Ok friends, this is Vineet Gautam and right now we are
talking about the introduction
How can you introduce yourself in a better way
Better way
Not just words and sentences
This language, your gesture, body language, eye contact,
impressions
All these things together make your sentences and words live
One word is Hi, Hello
Simple word is H-E-L-L-O
Ok? But when the person in front of you says
Body language
Hairstyle Expression Smile The sparkle in the eyes
If there is a girl
Well So You don't hear Hello
All these things that you see
Those things
And then you say
Wow! What a Hello!
Yes There are some Hello's
That make you sleep at night
What do you think?
Was the spelling of that Hello something else?
Was it something else?
The Hello that made you sleep
You don't know who the Hello is
But You are looking for it
You don't know
For that day it was from out of country
It left
And you are looking for Hello
What was in that Hello?
So this is the miracle of language
The charismatic language
Magic It's magic Baba
It's magic
Nowadays In my
Soft skill training department
Instead of soft skill trainer
They have called it magic skills trainer
They say Sir you do magic
It's fun
My advisor was saying
It's fun to read
These kids are useless
They don't take it seriously
But those who are taking it seriously
They have trended
They have trended a little
A little
And in national level debate
They have taken 80-90 90 plus percent marks
And I say
In my class
Which is fun
Interesting I don't do boring
If you get involved with me
Keep walking with me
And be sure
When you learn
You won't even know
This is not a literature class
That I have to complete the contents
I am repeating Baba
Whether you know or not
Whether you are doing it or not
That is more important
I have completed 5 chapters
Whether you know or not
You will know in the exam
No no no
This is not an exam
This is a daily exam
Every time it is an exam
If you know then pass
If you don't know then fail
It will happen at every corner
You talk to your friends
What happened in the competition?
The kids went with 150 friends
Suddenly they said
Yes we want to participate in the debate competition
Who will come?
Now if they say
Sir we haven't prepared
We can't do it
Go out of the list
Do you think
Now you are ready
You are getting 5 minutes
You can prepare and do it
Come Most welcome
That's why you have to be practical here
So here I am going to talk
Little bit more about
I have told you two points
And third point is your residence
In residence
Wherever you are
You can tell
I am from
I am
Living Staying Here In Delhi
And I am
I am
Mainly But Mainly Mainly Mainly I am from
Chennai Chennai Chennai Ok You can say
I am from Chennai
I belong to Chennai
I belong to
You can say
See Say I am from
I am staying, I am living
I am residing
You can say anything
Main I am not talking about word or sentence
How are you going to present
Or exact time
Can you speak or not
You are getting one minute
After that minute
You can say anything
Who has time
To listen to you
In that minute
Whatever you said
It was recorded
That moment
Now I am talking about
That moment
Whatever you used in that
You can say
In proper way
Small sentence
With smile
Positive body language
It will be recorded
And you will get response
In normal way
No matter what level I am talking
Your words and sentence
Are not checked
How are you presenting
Sometimes you give wrong answer
Presentation is good
But people still clap
Yes done done done
And it is done
It is done
If your presentation is bad
Then focus on presentation
Ok You have told your residence
Next We will talk about
Next point
What is our next point
Family
Background Ok Family background
Here Apart me
Apart me
In my family
My parents
Mr.
Satwan Singh
Is my father
My father is Mr.
Satwan Singh
He is a
Lawyer He is a doctor
He is a farmer
Your father
Confidently With open heart
Tell You think
My father is a farmer
Farmer is a farmer
Who runs our food
How much money we earn
There is no food in the market
How will you buy
Confidently present
Even if he is a labourer
If he is not a labourer
Who will build a house
Who will work
You will say
We will buy cement
We will do it with machine
Machine is operated by someone
So Forget all this
Whatever he is doing
That is your existence
You are
Because your father
Is doing whatever
So present him seriously
I am talking about presentation
I am not on words
Confidently present
Many people say
My mother is simply a housewife
What is the role of a housewife
This is the role
Because of which you can give this presentation
If you don't get food on time
If you don't get clothes ready
Then you will know
What is the role of a housewife
An executive is just not a housewife
She is a homemaker
She makes the house a lady
Otherwise she is
Buildings made of concrete
Buildings are not just houses
Unless there is a housewife
Until then
A house is not a house
So the importance of that lady
Her gestures
The things
The work she is doing
Don't put it in denial mode
Those things are very important
Because of all those things
You are
So Say it seriously
She is the lady
Who has made
Your house a home
Your building
Your rooms
The bricks
Made of cement
She is the lady who made it
Be a home minister
Salute Your duty starts at 9
Her duty starts at 6
Your duty
Ends at 6
She works till 10 at night
You take off on weekend
Her double duty starts
So don't deny her gestures
Present it seriously
So you don't cut your father's role
Nor your uncle's role
Okay Then little bit you can talk about your siblings
Who are your brothers and sisters
You know your siblings
Who are your real brothers and sisters
You can tell about them
I have one brother
Two sisters
And what are their names
Little bit you can talk about
You will say all those things
I have told again
The person who wants to know in detail
Will ask you
Officially they ask you
To know your family background
You go for
MBBS interview
And your parents are doctors
Naturally you will have
Raw material
Of this field
Many small things
Of this field
You know IPS officer's son, even if he is 5 years old, he
is not scared of police inspectors in uniform like a normal
kid.
Most of the normal kids run away from police inspectors in
uniform.
What does that kid say?
He says, do your work or else I will tell your father.
I saw yesterday that your father was scolding you.
I am not criticizing, I am talking about confidence.
The things we get naturally from our family background.
He heard a lot of things and came to know which article
will be applicable in this situation.
Where does 302, 306 and 307 go?
What does article 196 say?
And what does article 198 say?
We will read it and learn.
He heard it at home and learned.
Dad said, put this article.
And what happens in this article?
He asked, what does article 302 say?
So, he has to tell his father.
So, he learned.
Nowadays kids are very smart.
So, family background is always a matter.
You have to present it seriously and in a proper way.
And right now I am just not talking about the words and
sentences.
I am talking about the confidence, the concept.
No confusion about your parents.
Whoever they are, present them seriously.
Language and speech should be clear.
You should not have any doubts.
Okay? Body language should be positive.
Eye contact expressions should be there.
These all things are matter.
Going to make your presentations precious.
Things can be small and very precious.
You know how precious a diamond is.
You should make and present your presentation in that way.
So that it can be precious.
Okay?