Ok friends, this is Vineet Gautam and we are going for the
classes the how can we improve our communication skill with
writing skill also, because that is also the need, so how
are you going on, you know better, we did a lot so far and
if you will be doing, you will be also getting the
difference in you if you are not doing, then no one can
help you, be sure about that, we can give you the idea, the
instruction, how to do, where to do, when to do, but who
will be the doer, you will be the doer,
sure say yourself, if you want to get the response, the
result, then who will do the work, you will do, ok, so very
first, it is very important to change the way of thinking,
that what you are saying, the things are there, it is
important to present them in a proper way and I am talking
about, this is presentation, this is communication,
communication doesn't mean just you are speaking anything
for speaking
what happens in this, there is a thought, who has
controlled himself suppose, in this world, everyone can do
everything this is a thought, who has controlled himself,
suppose he can do anything in this world, he can control
himself, he can do anything in this world that who can
control him or herself can do anything in this world
that who can control himself or herself can do anything in
this world see, this is a thought, you will say, what
happens by doing this, see, mostly what happens is,
whatever you think, you thought, I want to improve the
communication of English see, because English is an
international language, you just thought this thing and
after that you take an action, you are looking for the
institute, looking for any kind of the online program,
academies, from where you can get it done you can solve this
of yours, but, what process did you make, what layout did
you make, how will you do it, and on that process, while
controlling, while moving, you start the work because you
feel the need, but while doing that work, whenever you are
going to start facing problems, and then you are
surrendering yourself
then you start finding the shortcomings, that there is no
need for this, this is like this, that is like that, like
this, and moving, living, when this thing came in your
mind, did you control yourself, you didn't, then it is
necessary to do
at that time, if you control yourself at that time, just
you are relaxing yourself, and again thinking, may be
something is missing, how to do that, how to do that, you
do it, you start further, and again you can do it at the
end of the day, you feel relaxed, that it is good that I
have controlled myself, the sense of control can come in
many senses, you are going to do something wrong, it
happens, you are a human being, in anger you are going to
do something wrong, you are going to say
in that you have controlled yourself
in control, it is not that you don't have to say anything,
you have to say, but that too you have to control and say,
then you will be able to decide, what exactly you have to
say
mostly when we come in problem, when we say what we feel
later, that we shouldn't have done this, we shouldn't have
said this, and when you are going to do that thing, then
you are going to be trapped, and you are going to repent
later, but that is not going to give you anything, the
time, the action, whatever you did, will not come back
so did you control yourself at the right time, were you
able to control yourself, if you were able to control
yourself, and you did what you planned, according to plan,
you executed yourself, so understand, you can do, make
small plans, make small targets like you said, you are
going for an interview, so to crack the interview, you
chose a company, did its research, which company is it,
where is it, how is it, what is the background, do it, you
prepared files for the interview, let me tell you
it
very first, ready the files
there are two types of documents, academic, personal
documents, aadhar card, pen card, after this you prepared
yourself mentally for that profile, before leaving office,
school, college, did you check your bag, if you are in
control, you can check, you made a series, your third sense
gives you a hint that you are missing something, if you are
able to hear that sense, if you are in control, then you do
it, otherwise, you avoid it, and go there and find out that
the project on which the
is coming, you are missing something,
the file you made on which the presentation is coming, it
will remain in your house, got worried, you were not able
to control, so, let's move to somewhere else,
I am telling you a small thing, you go for interview, you
prepare your file, put resume, did you update your resume
first, that is required part, because the profile you are
going for, you have to change little bit, if not, you are
going for your updated file, for post, you have to update
little bit, plus you have more documents, certificates,
photocopy, resume, Personal Documents, Aadhar Card, Pen
Card, Photocopies of Plus Moon
One more thing I would like to say, Control and Management
One is Control and the other is Management
Whenever we use the word Management, we think of Office
Management
Whereas Management is everywhere
And with the management of a file, you can see Office
Management
Who can't properly manage this file
See, when do all these things happen?
People say, stay in Control
If you say something extra, if you do something extra
So what do people tell you? Stay in Control
What did I say?
If you control yourself, then you can do anything
Only when you are in Control, you assess these things
That you have to manage the file
How? Resume, Documents
Now, I would like to say a small thing
You have taken the resume
You have kept the documents, personal and academic documents
But, you don't remember how and where you have put it in
the file
You have just put it in it
When you open the file in the interview
You yourself see how messy it is
There is no series, it is not properly adjusted
And if they ask you for a document
You look for it
And sometimes what happens?
That document
In a hurry
Again, you are not in control
Because there is a panel sitting in front of you
And you are out of yourself
You are in their attraction, in their impression
So what did you do?
In a hurry, one document sticks to another
And you start looking for it again
Till then, their eyes are on you
You are getting more worried
Things are getting out of control
When someone speaks to you, you say
Bro, you are getting out of control
When you are out of control, things become problematic
Then you realize, in a hurry
You are in a hurry again
And the whole paper is scattered
On the floor
Now you are looking for it under the table
Imagine the scene
How does it look?
Is it possible?
It is possible
Maybe it happened to you
Maybe you have seen it
Maybe you have heard about it
Now I will tell you a small thing
The moment you open the file
On this page, mostly
A white paper
A sheet of polythene
And a box type
If you don't have it
You can do something like this
You have put the paper in a series
And you have put a list here
This is on this page
This is on first, this is on second
This is third, this is fourth, like this
It is a small thing
When this man is cool
When he is in control
He does things
And now he says to you
That you
Show us your third certificate
You know the third certificate
You have kept it on number 9 position
You opened the file
You saw here, this is the third certificate
And you 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 7, 8
You flipped the page
You know there is no file
You went to number 9
You took it out
And gave it to him
You are cool
You are relaxed
Like this
He asked for 2, 3 documents
And you gave it to him
You are relaxed
He is also relaxed
You know, when did you manage this file?
When you were in control
When you were in yourself
And And
And
The The
The The The We find ways to work, we make our 24 hours
timetable, but how many days do we follow?
And when we don't follow, things get out of control, then
again dropped and dropped.
When the plan gets dropped in between, then you can't
expect success.
So where do things come from?
Whenever you are losing the control on yourself, the
problem starts from there only.
So what I meant to say was that you should learn to control
yourself.
Whether you do yoga, meditation, whatever you want to do,
do it.
Do self introduction everyday.
Talk to yourself.
Sit separately.
Talk to yourself.
What does the world say?
Listen for a while.
Then turn out.
Think about who said what and what exactly is correct for
you.
You can listen to everyone and take their advice.
But don't execute the advice immediately.
You listened and executed it.
Today do it for someone else, tomorrow do it for someone
else, day after tomorrow do it for someone else.
You won't be able to build up your image.
Listen to everyone in a controlled way.
Then turn out and then decide what is exactly good for you.
Your networking companies say that invest 1.5 lakhs and you
will get this and that in business.
Now for the people who are working in it, there are people
from big families.
1.5 lakhs, 2 lakhs, 5 lakhs, no one dies.
Because they also say that you have to invest 1.5 lakhs.
You have to invest 1.5 lakhs, you have to invest 9 lakhs.
They do whatever they want.
Do you have 9 lakhs?
You saw the result.
You got excited.
Again you are going out of control.
I can also do it. I am not less than them.
Oh, but this is a budget.
And even if it is a budget, what purpose do you have?
They are investing their spare money.
You are going to sell your house and invest?
No.
Decision taken in a controlled way, execution, behavior,
everything gives you a better response.
In a controlled way.
The artist on stage, you feel that he is violent.
The scene is going on.
But no matter how violent he is, he does it in a controlled
way.
Do you remember?
In a movie, Amitabh Bachchan got punched once.
What is their practice?
They have been given control over their hands.
You have to take the punch.
To the extent of touching.
But you have to pull it back from there.
They present it in such a way that it is in reality.
Because they match the time.
When it is time to touch, the other person gives the action.
Yeah, I got punched.
Once, there was no control.
And that punch hit Amitabh Bachchan.
You must have heard this news.
What was the situation?
Puneet Esar, who played the role of Duryodhan in
Mahabharata.
What did he do?
That.
So, what happened because there was no control once?
Many people's lives were ruined.
In anger, you did not control once.
You picked up a gun and shot.
Life is over.
Finished.
On the streets, the opposite happens.
You must have heard about the rape cases.
What happens?
You are not able to control yourself in that moment.
If you control yourself in that moment, then such a
situation will not happen.
And if you are not able to do it, then later then, life is
finished.
What do you think?
Will you be saved by doing this?
How many days will you be saved, Baba?
Anything.
Things happen.
There is a human being inside us.
There is God.
But, whatever you have balanced and executed, if there is
no state of control, then you,
Lord Krishna, look at Krishna's peak.
Look at the action, there is always a smile on the face, do
you know that when a person has control over himself, then
there is a smile on the face.
When are we worried, when we are out of control, when do
things come under our control, when things that we see in
front of us are out of our control.
Now you will say, how can we have control in every
situation, things are out of our control.
When you are out of control and you know that you have
limitations, then why do you have so much control over
yourself.
Do as much as you can, just do up to that extent and later
leave on the next person or on God.
Leave it, relax.
I can give you an example of a saint, I am forgetting the
name of a saint, he donated everything, his daughter is
going to get married, there is nothing left.
Everyone is saying, how will he get his daughter married,
there is nothing left.
He is having fun, he is dancing in a controlled way.
Who are we to do anything, whoever we are, will do it.
Look, I am not saying that you should surrender like this
in physical life.
Have you devoted so much spiritually?
Here in physical life, you can say that I have worked so
hard in the company, you have earned so much and collected,
then you are in a controlled way.
Why? Because you have earned and kept yourself safe.
You are in a controlled way, otherwise you will get worried.
So all the way you do those all things which is going to
give you a control over the situation.
Situations are good and bad, but even the one who controls
it, the one who controls it,
Modi became the CM, before that he was never an MLA, and
such an incident happened at that time.
Do you know why the situation was created?
The opposition and the people of their party did it
together.
That this person should be killed before he gets up.
This was the plan.
But he controlled it.
So today, Brand, not only India,
I was watching the interview two days ago, the British MP
was saying that today the most popular leader on the planet
is Narendra Modi.
Modi.
If this person could not control the riots that took place
in Gujarat in 2001-2002, then today we do not even know the
name of Modi.
We do not even know his name.
He would have been wiped out of history.
And the plan to wipe him out was fulfilled.
But from there, by controlling himself, controlling the
situation, he came out and such a big name stood in front
of you.
See, he controlled it.
Have you seen the example of Milkha Singh?
Okay, I am going to talk about the same topic, something
else also in the next videos.
Okay.