Ok friends, so this is Vineet Gautam and here we are to
learn to improve your writing and communication skill in
English.
Because English is an international language, it's an easy
language, it's a most common language, most popular
language in the world and that's why we are in need to
improve this.
Learning this one language can solve many of your problems,
personally, socially, officially, all the way.
The biggest thing is, if I talk about India, he is a
well-educated person, he is not able to communicate
properly in English, so people say, he is just like that,
he is just like that, nothing special.
He is a 10th pass candidate, but better communication skill
in English, people say, oh smart, smart candidate.
We have made a mindset like this, whether you have a
mindset or not, but if you are having this efficiency, it
will help you in your improvement, if you use it in the
right place.
So, better communication skill can get you a job, what you
do in the other field, you don't do, develop your
communication skills for 6 months and whether you are 10th
or 12th, it doesn't matter, you will get jobs in domestic
call centers, international call centers.
People come here with a degree, engineering degree, how
much did they get? 4 years, how much do you get a job?
10,000.
And you take 6 months, I say, just 6 months course, you
take and if you work hard, even if it is average, 10 to 15
in domestic and if you work hard, you can take 20 to 25
starting.
And this is the importance of your communication skill in
English, I am talking about.
If you are not able to do that much, you can do it in
Hindi, by mixing Hindi and English, but you have got the
presentation, you have developed convincing power, so it is
going to help at the domestic level at least.
But why should we keep our target small? Why don't you keep
it there?
Why do you want to start at 12 or 15? Why not on 25?
But if you have taken a degree of 4 years, B.Tech, but
there is a problem in communication, you will get a job of
8 to 10,000 or 15,000.
If you don't have knowledge there, mostly if you don't have
knowledge, then there is a problem.
I am not talking about IIT level, but there are many
engineering colleges doing it, and children mostly take
only degrees.
So, if there is knowledge there, command, communication,
then why 8 to 10,000?
You can also take 8 to 10 lakhs, that's up to you.
So, here I am talking about the importance of this thing.
I talked about the daily uses, gossips, and then debate.
You will have to put in some effort.
You can improve step by step.
Then I said that we will do group discussions.
Now I am telling you a simple process, that what kind of
steps you can follow and move.
Here, in jiddish, debate, and gossip, people mostly don't
understand the difference.
I have made it variable.
Yes, there are differences.
You take jiddish.
What is jiddish exactly?
You speak very well.
So, there is a quality of communication for you.
Extraction is that thing.
So, you speak very well.
So, you understand it like this.
Jiddish debate is at the starting level.
You don't have to go inside that much.
Jiddish is that thing.
For example, your candidates are giving competitive exams.
They are giving CAT exam.
In that, there is jiddish group discussion.
Jiddish is exactly for judging the leadership quality.
Not your communication.
What is leadership quality?
When there is right presentation with concept and
confidence in your communication, then you become
successful in convincing the other person.
And those candidates agree with you.
They become your followers.
And that quality is going to be assessed with the help of
jiddish.
It is not just spoken.
Communication.
I am talking about any language.
You should have language, speech, confidence, concept.
Your concept should be there.
Your thought.
And that thought should be presented with body language and
dress sense.
I was telling you in the presentation.
Then that thing happens.
You can develop a topic circle here if you want.
Any topic.
You have decided that we are 4, 5, 10 friends.
We will sit for 15 minutes.
You take the topic from the beginning.
And you are improving yourself.
You said two words.
Just two new words I am going to use.
Don't do more.
Just two new.
New.
And remember with new.
If you have learnt 60 new in the last 30 days.
Then don't forget to revise them.
You train daily and forget the previous one.
Then there is no use.
Two new.
But revise the previous ones.
Then in 90 days you will have 180 words.
And if you use 180 words multiple times.
Then it will be equal to 400, 500, 600 words.
Maybe it will be equal to 1000.
Then you will be comfortable.
Everyone will give you those words.
Nothing to worry.
They are going to give you a lot from here.
We haven't come to the real content yet.
Let it come in its form.
But take all these basic things first.
You should be mentally prepared to adapt.
That when the ball is thrown from here.
You can play it.
Now you are being made to practice.
These are basic level things.
Start them.
And you will get the difference.
Do group discussions.
You can pick up points.
And you can speak like this.
Don't say all things together.
Again I am saying.
Things are the same.
What is the difference between debate and group discussion?
There is a topic in debate.
But you can say anything.
It is free.
Whatever is right.
I am talking about English.
In Judges.
You are judged by language point of view.
Your concept is confusing.
You are speaking away from the topic.
Then you will get negative markings.
But this is your initial stage.
You should do it.
Say anything.
Because now we are improving communication.
So you can say anything.
You can move forward.
Next is.
Your presentation.
I was telling you.
What is Judges?
If you add these two.
Judges for judging the.
Judging the.
Leadership.
Quality.
Judging the leadership quality.
We take it from group discussion.
What happens in it?
Presentation is a common word.
I told you in the last video.
About the importance of presentation.
And techniques to develop skills.
Presentation doesn't mean.
When you speak on stage.
That is called presentation.
No.
Wherever you are.
Presenting yourself.
That is called presentation.
You speak in group discussion.
I said.
Leadership quality is assessed.
What do you do for that?
You present your words.
With proper language and speech.
With example.
The concept is clear.
It is not confusing.
And you present it.
Confidently.
With confidence.
Then your concept will be clear.
For that you give a proper example.
You also give an argument.
For that you need knowledge.
You have the knowledge.
You have the logic.
You have the right presentation.
You have the language.
You are using proper words and sentences.
You have the expression eye contact.
You have the body language.
If you have all these things.
Then the other person will listen to you.
And will listen to you.
And will listen to you means.
Of course.
They are going to become the fan of you.
Fan means follower.
Means.
The people who follow the leaders.
The people who follow them.
They feel.
Followers.
This is not a negative word.
That you have become a follower.
You.
The people who listen to you.
They feel.
There is something in this person.
Which is not in me.
I can learn from this.
I can improve myself from this.
That's why.
Attraction is formed.
When the candidate feels.
There is something in this person.
This is something that is not in me and I need that thing.
Sometimes it happens that what is in it is not in me but
what do I care?
I don't need that.
So when the candidate feels that what is in it is not in me
and I am in need of that thing,
I want to improve myself then he will follow you.
And then you are going to become a leader.
Concept with confidence, argumentative ability, logical
reasoning, logical reasoning is knowledge and logically
proving it, example supportive, giving some points in
support of your opinion, presenting in the right way,
introducing the topic, telling about its past, presenting
the advantages and disadvantages and then concluding.
This is the way to talk about any topic.
Then your body language, your words, your sentence, your
expression should be supported.
Keep eye contact with the public with whom you are talking.
When you use all these things together, then your
presentation will go in front of the audience or viewers.
And then they will be able to assess you in a proper way
that exactly you are a person whom they were looking for,
to whom they were looking for.
The one whom they were looking for is the same person.
Because in today's time when there is confusion, there is a
need for guidance in competition.
What should I do, how should I do, what should I not do.
People are becoming motivators, life coaches.
What is motivation?
There is a lot of tension in life, sometimes people become
very negative.
It feels like my life has no meaning.
I am out of the race.
Motivation is a target, a dream, and the candidate starts
living with it.
It gives positivity.
It feels like you have told them that you have this thing,
you have natural potential, you should polish it, you
should nourish it, how to do it, I will tell you.
The person in front of you feels that yes, I also have
something, I can also do something.
And that comes in a positive way, a positive frame of mind
comes.
You get all these tricks, ideas, it develops, moves forward.
What does a motivator do?
He gives you a right track, you move towards it, which you
may not know yourself.
Life coach is different parts of the life, personal level,
official level, what should I do, how should I not do.
Today, there is a post of Corporate Advisor on Corporate
level.
In which people of higher level have a clash of egos, and
then they don't talk to each other because of communication
gap.
Because of this communication gap, there is a problem in
family life, there is a problem in official life, and they
are improved by counselling.
Because they are not talking to each other, the problem is
getting worse.
So, the one who mediates in between is the counsellor.
So, at that level also, these things are required in
today's date and are happening.
So, you pick any topic for group discussions, whatever it
is, you speak on it, you have to present yourself on it.
I have already told you the point of presentation, how to
speak.
Presentation is not like this.
When you are chatting among five friends, you are
presenting yourself there also.
And you have leadership quality.
You must have seen that one speaks and four listens.
They feel that he has something which we can learn from him.
Even if he doesn't want to, because there is competition
among friends,
I am not less than you.
But, if he has more knowledge, he listens.
He listens helplessly.
And let me also tell you, that in reality, you have logical
knowledge, logical reasoning.
So, a friend may not ask in front of everyone, but when
everyone leaves, then if he has any problem, he will share
it with you separately.
But, you have to develop this trust first.
He should believe that he is a trustworthy candidate and he
has the answer to my question.
It is possible.
When I am in class, looking at the faces of students,
I can tell what is going on in their mind.
Is he here or somewhere else?
Everyone assesses a little.
You keep asking again and again.
And the candidate feels, something personal also. Because
he is our motivator.
He is our life coach.
So, people share their personal things.
Those who don't share it with anyone, share it with
themselves.
Let me tell you a practical.
We had a final year candidate girl.
But, she was very quiet.
I asked her, what is the problem? She said, there is
something.
But, not publicly.
On weekends, I take a PIS section,
I asked her, what is the problem? She started weeping.
I asked her, what happened?
She said, there is something.
I said, drink water, relax and tell me.
You will hear about the problems in college level. Not only
in college, in personal level, office level.
What was the problem?
Because she was a very decent girl.
People trusted her.
She was a college lecturer.
Even her friends' parents used to ask her.
Her friends' parents used to ask her about their children.
Are they going to college?
Are they attending lectures?
They used to ask her.
Even lecturers used to ask her why she didn't come today?
Where did she go?
How did she go?
Her friends circle knew this.
Lecturers used to ask her.
Parents used to ask her.
Friends circle used to tell her not to tell anything.
Now they are going to cross-bunk and go out.
Lecturers are asking her.
Parents are asking her.
Now if she tells them, they are threatening her.
If she doesn't tell them, their trust is going.
I swear to God, it happens so many times.
Her friends used to come to her house and threaten her in
front of her parents.
Even her parents couldn't support her.
Whom should I ask for help?
I am always scared.
I am scared before going to college.
I don't want to study.
It's someone else's problem.
People don't understand.
In such situations, candidates commit suicide.
People don't know that she committed suicide because of
them.
Parents, I said, just do one thing.
Go to the college and tell all the lecturers in the staff
room that it is your responsibility to get information
about the children.
You take the salary.
I don't take it.
It's not my responsibility.
You gather the information yourself and please, don't ask
me anything further.
And the same thing, tell your friends that the information
about your children is yours.
You are the parent.
You know where your children are and where they are not.
Don't ask me anything further.
And tell your friends to go to hell.
Go to hell. Do whatever you want.
I don't care.
But from now on, don't talk to me in a loud voice.
And don't make the mistake of coming home.
Give a clear message.
Loud and clear.
Next to next day, when she came to class, she was looking
very generous.
She looked very happy.
Do you know?
It is said in psychology that the more tightly the hair is
tied, the more the gents are sticking and the confidence
level is down.
Yes.
The next day she came, what a hairstyle!
Open hair, shampooed hair.
Confident she was looking.
She was laughing on her own.
As if she wanted to say something from inside.
What happened? You look very happy.
Sir, whatever you said,
I did it. Everyone kept watching.
Everyone is shocked.
We told her to maintain her confidence.
Carry on.
The problem that she couldn't solve in years, she says,
this problem has been with me since school.
And I have been troubled for the past 6-7 years.
It feels like she has dark circles under her eyes.
Tension.
But she was absolutely free now looking.
So things are such that how do you take it?
How do you take surroundings?
Present yourself.
She wasn't able to present herself.
She wasn't able to say what was in her heart.
Presentation means the view that you have, the opinion that
you have, say it where it is required.
Here you see on the road, it happens at home.
We do the propaganda of Swachh India, but at home, what do
we do?
The same work.
Outside, eating betel leaf, smoking cigarettes, you must
have seen the speech on stage, human protection, helping,
and at home, helping hand, when you come home for cleaning,
with that, so much torture.
You must have heard a lot of news.
So all these things are to be naturally developed.
The talk of showing is different.
The talk of doing is different.
So all these things, presentation, it is said that doing
wrong is a sin, tolerating wrong is also a sin, but to
present it, you need internal power, you need confidence.
That thing is required, it is necessary.
Only then you will be able to do it.
Until you don't speak, you don't have time for the public.
Either you are not ready to listen even after speaking, so
you must be ready to keep your talk.
It is said that even a child doesn't cry until his mother
gives him milk.
You will have to snatch your right.
No one will give like that.
For that, you will have to keep your talk, you will have to
keep it confidently.
Wherever you are, what do you think in the office?
You get increment and promotion for free.
If you keep working, you will get it.
Don't apply the Gita's teaching here.
Don't worry about the result, it is for spiritual life.
Don't worry about the result, leave it.
This is physical life.
In this physical life, you have to work, you have to do
your duty, but you also have to fight for your rights.
What do you think?
If you work for a whole month and don't get salary from
office, don't bring him here.
We keep getting confused.
You have to do your duty.
I am telling him to do his duty.
But don't forget to get your right also.
You also keep your talk about your rights.
Otherwise, people sitting here will make you do the duty
and take away your right.
You will have to fight.
I am not saying that this is a jungle.
But humans, as they say, humans are social animals.
We call them animals.
In English, we call them animals.
Man is a social animal.
Animals have to fight for their rights.
I am not saying that they are animals.
But this is the fact.
They have to fight.
They have to speak for their rights.
Language can be anything.
But here we are talking about English.
Because that is the most popular language in the world.