
Only professional management.
This is life.
Why are we living?
What will you do by becoming professional?
I am not saying that don't become professional.
Become.
Be a good person.
Be a good father.
Be a good husband.
Be a good wife.
Be a good son.
Be a good daughter.
Be a good neighbor.
Be a good friend.
Don't think before cheating in the name of friendship.
When?
Whatever you want to get,
target is necessary for that.
When dishonesty will come here,
that you have to cheat your brother,
and you have made a target,
if you want to become a good brother,
then you will think before giving.
And once the positive thought comes,
the negative thoughts keep coming.
You have decided,
you have to press the trigger and kill.
What is the second thought?
If you don't think,
then press the trigger,
the story ends,
regret it later.
If you think,
I have to become a good brother,
how can I shoot my brother?
And this thought removed your finger,
brother was saved,
and you were counted as a good person.
You were standing on the border,
thinking,
I have to become a good brother. An idea can change your
life.
You had one thought that you want to be a good brother.
He did this to your finger, it became like this, you didn't
press it, and today you have become a good brother with a
good image.
One thought, one positive thought, took you to a positive
direction.
One negative thought, is not the target.
Honesty left you, people gave you greed, circle gave you
greed, and you shot your own brother.
For money.
I am not saying anything new.
Is it not happening in today's society?
Maybe that target is missing.
When will you make that target?
Whenever we talk about a target, what do we say?
Become an engineer, become a doctor.
If you want to become a human being, then tell me, when
will you become a human being?
Look, whatever you want to achieve, if the target of that
field is not there, is not there, you can't become that
thing.
You can't become yourself.
Nothing happens on its own.
You have to do it, you have to become it.
And whatever you want to do, if you want to become it, then
it is very important to have a target for it.
Target is very important.
Targetless person cannot achieve anything.
Not on its own.
Even if he does it, he doesn't understand the importance of
it. The way he got it, the same way he will lose it.
And targetless persons, educated candidates, are
targetless, and they have been brainwashed negatively and
made a terrorist group in the whole world.
Do you know?
They are educated people.
They are targetless.
They have no aim in life.
And such negative people brainwash them.
They convince them negatively.
And they go on the wrong track.
Why did they go on the wrong track?
Because there is no target.
There is no target in life.
Because you become a target with a cool mind.
You make it with a calm mind.
And there is no target.
You go out of the house.
People see you roaming in the park.
Such people live in fear.
They catch you.
They put you on the wrong track.
If you go on one wrong track, your family follows you.
Think about it.
What happens to those parents?
What happens to you?
Not only you, your targetless life is in danger.
You were good too.
You didn't want to become bad.
You were targetless.
You were misled.
You didn't get misled.
Your life is gone.
Parents, you went there.
When the police and army harass your parents, think about
how much it hurts them.
And if you think,
I am talking about those candidates who have not gone there
yet.
Never be targetless.
From the very first day, make a target for every label.
If you have made a target for a good citizen, that I will
become a good citizen of the country, then you will think
four times before harming the property of the country. Here
I see children playing games on the street lights.
And no one stops them.
Simply, we create riots, burn government trains and buses.
Who will pay the tax?
It is your property.
Why don't you understand?
It is your property, boss.
You are a citizen of a democratic country.
It is your property made from your tax.
Why don't you understand? Have you made a target for a good
citizen?
I am talking about all the activities.
I am still the same.
Make a personal activity.
You will become a good person.
Make a social activity.
Social activity.
I am talking about small things.
If you have a problem with your neighbour at 2 in the
night, have you ever gone out?
Have you helped?
Do it.
Because you can also have a problem at 2 in the night.
Who will help you?
See, the one who helps is always in an easy way.
He is comfortable.
If someone falls down on the road and gets hurt, he is not
able to get up. He is helpless.
You gave him a hand.
It is a small activity for you.
But it is a big help for the one who is helpless.
You will be able to do this when you think that if this had
happened to you and you were helpless.
If this had happened to you, then you will be able to
understand the pain of the person who has fallen down.
You think, what difference does it make?
Get out.
Let him be.
If you have a close friend, someone did not help him and he
lost his life, then you ask a lot of questions from the
world.
That there are very ill-mannered people.
There is nothing in them.
There is no humanity.
Someone did not help.
Your brother died.
Did you help anyone?
Ask yourself.
So, this is up to you.
What kind of image do you want to develop for yourself?
But there are three kinds of images.
Personal, social and then professional.
As a human being.
So, wherever you are, when you are in school, you leave the
school, behind the school, if there is an inquiry from the
college in the school, then you have an image.
You leave the house, if you are asked in the neighborhood,
then you have an image.
Have you ever thought that there is such an image?
A girl has to get married.
Do people come and go for marriage? You apply for a
passport, there is an inquiry.
You go to the army police, there is an inquiry for
admission.
Have you ever thought about this?
If there is such a thing, if you have an image, then why
not make it better?
Do something better.
Do something better in school, so that people from behind
say, yes, it was a good day in college.
And by moving gradually like this, you will go up.
One day you have to leave this world.
People from behind, talk about your good and bad. And do
you know, no one knows when and what will happen to whom.
I will share an incident today.
We have an aunt.
It is about yesterday.
Yesterday morning, she made food and everything.
She was old age.
She made food and everything.
She ate and drank.
In the afternoon, she was talking to someone on her phone.
Suddenly, she felt a little pain.
And while walking, she took her to the hospital.
She checked her BP.
It was normal.
Then the BP was not known.
The body started to get cold.
And they are taking her to the hospital.
On the way, she died.
No one knew when and how it happened.
We make plans for tomorrow.
Tomorrow this food will come.
Day after tomorrow this food will come.
Tomorrow we have to go there.
Day after tomorrow this food will come.
She has done the real calculation.
We don't know, but she has written.
What is the end of the day?
So, it is better that every day, consider it as your last
day. Plan your life in this way.
Don't hurt anyone.
You can hide from the world.
You can steal.
You can hurt.
You can loot.
You can cheat.
You can gather here.
There is no one to take you.
No one sleeps with you.
Become a human being.
Whatever you can do better, whatever you can do, do it,
Baba. Do it, do it, do it.
Whether you get this life again or not, be a good person.
It may be personal, social or professional.
Finally, that's up to you.
You have to decide what do you want to do, what do you want
to be.
It's your life.
That's up to you.