Hello everybody, good evening to all of you. This is Vineet
Gautam and your trainer, your coach.
And today actually I am going to take a very unique topic.
Before also I have already talked about this thing but
little bit more I was interested to talk.
Because I have talked a lot on other topics like
presentation, group discussion, interview techniques.
The one topic on which I have talked little less and that
is your group discussion.
The one topic on which I have talked little less and that
is your group discussion.
Which we call GD.
So exactly what is group discussion or GD?
When you present yourself in group on any topic, so that is
your group discussion.
When discussion is done in group on any topic, everyone
gives their own opinion.
This is mainly for judging your leadership quality.
What is your leadership quality?
At what percentage you can deal with public as a leader?
And how will you deal as a leader?
Your talks should be logical, should be familiar with
public also.
On which you can convince people.
And for that it is important that your presentation should
be correct.
The right word, the right sentence, limited to the point,
right presentation, eye contact, body language.
All these things are important.
Right words, right sentence, nice presentation, body
language, positive, eye contact, eye contact, to everybody.
So you have seen, it is very important to select right
words.
What you are going to say on the topic, understand the
topic and select the right word.
Right sentence, right presentation, present it correctly.
Limited words, sentences can be, but it should be to the
point.
Group discussion is not the stage for communicating
yourself.
If you are thinking that you are going to speak a lot,
Limited words and sentences can be,
Limited words and sentences can be, but it should be to the
point.
It should be on the topic.
It should be focused.
If your focus is not on the topic, listen carefully, note
this point.
If your focus is not on the topic, and you are talking a
lot here and there, means you are not to the point, then at
the place of positive marks you will get negative marks.
Right words, right sentences, nice presentations, body
language is positive, eye contact is correct.
So you can impress people.
They can be attracted towards you.
They will follow you through body language.
So to judge this quality, this judice is going to be
conducted.
Why group discussion is happening?
It is not the stage for your speech.
You are giving a speech on the stage.
Whatever is there, you are speaking.
You know English very well.
In whichever language you are going to talk, you are
perfect, proficient in that language.
And you are proving your efficiency there.
That stage is not for this.
So what is it for?
That stage is, you have to prove your leadership quality.
Right words, right sentences, right presentations, public,
the candidates who are sitting in the group, you have to
impress them, so that they agree with you.
If a leader gives a speech on the stage, then there is
logic in his words.
If it is being presented correctly, then the public follows
it.
So you are in need to understand the leadership quality.
What is exactly required to be a leader?
In interview, there is an assessment of your presence of
mind.
Whatever you have written in your resume, even after that
question is asked to you there, just to see how you present
yourself.
Presence of mind is being seen there.
How quickly and how you respond.
Similarly, in group discussion, in group discussion, one
person starts, and he is saying, there are 20 candidates,
round the table, everybody is sitting, there is only 20
minutes time, every candidate can get one minute, but the
one who picks up the topic, he tries to speak maximum.
Now the question is, he is not going to offer you, that now
it is your turn, you speak.
So how can you take your turn?
If you sit there quietly, and wait for your turn, then it
is not your turn.
And if you do not say anything, then you are already out.
So you have to take a turn.
You cannot threaten anyone, even with your eyes.
Shut up, I will speak now.
You cannot even point your fingers.
Cameras are set up, everything is being assessed.
So, if you don't do anything like this, what will you do to
get your turn?
There is one positive part in this, see, manage all these
things properly, use right words, right sentence, give a
nice presentation, in a docile way, don't try to dominate
with your body language, try to dominate with your words
and sentence logic, why did I write body language, stay
positive, don't do this to anyone, it is a positive body
language, open your body language so that your presentation
can become live, you know the importance of body language
while you are presenting yourself, eye
if you turn your eyes in group and look at everyone, then
at least you will know who is doing what, how is he
responding, what kind of reaction is he getting, if you
feel that someone is getting impressed, then make a little
pressure and grab him and bring him in your arms, ok, at
least one person came in your part, but meanwhile, keep
your frequency, because I was saying that if someone else
has started and you want to take your turn, then how will
you take it? So, when you breathe in between
speaking, you are walking like this, breathe like this, as
soon as you take a pause, the other person, oh yes, yes, I
agree with you, whatever you are saying, but I want to add
something, and from here it starts, you say, no, no, no,
no, I want to speak more, you can't do, no one is going to
listen to you.
So, you will also use this technique to appreciate someone
and enter, so you have to be absolutely alert, you will
also adopt this trick, but you will also be alert that
whenever he was speaking, so you are not going to give this
chance.
So, you can use this method.
The second thing is that sometimes, because the topic is
unknown, sometimes when the topic is found, because when
you are given a round table, then at that time only you are
given an immediate topic, sometimes the topic is found
about which you have not heard anything
about, absolutely unknown, now you are frustrated, oh my
God, I don't even know what I will say, oh, nothing to be
frustrated, you don't have to worry, you be cool, apart
from you there are 19 people, there are more people
sitting, if there are 20 in total, someone has told someone
that I am not going to speak, I am not going to speak, I am
not going to speak, let them start, you sit quietly, there
is no pressure that you have to start, anyone can start, so
the ones who know, will start, listen
that person, let a couple of people will start, listen to
that person let one or two people speak more you will get
some idea what is the topic exactly and then take some idea
from there use your idea and then present yourself but
because topic is new there is no need to get frustrated you
can speak without knowing
I am telling you practically there was a candidate
MBA CAT interview he got such a topic about which he didn't
know anything he didn't hear that topic but let me tell you
he topped in that list the topic which he didn't hear about
in a very cool way he heard from 2-3 people then he got an
idea that this is the topic then he added something from
his side and then present in this your coolness calmness,
sense of satisfaction and contentment patience all these
things are checked that how quickly you get scared because
there are many situations
about which you don't know if you lose control then you
can't find solution to that problem if there is fire in
your body and you start screaming then you will burn only
burn if you keep your mind active then you will find a way
to extinguish that fire and you will be able to control it
when? when you control yourself
I have already said in a topic that that whoever is able to
control upon himself or herself can do anything in his or
her life whoever learns to control himself or herself can
do anything so control is the medicine of every situation
is the medicine of every situation whenever there is any
problem we get trapped in that problem and get excited and
getting excited we lose our temperament and then problem
increases solution doesn't come problem increases so what
you have to do even in that
when you don't know the topic then you stay cool, listen to
others and gain some idea from there and then you will
present yourself so whatever you have to say right
sentence, right words right presentation to the point keep
eye contact stay positive keep your body language positive
keep on smiling little bit don't be harsh, don't be
dominating that is a negative part which we call domination
that this person will be dominating with his colleagues
being energized
Confidence and being proud
Confidence is a thing but there is one difference being
energetic is a different thing but we will maintain a label
confident but docile same confident but docile just become
the opposite of coconut coconut is hard from outside and
soft from inside stay soft from outside in communication
soft from outside hard from inside hard means confident
stay confident like this stay soft from outside speak with
a smile but logically confidently present yourself your
words will be heard and will be
it is not necessary to be harsh or arrogant keep on smiling
your temperament will be controlled but you will not
compromise with your logic you will not compromise with
your logic you will present yourself so in this way in
group discussion you can present yourself successfully
selected words selected sentence nice presentation body
language positive eye contact to everybody limited words
but to the point keep patience keep patience patience is
very important ok ok control yourself control
control yourself like I said even you don't know anything
about the topic still you control it don't fight with
anybody many times if you are not allowed to speak you
start fighting or if somebody enters between you you start
fighting no your candidature will be terminated you will
not be thought in your name you will not be thought in your
name you will not be thought in your name you will not be
thought So, if you are going to take yourself in this way,
you can successfully present yourself
In that, it is important to say corrective part, conclusion
part, to present yourself in any topic
How does it happen, first introduction, then something
about the past, then present, then plus and minus point,
and then conclusion
In group discussion, you may not get much time, but still
you have to choose some sentence selectively and present it
in a positive way
So that, you have to keep the topic in such a way, so that
people's attention can be drawn towards you If you can
attract people's attention while sitting there, then you
will prove to be a leader there
And the people who are watching in the camera, or will
watch the recording later, you will be able to attract them
too
So, your leadership quality is judged, like when Modiji
gives a speech, it is logical, he involves the public with
him, and that's why he is a world famous leader
Group discussion is a major part of communication, here
your best way of communicating is going to be checked
See, all these are mixed together, what is communication,
group discussion is also a part of it, communication part,
communication part, communication presentation, everything
is mixed, words, sentences
See, by mixing all these, you bring out something better,
you present it in the right way, the thing should be that
you didn't understand what you said, but still someone
feels that whatever you said, they didn't understand it,
but whatever you said, you said it right, it felt good to
hear
Sometimes this thing also matters, yes, this thing also
matters sometimes, and if you are saying knowledgeable
things, logical things, then educated people who understand
this thing will understand it better, and will attract
towards you, will clap for you, and the one who is clapping
for you, means he is in your favor
So, I think you are understanding the sense of this, how to
participate, how to get entry, how to start, how to
proceed, and how to conclude the group discussion whenever
you are going to take part
So, be mentally prepared, keep cool, select the right word,
right sentence, be mentally ready for any topic, nothing to
worry about that, as I said, you can also get something
new, even if you get a new topic, there is no need to
worry, keep patience, control yourself,
Because if you keep cool, you can take some ideas from
others, add topics for yourself, and you can move ahead, so
carry on, and be sure you can do.