Ok friends, today actually I am talking about the person
who is having the control on himself or herself can do
anything in this world.
It is said that the thing which challenges you, changes you.
The thing which challenges you, changes you.
But if you accept the challenge, understand its importance,
then you will go towards the change.
Otherwise, you can surrender to the challenge.
The situation which challenges, I know a candidate who had
a problem while reading English newspapers, had a word
power problem.
The person saw a challenge and accepted the challenge and
spent time, learned the whole dictionary of Oxford. Mr.
Jain is from his area.
I am talking about here in Faridabad, Delhi NCR.
Even now his institute is running on Delhi University
campus.
He is now a memory trainer.
The person who had a word power problem, that person
changed his problem into his power.
The challenge was word power.
Accepted the challenge.
Execution.
Execution cannot be done until you have control.
If you have control, then you will make a strategy.
It is not enough to make a strategy.
You will be able to execute it step by step, when you are
having the control.
When you have control, you can use the maximum of your mind.
Yes.
You can use the maximum of your mind.
And then, you can do that, for which you are made fun of.
Every task is small when you start it.
You don't want to do that small task, because the world
will laugh at you.
You feel ashamed.
But, until you don't take a single step, you cannot become
big.
Just by thinking, making a plan.
Remember, every big man was small one day.
He took a single step, moving forward, that's when he
became big.
Do you know Infosys?
Their son-in-law is the PM of Britain today.
The people who ruled over us for years, their PM is our man
today.
He started Infosys many times,
and the company shut down.
In anger, you can hit them, beat them, but again, he
started again after many times.
He started with the fund of his wife's PF.
Infosys is such a big brand company today.
With everyone, Dhirubhai Ambani, Ambani Group, used to fill
petrol, where did he start from?
Amitabh Bachchan, the great leader of the century, was
rejected in the starting movies.
There was a challenge, you can't be an actor.
This was the statement given, that you can't be an actor.
Your ears are so long, long hands, long legs, you look like
an actor.
You can't be an actor.
Can I tell you something?
Amitabh Bachchan's hairstyle, was not a hobby, it was a
compulsion.
To cover his big ears.
But to cover his ears, he converted his problem into power.
The hairstyle to cover his ears, had a decent look.
Looking at the pic, you can see that he is a hero.
He is a hero.
It is said that in those days, for Rajesh Khanna's haircut,
it used to cost 2.50 rupees.
And after Amitabh's Janjeer, when the era started, for
Amitabh's haircut, in front of the saloon, it used to cost
3.50 rupees, to get a haircut board.
Yes.
The thing that was negative, to cover his big ears, the
hairstyle.
When can this happen?
When you make a controlled way, a strategy.
You converted your problem, into power.
The thing, that challenges you, that changes you.
The thing, that challenges you,
that changes you.
What was the challenge?
A strange body.
Long hands, long legs.
You must have seen mostly Amitabh Bachan.
He used to wear a short jacket, and full arms.
Sometimes you will see in half shirt, in the rear, he is
hiding his long arms.
He hid his ears, his legs.
So, he covered his negativity, in a positive way.
And that hairstyle, is still popular.
And in today's time, in today's time, in Amitabh's time, no
actor is seen, in the rear.
And this guy, at the age of 80, in a movie, by challenging
today's actors, is taking the award of best actor.
And in advertisement, everywhere, Amitabh, Maza, Oil, Boro
Plus,
Boro Lean,
I don't know what all he sells.
Jewelries, Muthutlon, all the way.
Are these companies looking stupid?
Is their marketing hit mad?
They hire him, they sign him in the ad.
Yes.
There is something in him.
There is something.
That was then.
Even in the middle, even after becoming a superstar, he was
finished.
Everything was finished.
Amitabh Bachchan, came under 400 crores.
His bungalow was mortgaged.
Bungalow, whose bank had given notice, for auction.
At that time,
I will tell you,
I read an interview, with Amitabh, a numerologist.
He was asked to tell a solid experience of his life.
He mentioned Amitabh Bachchan.
When Amitabh was going through a bad phase, everything was
sold.
Bungalow was on auction.
It was about to be auctioned.
He called me.
I told him a few things.
Do you know,
I told him a few things.
After listening to him,
Amitabh Bachchan was shocked.
He said, Madam, a superstar of the century, this is the
situation.
There are so many problems.
And you, are giving this solution.
You are giving this solution.
This is the name of Amitabh Bachchan's bungalow,
Jalsa.
If you believe in numerology, you can understand this.
Otherwise, avoid it.
I am talking about control.
I am on my topic.
The numerologist said, you name your bungalow as Jalsa.
Amitabh Bachchan said, he was shocked. The control was over.
He said, Madam, I am so worried.
My bungalow is about to be auctioned.
I am under 400 crores.
And you say, I will change the name of the bungalow and you
will get the solution to my problem.
She said,
I did not answer anything.
I said, you do this. And within a week, if you get any
offer,
from anywhere, any level, do not say no. Before saying no,
do tell me once, yes or no, don't do anything.
Within a week, the offer he got was KBC.
Who will be the millionaire?
The offer came within 3 days. I called him, Nityash Sinha.
He was surprised that I gave him a week's time and within 3
days he got the call.
He was excited.
Did he do what I asked him to do?
Because he seemed to be very angry.
If he had remained angry, he wouldn't have done it.
But later, after he left, he controlled himself.
He is such an experienced numerologist. He is of national
and international level.
After listening to all the problems, if he is saying
something, then something will definitely happen.
We don't even have an option.
We had called him for a solution.
If he is giving a solution, then why not to take the action?
You can only think of this when you have control over
yourself.
And this is what he did.
She is saying, Nityash Sinha, that I went because I wanted
to see.
Did he really change the name of the bungalow?
Yes, yes, yes, he changed it.
Now you will say, I am not talking about numerology, I am
talking about control.
I took a decision in control.
And from here, the person has risen again.
You know, Amitabh, today's Amitabh, not the one before 2001.
The role of love, he went to the producer and asked for it.
Amitabh Bachchan himself told in the interview.
He asked for it.
He was not getting the role.
He says, once I was reading Sundar Kant.
There is a place where it is written that Narada was the
one who gave the curse to Narayana.
Because of which Rama incarnated.
And he had to take the help of monkeys.
He had to wander in the forest.
And this story is being narrated by Shankar ji to Parvati
ji.
This is Sundar Kant.
Shankar ji narrated this story to Parvati ji.
So Parvati ji laughs and says,
Was this Narada's stupidity that he kept taking the name of
his Lord,
whose name he kept saying Narayana, Narayana, so he gave
the curse to him?
So Shankar ji laughs and says,
Devi, in this world, there is no wise man, no fool.
This is Lord's play.
He presents him as he wants.
And people accept him in that form.
This is his play.
This is Maya.
The Amitabh Bachchan,
who had the producer-director's line,
but in the end this happened.
He was not getting the role.
As I told you,
he had asked for the role of Mohabbatein.
He went and asked for the role.
No one was asking.
This is the blow of time.
It can be with anybody.
But in that situation also,
the one who controls,
he is born again.
That Amitabh's era is over.
Now this French cut Amitabh Bachchan,
in which the child sees his grandfather,
our age group sees their uncle,
and their age group sees their brothers.
This is the image.
Everyone sees it.
Today their advertisement,
everyone sees it.
The child also says,
if grandfather has said so,
I will do this.
Amitabh Bachchan has said,
if my uncle has said so,
I will do this.
Their people say,
Amitabh Bachchan said this?
This is the image.
Where did it come from?
In the controlled way,
one decision was taken,
Jalsa.
Jalsa is number 9
in numerology.
It is the most stable number.
Because number 9,
counting is also stable.
9, 9 plus 2 is 18,
8 and 1 is 9,
9 plus 3 is 27,
7 plus 2 is 9,
9 plus 4 is 36,
6 plus 3 is 9,
9 plus 5 is 45,
4 plus 9,
9 plus 6 is 54,
5 plus 4 is 9,
9 plus 7 is 63, 9 plus 8 is 81,
8 plus 1 is 9,
9 plus 10 is 90,
9 plus 0 is 9.
Starting from 9,
it ends at 9.
This is the only number,
table of 9, 9.
Most stable number.
That numeralist gave this solution
with a lot of thought.
He accepted it.
That offer came.
He accepted it.
Otherwise he was not going to accept it.
He was not going to accept the offer.
He was going to say,
I have a lot of bad days,
I will do this.
Bad days are bad,
but this ego
doesn't let me accept it.
And,
he gave one instruction.
Sometimes when the situation becomes like this,
he says,
if you are sick,
you are going to the doctor,
then no matter how much
you are a minded scientist,
consider yourself a doctor.
He is a specialist in his field.
Yes.
He is a specialist in his field.
And there are things,
if you believe,
I am saying,
I got sick 2 months ago,
15-20 days ago.
We live in Delhi NCR.
Here the condition of pollution is that
some things,
cough in throat, cough,
all this has become common.
15-20 days,
my condition was like this.
Everyday I used to go to the doctor,
get medicines,
nothing happened.
The condition was that
it was difficult to sleep the whole night.
I was afraid of sleeping,
I used to cough so much.
I was worried,
what happened,
some problem should not increase.
Everyday I am taking medicines,
everything is happening,
doctor is checking me,
doctor is saying,
you know,
one of my old friend,
homeopathic doctor,
I called him,
he said,
take honey,
mix turmeric powder in it,
and lick.
I said, I am in such a bad condition,
maybe he can say,
when numerologist told me about Jalsa,
Amitabh Bachchan got angry,
that madam, I am ending badly,
I am drowning in debt,
everything is selling,
I told my friend,
I am so worried,
I am going to the doctor everyday,
nothing is happening,
you are saying,
take honey and turmeric,
he said, take it.
Friend,
we spoke face to face,
take it,
if it is not controlled,
I will tell you tomorrow.
And I am telling you honestly,
I am giving my practical example,
I took it,
when I was in bad condition,
I used to take it,
but that night,
I was able to sleep,
that night,
I was able to sleep,
because of the doctor's advice,
I was able to sleep,
next day,
I went to the doctor,
doctor,
I was able to sleep,
three days later,
what is the condition,
the doctor's friend told me,
yes, he is fine,
I said, if you are fine,
why didn't you tell me earlier,
I don't want to comment on the doctors,
I am just saying,
he is the doctor,
so you should trust him,
and these things happen when
you are controlled,
you cannot do everything yourself,
you have to leave some things
on the other person, you have to leave your team,
and sometimes,
your team works
on the other side,
you fire them,
who will do the next work,
make them understand,
they will improve,
when will you be able to do this,
when you can control yourself,
controlling yourself,
all the way,
it is going to give really a solution
for each and everything,
because you are you,
you improve yourself,
you update yourself,
when will you think about updating yourself,
when you will introspect,
When will you respect, when you will be in a controlled way?
Otherwise, your life will run away, what is happening, I am
worried.
What is the solution to this?
Just think about it.
When will you think?
When you will be in a controlled way.
One action, one thing that was said, they listened to
Amitabh Bachchan, and a new Amitabh Bachchan came out, who
even today, the date I am talking about, today is a world
famous actor.
I don't know where the people of his time are.
Maybe you don't know.
But Amitabh Bachchan still knows Bachchan.
Yes.
Maybe they listened to that one thing.
Execution.
Lever.
You will say, all these things, but lever?
There is no answer for lever.
Lever never goes in vain.
There is no answer for hard work.
But you can work hard only when you take decisions in a
controlled way.
In a controlled way.
Decision.
Today, this is the situation of KBC,
which they could not have done, and they should not have
done, if there was no neurologist in between.
Today, they accepted.
And today, when we say KBC, we say Amitabh, and when we say
Amitabh, we say KBC.
They have become synonyms for each other.
Then they started with a small amount.
Today they say,
Amitabh Bachchan charges Rs. 5 crores for one episode of
KBC.
Yes.
And now, because of them, every star of the big screen has
started coming on the small screen.
Everyone has started coming.
It is a new story, isn't it?
Whatever challenges you, that is what changes you.
And this applies everywhere.
It was a challenge.
It was a life challenge.
Amitabh Bachchan is ending.
There, a new action was taken.
And the changing started from there.
And a new Amitabh Bachchan was born.
Not the old angry young man.
A cool guy, with a French beard.
It is said, a cool guy.
Decent.
A solved candidate.
The one who is kept in front of the peak, and people think
that, yes, I have to take a decision.
So, from the peak of Amitabh Bachchan, yes, yes.
Relax.
Now you can take.
Yes, an image has been created.
So, if you want to be successful, in any field, either you
are a student, school, college, official candidates, or
whatever you are, whether you are a homemaker, or you want
a personal life solution, or official, or social,
learn to control yourself.
Control yourself.
By controlling yourself, you can improve your power.
You can make yourself more powerful.
And if you lose control,
you will burn your power.
Because anger finishes you.
Anger burns itself.
So, start controlling yourself.
If you are going to take the control over you,
you can control the world.
If you are having the control over yourself, you can
control this world.
Yes, you can do it.
If you look for examples, you will find a lot.
I have told you, there is not much, apart from this, you
will find a lot.
But, you are in need to do this.
So, take the step on you.
All the things, the communication we are doing, words,
sentences,
making, but present it in a cool way.
All the way, everywhere.
Presentation doesn't mean, only on the stage.
Small talks, with the boss, at the gate, with the guard.
Control yourself with love.
Tell me, what goes into giving a smile?
Hasan doesn't need money.
Does Hasan need money?
No, right?
Does Hasan need money?
Give a smile.
It will become a day.
Listen to me.
Okay? So, from tomorrow onwards, if you think that,
controlling on yourself, can change you.
Yes.
This is the reality.
But, you have to think.
Because, you have to take the decision for yourself.
Because, if you are having the control on yourself, you can
control this world.
And, starting from your school, from your classmates, from
your family members, control doesn't mean, dominating.
If you speak with love, the world will follow you.
If you give biscuits with love, the dogs will follow you.
Similarly, if you speak with love to your family members,
friends, everyone, I am not comparing it with dogs.
They are also living beings.
Children, children are hungry for love.
If you deal with them with love, they will start playing
with you.
Everyone is like this.
But, you will be able to deal with all this with love, when
you are in a relaxed mood.
You will be yourself.
Because, in control, a person is not able to be himself.
He is out of himself.
He becomes something else.
Maybe, he says what he doesn't want to say.
And, when he says what he doesn't want to say, then, how
will he get the solution to his problem?
When he says what he wants, then, he will get the solution.
And, when he is in control, then, it is possible.
So, control yourself.
And, just go and control the world for you.
Best of luck.