Hello friends, good afternoon to all of you.
This is Vineet Gautam, your trainer, your coach and today,
today actually I am having something new, something
different in my mind to talk to you.
Something special.
Do you want to be happy in your life?
Do you want to be happy?
Do you want to be happy in your life?
Now this question arises when you want to be happy when you
are not in the present.
Happy.
Question is, do you want to be happy?
Do you want to be happy? This question arises when you are
not happy in the present.
See, it is not that you are not happy totally.
But everybody is having some problem also.
Everybody has some problem.
So you just check out your things.
If you are not happy, what is that thing which irritates
you in between?
Because of which problem arises.
There must be some habits by which you can be happy.
I will give you one word.
Gratitude.
It can be a very small thing for you.
But it is very useful thing.
It is very useful thing to be happy.
You will also be happy.
The other person will also be happy.
And you think, if everybody does this.
Like you did gratitude.
Somebody helped you.
You said thank you.
You hugged and said thank you.
Just said thank you in a wide group.
Thank you is just not a word.
Make it live with your energy.
Yes, yes, yes.
Make it live.
Take the energy like this.
As I did.
Get the energy like this.
And then present yourself with a gratitude.
When you are saying thank you.
You hug a little.
And then say thank you.
Do second.
Its impression, its impact increases a lot.
In small things.
And you see.
The other person is happy.
If everybody starts thinking like you.
Then the gratitude that you have given to others.
Believe me.
It will come to you by someone or the other.
Somebody will also give you gratitude.
You will also be happy.
In this way this circle will go on.
And one thing you passed.
Moving, moving, moving.
Making others happy, making others happy.
And you said.
On a small thing.
Thank you so much you did this.
And whenever someone does this to you.
You pass on like this.
You give him gratitude.
Now believe me.
I will give you an example.
In a government department.
My work was stuck for four months.
I went to do it.
They said.
There are four or five members.
Everyone's paperwork was there.
I became mine.
In the rest of the family.
I said I will have to bring one by one.
Now my family members are somewhere, somewhere.
How will the work be?
That's the problem.
Madam went to me.
Wife.
She said it won't happen here.
You go to another office.
It happens.
Mostly it happens.
Then I went again to ask.
So on the counter.
A young candidate.
The boy was sitting.
He also spoke well.
Dealt in a good way.
I asked the question.
Sir, you give me the paper.
I will check and tell you.
But the talks.
There are two lines of talks.
They give a smile.
His importance.
It becomes different.
I also liked talking to him in real.
I also asked his name.
I also said thank you.
He said why?
I didn't do anything.
The way you talked.
When a call comes.
Customer care call comes.
After talking.
They say.
Give a star.
What you feel by talking.
Give a star for that.
1,2,3,4,5.
I said.
If there was a star system.
Then I would have given you 5 stars.
For the way you talked.
Yes.
He was very happy.
He said.
It's not like that.
It's my job.
You are doing your job better.
That's more important.
It's a job.
But you are doing in a better way.
You are dealing in a better way.
Everyone does a job.
Like a job.
One is to finish.
Someone is completing.
Someone is performing like you.
So.
Gratitude is necessary for that.
He was so much happy.
I said.
I am saying star.
Because you heard.
I said.
But your seniors.
They should know.
The people working in my team.
Who is doing how.
How is the public dealing.
Who is getting 2 stars, 3 stars, 4 stars, 5 stars.
According to this.
They will grade.
And you can't imagine.
Next time when I went.
So.
Even then.
I said once.
Name.
Sir, you came yesterday.
I said yes.
You asked me to check the paper.
I said yes.
It will be done.
I said okay.
I said it will be done.
I told you earlier.
When my wife went.
She was told it won't be done here.
But he is saying.
It will be done here.
I was told.
That all the family members.
Will have to come here one by one.
Then it will be done.
But now he is saying.
No sir.
No need to come.
And no need to go to the head office.
The work will be done here.
And sir why are you standing outside.
You come inside the cabin.
And sit on the chair next to you.
And.
Within 15 minutes.
The work was done.
Which for the last 4 months.
Was not able to be done.
Within 15 minutes.
The work was done.
And he was so much happy.
That sir I did your work.
He said so many things.
Sir how can this system.
How can we take benefit.
How can we use it.
Government schemes.
He said so many things.
And even you sir.
It was so nice to meet you.
Please come again.
You tell me.
What did I do?
You cannot deny its importance.
And how much.
Important it is.
Do you want to be happy.
Or do you want.
To be successful.
With happiness.
I am successful.
In both the conditions.
You see.
I was not happy.
I was successful.
I got my work done.
Which was not able to be done for 4 months.
According to the system.
According to the law.
I could not do anything.
But one gratitude.
Changed the whole system.
And the person.
With so much love.
Worked so hard.
So.
This is the personal experience.
I shared with you.
And I am damn sure about this thing.
That whatever the thing you are doing.
You want to get success.
You want to be happy.
Being happy is also a success.
And those who are happy.
Become successful very soon.
Everyone likes a smiling face.
Everyone wants to be your friend.
If you keep a sad face.
Everyone will go away.
Everyone runs away.
If you have a smiling face.
Cheerful personality.
When someone is in tension.
If he wants to meet you, let him talk to him, he will get
rid of your tension.
See, you have become so useful for people for free, if you
are cheerful.
If you are cheerful, you can say, how can I be cheerful?
Just take one word, gratitude, it will make you happy.
And along with being happy, it will make you successful.
Be sure, this is very very crucial and important thing you
can do.
At any level, auto driver, rickshaw driver, fruit seller,
vegetable seller.
If you show gratitude once, you will become a waiter in a
hotel.
If you show gratitude once, next time when you go, you will
see that his behavior has changed.
You will become different from others.
If you go to a company, you can ask the guard at the gate
about his behavior.
You will see the difference.
Because not everyone does this.
That guard will be waiting for you.
He will be waiting for you.
You have become different in 100.
99 out of 100 people come and salute you and leave.
If someone asks, Ram Singh, how are you? Are the kids fine?
Just do this much.
You are fine.
Team is formed here.
Happiness starts from here.
He feels, someone is going to ask about his pain.
Someone is going to ask about his condition.
What happened to you?
I say it like this.
It is a matter of smile.
It is a matter of laughing.
There is no money involved in laughing.
There is.
I say it like this.
Gratitude.
To ask someone, how are you?
How are you?
To say thanks.
There is nothing involved in this.
But things are very crucial.
It is more crucial than ornaments.
It is important.
It is precious.
These are the things you can use in your life.
For being happy.
And for making others happy.
And whoever is going to become happy.
Will be successful also.
Will be.
And everybody can do this.
Then why not you?
You can do.
Start doing from today.
Everybody knows this.
But they don't do.
Start doing.
That will be better.