Hello everybody, good afternoon to all of you.
This is Vineet Gautam and today I am going to talk about a
very serious topic, choice.
You have a lot of choices in life, what you want to do,
what you don't want to do.
And the choices you make in life, the result of that is
what you are going to get in the future.
You can also say that what you are today, the decision you
have taken in the past is the result of that.
Whatever we are today is the outcome of the choices we did
in our past.
Whatever we decided in the past is the result of what we
are living in the present.
What we are in the present is the result of the choices we
have taken in the past.
So, whatever the choice or decision you are going to do or
make for yourself, think about the future very seriously,
in which direction you want to go, you are planning to move
in which directions, what is your future you want to see in
coming time.
Today's decision, today's execution, the result of that you
will see in future, and for that you will have to wait for
tomorrow.
So, you will have to wait for tomorrow, but till now
whatever decision you have taken, you have seen the result
of that, you will have an idea at least about yourself,
that what kind of choices you have, what kind of decision
you have.
It can be a kind of risk, but not taking risk in life is a
big risk.
Life is just a moving thing and you have to take risk.
Till the time you don't take risk, you don't start moving,
you don't take decision to move, you think that if you sit
or stand in one place, then your life is going to end, it
is not like that. You will have to do something.
So, wrong or right, whatever can be the best for you from
your point of view, you do it.
You have an option that what you decide for yourself, big
or small, whatever you decide, your career, your future
depends on that.
And not only that, you are related to your future, your
family, your child,
I will give a particular example, which career you are
choosing for yourself, it depends on that only.
In starting, to earn money, you start a small job as a
labourer.
Basically, I am talking about everybody.
Because a person sees the benefit of a river, he doesn't
see the loss of distance.
So, the earlier you start a small job, you will start
seeing benefits immediately, but it won't happen in long
term.
It is said that a labourer's work is okay, but their other
option is to start earning money immediately.
But a labourer's career starts early and ends early.
If you spend that time to develop your skills, to develop
your education, your career will start a little late, but
it will go on in the long run.
When the labourer's career is ending, then your career will
start booming.
And till the end, you will keep getting options, because it
is the work of the mind.
When the labourer's career ends at the age of 40-45, your
career will start.
People will say, yes, he is an experienced candidate.
He is in demand, he has a need.
For example, when you go to see a labourer, you look for a
person of 18-20 years.
When you go to see a doctor or a professor, you look for a
person of 40-45 years.
You look for a person who is experienced.
It is a simple thing.
Then his career starts coming in better options.
When his career ends at the age of 40-45, no one will ask
him.
So, what do you decide for your child?
Which school to put him in?
What career to choose?
Similarly, his future is going to be made.
And when his future is made, your future will also be
attached to it.
Similarly, with your decision, your child's career is
attached to it.
Your family's career is attached to it.
Your happiness and sadness is attached to it.
Similarly, your decisions will be made for your children
and family.
The area in which you start living, the society there,
whatever reason you started living in that area, the impact
of that area's society will definitely have on you.
If you start living in an expensive area, you will not get
the society.
However, there is also a negative part of it.
If you go to a lower, medium class society, there is also
an impact of everything.
It means, the way you decide your career, the way you take
decisions, opt for your choice, your life is going to be
made in that way.
Your life is going to be made in the same way, the way you
choose and decide for yourself.
So, whatever decision you take about yourself, don't take
it in a hurry, take it with a clear mind, only then you can
bring your life on the right track.
There is an artist, he wants to make a painting.
He has a color, he wants to make a painting.
He has a paper, a canvas, a wall to make a painting.
But first, he has to make a choice in his mind, a decision
that what I am going to make here.
He has the things, the sources are available, but his
decision is going to give a shape to the painting.
What kind of painting he wants to make.
There is a sculptor who wants to make a statue.
He has brought a simple stone.
If he wants, he can make a statue of a dragon or a demon,
or he can make a statue of a deity, or he can make a statue
of God.
The stone is the same.
The stone is a raw material, there is nothing in it.
The one who decides, the one who makes his choice, what he
wants to make, how he wants to make it, this thing will
depend on him.
And when he decides, he can make it.
You choose in your career, you have decided that you want
to go in this field, if you talk about the education field,
you have decided that you want to become a primary teacher,
a middle teacher, a high school teacher, a college lecturer.
See, your efforts will also increase,
but first you have to decide what you want to become.
After that, if you want to become a trainer in any field,
you have thought, you have made a choice, now the efforts
also, what you have thought, you have decided, you have fit
it in your mind, and after fitting it in your mind, you
have started putting efforts on it, and gradually your
career, and not just your career, your life will continue
in the same way.
You want to become an engineer, but you have thought,
I will become an engineer,
I will do a job,
I will get a simple job,
I will set my life,
I have to live my life.
One thing is that you want to work in MNCs, you want to go
abroad, you want to become a scientist, many people say,
I am doing engineering, but what is their choice?
I have to get a degree, my father has a lot of money,
I have nothing to do.
So, what kind of decision or choice have you made?
It's up to you.
Things look one way, but on the basis of your personal
decision, you are going to get the final result.
So, compromise there. compromise and that would be better
for you.
So I would like to say that when you go to take your
decision, when you go to make a choice, then think before
you do it and it's a question of your life, your career,
your future.
So decide in a proper way, think you can do, try and do it.