ok friends so today actually I'm talking about the perfect
communication skill how can you develop you can make a
sentence from word sentences you can make a paragraph but
to present that paragraph in a successful way it is very
important for us to take care of these things
if you can speak English and wherever you speak it doesn't
matter the situation, the question you have to answer that
if someone doesn't know about that you can say anything
like there was a boy in the village who used to speak
English a lot everyone used to say he is English, English,
English because no one knew English there
one day by luck an English person came to that village so
people said that our English has come to the village and he
is the English of our village let's introduce him, let's
introduce him let's talk to him ask him in English what's
your name? the boy started to the master, to the principal,
government, high school, this that and then respected sir,
I beg to state that I am suffering from fever and then that
means he told the whole application
the Englishman got angry, I asked him what's your name?
I was telling the application, he slapped me in anger and
left where is the mango?
I am talking about then the people again people still don't
know what the situation is because they don't know English
still what are they saying? villagers he spoke so much
English you spoke so much English and you spoke a lot still
he slapped you why is that? he knows that these people are
stupid they don't know these things but how can you make
that village stupid? not outside what is the boy saying to
the villagers? that he slapped you because you know such
good English what are you doing
you should be in our England
see, what am I talking about? the question was so simple
his answer should have been the same so what? he asked
something else he spoke something else it doesn't mean
anything it means against me he slapped me he should have
given a simple answer that what is your name? ok, that was
good
so what? when? now whom to speak? whom to speak?
whom to speak? whom to talk?
in whom to talk
you will say to anyone no
you should know that whatever you want to talk
if you want to get the result if you want to get the result
if you want to get the result
then whom to talk to to get the result
you have some agenda that's why you want to talk
if you want to talk at home then I will talk to my sister
then it will be done or I will have to talk to my mom or I
will have to talk to my dad we know this whom to talk to we
don't talk to everyone so whatever it is whom should I talk
to that you must know you should know this
if you are a legal advisor if you want to take some advice
then whom will you take? from a doctor?
if you are having some health problem then will you go and
take advice from a lawyer? yes
I am talking about that whom to talk to whom and then again
your what and when will be connected it's not like if you
come to one topic then you are left behind you have to
present properly so before whom to talk what do you have to
talk to them? what to talk and then right time if you talk
to a doctor or lawyer then you will have to take an
appointment so when will you talk to them? what do you want
to talk? will you prepare? when do you want to talk? will
you take time for this? and then you
keep your talk
right person if we have any problem here if there is any
health issue then everyone is an advisor everybody is just
going to advise you why don't you take anything? you take
this, you take that and by listening to them you take
action and the normal fever gradually moves to typhoid
now very first time why don't you talk to the right person?
why not you are talking to the right person? so again whom
to talk you have to decide what means contents when means
the right time and whom means the right person you have to
choose
otherwise you will say if you don't take the right decision
whom to talk to? you don't get the right advice at the
right time second person took the right advice and he moved
ahead why are you still standing there? if you go to ask
someone the way whom to talk to? let's see whether he can
tell the way or not let's do it
by doing this assessment and one person asked he got the
answer and he is now on his way and you are not assessing
you are asking everyone you asked 6 people wasted time till
then he moved 6 km ahead
I am not talking about the way
I am talking about life when there is confusion consult the
right candidate clear the confusion and move ahead in life
I am talking about the life
I am just not a soft skill trainer, I am a motivator
I am a life coach
I am talking about the life in life there are some gender
confusion in that you should know whom to talk to and
without wasting time discuss with that candidate and then
move ahead so what I mean is what you have to talk about
you have to keep it clear when you have to talk it is
important to clear the time and now whom to talk to whom
you have to discuss this agenda this concept should be
absolutely clear who will you discuss finance with? with an
engineer? or with a CSA? you will do it with a
right?
I am talking about this thing
once you feel that
I will do it here and there then it will work and it may
not work you will get stuck in it so don't do it do the
right thing so whom to talk is clear with whom you have to
talk whenever you want to get some work done in office
there is some confusion some things are going on things are
going on in corporate world diplomatic things are going on
so you should know whom to discuss you should know whom you
are going to discuss that is a part of the negative
strategy made against you you have to
to that person this must have happened to many of you
and whom you have to talk is not important the problem of
your mind is not told to everyone
because most of the candidates make fun of you they don't
give a solution so the solution you have to find out that
person and then only talk so whom to talk is clear and then
I am talking about how to speak how to speak
I am talking about
I think it is clear no confusion no confusion what you have
to say you have to clear that agenda and according to
situation you will not talk about one situation in another
place what is going to change according to situation Then,
when to speak?
Selecting the right time
If you are talking about a serious topic while walking
around, it is foolishness
So, when to speak is very important
What to talk and when to talk
Then, which problem I can discuss with whom?
And then, how much?
You have chosen the content, time and person
Then, how to keep the conversation going?
And then, how much to keep the conversation going?
Making the balance
I will discuss these two points in the further video
How to speak and how much to speak
These three points you will be getting ready
The introduction
Earlier, I told you
The daily use, words, abbreviations,
Tenses for sentence formation
Modals, linkers, prepositions are all required
Right word and right phrase
I was talking about general spoken
In which you only know how to speak
You can learn how to speak
But you still don't know what to say
I taught food to the child
But I also taught him what to eat
What is good for you
Every food is not for everyone
What? And when?
What is the process?
Like we eat
Doctors mostly say that you should not drink water while
eating
Drink water half an hour before eating
Eat salad before eating
And what do we do mostly?
Salad, water and then all eatables
We eat together
Doctors repeatedly say
That you should not mix these things
Now we are talking about the method
How? How to eat?
I told you to drink water half an hour before eating
Half hour and 45 minutes
Earlier you were going to drink water
Lukewarm water
Drink while sitting
Drink sip by sip
Don't drink all together
How much percent do we follow?
I am talking about myself
Before eating
Eat as much salad as you can
One or two rotis will do
You just go for salad before eating
Just one or two chapatis will be enough
But we eat 10 chapatis
Along with mixed salad and water
And these all things are going to create problems in our
digestion
Gas, acid problem
Belly This is the problem we are having
Gift is in everything
So You know what to eat
When to eat
How to eat
Yes This thing
Just like this
What to say
When to say
With whom
What to say
But how to do
What to say first
And how much to say
How much to eat
Some people don't have common sense
They eat extra
Problem is created
So Just Words, sentences
Idioms, phrases
Grammatical rules
These all things are not enough
For being a perfect communicator
Perfect speaker
These things are required
The balance among these things
And then the practice
Over these things
Can make you perfect communicator
Or perfect speaker
In your language
And these things are just not for English only
You can use in your own language
Any language it can be
Just Convert The language one to another
This is about communication skill
Language doesn't matter
English is important because this is
A common language in the world
This is an international language
In most of the countries
It is going to be spoken
In most of the countries
You can present your point
You can understand the other person
That's why
But communication skill
Has nothing to do with English
Skill Is better
In any language
It is required to present yourself
So I think you must have liked today's topic
I have made many videos on this
Now we will talk about the next
Be a little cool
Present the things
Don't be excited
What's the hurry?
If you are in a hurry, take time later
I will talk comfortably
Until I don't talk
I will talk
The result will be in my favor
This is the hope
But if you do it in a hurry
Then that hope is over
That now I will talk
Now the talk is over
Now the talk is mostly in the situation
You finish it in a hurry
And then you keep blaming the other person
And you keep cursing yourself
No need to do all these things
What to talk?
Wait for the right time
What is ready?
Then wait for the right time
Wait for the right person
And then present
How and how much I will talk in the next video
Till then goodbye