Hello friends, good evening to all of you. This is Vineet
Gautam, your trainer, your coach and today I am having a
topic about which you know, you know better.
Topic is already written here.
What is fear?
Actually I am on the topic, we are talking about the
success.
You want to be successful but you are afraid to take
action, you are afraid to take step ahead, you are afraid
to take risk, you want to get something new, adventurous,
you want result but you are afraid to jump.
Fear, fear is something which is exactly everywhere.
If we ask in reality, what is fear?
Normally if I speak from the point of view of success, fear
is a hurdle in the path of success.
What is fear? It is a hurdle which does not allow us to be
successful.
We are always afraid.
It is said that there is success beyond fear.
Of course, there is success beyond fear.
Beyond fear, you will get pain once when you take action
but if you overcome it, you will be successful.
But we are unable to overcome that fear.
Don't take risk.
Who is taking risk? Let whatever is going on.
Whatever you are getting is enough.
It is not in my control.
It is said that if you have already put this thing in your
mind, then fear is exactly your deficiency.
Fear is exactly your deficiency.
One is efficiency and other is deficiency.
It is your shortcoming.
Fear is your shortcoming.
You are afraid to go into the darkness because you are not
able to see what is there.
You are not afraid in the day.
You are not afraid to go into the day because you are able
to see what is there and you are not afraid.
Similarly, if you put it in the same place, you will be
afraid in the night.
Similarly, the work that you have already done, you are not
afraid to do it because you have the knowledge about it.
I have said the second thing.
Fear is your deficiency or lack of knowledge.
Lack of knowledge.
It is the lack of knowledge that is the fear.
This is what scares us.
Now, what is the solution to this?
You want to be successful, you want to move ahead, you want
to go on the top of your field.
But deficiency, lack of knowledge.
These things have blocked your way.
So, the solution is that you are afraid to go into the
darkness.
You lit the light and your fear is gone and you move ahead.
So, there you lit the electricity light, here you have to
light the light of knowledge.
You have to light the light of knowledge and then you will
have to move ahead.
Knowledge.
Means, the reason you do not know how to drive properly is
a fear.
You are afraid of getting stuck in the crowd.
You are afraid of getting stuck in over bridge traffic.
If you are having the mastery in driving, then you do not
even think of getting out of anywhere.
Wherever I go, I will get out.
I know how to drive.
Similarly, the fear of public speaking.
Wherever there is public speaking, attending meetings,
facing interviews,
wherever there is deficiency, there is a problem with your
words power, there is no proper sentence,
you are not confident to present yourself publicly.
Of course, this is also a fear, a phobia, a public phobia.
What all happens?
You do not even know how to drive properly.
What happens if there is an accident on the road?
Public speaking, you cannot speak because you did not do it.
You did not get the right word on the right time, you did
not get the right sentence, you could not speak.
People will make fun of you.
It is better to not speak at all.
That fear convinced you not to speak and you refused to
take action.
If there is an accident on the road because you do not know
how to drive properly,
and this fear prevented you from taking the car,
you are convinced that I am not going to take the car.
So, this fear prevents you from taking the required action
for your success.
Because you do not have that proper knowledge.
So, the ghost of fear that has held us is nothing.
You should gain knowledge about it.
Knowledge.
If you gain knowledge,
Corona has come,
those who do not have knowledge are very disturbed.
And let me tell you, the more you are disturbed, the more
burden you take in your mind,
the more pressure is created,
and many times you reach the position of severe disease
from normal disease.
This fear makes it difficult to live.
Because some things happen in reality, we assume some
things,
we put a lot of pressure on ourselves,
and because of that our work is not proper.
Our work is not proper.
So, fear is exactly deficiency in particular field, in
particular work.
If you are not efficient in any work, that is your fear.
If you are not efficient, you will be afraid.
You are a school student,
you did not do your homework properly,
you do not understand that subject properly, there is a
lack of knowledge,
then your fear will remain from that class, from that
subject, from the teacher of that subject.
You avoid that subject.
You start taking a bank from that class.
You avoid that teacher.
And gradually your subject becomes weaker.
Don't avoid fear, face it, and what does it mean to face it?
I said fear is your deficiency, so in that efficiency,
convert your deficiency into efficiency and for that you
will have to do learning.
Learning, the subject that is weak, because of which you
are avoiding that subject, you are blocking that teacher,
that class, you should take extra class for that.
Attend, learn.
The missing part, you can also say that there is fear.
If there is fear of something, it means that something is
missing.
Something is missing, that missing part has created fear in
your mind.
Many people, I am talking about professionals, they don't
explain outside.
But when they come to the institute, when they come to the
cabin, they know that there is no one here, so they share
what is in their mind.
They say, sir, I am working in MNC's, the company wants to
send me out for many years, sometimes I make an excuse of
family, sometimes I make an excuse of health.
The reality is that lack of communication, the fear of
public speaking, because of this, I am losing this
opportunity again and again.
I am not grabbing this opportunity because of this public
speaking fear.
And why is that fear?
Deficiency in public speaking, not being able to do lack of
knowledge.
So, your fear is compelling you to remain there where you
are.
Wherever you are, you remain there.
Your fear compels you to do this.
If you want to go ahead of it, if you want to go on the
path of success, then that fear, fear means your
deficiency, you will have to convert that deficiency into
efficiency.
Deficiency co-convert
into convert into
your efficiency.
What will you do?
I said, convert deficiency into your efficiency.
You convert your
You convert your deficiency into your efficiency.
You will convert your deficiency into efficiency.
By gaining knowledge, you will become knowledgeable.
And then your fear will go away.
And the step you have not been able to take till now,
which is going to lead you towards your success.
You will be able to take that step and you will be able to
move towards success.
Sometimes it takes years to take this step.
Years.
Step can be taken within second, within minute.
But because our deficiency does not let us take the step.
Deficiency means your fear.
Fear means lack of knowledge.
Fear means your deficiency.
It does not let us take the step.
And you are carrying your deficiency.
Carrying, carrying, carrying.
And wherever it is, it is there.
And many times, wherever it is, you do not stay there.
Because the people behind will come and go ahead of you.
So you go further behind.
Then you see how many people have gone ahead of you.
Then this thing starts to irritate us.
Then we start to hate ourselves.
So do not hate yourself.
When you hate yourself, you will forget to respect yourself.
The person who hates himself, the thing you hate, you
cannot respect it.
And when you hate yourself, you will not be able to respect
yourself.
And when you will not be able to respect yourself,
then you can't expect from others that they respect you.
Why will others respect you, Baba?
Okay? So it's better for you that you respect yourself.
And for that, it is important for you that you convert your
deficiency into efficiency.
Means be knowledgeable.
Gain knowledge.
Move ahead and take the first step of success.
What is the first step of success?
To end fear.
Fear means deficiency.
Convert deficiency into efficiency.
Convert your problem into your power.
Convert your problem
into power.
Convert your problem into your power.
What will you have to do for power?
What is your problem?
Your deficiency, your fear.
You come into the learning process and learn to fear public
speaking, to do public speaking.
Fear of public speaking.
Learn to do public speaking.
How can you speak publicly?
Develop words power.
You don't know how to drive.
You went to driving school.
You learned driving from there.
Anything.
You didn't learn from computer.
You learned computer.
Language.
Drawing.
Anything.
The reason why you are afraid.
Fear means deficiency.
What is fear?
Deficiency.
Lack of knowledge.
Gain that knowledge because this fear has made a barrier in
the way of your success.
This is a hurdle.
This is a big stone that doesn't let you move forward.
So, end this fear and you don't have to fight it.
It is deficiency and you have to convert it into efficiency.
You do learning.
Learn.
Learn that thing properly.
That deficiency will automatically convert into efficiency.
Your problem will be converted into power.
Public speaking...
Now you have the power to remove fear from your
subconscious mind.
To do this, you have to confidently say to yourself,
Yes, I can do it.
I want to remove my fear from my subconscious mind.
Until you are able to say this, until you are able to
convince yourself, you will not be able to do it.
This is the first step.
The next step is to just move ahead, to gain knowledge, to
utilize it, to implement it, and now that problem will
become your power. The world has seen the record of many
people, who, I am telling you myself,
I remember that day,
I was a white student in school time, but in 6th standard,
the school assembly, the small meetings, they made me stand
in front of them.
I was very scared of public speaking.
It was a big fear for me.
I was a very introvert and shy guy.
I did not speak.
So when the teachers, because I was a bright student, but
they wanted me to speak, they made me stand in front of
them, and I still remember, that it was very difficult for
me,
I was not able to speak, it felt like I was going to cry,
my legs were shaking,
but today,
today, I am a public speaking trainer.
Yes, I worked over this.
Yes, to create an interest, where did things start from?
English is my hobby,
I like this.
Things started from there.
We started with a language, now we talk about communication.
Communication has nothing to do with a language.
Language can be any, any language it can be.
Communication is a skill.
Public speaking is a skill.
It can be in any language.
So you take a single step, the response that will come,
will inspire you for the next step,
and you will gradually move forward, and hold on.
If fear is darkness, then knowledge is your light.
As you move forward, towards the light, you will keep
gaining knowledge, the light of knowledge will keep
burning, and darkness will keep running away.
You are afraid of darkness, you keep burning the light, and
you keep moving forward.
You keep burning the light, and you keep moving forward.
You are not afraid, because there is no fear now.
Why? You were afraid of darkness.
The light has driven away the darkness.
Similarly, now the deficiency, you have converted it into
efficiency, so that fear, that knowledge, made you run away,
and you became a daring candidate.
And I will tell you the biggest thing,
whoever is daring to take this step,
can do anything.
And you can do this too.
You can do.
Just go, try, and do.
Take the step.
Take a deep breath,
make a self-promise,
make a list of your fears,
which things have stopped you from moving forward, which
are those deficiencies,
and make a complete plan, road map for them.
One by one.
Don't look at everyone at once, they will scare you more.
You will feel that you have so many fears,
but nothing to worry.
You make a road map, make a proper plan.
One by one,
you decide that these are my problems, and I have to solve
them one by one.
I have to move forward.
I am damn sure you can do it.
You can do it.
You can definitely do it.
So,
today, when do you want to do it?
When? Now.
Now, right now.
And for when?
For lifetime.
It won't be completed in a day,
but start today and move forward.
Step by step, you will finish your fear.
What is fear?
Darkness.
And you have to light the knowledge light,
and move forward.
You can do it.
Best of luck.
Just go and take the single step today.
Thank you.